To men like Donald, being alone is the problem to be solved, not the issues that sabotaged his last romance. But the feelings of resentment about the old lover creep back in once the Honeymoon peak stage of the new relationship inevitably fades away and physical intimacy loses it's anesthetic effect. Then the new partner has to cope with their spouse's displaced anger that should have been dealt with months or years earlier in addition to any new compatibility issues he has hidden to win the new romance. Talk about a double whammy! Mirage men like the think they can cheat the hangman, but eventually they and the unsuspecting people around them pay... in spades.