When to End a Friendship and How to Do It

Breaking up with a friend is one of the most difficult things to do.

The Knee-Jerk Apologist

Why do some people apologize for everything?

Think Positive? The Pressure to Be Happy

Happiness isn’t just a feeling; it’s a way of being in the world.

Why Are Senior Citizens Using More Illicit Drugs?

Senior citizens are using and abusing substances at increasing rates.

Addiction and Self-Deception

Why do addicts hold on to false beliefs about their use?

Anxiety Is a Part of Human Nature

Is there a right way to be anxious? Kierkegaard thought so.

10 Warning Signs of a Problem with Alcohol

Small changes in behavior may point to bigger troubles with alcohol.

Knowing How to Belong to Yourself

Knowing your commitments is a way to belong to yourself

No Birth Control? Then No Alcohol

How responsible is a woman who consumes alcohol not knowing she’s pregnant?

Women, Blackouts, Sexual Assault, and Slut Shaming

Alcohol blackouts leave women very vulnerable to sexual assault.

Desiring, Wishing, and Willing Out of Control

Troubles follow when we try to bend the world to our will.

Drug Courts and the Restoration of Dignity

Drug courts recognize the humanity of drug users.

Why It's Great to Ask 'What If' (Except When It Isn't)

Imagining how we could act can be simultaneously terrifying and liberating

Do We Really Always Fall Off the Wagon?

Depictions of relapse in pop culture make it seem inevitable for addicts.

Addiction: An Equal Opportunity Condition

Be part of a conversation with experts on addiction and treatment

Old Demons Come Craving

Even people who are sober for decades can have cravings

Taking the Right Sort of Interest in Yourself

Self-interest aimed at moral improvement is vital

Self-Deception Has Many Faces

Procrastination is a stealth form of self-deception

Work Meetings in a Bar?

Holding work meetings in a bar disadvantages some people

In Dog We Trust

Can a dog’s death prompt a human to think about immortal souls?

Why Some College Students Love Molly

It's not surprising that college students look to party drugs.

The 2 Words You Have to Stop Using

Don’t orient your life around “if only”

Perfectionism Is Self-Deception

Perfectionism is a nasty perception problem

To Love Yourself Love Your Character

The right sort of self-love is a balance of concern for self and others.

Philosophy Helps to Live a Wonderful Life

Wittgenstein’s final words may reveal an important truth about living.

Are There Positive Addictions?

There’s no such thing as a positive addiction

Declaring Moral Bankruptcy

Violating core moral principles costs too much.

The Drugs Made Him Do It

Do some drugs for Parkinson’s disease hijack the brain?

Befriending at the Right Pace

Different timetables for different kinds of friendships

The 3 Words You Have to Stop Saying

Indifference is the worst form of not caring about others.

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