Have you ever been ditched by a lover for someone better, with your now ex-lover promising to come back to you when done with the new flame? If so, did you leave the door open? I did not think so.
Peak Experience and Happiness

Peak Experience and Happiness

Attention happiness seekers. A new study shows you will suffer social exclusion if you bliss out alone first. How good are the data, though?


Rejecting a low offer in a bargaining context may be scary for fear that all might be lost. Reviewing one’s own and the other party’s preferences may allay this fear and lead to a better outcome.

Earned Helplessness

How a bachelor gets a date, a dog food, and a blogger a post.

In the Beginning Was the Story

Religion and science tell stories to explain the world. That’s where the commonality ends, but at least we have that.

Situation Room

Are situations like people? Can they be described and sorted? A recent study says yes.

Creation Myth

Creativity is important and fun. Now let’s look at the dark side. Can it drive a wedge between us?

Happiness Between Philosophy and Psychology

You know what it feels like to be happy. Why are philosophers and psychologists still debating?

Will in Chains

Being a determinist and having no pretensions to possess a free will has not bothered me one bit. You should not worry either. These chains don’t hurt.
McDonald's and Culture

McDonald's and Culture

Food and drink are culturally variable, and so is the design of the places that offer them. A general nod to “cultural differences” does not explain much, especially when the purveying corporation is the same globalized one.

Pathetic Ingroup Bias

Ethnocentrism (aka ingroup-favoritism in academic speak) is considered a bane of humanity but it feels terrific during the World Cup. Its power is so great that people look for pathetic extensions when the primary passionate form of ethnocentrism is no longer available. To see how this works, let’s take a look at the “Brazilian Dilemma.”

Saxon Science

Social psychology suffers from a surplus of data, although most believe that there are not enough data. How about a bit more theory?

The Happiness Offensive

The race is on to increase human happiness across the board. Is this a realistic endeavor, or will it lead to a topia (u or dys)?

Larger than Leif

An ancient Viking comes to larger than life on the History Channel. Love him or hate him, he’s a complete man, in a Nietzschean sort of way.

False Consciousness of Happiness

So you think you know how to be happy? Think again and feel again.

Self-Help Unbound

A trip to the local bookstore (we still have one) ended in the self-help section and an aggravated state of agony.

Love in the Time of Chivalry

Response to temptation is supposed to reveal one's character. Yet, it may not be wise to seek temptation or set it up. Cervantes tells a cautionary tell in Don Quijote.

Grudge: Holding One

Forgiveness at all cost is not a good idea. Sometimes a grudge is worth holding, though it is difficult to know when the time has come.

In Defense of the Eyeball Test

Some findings are perfect without being too good to be true. In such a case, statistics are beside the point.

Bias in Self-Knowledge

When people hold false beliefs about themselves, it is usually their judgment that is blamed. Now there is a proposal to blame—and change—reality itself. Where will that lead us?


The psychology of patricide, the killing of the father.

Accuracy of Self-Knowledge

The lack of perfect self-knowledge is a puzzle. Should we not be the experts on ourselves? A new review of the literature confirms that accuracy is neither nil nor close to perfect.

Ad Lib

Most ads pollute the psychological space. Others entertain, delight, and sell because they respect simple psychology.

The How of High

Social life requires coordination. Setting aside cell phones and social media, how do people do it?

I Am We

The concept of self-stereotyping is intriguing but it has been difficult to isolate empirically. New evidence suggests that this phenomenon might be quite strong.

The Cause of My Success

These days, the boundaries between promotion, self-promotion, science, and story-telling are fraying. When I thought I was at the forefront of this trend, I was bested by Mr. Sperling (or someone who wrote in his name).

Got Game?

Before you punish your kids, run a red light, or bribe the taxman, read this post and see if you got game.

Teutonic Plight

Self-stereotyping is an intriguing but fickle phenomenon. When we see similarities between ourselves and a group, it is usually because we project from us to them, and not because we stereotype ourselves.

Mindfulness: Think About It

Mindfulness is a zen thing. It is associated with good feelings and tranquility. What, however, can mindfulness do for your engagement with the world?

Cheer Up and Create!

Don’t worry – be creative. Research shows that positive moods pave the road to creative accomplishment. The question is then how to get into a good mood and stay in it. Reading the blogs at Psychology Today might be just the thing.