Following the tragic death of his wife in 2005, director Mark Pellington made a gripping video documentary for Keane’s song, “Everybody’s Changing,” in which he and members of his grief support group tell their stories of devastating loss and grief.

The message I hope you will take away from viewing this video is this: When you encounter devastating grief in yourself or someone else, never turn away. Here’s the link: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=u4LBvhBQWr8

Copyright Robert Stolorow and Mark Pellington

About the Author

Robert D. Stolorow, Ph.D.

Robert D. Stolorow, Ph.D., is one of the original members of the International Council for Psychoanalytic Self Psychology, which stems from the work of Heinz Kohut.

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