A Light Touch with Dark Thoughts
You likely experience plenty of random thoughts and impulses that are scary.
Posted Nov 12, 2012
One important example regarding intimate relationships is the notion that once you are married or in a fully committed relationship you should never again have sexual thoughts or impulses about others. In conducting marriage preparation classes as well as couples therapy, I have often heard couples articulate this myth in one way or another. The notion that once you are in a committed relationship you will no longer find others extremely compelling is certainly a myth. You will, but you don’t necessarily have to act on the impulse to have affairs.