To be alone in grief is misery.

To be with another in grief is life sanctified.

Pain held privately is biology.

Pain shared is a form of healing.

Pain isn't a good in and of itself.

Pain may heighten the awareness of important things.

Loss is unavoidable; still sun shines and flowers bloom.

Let go of a past too tightly held.

Choose life. 

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