What Is Infidelity?

Infidelity is breaking a promise to remain faithful to a sexual partner. That promise can take many forms, from marriage vows sanctified by the state to privately uttered verbal agreements between lovers. As unthinkable as the notion of breaking such bonds may be, infidelity is common. And when it does happen, it raises thorny and painful questions. Should you stay? Can trust be rebuilt? Can you and should you forgive and move on?

Recent posts on Infidelity

The Radicalism of Romantic Love

Does romantic love as a cultural ideal serve to legitimize traditional oppressive relationship structures and mediate the degradation, disempowerment and oppression of women?

What Kind of Text Message Makes You Jealous?

By Martin Graff Ph.D. on May 17, 2016 in Love, Digitally
Checking the messages on your partner's phone is going to make you jealous.

Love Games of Master Manipulators

Manipulative lovers aren't interested in commitment and faithfulness, and they will have only contempt for your “weakness” in embracing these values.

Sex Differences in Romantic Jealousy: Evolved or Illusory?

Sex differences in jealousy: Evolved or illusory?

Some Men Are Sexual Poachers: Their Brains May Reveal Them

Some men seek to attract other men's partners, others do not. Now there are indications that activation of a particular part of the brain may separate them.

Where Do You Go After Trust Has Been Broken?

You don't have to resort to spying or testing your partner. Decide how you want to live and live that way.

Do Married People Really Have Less Sex?

Do single people really feel more sexually satisfied than their married counterparts?

The Bright Side Of Being Cheated On, Dumped & Replaced

By Garth Sundem on April 27, 2016 in Brain Trust
Study of 5,705 women in 96 countries shows that women who are cheated on win in the long run.

3 Ways to Predict a Partner May Be Unfaithful

A partner who is faithful, all other things being equal, is one who will make you happier. This 3-part checklist will help you spot the danger signs.

The Cornerstones of Marriage – Fidelity

What does infidelity do to a marriage? Can marriage survive infidelity?

Paternity Shock: Is Who You Call Dad Your Genetic Father?

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Cheating Our Children: Who Is Responsible? Part 2 of 5

By Bobby Hoffman Ph.D. on April 08, 2016 in Motivate!
Educational standards are declining, grades are rising, skills are dropping and the customer-service model of education continues to thrive. What can reverse the disturbing trend?

Could Monogamy Actually Increase the Risk of HIV Infection?

By Joye Swan Ph.D. on April 06, 2016 in Up Close and Personal
Could monogamy actually increase the risk of HIV infection?

Polyaffectivity and Compersion in House of Cards

The Netflix series House of Cards has a plot line that demonstrates compersion and polyaffectivity in a fictional relationship, and this blog explores their expressions in the show

Is a Sexy Voice More Attractive Than a Pretty Face?

The upside to having a sexy voice, the downside to having a partner with a sexy voice.

Open? Poly? Beyond Affairs and Cheating

By Marty Klein PhD on March 28, 2016 in Sexual Intelligence
"Open" and "poly" relationship arrangements have a lot to offer--and they're complicated.

Who’s in the Mirror?

Doubles and mirror images fascinate. Why? Maybe they echo a threat to our sense of self - from illness, physical damage, others too like us, even sexual and gender misalignment.

Why Do People Cheat?

Despite strong consensus that infidelity is wrong, as many as 10-25% of married couples in the US experience sexual infidelity. Why is infidelity so common? Can it be prevented?

Cheating Our Children: Who Is Responsible? Part 1 of 5*

By Bobby Hoffman Ph.D. on March 04, 2016 in Motivate!
Mollycoddled, patronized, over-inflated, and indulged. How parents and teachers inadvertently stall development, thwart motivation, and destroy the intellectual growth of learners

Why Forgive Trump? He Hasn’t Earned It.

By Marty Babits on February 23, 2016 in The Middle Ground
When confronted with wrongdoing some people come clean, others use a disingenuous defense.

He's Already Married. Wasn't it Obvious?

By Vance Z. Johnson M.D. on February 15, 2016 in What Hurts?
Emotional intelligence is related to proper rest. Insight and revelation can be the reward.

The 7 Laws of Lasting Love

By Aldo Civico Ph.D. on February 14, 2016 in Turning Point
What’s the secret for lasting love? I share 7 secrets I learned while doing conflict resolution work around the world.

Porn Can Destroy a Relationship. But It Doesn't Have To.

Discovering a partner’s surprising porn-viewing habits can be disturbing, but it can also be a gateway to greater understanding and compassion.

3 Things to Do After Relationship Trauma

By Robert Taibbi L.C.S.W. on January 22, 2016 in Fixing Families
Affairs, blow-ups, can be traumatic in a relationship and are wake-up calls about other problems below the surface. 3 things to do to get your relationship back on a solid footing.

What to Do When Someone Flirts With Your Partner

Your partner may have every intention of being faithful but, without any warning, someone else comes along and turns it all upside down. What will you do?

This Is the Difference Between a Breakup and a 'Break'

What's the difference between breakup and break? Have the fundamental rules of the relationship changed?

Why Is Infidelity So Painful?

Being cheated on by a romantic parter can be excruciatingly painful. But why is it so painful? Is it merely because it's a strong betrayal of trust?

How to Keep a Relationship From Growing Cold

Couples in significant relationships need to make time for sexual intimacy even if schedules seem too busy to allow it.

Lessons from Will Ferrell and Mark Wahlberg's New Film

If you want some insights into human evolved psychology and don’t mind laughing your head off, then "Daddy’s Home," featuring Will Farrell and Mark Wahlberg, is for you!
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Lust on the Loose

By Frances Cohen Praver Ph.D. on January 10, 2016 in Love Doc
Slim of waist, statuesque of build, Samantha strode briskly into the room. Flashing me a winning smile, she sat down and tossed her long auburn hair out of her eyes.