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People who “overfunction” in their relationship manage not only their own responsibilities and emotions but their partner’s, too. Overfunctioning people appear high-achieving, but beneath the facade, they’re often anxious and resentful. Are you doing too much? Take this test to find out.
This test is for anyone wondering if their romantic relationship may be reflective of an overfunctioning-underfunctioning dynamic, in which one partner takes on much more than the other. It is intended for adults and is not intended to be prescriptive.
If you are concerned about doing too much in your romantic relationship, talking to a therapist, either individually or with your partner, could help. Find a professional in your area in the Psychology Today Therapy Directory.
Being overly polite might seem kind, but it often leads to problems anyway, in relationships, with friends, and at work.