Infidelity Psychologists and Therapists in Oakleigh, VIC

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Monica Doyle - Online Therapy
Verified Verified
Online Only
Do you feel on edge, easily distracted, or irritable? Do you catch yourself overanalyzing and questioning decisions or interactions with other people? Do you feel disconnected, lonely, or unsure of yourself? These are all natural feelings, and we all struggle sometimes. But occasionally life throws curve balls at us and moving forward requires a little more work. This can be especially true if you have recently experienced a significant life change. Therapy can offer the needed support and change of perspective by unveiling new insights. It can also bring lasting benefits to your relationships and interactions.
Do you feel on edge, easily distracted, or irritable? Do you catch yourself overanalyzing and questioning decisions or interactions with other people? Do you feel disconnected, lonely, or unsure of yourself? These are all natural feelings, and we all struggle sometimes. But occasionally life throws curve balls at us and moving forward requires a little more work. This can be especially true if you have recently experienced a significant life change. Therapy can offer the needed support and change of perspective by unveiling new insights. It can also bring lasting benefits to your relationships and interactions.
0485 990 706 View 0485 990 706
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Mariane Fernando
Counsellor
Serves Area
I am a very capable and committed counsellor, and passionate about supporting clients to make a difference in their life through empowerment, reflection and understanding. Each person is unique and requires an individual approach in meeting his or her specific needs. You will feel connected, safe and heard in sessions with me, working collaboratively in a positive and uplifting environment. I am deeply committed to helping you overcome immediate concerns and skilled at using various therapies and techniques in a client-centred approach to provide you with the tools to grow and work towards living life to the fullest.
I am a very capable and committed counsellor, and passionate about supporting clients to make a difference in their life through empowerment, reflection and understanding. Each person is unique and requires an individual approach in meeting his or her specific needs. You will feel connected, safe and heard in sessions with me, working collaboratively in a positive and uplifting environment. I am deeply committed to helping you overcome immediate concerns and skilled at using various therapies and techniques in a client-centred approach to provide you with the tools to grow and work towards living life to the fullest.
(08) 9126 9492 View (08) 9126 9492
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Kyo Chung
Counsellor, ACA-L4
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
An intuitive and compassionate counsellor with over a decade of experience guiding individuals, couples, and families through complex emotional and relational challenges. My multicultural perspective, shaped by life experiences in Korea, China, and the USA, combined with professional expertise across diverse roles—as a community interpreter, counsellor, and family therapist—enables me to provide holistic and culturally sensitive support. I've helped many clients recover from narcissistic abuse to build healthy identity and resilience.
An intuitive and compassionate counsellor with over a decade of experience guiding individuals, couples, and families through complex emotional and relational challenges. My multicultural perspective, shaped by life experiences in Korea, China, and the USA, combined with professional expertise across diverse roles—as a community interpreter, counsellor, and family therapist—enables me to provide holistic and culturally sensitive support. I've helped many clients recover from narcissistic abuse to build healthy identity and resilience.
(03) 9068 5740 View (03) 9068 5740
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Helen Gribi
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA General
1 Endorsed
Online Only
There are times in life when it’s important to reach out for help. I enjoy working with a range of people and presentations including: anxiety or mood challenges, life adjustments, work and academic stress, self-esteem, boundaries and assertiveness development, trauma, grief and loss, relationship issues, and support for people in carer roles. Women's health is a particular interest, including antenatal and postnatal through to menopause support, and neurodivergence (ADHD and Autism) in women.
There are times in life when it’s important to reach out for help. I enjoy working with a range of people and presentations including: anxiety or mood challenges, life adjustments, work and academic stress, self-esteem, boundaries and assertiveness development, trauma, grief and loss, relationship issues, and support for people in carer roles. Women's health is a particular interest, including antenatal and postnatal through to menopause support, and neurodivergence (ADHD and Autism) in women.
(03) 8771 5128 View (03) 8771 5128
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Elaine Mong
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA General
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
I offer a supportive and non-judgemental space, with respect for your experiences, culture, and pace. My practice is person-centred and collaborative, drawing from evidence-based approaches to explore what matters most to you. People may seek psychological support for reasons including anxiety, low mood, trauma, grief, or significant life changes. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck in familiar patterns, or unsure where to start, you’re not alone. Sometimes it can be hard to put what you’re experiencing into words — and that’s okay. Through therapy, there is space to explore this together, at a pace that feels right for you.
I offer a supportive and non-judgemental space, with respect for your experiences, culture, and pace. My practice is person-centred and collaborative, drawing from evidence-based approaches to explore what matters most to you. People may seek psychological support for reasons including anxiety, low mood, trauma, grief, or significant life changes. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, stuck in familiar patterns, or unsure where to start, you’re not alone. Sometimes it can be hard to put what you’re experiencing into words — and that’s okay. Through therapy, there is space to explore this together, at a pace that feels right for you.
(03) 8771 4299 View (03) 8771 4299
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Ruth Tripkou
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA General
Serves Area
I am a bilingual psychologist (English and Greek) working with anxiety, social anxiety, phobias, depression, trauma, attention deficits, autism, grief and loss, chronic pain, relationship and family difficulties, life transitions, and workplace stress. I also work with bullying, social skills difficulties and self-esteem. Deciding to engage in therapy can sometimes feel overwhelming and this is normal. I offer a safe, non-judgemental and supportive therapeutic space to help you move forward in your journey of healing and growth. I believe in empowering clients and developing personal strengths to achieve long lasting change.
I am a bilingual psychologist (English and Greek) working with anxiety, social anxiety, phobias, depression, trauma, attention deficits, autism, grief and loss, chronic pain, relationship and family difficulties, life transitions, and workplace stress. I also work with bullying, social skills difficulties and self-esteem. Deciding to engage in therapy can sometimes feel overwhelming and this is normal. I offer a safe, non-judgemental and supportive therapeutic space to help you move forward in your journey of healing and growth. I believe in empowering clients and developing personal strengths to achieve long lasting change.
(03) 7003 2887 View (03) 7003 2887

More Therapists Nearby

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ACE Counselling
Counsellor, MSc
Serves Area
I'm certified in the Prevention and Relationship Enhancement Program and a Certified Infidelity Recovery Professional following the 7-step Infidelity Recovery Program, guiding complex relationship issues.
The client informs my counselling approach, not any theory or modality. It's about making the client feel comfortable and being able to communicate confidently with an end goal in sight. I follow the 80/20 rule in counselling; the client talks 80% of the time, and I respond 20% of the time. With 15 years working as a mental health nurse, both in the private and public sector, I have helped hundreds of clients and I am versed in all facets of mental health counselling. As a counsellor, I offer a safe and non-judgmental space for personal growth and healing, helping individuals overcome challenges to achieve lasting positive change.
I'm certified in the Prevention and Relationship Enhancement Program and a Certified Infidelity Recovery Professional following the 7-step Infidelity Recovery Program, guiding complex relationship issues.
The client informs my counselling approach, not any theory or modality. It's about making the client feel comfortable and being able to communicate confidently with an end goal in sight. I follow the 80/20 rule in counselling; the client talks 80% of the time, and I respond 20% of the time. With 15 years working as a mental health nurse, both in the private and public sector, I have helped hundreds of clients and I am versed in all facets of mental health counselling. As a counsellor, I offer a safe and non-judgmental space for personal growth and healing, helping individuals overcome challenges to achieve lasting positive change.
(03) 6364 2946 View (03) 6364 2946
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Dr Melissa Tso
Psychologist, PsychD
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Couples who are struggling to communicate, feeling disconnected, or navigating a difficult period in their relationship. I also work with individuals seeking support with personal challenges, and professionals seeking Board Approved Supervision.
Couples who are struggling to communicate, feeling disconnected, or navigating a difficult period in their relationship. I also work with individuals seeking support with personal challenges, and professionals seeking Board Approved Supervision.
(03) 7500 5630 View (03) 7500 5630
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Alexandra Scoleri
Psychotherapist, ACA-L2
Carlton, VIC 3053
People often come to psychotherapy as an alternative to mainstream psychological treatments, in the hope of finding deeper resolutions to long standing issues. Psychotherapy indeed offers a path to resolving underlying causes of mental health or relational issues, through longer term therapy. In my practice of psychotherapy, I offer a reflective relationship, where we use the body (somatic therapy) and our relationship (interpersonal therapy), as sources of insight and change. This process can not only relieve symptoms such as anxiety or depression but also provides fundamental insights into who you are and who you might want to be.
People often come to psychotherapy as an alternative to mainstream psychological treatments, in the hope of finding deeper resolutions to long standing issues. Psychotherapy indeed offers a path to resolving underlying causes of mental health or relational issues, through longer term therapy. In my practice of psychotherapy, I offer a reflective relationship, where we use the body (somatic therapy) and our relationship (interpersonal therapy), as sources of insight and change. This process can not only relieve symptoms such as anxiety or depression but also provides fundamental insights into who you are and who you might want to be.
(03) 9827 0302 View (03) 9827 0302
Rach Cowling
Psychotherapist, ACA-L2
1 Endorsed
Malvern, VIC 3144
I also have experience in working with relationships affected by infidelity, drug and alcohol use, and conflict.
I am warm and non-judgemental and work with people across diverse relationships and family structures. Through study, work and life experience, I understand the importance of safety, openness and confidentiality in the counselling space. Sessions may be topic-focused single sessions, change-oriented sessions over weeks or months, or longer-term therapy.
I also have experience in working with relationships affected by infidelity, drug and alcohol use, and conflict.
I am warm and non-judgemental and work with people across diverse relationships and family structures. Through study, work and life experience, I understand the importance of safety, openness and confidentiality in the counselling space. Sessions may be topic-focused single sessions, change-oriented sessions over weeks or months, or longer-term therapy.
0411 615 313 View 0411 615 313
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James Skinner - YouBeYou Therapy
Psychotherapist, PACFA
9 Endorsed
Online Only
If you are facing relationship struggles like infidelity, lack of emotional connection, or communication issues email me now.
Are you seeking tools, understanding, and a safe, non-judgemental space? I can help you reach your goal of building trust, stopping destructive habits, and achieving a happy, successful relationship.
If you are facing relationship struggles like infidelity, lack of emotional connection, or communication issues email me now.
Are you seeking tools, understanding, and a safe, non-judgemental space? I can help you reach your goal of building trust, stopping destructive habits, and achieving a happy, successful relationship.
(02) 8403 2074 View (02) 8403 2074
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Catriona Lightfoot
Social Worker, AMHSW
Saint Kilda, VIC 3182
Waitlist for new clients
I have been working exclusively with couples for over 15 years, to help people just like you get over relationship hurdles that get in the way of your connection and make your relationship feel harder than it should be. If you are looking to strengthen and grow your relationship or perhaps stop the fights or you have a particular problem - even big ones like affairs - you haven’t been able to get past I can help you.
I have been working exclusively with couples for over 15 years, to help people just like you get over relationship hurdles that get in the way of your connection and make your relationship feel harder than it should be. If you are looking to strengthen and grow your relationship or perhaps stop the fights or you have a particular problem - even big ones like affairs - you haven’t been able to get past I can help you.
(07) 3088 9135 View (07) 3088 9135
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Dr Nicholas Lawless - DRT Psychology
Psychologist, PhD, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
1 Endorsed
We all want to thrive, right? If that's true, is there anything more important than your mental health and relationships? Dr Nicholas Lawless is the clinical psychologist and couple therapist at DRT Psychology. Whether you are an individual or a couple, Dr Nick will help you to discover what's behind your difficulties, and provide you with evidence-based treatment to help you recover, so that one day soon you can thrive. Please visit our website for more info and to book your first appointment.
We all want to thrive, right? If that's true, is there anything more important than your mental health and relationships? Dr Nicholas Lawless is the clinical psychologist and couple therapist at DRT Psychology. Whether you are an individual or a couple, Dr Nick will help you to discover what's behind your difficulties, and provide you with evidence-based treatment to help you recover, so that one day soon you can thrive. Please visit our website for more info and to book your first appointment.
(03) 8771 5724 View (03) 8771 5724
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Michael Rooney
Psychotherapist, PACFA
1 Endorsed
Malvern, VIC 3144
I help men struggling with sex addiction, porn addiction, love addiction, and enmeshment to break free from compulsive patterns, reduce shame, and build healthier relationships. I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist & Supervisor, specialising in compulsive sexual behaviour and parent–child enmeshment. I integrate parts-based (IFS-informed) therapy and Somatic Experiencing to support deeper, lasting change.
I help men struggling with sex addiction, porn addiction, love addiction, and enmeshment to break free from compulsive patterns, reduce shame, and build healthier relationships. I am a Certified Sex Addiction Therapist & Supervisor, specialising in compulsive sexual behaviour and parent–child enmeshment. I integrate parts-based (IFS-informed) therapy and Somatic Experiencing to support deeper, lasting change.
(02) 4504 0389 View (02) 4504 0389
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Light the Way Counselling
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Online Only
Brianna King is a compassionate and experienced therapist who works with adults seeking meaningful change in their lives, relationships, and families. She supports individuals, couples, and parents to break unhelpful patterns, develop self-awareness, and build stronger, healthier connections.
Brianna King is a compassionate and experienced therapist who works with adults seeking meaningful change in their lives, relationships, and families. She supports individuals, couples, and parents to break unhelpful patterns, develop self-awareness, and build stronger, healthier connections.
(08) 9932 0333 View (08) 9932 0333
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Soko Therapy
Counsellor, AASW
Online Only
You are the expert in your life and what is going on with you. I am a Christian Counsellor and open to all. My aim here is to meet people where they are at, spirituality is part of many of us who believe. So we can't leave that out of your health journey.
You are the expert in your life and what is going on with you. I am a Christian Counsellor and open to all. My aim here is to meet people where they are at, spirituality is part of many of us who believe. So we can't leave that out of your health journey.
(02) 5570 7312 View (02) 5570 7312
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Andrea Santana
Counsellor, MPsych, ACA-L2
Online Only
I help individuals and couples recover from intimate betrayal and infidelity, with a strong focus on supporting betrayed partners and relationships impacted by problematic sexual behaviours.
My CSAT training through the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP), along with Level 1 training in Dr. Omar Minwalla’s Deceptive Sexuality and Trauma Treatment model (DSTT) further supports my work with betrayed partners experiencing trauma associated with problematic sexual behaviour and infidelity.
I help individuals and couples recover from intimate betrayal and infidelity, with a strong focus on supporting betrayed partners and relationships impacted by problematic sexual behaviours.
My CSAT training through the International Institute for Trauma and Addiction Professionals (IITAP), along with Level 1 training in Dr. Omar Minwalla’s Deceptive Sexuality and Trauma Treatment model (DSTT) further supports my work with betrayed partners experiencing trauma associated with problematic sexual behaviour and infidelity.
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Trina Fazio
Psychotherapist, PACFA
1 Endorsed
Northcote, VIC 3070
Do you lack confidence? Are you struggling in relationships? Whether the problem that has brought you here is something recent, or has been an issue for a long time, I can provide an opportunity for you to experience change in your life. Perhaps it has been quite difficult to know exactly what help you need, so we will work that out together and build your confidence and emotional capacity to make the positive change that you're after. My ten years experience has included helping people with depression, anxiety, family and relationship issues, low self-esteem, trauma, addictions and grief.
Do you lack confidence? Are you struggling in relationships? Whether the problem that has brought you here is something recent, or has been an issue for a long time, I can provide an opportunity for you to experience change in your life. Perhaps it has been quite difficult to know exactly what help you need, so we will work that out together and build your confidence and emotional capacity to make the positive change that you're after. My ten years experience has included helping people with depression, anxiety, family and relationship issues, low self-esteem, trauma, addictions and grief.
0493 024 278 View 0493 024 278
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Naomi Rubinstein
Counsellor, MA, ACA-L3
Malvern, VIC 3144
I support couples and individuals in understanding their relationships more deeply and creating meaningful, lasting change. Drawing on my training in the Gottman Method, I help couples improve communication, manage conflict more effectively and rebuild trust and connection when things feel strained or distant. My approach is both practical and compassionate. I offer tools and strategies you can use in everyday life, while also creating a non-judgmental space where each person feels heard and understood. Together, we work at a pace that feels right for you, focusing on your unique strengths and the challenges you're facing.
I support couples and individuals in understanding their relationships more deeply and creating meaningful, lasting change. Drawing on my training in the Gottman Method, I help couples improve communication, manage conflict more effectively and rebuild trust and connection when things feel strained or distant. My approach is both practical and compassionate. I offer tools and strategies you can use in everyday life, while also creating a non-judgmental space where each person feels heard and understood. Together, we work at a pace that feels right for you, focusing on your unique strengths and the challenges you're facing.
(03) 7003 2543 View (03) 7003 2543
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Alyona Cerfontyne
Counsellor, ACA-L2
1 Endorsed
Mornington, VIC 3931
I help couples and individuals re-discover their relationships and build stronger connections that bring joy and fulfilment. Instead of simply talking about issues you are dealing with, we will learn practical, effective communication tools that can transform your conversations and help you break through gridlocked issues. And if you feel disconnected from your partner, we will use research-based methods of strengthening your connection so that you can feel closer again.
I help couples and individuals re-discover their relationships and build stronger connections that bring joy and fulfilment. Instead of simply talking about issues you are dealing with, we will learn practical, effective communication tools that can transform your conversations and help you break through gridlocked issues. And if you feel disconnected from your partner, we will use research-based methods of strengthening your connection so that you can feel closer again.
(08) 9126 9144 View (08) 9126 9144
Infidelity Therapists
How does therapy for infidelity work?
A skilled infidelity therapist will provide a safe space for clients to communicate their feelings and concerns. The goal is to be completely honest about what led to the cheating and how it has affected the entire family to prevent it from recurring in the future. The therapist will help the clients work on rebuilding mutual trust and respect and developing better communication and conflict-resolution skills. If the goal is to remain a couple, clients will learn the “danger signs” for their specific relationship, and they will make a renewed commitment to be faithful.

How long does therapy for infidelity take?
Recovery from infidelity can take time, and it can vary from person to person. Generally, a therapist will want to see the clients at least once a week for around six months. Then the sessions can be arranged as needed, depending on the clients’ individual needs. While therapy may end or shift to an as-needed basis, it can take up to two years or more for some clients to fully recover from infidelity.

How does therapy help the partner who was cheated on?
When a client discovers their partner’s infidelity, their trust in the relationship and in the life they had together may be shattered. They often experience mental health symptoms, such as anxiety, depression, grief, and post-traumatic stress disorder (PTSD). They don’t always want to stay in the relationship; they may feel ambivalent or may even want to leave. Therapy gives these clients a safe and healthy way to communicate all of their complicated emotions and concerns.

How does therapy help the partner who committed infidelity?
Infidelity often occurs when one or both partners’ emotional needs are not being met in the relationship. Therapy can help this client understand why they cheated and figure out how to address those unmet needs without resorting to infidelity in the future. This can lessen (but not entirely eliminate) the risk of repeated infidelity. Clients who cheat may also feel intense guilt about deceiving their partners, a sentiment that they can work through in therapy.