Sex Therapists in Greater Melbourne (Metropolitan), VIC

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Alex Sutherland
Counsellor, MSc, PACFA
4 Endorsed
Brunswick, VIC 3056
Sex Therapy, Mental Health Counselling and Relationship Therapy.
I work with individuals and couples, meeting them where they are at in a safe, trauma-informed and non-judgemental way. I work with a variety of modalities and check in throughout the process. Some of these include, psychoeducation, cognitive behavioural therapy, emotion-focused therapy, schema therapy and motivational interviewing.
Sex Therapy, Mental Health Counselling and Relationship Therapy.
I work with individuals and couples, meeting them where they are at in a safe, trauma-informed and non-judgemental way. I work with a variety of modalities and check in throughout the process. Some of these include, psychoeducation, cognitive behavioural therapy, emotion-focused therapy, schema therapy and motivational interviewing.
(03) 9111 5334 View (03) 9111 5334
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Pleasure Centred Sexology
Verified Verified
Hawthorn, VIC 3122
I’m a sex therapist offering online and in-person support in Hawthorn.
I believe that pleasure is central to wellbeing and mental health. I respect you as the expert in your own life and I value your lived experience. Our work together will be collaborative and from a trauma-informed perspective. I'm non-dismissive, non-discriminative and non-pathologising. I offer evidence-based sexual and pleasure education for all.
I’m a sex therapist offering online and in-person support in Hawthorn.
I believe that pleasure is central to wellbeing and mental health. I respect you as the expert in your own life and I value your lived experience. Our work together will be collaborative and from a trauma-informed perspective. I'm non-dismissive, non-discriminative and non-pathologising. I offer evidence-based sexual and pleasure education for all.
(03) 7003 2722 View (03) 7003 2722
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Robin Wilkinson- Right Relationship
Psychotherapist, ACA-L2
Brunswick, VIC 3056
I work with attachment and the nervous system, overwhelm, neurodiversity, boundaries, communication, sex, intimacy, and relationship ruptures.
I support individuals, couples, and families to build deep, lasting, loving relationships. If you struggle with the to-and-fro of attachment insecurity, relationship safety, endless conflict, the hurt of infidelity or lack of emotional or sexual intimacy, there is help. With deep knowledge of relationships, communication, and the latest in neuroscience, I can help you build grounded and practical tools to build attachment security and safety, stop fighting, repair from betrayal or loss of trust, and restore deep intimacy. I can also help you manage overwhelm, anxiety, trauma, neurodiversity in relationships, and life transitions.
I work with attachment and the nervous system, overwhelm, neurodiversity, boundaries, communication, sex, intimacy, and relationship ruptures.
I support individuals, couples, and families to build deep, lasting, loving relationships. If you struggle with the to-and-fro of attachment insecurity, relationship safety, endless conflict, the hurt of infidelity or lack of emotional or sexual intimacy, there is help. With deep knowledge of relationships, communication, and the latest in neuroscience, I can help you build grounded and practical tools to build attachment security and safety, stop fighting, repair from betrayal or loss of trust, and restore deep intimacy. I can also help you manage overwhelm, anxiety, trauma, neurodiversity in relationships, and life transitions.
(03) 7003 2077 View (03) 7003 2077
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Maxi Xie
Counsellor, MC, ACA-L3
3 Endorsed
Mulgrave, VIC 3170
Coming from a culture where sex and sexuality are often suppressed, I also understand how difficult it can be to explore your identity, desires, and relationships.
My approach is trauma-informed, culturally sensitive, and welcoming to LGBTIQ+, kink, fetish, and poly communities. In therapy, I’ll support you in unpacking your experiences, recognising your strengths, working through inner conflicts, and building the fulfilling life and relationships you want and need.
Coming from a culture where sex and sexuality are often suppressed, I also understand how difficult it can be to explore your identity, desires, and relationships.
My approach is trauma-informed, culturally sensitive, and welcoming to LGBTIQ+, kink, fetish, and poly communities. In therapy, I’ll support you in unpacking your experiences, recognising your strengths, working through inner conflicts, and building the fulfilling life and relationships you want and need.
(03) 7500 5202 View (03) 7500 5202
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Daniel Di Pietro
Psychotherapist, PACFA
2 Endorsed
Footscray, VIC 3011
Sex and sexuality play a vital role in our lives.
Daniel is a sexologist and psychotherapist who enjoys working empathically and collaboratively with individuals and partnerships of all cultural, gender, and sexual identities to provide support for their sexological needs. He specialises in working with sexological presentations around male sexual health, sexual and gender identity, intimacy, pleasure, desire discrepancy, kink and fetish-related behaviours, sexual functioning and relational challenges. Taking a non-judgmental and holistic approach, he assists his clients by providing tools to access their potential in overcoming the difficulties faced in their lives.
Sex and sexuality play a vital role in our lives.
Daniel is a sexologist and psychotherapist who enjoys working empathically and collaboratively with individuals and partnerships of all cultural, gender, and sexual identities to provide support for their sexological needs. He specialises in working with sexological presentations around male sexual health, sexual and gender identity, intimacy, pleasure, desire discrepancy, kink and fetish-related behaviours, sexual functioning and relational challenges. Taking a non-judgmental and holistic approach, he assists his clients by providing tools to access their potential in overcoming the difficulties faced in their lives.
(03) 7003 2160 View (03) 7003 2160
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Patrick Rory John Hukins
Psychotherapist
Online Only
My practice focuses on sexuality, gender, and relationship therapy.
I bring a blend of creative and evidence-based therapeutic techniques to my work. I approach therapy from a trauma-informed perspective, using narrative, gestalt and internal family systems therapy. I believe in integrating the mind and body in the healing process, helping clients to reconnect with themselves and their narratives in a holistic way.
My practice focuses on sexuality, gender, and relationship therapy.
I bring a blend of creative and evidence-based therapeutic techniques to my work. I approach therapy from a trauma-informed perspective, using narrative, gestalt and internal family systems therapy. I believe in integrating the mind and body in the healing process, helping clients to reconnect with themselves and their narratives in a holistic way.
(02) 9100 0428 View (02) 9100 0428
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Ashley Depasquale
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am sex positive, LGBTQI+ inclusive, kink friendly and welcoming of all relationships.
I am a Senior Clinical Psychologist and Board Approved Supervisor who uses a warm and empathic approach to create a safe, welcoming and non-judgemental space for the individuals I work with. I strive to work collaboratively with my clients to realise their inner strengths, to navigate the unique challenges they may be facing.
I am sex positive, LGBTQI+ inclusive, kink friendly and welcoming of all relationships.
I am a Senior Clinical Psychologist and Board Approved Supervisor who uses a warm and empathic approach to create a safe, welcoming and non-judgemental space for the individuals I work with. I strive to work collaboratively with my clients to realise their inner strengths, to navigate the unique challenges they may be facing.
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Rhiannon Derrig
Psychotherapist, MSc, PACFA
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
As a therapist, I deeply value sex positivity, social justice and removing the stigma and social constraints surrounding mental health work.
As a clincial psychotherapist and registered psychosexual therapist, I specialise in helping individuals with trauma and PTSD, self-esteem issues, relationship issues, and sexual difficulties, including intimacy and trust. I am also passionate about providing support for navigating gendered, sexual, racial, and neuro diversity, and cultural identities, who may experience discrimination or internalised stigma. Centering unconditional positive regard, I work closely with the client to deeply explore how their past experiences, current situations, family background, and social elements of their lives have impacted their wellbeing.
As a therapist, I deeply value sex positivity, social justice and removing the stigma and social constraints surrounding mental health work.
As a clincial psychotherapist and registered psychosexual therapist, I specialise in helping individuals with trauma and PTSD, self-esteem issues, relationship issues, and sexual difficulties, including intimacy and trust. I am also passionate about providing support for navigating gendered, sexual, racial, and neuro diversity, and cultural identities, who may experience discrimination or internalised stigma. Centering unconditional positive regard, I work closely with the client to deeply explore how their past experiences, current situations, family background, and social elements of their lives have impacted their wellbeing.
(02) 9100 0199 View (02) 9100 0199
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Leyna Fennell
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Serves Area
Special interest working with challenges related to love, desire, sex and intimacy.
My intention as a Therapist and Supervisor is to provide a safe and honest environment where people can explore their feelings, experiences, learnings and areas for development; gaining a greater insight and appreciation of self, other and situation. My background and training is within humanistic and relational approaches to counselling and supervision.
Special interest working with challenges related to love, desire, sex and intimacy.
My intention as a Therapist and Supervisor is to provide a safe and honest environment where people can explore their feelings, experiences, learnings and areas for development; gaining a greater insight and appreciation of self, other and situation. My background and training is within humanistic and relational approaches to counselling and supervision.
(03) 8592 9269 View (03) 8592 9269
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Devika Dey
Counsellor, ACA-L2
3 Endorsed
Serves Area
I take my training seriously and have invested in training with only the best when it comes to sexuality and relationships.
I am a couples and relationship counselor, dedicated to helping individuals and couples feel truly understood, supported, and connected. I am the support squad for couples who are life/spouse partners and friends/siblings. My mission is to reduce the anxiety associated with conflict while supporting deeper connection and growth for all couples. Relationships are a beautiful dance towards connection, belonging and intimacy often leaves individuals and couples feeling; anxious, fearful, frustrated, angry, disconnected, numb, overwhelmed, disorientated, stressed, depleted, and lost.
I take my training seriously and have invested in training with only the best when it comes to sexuality and relationships.
I am a couples and relationship counselor, dedicated to helping individuals and couples feel truly understood, supported, and connected. I am the support squad for couples who are life/spouse partners and friends/siblings. My mission is to reduce the anxiety associated with conflict while supporting deeper connection and growth for all couples. Relationships are a beautiful dance towards connection, belonging and intimacy often leaves individuals and couples feeling; anxious, fearful, frustrated, angry, disconnected, numb, overwhelmed, disorientated, stressed, depleted, and lost.
(03) 8203 5362 View (03) 8203 5362
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Emma Vasey
Psychotherapist, MA, ACA-L2
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Emma is currently accepting psychotherapy and sex therapy referrals.
Therapy is tailored to a client's identified needs and incorporates a range of evidence-based approaches to see long-lasting positive change. Emma specialises in experiential therapies that support real-time processing of emotions that hold people back: shame, loneliness, and fear. Emma works with diverse populations for a range of presentations.
Emma is currently accepting psychotherapy and sex therapy referrals.
Therapy is tailored to a client's identified needs and incorporates a range of evidence-based approaches to see long-lasting positive change. Emma specialises in experiential therapies that support real-time processing of emotions that hold people back: shame, loneliness, and fear. Emma works with diverse populations for a range of presentations.
(03) 7500 5637 View (03) 7500 5637
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Lee Taube
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA General
2 Endorsed
Brunswick, VIC 3056
I am skilled in working with depression, anxiety, neurodiversity, binge eating disorder, and clients that are LGBTIQA+, sex workers, and polyamorous.
I am the founder and Director of Trans Space, a registered psychologist and first author of four academic peer-reviewed publications, that use strengths-based approaches to improve mental health for Trans & Gender Diverse (TGD) people. I am experienced in using the informed consent model, Transgender Affirmative Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (TA-CBT), and Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT). When using TA-CBT, I work collaboratively with gender affirming healthcare practitioners and make referrals to TGD community support groups.
I am skilled in working with depression, anxiety, neurodiversity, binge eating disorder, and clients that are LGBTIQA+, sex workers, and polyamorous.
I am the founder and Director of Trans Space, a registered psychologist and first author of four academic peer-reviewed publications, that use strengths-based approaches to improve mental health for Trans & Gender Diverse (TGD) people. I am experienced in using the informed consent model, Transgender Affirmative Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (TA-CBT), and Emotion Focused Therapy (EFT). When using TA-CBT, I work collaboratively with gender affirming healthcare practitioners and make referrals to TGD community support groups.
(03) 7003 2505 View (03) 7003 2505
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Louis Spence
Psychotherapist, MA, PACFA
Brunswick, VIC 3056
They specialise in working with LGBTQIA+ people and their families, people in non-normative relationships, workers in the sex industry, and others whose experiences of marginalisation have affected their mental health and access to affirmative treatment.
Louis's psychotherapeutic education was built upon a framework of Person-Centred Therapy, attachment repair, and trauma therapy. They draw on training in modalities including Emotion-Focused Therapy, Focusing, Existential Psychotherapy and Cognitive Behaviour Therapy among others, depending on the specific needs and goals of each client.
They specialise in working with LGBTQIA+ people and their families, people in non-normative relationships, workers in the sex industry, and others whose experiences of marginalisation have affected their mental health and access to affirmative treatment.
Louis's psychotherapeutic education was built upon a framework of Person-Centred Therapy, attachment repair, and trauma therapy. They draw on training in modalities including Emotion-Focused Therapy, Focusing, Existential Psychotherapy and Cognitive Behaviour Therapy among others, depending on the specific needs and goals of each client.
(02) 4504 0330 View (02) 4504 0330
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Paula-Jane Buckland
Counsellor, PACFA
1 Endorsed
Brunswick East, VIC 3057
Paula-Jane is an accredited mental health counsellor and sex therapist working with individuals and intimate couples; providing care for a diverse range of issues and concerns.
Everyone deserves to live their best life. Together we will work towards bettering your relationship with yourself and others through individual and couples counselling. Paula-Jane specializes in complex trauma, working with adults who are victim/survivors of childhood sexual assault, and sex and intimacy education for NDIS participants.
Paula-Jane is an accredited mental health counsellor and sex therapist working with individuals and intimate couples; providing care for a diverse range of issues and concerns.
Everyone deserves to live their best life. Together we will work towards bettering your relationship with yourself and others through individual and couples counselling. Paula-Jane specializes in complex trauma, working with adults who are victim/survivors of childhood sexual assault, and sex and intimacy education for NDIS participants.
(03) 8338 4767 View (03) 8338 4767
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Andy Allen
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AMHSW
Brunswick, VIC 3056
Additionally, I have extensive experience working from a lived experience lens with LGBTIQA+ communities and am kink, non-monogamous, and sex worker positive.
Above all, I believe in client-centred work, being direct and honest with clients while ensuring clients are conveyed a true sense of compassionate care. I have been trained in EMDR, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Motivational Interviewing (MI), Interpersonal Therapy, and No Bullshit Therapy (NBT).
Additionally, I have extensive experience working from a lived experience lens with LGBTIQA+ communities and am kink, non-monogamous, and sex worker positive.
Above all, I believe in client-centred work, being direct and honest with clients while ensuring clients are conveyed a true sense of compassionate care. I have been trained in EMDR, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Motivational Interviewing (MI), Interpersonal Therapy, and No Bullshit Therapy (NBT).
(03) 9994 1801 View (03) 9994 1801
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Good Chemistry Sex and Relationship therapy
Psychotherapist, MA, PACFA
2 Endorsed
Yarraville, VIC 3013
If you want to explore sexual functioning concerns such as; erectile dysfunction, orgasm difficulties, painful penetration and/or enhance intimacy, or perhaps explore sexuality/sexual/gender identity we can work through this in a safe space.
I work with low or mismatched desire, painful sex or vaginismus, difficulty achieving orgasm, sexual trauma or abuse, communication and consent, Sexual anxiety or performance anxiety, polyamory and non-monogamy relationships, sexual addiction or compulsivity, Masturbation/solo sex concerns, erotic intimacy and pleasure enhancement, sexuality and disability
If you want to explore sexual functioning concerns such as; erectile dysfunction, orgasm difficulties, painful penetration and/or enhance intimacy, or perhaps explore sexuality/sexual/gender identity we can work through this in a safe space.
I work with low or mismatched desire, painful sex or vaginismus, difficulty achieving orgasm, sexual trauma or abuse, communication and consent, Sexual anxiety or performance anxiety, polyamory and non-monogamy relationships, sexual addiction or compulsivity, Masturbation/solo sex concerns, erotic intimacy and pleasure enhancement, sexuality and disability
(03) 8104 9283 View (03) 8104 9283
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Ryan Hsu
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Online Only
Ryan is a counsellor and sex therapist keen to work with LGBTIQA+ communities, migrants and refugees.
Ryan provides a safe and supportive environment to discuss concerns about sex, gender and sexuality, including intimacy and relationship concerns. Ryan also provides general counselling to LGBTIQA+ individuals who experience anxiety and depression.
Ryan is a counsellor and sex therapist keen to work with LGBTIQA+ communities, migrants and refugees.
Ryan provides a safe and supportive environment to discuss concerns about sex, gender and sexuality, including intimacy and relationship concerns. Ryan also provides general counselling to LGBTIQA+ individuals who experience anxiety and depression.
(03) 8400 0614 View (03) 8400 0614
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Ruairi Gallagher
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AMHSW
2 Endorsed
Thornbury, VIC 3071
Since returning to Australia in 2014, my focus has largely been on PTSD and how it impacts sexuality, pleasure and identity.
I am an Accredited Mental Health Social Worker with over 20 years of experience in the community sector. Having worked in both urban and regional locations in Australia, and in community-based roles in the UK and Canada, I pride myself on being able to connect with people from all walks of life. I've worked with people of all genders, sexualities, cultures and abilities. Whilst working on Vancouver Island, I ran addictions support groups made up of an assortment of individuals. Homeless folks would be facing similar issues to investment banker-types. This led to me becoming more interested in the universality of trauma and PTSD.
Since returning to Australia in 2014, my focus has largely been on PTSD and how it impacts sexuality, pleasure and identity.
I am an Accredited Mental Health Social Worker with over 20 years of experience in the community sector. Having worked in both urban and regional locations in Australia, and in community-based roles in the UK and Canada, I pride myself on being able to connect with people from all walks of life. I've worked with people of all genders, sexualities, cultures and abilities. Whilst working on Vancouver Island, I ran addictions support groups made up of an assortment of individuals. Homeless folks would be facing similar issues to investment banker-types. This led to me becoming more interested in the universality of trauma and PTSD.
(03) 8338 4331 View (03) 8338 4331
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Marlee Greer
Counsellor, PACFA
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I am committed to providing a space that is anti-racist, LGBTQIA+ affirming, fat-liberating, sex-positive, neurodiversity-affirming, disability justice-oriented, trauma-informed and anti-oppressive.
I offer support in exploring neurodivergence and developing affirming strategies, nervous system education and regulation strategies, trauma (developmental, interpersonal, systemic, or intergenerational), polyamory/consensual non-monogamy, same-gender (LGBQ) relationship issues & sexual identity.
I am committed to providing a space that is anti-racist, LGBTQIA+ affirming, fat-liberating, sex-positive, neurodiversity-affirming, disability justice-oriented, trauma-informed and anti-oppressive.
I offer support in exploring neurodivergence and developing affirming strategies, nervous system education and regulation strategies, trauma (developmental, interpersonal, systemic, or intergenerational), polyamory/consensual non-monogamy, same-gender (LGBQ) relationship issues & sexual identity.
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Allison Ross
Counsellor, ACA-L2
1 Endorsed
Thornbury, VIC 3071
I work with couples who have become stuck in unproductive cycles of communication around conflict that has rippled out to effect sex and intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction.
If you’re feeling stuck, disconnected, or overwhelmed—either within yourself or in your relationship—you’re not alone. You may be navigating a life change, carrying emotional pain, or struggling to communicate or feel understood. What you’re seeking is more ease, clarity, and connection. You want to feel grounded, seen, and more in tune with what matters most to you. Whether you come on your own or as a couple, I offer a warm, supportive space where we can gently make sense of what’s happening and begin the work of real, lasting change—together.
I work with couples who have become stuck in unproductive cycles of communication around conflict that has rippled out to effect sex and intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction.
If you’re feeling stuck, disconnected, or overwhelmed—either within yourself or in your relationship—you’re not alone. You may be navigating a life change, carrying emotional pain, or struggling to communicate or feel understood. What you’re seeking is more ease, clarity, and connection. You want to feel grounded, seen, and more in tune with what matters most to you. Whether you come on your own or as a couple, I offer a warm, supportive space where we can gently make sense of what’s happening and begin the work of real, lasting change—together.
(03) 7003 2468 View (03) 7003 2468

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Sex Therapy Counsellors

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.