Codependency Psychologists and Therapists in Cowes, VIC

Susan Wilder
Counsellor, ACA-L3
1 Endorsed
Cowes, VIC 3922
Hello, my name is Susan Wilder and I am a dedicated and empathetic counsellor providing in-person support for adolescents, adults and families in Cowes (Phillip Island) and San Remo, Victoria. Are you looking for a kind and gentle therapist for yourself or family member? Services include; anxiety, depression, grief, relationships, family violence, trauma and neurodiversity. NDIS participants are supported to meet their plan goals through neuro-affirming counselling. I have a special interest in supporting people recover from narcissistic abuse and major life transitions which involves grief and loss counselling.
Hello, my name is Susan Wilder and I am a dedicated and empathetic counsellor providing in-person support for adolescents, adults and families in Cowes (Phillip Island) and San Remo, Victoria. Are you looking for a kind and gentle therapist for yourself or family member? Services include; anxiety, depression, grief, relationships, family violence, trauma and neurodiversity. NDIS participants are supported to meet their plan goals through neuro-affirming counselling. I have a special interest in supporting people recover from narcissistic abuse and major life transitions which involves grief and loss counselling.
(03) 5614 8362 View (03) 5614 8362
Katherine McRae
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Serves Area
I have experience working with adults and adolescents aged 16 and older, addressing a wide range of presentations, severities, and co-morbidities. My primary focus is treating individuals experiencing symptoms of anxiety, depression, personality disorders, emotional dysregulation, interpersonal or relationship challenges, low motivation, and stress or burnout.
I have experience working with adults and adolescents aged 16 and older, addressing a wide range of presentations, severities, and co-morbidities. My primary focus is treating individuals experiencing symptoms of anxiety, depression, personality disorders, emotional dysregulation, interpersonal or relationship challenges, low motivation, and stress or burnout.
(03) 5615 0009 View (03) 5615 0009
Francesca Varney
Counsellor, MA, ACA-L2
Serves Area
Hi, I’m Francesca. I offer counselling for individuals and couples, both online and from my beautiful property in the hills of South Gippsland. I draw on Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), person-centred and experiential approaches to support people navigating relationship challenges, anxiety, overwhelm, life transitions, emotional regulation and self-understanding. For those who choose to work outdoors, the horses may become part of the therapeutic experience. Whether you actively work with them or simply share the space, their presence can support reflection, connection and awareness of emotions, boundaries and relationships.
Hi, I’m Francesca. I offer counselling for individuals and couples, both online and from my beautiful property in the hills of South Gippsland. I draw on Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), person-centred and experiential approaches to support people navigating relationship challenges, anxiety, overwhelm, life transitions, emotional regulation and self-understanding. For those who choose to work outdoors, the horses may become part of the therapeutic experience. Whether you actively work with them or simply share the space, their presence can support reflection, connection and awareness of emotions, boundaries and relationships.
(03) 5615 0103 View (03) 5615 0103
Clare Galdes
Social Worker, MA, AMHSW
Online Only
Hello and welcome! I’m Clare, an Accredited Mental Health Social Worker and Therapist offering telehealth therapy to adults and young adults across Australia. My practice focuses on three key areas: addiction and trauma, neurodiversity, and parenting. I work with people navigating the complex intersections of these experiences whether you’re managing a dual diagnosis, supporting a neurodivergent child, or healing from past trauma while trying to stay present in your daily life. While these are my areas of specialty, I also support people with a wide range of challenges including anxiety, depression, grief and life transitions.
Hello and welcome! I’m Clare, an Accredited Mental Health Social Worker and Therapist offering telehealth therapy to adults and young adults across Australia. My practice focuses on three key areas: addiction and trauma, neurodiversity, and parenting. I work with people navigating the complex intersections of these experiences whether you’re managing a dual diagnosis, supporting a neurodivergent child, or healing from past trauma while trying to stay present in your daily life. While these are my areas of specialty, I also support people with a wide range of challenges including anxiety, depression, grief and life transitions.
(03) 7003 2777 View (03) 7003 2777
Sophie Gilmore
Social Worker, AMHSW
Online Only
Not accepting new clients
I am a Mental Health Accredited Social Worker with 12 years experience specialising in trauma therapy for adults. I am trained in EMDR Therapy and Resource Therapy, and I work with individuals impacted by PTSD, Complex PTSD, single-incident trauma, attachment and relational trauma, sexual assault, family violence, and relationship difficulties. I am an outcome-focused therapist who works collaboratively with clients to achieve meaningful and lasting change. Central to my work is the creation of a safe and trusting therapeutic relationship. I work with clients via NDIS, WorkCover/WorkSafe, GP referral via a MHCP, and self-referral.
I am a Mental Health Accredited Social Worker with 12 years experience specialising in trauma therapy for adults. I am trained in EMDR Therapy and Resource Therapy, and I work with individuals impacted by PTSD, Complex PTSD, single-incident trauma, attachment and relational trauma, sexual assault, family violence, and relationship difficulties. I am an outcome-focused therapist who works collaboratively with clients to achieve meaningful and lasting change. Central to my work is the creation of a safe and trusting therapeutic relationship. I work with clients via NDIS, WorkCover/WorkSafe, GP referral via a MHCP, and self-referral.
(03) 5907 1071 View (03) 5907 1071

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Kimberley Kifun
Psychotherapist, PACFA
1 Endorsed
Online Only
I work with trauma, self esteem, relationship issues, addiction, anxiety, depression, grief, as well as spiritual and existential concerns. I utilise an integrative approach using many different modalities and tools such as somatic therapies, attachment theory, psychodynamic approach and internal family systems. I am committed to creating a safe and welcoming space where you can explore all aspects of yourself. Your autonomy is paramount, and I work collaboratively with you to develop a personalised treatment plan that addresses your unique needs.
I work with trauma, self esteem, relationship issues, addiction, anxiety, depression, grief, as well as spiritual and existential concerns. I utilise an integrative approach using many different modalities and tools such as somatic therapies, attachment theory, psychodynamic approach and internal family systems. I am committed to creating a safe and welcoming space where you can explore all aspects of yourself. Your autonomy is paramount, and I work collaboratively with you to develop a personalised treatment plan that addresses your unique needs.
(03) 4427 7030 View (03) 4427 7030
Mindy Marcantelli
Psychotherapist, MA, PACFA
Online Only
Online appts early morning & late evening. TRAUMA & COUPLES specialist. Anxiety & Depression paralyzing you? Traumatic events big or small hold you back in work and relationships-Triggered, TENSE, Exhausted! It's time for CHANGE. Tried EMDR? Is your relationship struggling or near the end? Cannot move past an AFFAIR or Betrayal? Are you LONELY and living as Roomates? Want more Connection & Communication? Your partner is refusing to go to therapy? The couple relationship is key to the stability and well-being of children. Booking now brings HOPE for the future. Most find great RELIEF after a few sessions. You can start today.
Online appts early morning & late evening. TRAUMA & COUPLES specialist. Anxiety & Depression paralyzing you? Traumatic events big or small hold you back in work and relationships-Triggered, TENSE, Exhausted! It's time for CHANGE. Tried EMDR? Is your relationship struggling or near the end? Cannot move past an AFFAIR or Betrayal? Are you LONELY and living as Roomates? Want more Connection & Communication? Your partner is refusing to go to therapy? The couple relationship is key to the stability and well-being of children. Booking now brings HOPE for the future. Most find great RELIEF after a few sessions. You can start today.
(03) 8771 5097 View (03) 8771 5097
Sara Louise Harris
Counsellor, ACA-L4
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Specialising in relationships, trauma and anxiety. I work collaboratively with you to reach your mental health & wellbeing goals, working with individuals, couples, families & teens. People often present with anxiety, depression, health issues/challenges, trauma, anger issues, lack of self-worth/confidence, parenting challenges, relationship issues, family challenges, difficulty managing stress, grief/loss & more. Specialising also in women's health issues impacting mental health, including fertility, perinatal anxiety, menopause, PMS, endometriosis, PCOS, cancers, etc. Here to support you to enrich your life & your relationships.
Specialising in relationships, trauma and anxiety. I work collaboratively with you to reach your mental health & wellbeing goals, working with individuals, couples, families & teens. People often present with anxiety, depression, health issues/challenges, trauma, anger issues, lack of self-worth/confidence, parenting challenges, relationship issues, family challenges, difficulty managing stress, grief/loss & more. Specialising also in women's health issues impacting mental health, including fertility, perinatal anxiety, menopause, PMS, endometriosis, PCOS, cancers, etc. Here to support you to enrich your life & your relationships.
(03) 7003 2963 View (03) 7003 2963
Whole-Hearted Relationships
Psychotherapist, MA, PACFA
Serves Area
Are you and your partner feeling more like housemates than companions, struggling to connect, stuck in the same painful cycles, or living with a quiet disconnection no one else can see? Perhaps intimacy feels out of reach, or you’ve moved through relationships searching for closeness but never quite finding safety. If you’re wondering whether the bond can be restored, don’t wait until distance grows deeper. Whether you’re working on your relationship or exploring recurring patterns on your own, I’m here to walk alongside you. Reaching out takes courage, and you deserve the support to create the love you long for.
Are you and your partner feeling more like housemates than companions, struggling to connect, stuck in the same painful cycles, or living with a quiet disconnection no one else can see? Perhaps intimacy feels out of reach, or you’ve moved through relationships searching for closeness but never quite finding safety. If you’re wondering whether the bond can be restored, don’t wait until distance grows deeper. Whether you’re working on your relationship or exploring recurring patterns on your own, I’m here to walk alongside you. Reaching out takes courage, and you deserve the support to create the love you long for.
(03) 8797 2621 View (03) 8797 2621
Charlotte Harvey
Social Worker, AASW
Frankston, VIC 3199
I am a counsellor and family therapist and work with adults, children, youth, couples and families, on a range of issues stemming from past or present experiences, which are impacting on them living their best life. Some people see me for brief solution orientated support, that focusses on what is happening in the here and now, and strategies to move forward. Others, benefitting from longer term therapeutic treatment and support.
I am a counsellor and family therapist and work with adults, children, youth, couples and families, on a range of issues stemming from past or present experiences, which are impacting on them living their best life. Some people see me for brief solution orientated support, that focusses on what is happening in the here and now, and strategies to move forward. Others, benefitting from longer term therapeutic treatment and support.
(03) 5910 3722 View (03) 5910 3722
Jacqui Snooks
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Mornington, VIC 3931
I am a qualified IAT (Integrative Attachment Therapy) therapist which specialises in adult attachment repair. Attachment repair effectively treats anxious, avoidant and disorganised attachment in adults, helping clients to achieve inner security, relationship satisfaction, and emotional well-being.​ I use a combination of emotional, cognitive and somatic therapeutic approaches in my work, because not everyone is the same, and I find as a therapist I need a variety of tools in my kit to meet the unique needs of each client.
I am a qualified IAT (Integrative Attachment Therapy) therapist which specialises in adult attachment repair. Attachment repair effectively treats anxious, avoidant and disorganised attachment in adults, helping clients to achieve inner security, relationship satisfaction, and emotional well-being.​ I use a combination of emotional, cognitive and somatic therapeutic approaches in my work, because not everyone is the same, and I find as a therapist I need a variety of tools in my kit to meet the unique needs of each client.
(08) 9126 9430 View (08) 9126 9430
Chaille Bos
Counsellor, MC, ACA-L2
Frankston, VIC 3199
Hello! I’m Chaille (Shay). I’ve spent most of the last decade living and working overseas away from friends and family, this taught me that there is nothing better than having a person who is your home and who will support you no matter what. I am very analytic and straight forward, but I’m also endlessly compassionate. More than anything, I want you to feel comfortable and safe when working with me. ​As a counsellor, my focus is on increasing quality of life. I help clients process their experiences in an environment of respect, help them feel heard, safe and validated. I offer evidence-based counselling for individuals and couples
Hello! I’m Chaille (Shay). I’ve spent most of the last decade living and working overseas away from friends and family, this taught me that there is nothing better than having a person who is your home and who will support you no matter what. I am very analytic and straight forward, but I’m also endlessly compassionate. More than anything, I want you to feel comfortable and safe when working with me. ​As a counsellor, my focus is on increasing quality of life. I help clients process their experiences in an environment of respect, help them feel heard, safe and validated. I offer evidence-based counselling for individuals and couples
(03) 5907 1314 View (03) 5907 1314
Light the Way Counselling
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Online Only
Have you ever wondered, "Why do I keep thinking, feeling or reacting this way?" Many people come to therapy believing something is wrong with them. I see things differently. Our minds, bodies and relationships adapt to our life experiences. I help adults and couples understand the deeper patterns shaping their emotions, relationships and behaviours. Together, we'll move beyond simply managing symptoms towards greater self-awareness, healing and more secure, meaningful relationships.
Have you ever wondered, "Why do I keep thinking, feeling or reacting this way?" Many people come to therapy believing something is wrong with them. I see things differently. Our minds, bodies and relationships adapt to our life experiences. I help adults and couples understand the deeper patterns shaping their emotions, relationships and behaviours. Together, we'll move beyond simply managing symptoms towards greater self-awareness, healing and more secure, meaningful relationships.
(08) 9932 0333 View (08) 9932 0333
Chloe Shale
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Serves Area
Chloe has extensive experience providing individual therapy across private practice, NDIS, and community mental health settings. Chloe supports clients navigating a wide range of challenges, including anxiety, depression, panic attacks, adjustment difficulties, life transitions, trauma, and addiction. She also provides guidance to parents of neurodivergent children, combining therapeutic support with positive behaviour strategies.
Chloe has extensive experience providing individual therapy across private practice, NDIS, and community mental health settings. Chloe supports clients navigating a wide range of challenges, including anxiety, depression, panic attacks, adjustment difficulties, life transitions, trauma, and addiction. She also provides guidance to parents of neurodivergent children, combining therapeutic support with positive behaviour strategies.
0422 092 191 View 0422 092 191
Fresh Horizons Counselling
Social Worker, AMHSW
1 Endorsed
Cranbourne, VIC 3977
Hello, my name is Angela Oldfield and I am an accredited Mental Health social worker (AMHSW) with the Australian Association of Social Workers, Level 4 counsellor with the Australian Counselling Association, EMDR therapist (Eye motion Desensitization Reprocessing) registered with EMDR Association Australia (EMDRAA) and I am a Clinical Supervisor. I take a solution focused, person-centered approach to working with my clients. I treat each client as an individual and use different techniques and therapies tailored to their personal situations and needs, while working at their own pace. I am an experienced trauma therapist.
Hello, my name is Angela Oldfield and I am an accredited Mental Health social worker (AMHSW) with the Australian Association of Social Workers, Level 4 counsellor with the Australian Counselling Association, EMDR therapist (Eye motion Desensitization Reprocessing) registered with EMDR Association Australia (EMDRAA) and I am a Clinical Supervisor. I take a solution focused, person-centered approach to working with my clients. I treat each client as an individual and use different techniques and therapies tailored to their personal situations and needs, while working at their own pace. I am an experienced trauma therapist.
(03) 8203 5752 View (03) 8203 5752
Naz Ersan
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Serves Area
As a counsellor with over 25 years of experience, I have supported couples, adolescents, families and individuals through all stages of life. My work is rooted in compassion for the pain all humans carry, a curiosity towards the deeper truths beneath the survival stories we learn to tell, and a respect for each person’s inner wisdom to choose the pace of their own growth.
As a counsellor with over 25 years of experience, I have supported couples, adolescents, families and individuals through all stages of life. My work is rooted in compassion for the pain all humans carry, a curiosity towards the deeper truths beneath the survival stories we learn to tell, and a respect for each person’s inner wisdom to choose the pace of their own growth.
(03) 8771 4212 View (03) 8771 4212
Errol Akyalcin
Psychologist, MA, PsyBA General
Mount Eliza, VIC 3930
Thank you for checking in to read my intro. Beginning your healing journey starts here by taking this first step. I welcome you with a warm, friendly, open heart and a well experienced ear to listen, affirm, understand and to help you to process some of your deep personal, emotional and relationship concerns. Treating individuals above teens, couple's and families with my personal mentoring and coaching based psychology. I love all people, have lived for 62yrs, have various degrees and training in latest modalities to help you to be calm, integrate and to heal. Call or message me for a free chat about your needs, I welcome you:-)
Thank you for checking in to read my intro. Beginning your healing journey starts here by taking this first step. I welcome you with a warm, friendly, open heart and a well experienced ear to listen, affirm, understand and to help you to process some of your deep personal, emotional and relationship concerns. Treating individuals above teens, couple's and families with my personal mentoring and coaching based psychology. I love all people, have lived for 62yrs, have various degrees and training in latest modalities to help you to be calm, integrate and to heal. Call or message me for a free chat about your needs, I welcome you:-)
(03) 5972 2444 View (03) 5972 2444
Phillip Mota
Psychotherapist, ACA-L2
Mornington, VIC 3931
I am genuinely inspired by an individual’s ability to endure suffering and still move forward, and by the human spirit’s innate capacity for healing. I believe therapy serves as the solid ground upon which a person's suffering is witnessed, held and honoured. From this place, together we explore their history, wounds, and trauma - the roots of their suffering. By establishing this foundation, we pave the way for transformation, nurturing new ways of being, and enabling lasting change. I work with clients to explore and address attitudes, behaviours, and thought patterns that may hinder the realization of their true potential..
I am genuinely inspired by an individual’s ability to endure suffering and still move forward, and by the human spirit’s innate capacity for healing. I believe therapy serves as the solid ground upon which a person's suffering is witnessed, held and honoured. From this place, together we explore their history, wounds, and trauma - the roots of their suffering. By establishing this foundation, we pave the way for transformation, nurturing new ways of being, and enabling lasting change. I work with clients to explore and address attitudes, behaviours, and thought patterns that may hinder the realization of their true potential..
(03) 5905 7115 View (03) 5905 7115
Veritas Art Therapy & Counselling
Psychotherapist, MA
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
My gift and desire to help others use creative expression is what has me leaping out of bed each day. I want to help others use creative expression to explore what's going on for them, helping them delve into their inner worlds. I grew up in an intensely creative and neurodiverse family, highly attuned to the beauty of nature, music, art and words. I've always loved the opportunities these forms of expression provide to express myself, and to feel deeply—beyond words.
My gift and desire to help others use creative expression is what has me leaping out of bed each day. I want to help others use creative expression to explore what's going on for them, helping them delve into their inner worlds. I grew up in an intensely creative and neurodiverse family, highly attuned to the beauty of nature, music, art and words. I've always loved the opportunities these forms of expression provide to express myself, and to feel deeply—beyond words.
(03) 5910 5006 View (03) 5910 5006
WildFlowers Holistic Counselling
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Sandhurst, VIC 3977
Whole‑Person Counselling for Real, Lasting Change. WildFlowers Holistic Counselling offers support that goes beyond symptom management, focusing on the balance of mind, body and spirit. As a trauma‑informed therapist, I work with adults and young people (16+) experiencing trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties and long‑standing patterns. I also offer a structured anger management program to help clients understand their reactions and develop calmer, more confident responses. My approach is warm, person‑centred and deeply attuned, combining CBT, ACT, polyvagal‑informed, somatic practices and psychoeducation.
Whole‑Person Counselling for Real, Lasting Change. WildFlowers Holistic Counselling offers support that goes beyond symptom management, focusing on the balance of mind, body and spirit. As a trauma‑informed therapist, I work with adults and young people (16+) experiencing trauma, anxiety, depression, grief, relationship difficulties and long‑standing patterns. I also offer a structured anger management program to help clients understand their reactions and develop calmer, more confident responses. My approach is warm, person‑centred and deeply attuned, combining CBT, ACT, polyvagal‑informed, somatic practices and psychoeducation.
(03) 5910 1683 View (03) 5910 1683

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Codependency Therapists
What therapy types help with codependency problems?
Both couples and family therapy and cognitive and behavioral therapy (CBT) can help with the relationship difficulties referred to as codependency. Such problems typically include inappropriate feelings of responsibility for a loved one’s destructive behavior, irrational patterns of thinking about such behavior, and family interaction patterns in which the needs of one troubled member override the needs of others in a household.

What happens in therapy for codependency?
Spouses and family members learn and practice how to interact and support each other in a healthy way without sacrificing their own needs or well-being. They learn the limits of their responsibility for their loved ones and correct faulty patterns of thinking and feeling that underlie codependent behavior. Individuals may be encouraged to nurture an array of social relationships and to cultivate their own talents and interests so that they develop a healthy sense of self outside the family.

How does therapy help a person or couple overcome codependency?
Therapy helps people establish healthy ways of being in a relationship. Spouses and family members learn how to nurture and support one another without sacrificing their own needs or allowing the needs of one person to dominate the dynamic. Individuals learn how to say no and set boundaries, and how to maintain their own identity and self-esteem. Therapy helps people understand that they are not responsible for the feelings and actions of others. It also helps individuals deal with the turbulence that can come from living with a person suffering from such conditions as substance abuse and mental illness.

What is the goal of therapy for codependency?
One goal of therapy for codependency is to alleviate feelings of responsibility for and correct irrational patterns of thinking about loved ones whose behavioral problems override the needs of others in a household. Therapy helps people establish healthy boundaries of behavior and speak up for their own needs in a relationship. In addition, people learn how to maintain a healthy relationship, one in which both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity.