Couples Counselling in Hobart, TAS

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Photo of Carly Hargreaves, Psychologist in Hobart, TAS
Carly Hargreaves
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified
Hobart, TAS 7000
Welcome! I'm a registered psychologist, EMDR therapist, and relationship counselor working with individuals and couples in person and online. Whether you're experiencing trauma, have anxiety or depression, are having relationship issues, stress at work, or struggling with a mood or personality disorder, I'm here to help. I create a warm, non-judgmental environment, where I support you to learn from your challenges, and where neurodiversity is welcome and celebrated. I aim to help you feel and function better. I'm available in person or online Fridays, and online only on Saturday mornings. Please feel free to reach out for a chat.
Welcome! I'm a registered psychologist, EMDR therapist, and relationship counselor working with individuals and couples in person and online. Whether you're experiencing trauma, have anxiety or depression, are having relationship issues, stress at work, or struggling with a mood or personality disorder, I'm here to help. I create a warm, non-judgmental environment, where I support you to learn from your challenges, and where neurodiversity is welcome and celebrated. I aim to help you feel and function better. I'm available in person or online Fridays, and online only on Saturday mornings. Please feel free to reach out for a chat.
(03) 5910 3314 View (03) 5910 3314
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Byrom Consulting
Counsellor, MA, AMHSW
Verified
Hobart, TAS 7000
Dear clients until further notice my practice at Breathing space is closed. David is an Accredited Mental Health Social Worker and Psychotherapist with 38 years counselling experience, with children, adults, couples and families. He believes that recovery from trauma restores a sense of dignity and justice and allows for more control over one’s life. This occurs when traumatic experiences can be transformed by a deeper understanding of the specific trauma and its consequential impacts on the body, when people are able to better manage this impacts the mind can often heal itself.
Dear clients until further notice my practice at Breathing space is closed. David is an Accredited Mental Health Social Worker and Psychotherapist with 38 years counselling experience, with children, adults, couples and families. He believes that recovery from trauma restores a sense of dignity and justice and allows for more control over one’s life. This occurs when traumatic experiences can be transformed by a deeper understanding of the specific trauma and its consequential impacts on the body, when people are able to better manage this impacts the mind can often heal itself.
(03) 6158 6190 View (03) 6158 6190
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Michael Briggs
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified
Sandy Bay, TAS 7005
Are you seeking a safe space to embark on a journey of self-discovery and healing? Then I am here to help. With a strong emphasis on client-focused care, I understand that each individual's path to healing is unique. I offer a personalised approach to ensure that your therapy journey is tailored to your specific needs and goals. Compassion lies at the heart of my approach, as I believe that a strong therapeutic relationship is the cornerstone to effective therapy. I am trained in EMDR therapy (which can be conducted online) for the treatment of PTSD, generalised anxiety disorder, panic disorder, phobias and social anxiety/phobias.
Are you seeking a safe space to embark on a journey of self-discovery and healing? Then I am here to help. With a strong emphasis on client-focused care, I understand that each individual's path to healing is unique. I offer a personalised approach to ensure that your therapy journey is tailored to your specific needs and goals. Compassion lies at the heart of my approach, as I believe that a strong therapeutic relationship is the cornerstone to effective therapy. I am trained in EMDR therapy (which can be conducted online) for the treatment of PTSD, generalised anxiety disorder, panic disorder, phobias and social anxiety/phobias.
(03) 6164 5845 View (03) 6164 5845
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Nadia Mahjouri
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified
Sandy Bay, TAS 7005
Hi, my name is Nadia. I’m a registered counsellor, group facilitator, mediator and the mother of five in a blended family. I specialise in perinatal mental health, from pregnancy anxiety, miscarriage and infant loss, processing birth trauma, to postnatal depression, relationship problems when children arrive, and the challenges of blended families. I also have a special interest in supporting parents of gender diverse or gender questioning children of all ages.
Hi, my name is Nadia. I’m a registered counsellor, group facilitator, mediator and the mother of five in a blended family. I specialise in perinatal mental health, from pregnancy anxiety, miscarriage and infant loss, processing birth trauma, to postnatal depression, relationship problems when children arrive, and the challenges of blended families. I also have a special interest in supporting parents of gender diverse or gender questioning children of all ages.
(03) 6163 9980 View (03) 6163 9980
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Bronte Purcell
Psychotherapist, MA, PACFA
Verified
South Hobart, TAS 7004  (Online Only)
As a qualified somatic psychotherapist & counsellor, I support people experiencing anxiety, burn out, shut down, low self worth, body disconnection & relationship challenges. I help you develop a safe, loving relationship with your body & mind so that you can transform your relationship to yourself, and embrace the wholeness of this human experience. The approach I take is person-centred, trauma-informed and built on a foundation of openness, acceptance, curiosity & compassion. I focus on providing you with the tools that you need to thrive and getting to the root cause of the challenges you are experiencing.
As a qualified somatic psychotherapist & counsellor, I support people experiencing anxiety, burn out, shut down, low self worth, body disconnection & relationship challenges. I help you develop a safe, loving relationship with your body & mind so that you can transform your relationship to yourself, and embrace the wholeness of this human experience. The approach I take is person-centred, trauma-informed and built on a foundation of openness, acceptance, curiosity & compassion. I focus on providing you with the tools that you need to thrive and getting to the root cause of the challenges you are experiencing.
(02) 5943 7272 View (02) 5943 7272
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Kate Johnstone
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified
Hobart, TAS 7000
Areas of the human experience Kate can support include depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, parenting and family challenges, career change and transitions as well as grief and loss. Kate has a special interest in supporting the pregnancy and post natal period, bringing together current mental health research and her own experiences and journey with post natal depression and anxiety, breastfeeding and transitioning to motherhood. Kate has experience working with teenagers and young adults both individually and groups. Kate has trained in Gottman Method and can support you to have healthier relationships.
Areas of the human experience Kate can support include depression, anxiety, trauma, relationship issues, parenting and family challenges, career change and transitions as well as grief and loss. Kate has a special interest in supporting the pregnancy and post natal period, bringing together current mental health research and her own experiences and journey with post natal depression and anxiety, breastfeeding and transitioning to motherhood. Kate has experience working with teenagers and young adults both individually and groups. Kate has trained in Gottman Method and can support you to have healthier relationships.
(03) 6146 1772 View (03) 6146 1772
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Carolyn Youle (Clinical Psychologist)
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified
Hobart, TAS 7000  (Online Only)
Welcome to Insight to Action Clinical Psychology! My name is Carolyn and I am a registered Clinical Psychologist. I work with people experiencing a wide range of difficulties from anxiety (including panic), mood, stress, life changes and transitions (such as relationship difficulties/endings, work/career changes or retirement, life stage changes, migration, health changes including living with diabetes (T1DM, LADA and T2DM) and more).
Welcome to Insight to Action Clinical Psychology! My name is Carolyn and I am a registered Clinical Psychologist. I work with people experiencing a wide range of difficulties from anxiety (including panic), mood, stress, life changes and transitions (such as relationship difficulties/endings, work/career changes or retirement, life stage changes, migration, health changes including living with diabetes (T1DM, LADA and T2DM) and more).
(07) 3130 0925 View (07) 3130 0925
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Nerissa Stanley
Counsellor, MA, AAFT
Verified
1 Endorsed
North Hobart, TAS 7000
Areas of interest include anxiety, stress, burnout, depression, self worth, perfectionism and over-functioning, big life transitions and situational stressors (such as relationship breakdowns, career change or parenthood), parenting and carer support and resolving relationship difficulties.
Hi, I’m Nerissa. I’m a mental health occupational therapist, family therapist and life coach passionate about supporting my clients to form healthy and loving relationships with themselves and others, build deeper awareness into how past experiences and traumas impact their life and creating space for healing, empowerment and conscious creation of positive and sustainable change. I come to private practice with over ten years’ experience working in the public mental health sector across both adult and child and adolescent services. I have worked with individuals, couples and families.
Areas of interest include anxiety, stress, burnout, depression, self worth, perfectionism and over-functioning, big life transitions and situational stressors (such as relationship breakdowns, career change or parenthood), parenting and carer support and resolving relationship difficulties.
Hi, I’m Nerissa. I’m a mental health occupational therapist, family therapist and life coach passionate about supporting my clients to form healthy and loving relationships with themselves and others, build deeper awareness into how past experiences and traumas impact their life and creating space for healing, empowerment and conscious creation of positive and sustainable change. I come to private practice with over ten years’ experience working in the public mental health sector across both adult and child and adolescent services. I have worked with individuals, couples and families.
(03) 6163 9803 View (03) 6163 9803
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Daniel Silver
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified
2 Endorsed
Hobart, TAS 7000
I work with individuals and couples who are trying to overcome psychological barriers or process confusing emotions. These could be related to mental health, such as chronic anxiety, depression, conflict, intrusive thoughts or disturbing dreams. They could also be related to more general goals for personal growth and self-development. In the case of couples , reasons for starting therapy may include issues with communication or trust, or coping with significant life events.
I work with individuals and couples who are trying to overcome psychological barriers or process confusing emotions. These could be related to mental health, such as chronic anxiety, depression, conflict, intrusive thoughts or disturbing dreams. They could also be related to more general goals for personal growth and self-development. In the case of couples , reasons for starting therapy may include issues with communication or trust, or coping with significant life events.
(03) 6159 0102 View (03) 6159 0102
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Jen Wiedman
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, AMHSW
Verified
Hobart, TAS 7000
Waitlist for new clients
I'm the practice Owner, Director & Principal Therapist of Wild Calm Therapies. People who reach out and connect with me, are usually womxn or LGBTIQ+ adults, with difficulties in self, relationship , family, career, community or identity, or professionals / leaders in human services or health and medical fields. These folks are usually already highly reflective and have a readiness and willingness to work on issues affecting and surrounding them. Therapy is a form of self-care, self-love and self-investment.
I'm the practice Owner, Director & Principal Therapist of Wild Calm Therapies. People who reach out and connect with me, are usually womxn or LGBTIQ+ adults, with difficulties in self, relationship , family, career, community or identity, or professionals / leaders in human services or health and medical fields. These folks are usually already highly reflective and have a readiness and willingness to work on issues affecting and surrounding them. Therapy is a form of self-care, self-love and self-investment.
(07) 3186 8323 View (07) 3186 8323
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Chris Hannan Relationship Therapist & Supervisor
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AMHSW
Verified
1 Endorsed
Hobart, TAS 7000  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Hi, I'm Chris, I'm a Relationship Therapist & Supervisor passionate about helping couples and individuals heal from hurt, betrayal and build their dream relationships. As a partner and mother on my second long term partnership I understand the heart break of being in the wrong relationship and how it profoundly effects every area of your life. I understand the pressures of dating as a single mum and how challenging it can be to make a blended family work. It's never been easer to meet people but harder to find meaningful and healthy relationships. It’s my privilege to work with you to heal the hurt, move past the betrayal & rebuild.
Hi, I'm Chris, I'm a Relationship Therapist & Supervisor passionate about helping couples and individuals heal from hurt, betrayal and build their dream relationships. As a partner and mother on my second long term partnership I understand the heart break of being in the wrong relationship and how it profoundly effects every area of your life. I understand the pressures of dating as a single mum and how challenging it can be to make a blended family work. It's never been easer to meet people but harder to find meaningful and healthy relationships. It’s my privilege to work with you to heal the hurt, move past the betrayal & rebuild.
(03) 6164 5114 View (03) 6164 5114
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Kaye de Ville
Psychotherapist, MA, PACFA
Verified
North Hobart, TAS 7000
Are you feeling anxious, depressed or just cannot make sense of things. Everyone can have therapy at anytime in life. Talking to someone who listens, remembers your history, travels with you on your journey can be rewarding and help with anxiety, depression and feelings of being alone. I can help you make sense of your life, meaning and troubling thoughts. I am also an experienced couples therapist having supported couples on their journeys from courting to commitment. I help people make sense of where they have come to, going to and how they are going to get there even when the future is uncertain.
Are you feeling anxious, depressed or just cannot make sense of things. Everyone can have therapy at anytime in life. Talking to someone who listens, remembers your history, travels with you on your journey can be rewarding and help with anxiety, depression and feelings of being alone. I can help you make sense of your life, meaning and troubling thoughts. I am also an experienced couples therapist having supported couples on their journeys from courting to commitment. I help people make sense of where they have come to, going to and how they are going to get there even when the future is uncertain.
0437 892 282 View 0437 892 282
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Partnership Power Counselling - Raywyn Roberts
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified
Hobart, TAS 7000
A Clinical Psychotherapist, I work with families, couples and individuals to help them create a better life. Read more at: https://partnershippower.com.au : Learn how to live a great life - together. You love each other, learn how to get back 'in love' with each other. Sound inviting? I help people like you every day. Any couple can increase their couple bond. A great relationship is the gateway to a happy home life, increased work productivity and a no-regrets existence.
A Clinical Psychotherapist, I work with families, couples and individuals to help them create a better life. Read more at: https://partnershippower.com.au : Learn how to live a great life - together. You love each other, learn how to get back 'in love' with each other. Sound inviting? I help people like you every day. Any couple can increase their couple bond. A great relationship is the gateway to a happy home life, increased work productivity and a no-regrets existence.
(07) 3485 0790 View (07) 3485 0790
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Surfing The Blues
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified
Hobart, TAS 7000
50% of the success of any therapy relies on the relationship that client and therapist will develop.
Perception is everything. Every event, situation and even trauma are coloured/perceived according to our emotional experiences. Although we cannot change past experiences we can change our perception and interpretation of them...and that is what leads us on the road t recovery. Imagine a vehicle: car, bike any sort of vehicle and imagine yourself turning ever so slightly the direction of its wheel, your vehicle goes in a totally different direction, the same goes for the mind...See you there...
50% of the success of any therapy relies on the relationship that client and therapist will develop.
Perception is everything. Every event, situation and even trauma are coloured/perceived according to our emotional experiences. Although we cannot change past experiences we can change our perception and interpretation of them...and that is what leads us on the road t recovery. Imagine a vehicle: car, bike any sort of vehicle and imagine yourself turning ever so slightly the direction of its wheel, your vehicle goes in a totally different direction, the same goes for the mind...See you there...
(03) 6161 3204 View (03) 6161 3204
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Carly Dober
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified
Hobart, TAS 7000  (Online Only)
I use a person-centred, strength-based approach in the working relationship .
I work with people of various cultures and socioeconomic backgrounds in both specialist health services (justice, family violence), schools (from Prep to Year 12) and specialist mental health services (adult residential services). I also facilitate group wellbeing programs for individuals & businesses, and have co-facilitated group workshops focused on teaching people practical skills to manage distress. I work best with people who are ready to take what we discuss in session, and implement this in their lives. I am a Director on the board with Australian Association of Psychologists Incorporated (AAPi).
I use a person-centred, strength-based approach in the working relationship .
I work with people of various cultures and socioeconomic backgrounds in both specialist health services (justice, family violence), schools (from Prep to Year 12) and specialist mental health services (adult residential services). I also facilitate group wellbeing programs for individuals & businesses, and have co-facilitated group workshops focused on teaching people practical skills to manage distress. I work best with people who are ready to take what we discuss in session, and implement this in their lives. I am a Director on the board with Australian Association of Psychologists Incorporated (AAPi).
1300 286 125 View 1300 286 125
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Ros de Virieux
Counsellor, AASW
Verified
Hobart, TAS 7000
I am able to provide a unique individual approach to help men overcome the impact of their mental health, drugs and alcohol, relationship difficulties or anger management issues, so they can live a full life.
I am a senior social worker with many years experience in private practice and working in government and non-government agencies across Australia. I have worked with men, women, children and families, including people from different backgrounds such as Military personal, veterans and their families, Indigenous language groups, migrants and humanitarian entrants, and prisoners, just to name a few. I am a confident, highly motivated professional and take pride in my ability to communicate, both orally and written, with clients, management and supporting agencies to ensure a high level and comprehensive service.
I am able to provide a unique individual approach to help men overcome the impact of their mental health, drugs and alcohol, relationship difficulties or anger management issues, so they can live a full life.
I am a senior social worker with many years experience in private practice and working in government and non-government agencies across Australia. I have worked with men, women, children and families, including people from different backgrounds such as Military personal, veterans and their families, Indigenous language groups, migrants and humanitarian entrants, and prisoners, just to name a few. I am a confident, highly motivated professional and take pride in my ability to communicate, both orally and written, with clients, management and supporting agencies to ensure a high level and comprehensive service.
(03) 6361 2689 View (03) 6361 2689
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Nikita Dwivedi
Psychotherapist, MA, PACFA
Verified
Hobart, TAS 7000  (Online Only)
I've extensive experience as a relationship & trauma counsellor and provide family & couple counselling, victims of crime counselling, redress counselling, LGBTQI+ counselling, employee assistance & post-separation counselling.
My ideal client would be someone experiencing lack of intimacy & frequent conflicts in their relationship . Their presenting issues might involve lack of trust & unhealthy ways of communication. They would need skills & strategies to communicate more effectively & ways to make repairs after conflicts. They would also need tools to rebuild trust and foster intimacy. Another ideal client would be someone who has experienced trauma, childhood or more recent. They might experience anxiety, flashbacks & nightmares. Their goals would be to process the trauma & better manage their distressing thoughts & feelings.
I've extensive experience as a relationship & trauma counsellor and provide family & couple counselling, victims of crime counselling, redress counselling, LGBTQI+ counselling, employee assistance & post-separation counselling.
My ideal client would be someone experiencing lack of intimacy & frequent conflicts in their relationship . Their presenting issues might involve lack of trust & unhealthy ways of communication. They would need skills & strategies to communicate more effectively & ways to make repairs after conflicts. They would also need tools to rebuild trust and foster intimacy. Another ideal client would be someone who has experienced trauma, childhood or more recent. They might experience anxiety, flashbacks & nightmares. Their goals would be to process the trauma & better manage their distressing thoughts & feelings.
(03) 6152 6163 View (03) 6152 6163
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Linda Harrison
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified
Hobart, TAS 7000  (Online Only)
Are you feeling low, anxious, sad or burnt out? Maybe you struggle to concentrate and focus? If so, I have availability within a fortnight. I offer telehealth therapy to clients in rural, regional and metro areas. I believe that a positive relationship is key to change for clients. Importantly, therapy should be engaging and even enjoyable! I trust that with the right strategies, everyone has the capacity to thrive and it's my privilege to help them on their path to a more contented life. I specialise in anxiety, ADHD, depression, burnout, gender/sexual identity, hormones/ menopause and stresses of life, work and relationships.
Are you feeling low, anxious, sad or burnt out? Maybe you struggle to concentrate and focus? If so, I have availability within a fortnight. I offer telehealth therapy to clients in rural, regional and metro areas. I believe that a positive relationship is key to change for clients. Importantly, therapy should be engaging and even enjoyable! I trust that with the right strategies, everyone has the capacity to thrive and it's my privilege to help them on their path to a more contented life. I specialise in anxiety, ADHD, depression, burnout, gender/sexual identity, hormones/ menopause and stresses of life, work and relationships.
(02) 8503 8915 View (02) 8503 8915
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Shand Counselling (Christian Counselling)
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AASW
Verified
Hobart, TAS 7000
Our relationship with God is at the heart of all positive change we experience.
I find joy in working with clients who identify as Christian. I am interested in helping struggling Christians find peace, when suffering from any challenging life issue. I counsel from a Christ-centred perspective using a Bible based approach to suffering. Relationships and life's troubles can cause much grief but they don't have to. There is purpose in all that life throws at us, and our reactions, choices and behaviours can be opportunities for positive change in us. This change is not just a Biblical formula but God's work in us, to make us become the person He created us to be. It is a privledge to walk with you through this
Our relationship with God is at the heart of all positive change we experience.
I find joy in working with clients who identify as Christian. I am interested in helping struggling Christians find peace, when suffering from any challenging life issue. I counsel from a Christ-centred perspective using a Bible based approach to suffering. Relationships and life's troubles can cause much grief but they don't have to. There is purpose in all that life throws at us, and our reactions, choices and behaviours can be opportunities for positive change in us. This change is not just a Biblical formula but God's work in us, to make us become the person He created us to be. It is a privledge to walk with you through this
0466 116 159 View 0466 116 159
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ACE Counselling
Counsellor, PhD
Hobart, TAS 7000
I'm certified in the Prevention and Relationship Enhancement Program and a Certified Infidelity Recovery Professional following the 7-step Infidelity Recovery Program, guiding complex relationship issues.
The client informs my counselling approach, not any theory or modality. It's about making the client feel comfortable and being able to communicate confidently with an end goal in sight. I follow the 80/20 rule in counselling; the client talks 80% of the time, and I respond 20% of the time. With 13+ years working as a mental health nurse, both in the private and public sector, I have helped hundreds of clients and I am versed in all facets of mental health counselling. As a counsellor, I offer a safe and non-judgmental space for personal growth and healing, helping individuals overcome challenges to achieve lasting positive change.
I'm certified in the Prevention and Relationship Enhancement Program and a Certified Infidelity Recovery Professional following the 7-step Infidelity Recovery Program, guiding complex relationship issues.
The client informs my counselling approach, not any theory or modality. It's about making the client feel comfortable and being able to communicate confidently with an end goal in sight. I follow the 80/20 rule in counselling; the client talks 80% of the time, and I respond 20% of the time. With 13+ years working as a mental health nurse, both in the private and public sector, I have helped hundreds of clients and I am versed in all facets of mental health counselling. As a counsellor, I offer a safe and non-judgmental space for personal growth and healing, helping individuals overcome challenges to achieve lasting positive change.
(03) 6364 2946 View (03) 6364 2946

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Couples Counselling

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.