Emotionally Focused Counselling in Bellerive, TAS

Photo of Anja Zimmermann - Calm Kidz Program, Counsellor, ACA-L2
Calm Kidz Program
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Serves Area
I love supporting children age 4-12yrs with anxiety, behavioural challenges, emotion regulation & low self-esteem. I love integrating the Polyvagal Theory within my sessions. Sessions are a fun & interactive with a safe and supportive approach to engage with children. ​I am the director of Calm Kidz Program, a registered Counsellor with ACA, a Safe & Sound Protocol Provider (Music Therapy program). I am trained in Social Thinking, Neuro-Developmental Theory to practice, Emotion Coaching, the Zones of Regulation as well as Child Developmental Practices. - Your child is not giving you a hard time, Your child is having a hard time!
I love supporting children age 4-12yrs with anxiety, behavioural challenges, emotion regulation & low self-esteem. I love integrating the Polyvagal Theory within my sessions. Sessions are a fun & interactive with a safe and supportive approach to engage with children. ​I am the director of Calm Kidz Program, a registered Counsellor with ACA, a Safe & Sound Protocol Provider (Music Therapy program). I am trained in Social Thinking, Neuro-Developmental Theory to practice, Emotion Coaching, the Zones of Regulation as well as Child Developmental Practices. - Your child is not giving you a hard time, Your child is having a hard time!
(08) 6002 2183 View (08) 6002 2183

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Photo of Andrea Smith - Andrea Smith - Conscious Psychology - EMDR Therapy, Psychologist, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Andrea Smith - Conscious Psychology - EMDR Therapy
Psychologist, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I work with adults and adolescents, and have a particular interest in the treatment of trauma and post-traumatic stress disorder, adapting during and after stressful experiences, anxiety, depression, self-worth, and personal growth. I also have significant experience working in the specialised field of perinatal mental health including the treatment of birth traumas, attachment difficulties, the transition into parenting, relationship difficulties and parenting struggles. I offer sessions both In-Person (Hillarys WA) or Online Australia-wide.
I work with adults and adolescents, and have a particular interest in the treatment of trauma and post-traumatic stress disorder, adapting during and after stressful experiences, anxiety, depression, self-worth, and personal growth. I also have significant experience working in the specialised field of perinatal mental health including the treatment of birth traumas, attachment difficulties, the transition into parenting, relationship difficulties and parenting struggles. I offer sessions both In-Person (Hillarys WA) or Online Australia-wide.
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Nadia Rasheed
Counsellor, PACFA
Online Only
Drawing from proven therapeutic approaches tailored to your unique needs, I offer specialised trauma processing through EMDR to rewire neural pathways, complemented by Emotionally Focused Therapy for relationship enhancement, Strength-based CBT to develop healthier thought patterns, and DBT skills for emotion management-all supporting your journey back to inherent wisdom and healing capacity.
As an EMDR Counsellor, I provide online therapy using trauma-informed approaches and specialised EMDR techniques. I understand how stress, anxiety, and trauma can deeply affect your sense of self and your closest relationships. In our sessions, we'll create meaningful wellness goals that help you reclaim control, find emotional freedom, and rebuild important connections. My practice offers a safe space where your experiences are honoured and your healing journey is supported with expertise and genuine care. Together, we'll develop the tools you need to move forward with confidence and renewed hope.
Drawing from proven therapeutic approaches tailored to your unique needs, I offer specialised trauma processing through EMDR to rewire neural pathways, complemented by Emotionally Focused Therapy for relationship enhancement, Strength-based CBT to develop healthier thought patterns, and DBT skills for emotion management-all supporting your journey back to inherent wisdom and healing capacity.
As an EMDR Counsellor, I provide online therapy using trauma-informed approaches and specialised EMDR techniques. I understand how stress, anxiety, and trauma can deeply affect your sense of self and your closest relationships. In our sessions, we'll create meaningful wellness goals that help you reclaim control, find emotional freedom, and rebuild important connections. My practice offers a safe space where your experiences are honoured and your healing journey is supported with expertise and genuine care. Together, we'll develop the tools you need to move forward with confidence and renewed hope.
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Sherine Badawy
Counsellor
Serves Area
I draw on various modalities and methods such as internal family systems, IMAGO, Gottman method, Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Offering 22 years of experience in supporting couples and individuals to build fulfilling and authentic relationships. Services are available Australia-wide via Zoom, providing flexibility and accessibility. Supporting those navigating, trauma, relational disconnection, intimacy issues, and life transitions while ensuring a safe and inclusive space for all clients.
I draw on various modalities and methods such as internal family systems, IMAGO, Gottman method, Emotionally Focused Therapy.
Offering 22 years of experience in supporting couples and individuals to build fulfilling and authentic relationships. Services are available Australia-wide via Zoom, providing flexibility and accessibility. Supporting those navigating, trauma, relational disconnection, intimacy issues, and life transitions while ensuring a safe and inclusive space for all clients.
(08) 7008 9224 View (08) 7008 9224
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Gaye Mallinson
Counsellor, ACA-L4
Online Only
I can also utilise: EFT Tapping, Trauma Sensitive Yoga, Trauma Informed Yoga, Sensory Enhanced Yoga for Emotional Regulation & Trauma Healing, Yoga Nidra, Meditation, Mindfulness, Pranayama/Breathwork, Gestalt Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Imaginal Exposure Therapy & Solution Focused Therapy, Humanistic Therapy, from a Strength Based, Integrative, Relational & Culturally Sensitive, Feminist approach
At Somatic Psychotherapies, I offer Clinical Supervision, Counselling (talk & somatic based) & Trauma Informed Yoga Therapy to Individuals, Couples & Families with availability for Weekday & Weekend sessions Online via Telehealth (Videolink or Phone) across Australia, New Zealand, Ireland & the UK. I can utilise various assessments when appropriate to measure the severity of a specific problem, as well as determining your progress within therapy. I can also teach many various emotional regulation skills where this may be of benefit for you too. Whatever you are going through, know that there is hope - Let me help you find that hope.
I can also utilise: EFT Tapping, Trauma Sensitive Yoga, Trauma Informed Yoga, Sensory Enhanced Yoga for Emotional Regulation & Trauma Healing, Yoga Nidra, Meditation, Mindfulness, Pranayama/Breathwork, Gestalt Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Imaginal Exposure Therapy & Solution Focused Therapy, Humanistic Therapy, from a Strength Based, Integrative, Relational & Culturally Sensitive, Feminist approach
At Somatic Psychotherapies, I offer Clinical Supervision, Counselling (talk & somatic based) & Trauma Informed Yoga Therapy to Individuals, Couples & Families with availability for Weekday & Weekend sessions Online via Telehealth (Videolink or Phone) across Australia, New Zealand, Ireland & the UK. I can utilise various assessments when appropriate to measure the severity of a specific problem, as well as determining your progress within therapy. I can also teach many various emotional regulation skills where this may be of benefit for you too. Whatever you are going through, know that there is hope - Let me help you find that hope.
0459 767 347 View 0459 767 347
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Saria J Phillips
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, AMHSW
1 Endorsed
Hobart, TAS 7000
I'm experienced in providing individual, couple and family therapy and use a range of evidenced based therapies including Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, Internal Family Systems therapy, Emotionally Focused therapy, ACT, CBT and can incorporate creative techniques such as narrative therapy, sandtray work and visual arts.
Hello and welcome! I want to take a moment to acknowledge the strength it takes to reach out for support. Whether you’re here to understand yourself better, navigate challenges, find some peace of mind, or work through relationship dynamics as a couple or family, seeking help is a powerful step toward growth and healing. It’s not always easy, but it’s a big commitment to making positive change. This space is for you, and we’ll move forward at a pace that feels right for everyone involved. I’m here to listen, guide, and support you as you navigate this journey—wherever it may take you.
I'm experienced in providing individual, couple and family therapy and use a range of evidenced based therapies including Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, Internal Family Systems therapy, Emotionally Focused therapy, ACT, CBT and can incorporate creative techniques such as narrative therapy, sandtray work and visual arts.
Hello and welcome! I want to take a moment to acknowledge the strength it takes to reach out for support. Whether you’re here to understand yourself better, navigate challenges, find some peace of mind, or work through relationship dynamics as a couple or family, seeking help is a powerful step toward growth and healing. It’s not always easy, but it’s a big commitment to making positive change. This space is for you, and we’ll move forward at a pace that feels right for everyone involved. I’m here to listen, guide, and support you as you navigate this journey—wherever it may take you.
(03) 6173 7336 View (03) 6173 7336
Photo of Jessica Jepson - Women's Relationship Counselling, Counsellor, ACA-L2
Women's Relationship Counselling
Counsellor, ACA-L2
4 Endorsed
Online Only
My specialities include Adult Attachment, Gottman, Emotionally Focused ( EFT) & Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT).
If you are experiencing relationship anxiety or challenges in forming secure connections with others, I am here to assist you. Together, we can delve into the root causes of these issues, explore your options, and develop effective strategies to improve your communication in relationships. I will help you understand your attachments, build healthy boundaries, and enhance your self-worth, enabling you to regulate your emotions and build deeper connections. My primary aim is to provide you with the necessary support, tools, and resources to heal, improve your self-worth, feel confident, and connect with others so that you can thrive.
My specialities include Adult Attachment, Gottman, Emotionally Focused ( EFT) & Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT).
If you are experiencing relationship anxiety or challenges in forming secure connections with others, I am here to assist you. Together, we can delve into the root causes of these issues, explore your options, and develop effective strategies to improve your communication in relationships. I will help you understand your attachments, build healthy boundaries, and enhance your self-worth, enabling you to regulate your emotions and build deeper connections. My primary aim is to provide you with the necessary support, tools, and resources to heal, improve your self-worth, feel confident, and connect with others so that you can thrive.
(03) 8338 1069 View (03) 8338 1069
Photo of Lijuan Chen - Snow Chen - Sunflower Mental Health and Wellbeing, Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSc, AMHSW
Snow Chen - Sunflower Mental Health and Wellbeing
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MSc, AMHSW
Serves Area
As an ISST certified advanced schema therapist, I integrate a broad evidence-based modalities, such as EMDR, DBT, ACT, EFT, CBT, etc.
Are anxiety, depression, emotional distress, or relationship struggles holding you back? These issues often stem from complex trauma, shaping unhelpful patterns of self-doubt, people-pleasing, and emptiness that lower self-esteem and leave your needs unmet. Together, we’ll uncover these patterns, address the roots of your struggles, and heal your inner wounds to reclaim self-worth. I specialize in schema therapy, EMDR, psychodynamic and trauma-informed approaches, tailoring plans to your unique needs. If unresolved trauma or past therapies haven’t worked, let’s take the first step toward healing and growth together.
As an ISST certified advanced schema therapist, I integrate a broad evidence-based modalities, such as EMDR, DBT, ACT, EFT, CBT, etc.
Are anxiety, depression, emotional distress, or relationship struggles holding you back? These issues often stem from complex trauma, shaping unhelpful patterns of self-doubt, people-pleasing, and emptiness that lower self-esteem and leave your needs unmet. Together, we’ll uncover these patterns, address the roots of your struggles, and heal your inner wounds to reclaim self-worth. I specialize in schema therapy, EMDR, psychodynamic and trauma-informed approaches, tailoring plans to your unique needs. If unresolved trauma or past therapies haven’t worked, let’s take the first step toward healing and growth together.
(08) 7008 7831 View (08) 7008 7831
Photo of Christine E Marsden - Quatro Wellbeing Couples Therapy , Psychotherapist, MSc, ANZAP
Quatro Wellbeing Couples Therapy
Psychotherapist, MSc, ANZAP
Serves Area
Conversational Model, Attachment Theory, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotionally Focussed Therapy ( EFT), Gottman Model for Couples Therapy.
Christine Marsden at Quatro Wellbeing is dedicated to provide a safe and supportive space for you to explore your health path. She works with couples and individuals. She trained as a relational psychoanalytic psychotherapist. This means she works with you from the inside out. To help you gain awareness of what informs your patterns, your life journey and life story and influences. Her work helps you reach a place where you understand what you want to change, build or strengthen.
Conversational Model, Attachment Theory, Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotionally Focussed Therapy ( EFT), Gottman Model for Couples Therapy.
Christine Marsden at Quatro Wellbeing is dedicated to provide a safe and supportive space for you to explore your health path. She works with couples and individuals. She trained as a relational psychoanalytic psychotherapist. This means she works with you from the inside out. To help you gain awareness of what informs your patterns, your life journey and life story and influences. Her work helps you reach a place where you understand what you want to change, build or strengthen.
(07) 5241 1417 View (07) 5241 1417
Photo of Kate Deakin, Psychotherapist, PACFA
Kate Deakin
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Serves Area
I'm a general psychotherapist, counsellor, somatic psychotherapist, meditation & embodiment teacher. Individual therapy sessions & online grounding & embodiment meditation classes. I have experience helping people with: -Anxiety, depression, difficult emotions -Self-esteem -Chronic pain -Insomnia -Relationship issues -Existential issues: fear of death, illness, isolation, uncertainty, change, loss -Lack of meaning (& fulfilment) -Life goals -'Psychosomatic' issues e.g. chronic fatigue, fibromyalgia -Grief -Sensitivity -Building resilience -Making decisions -'OCD' -'panic attacks' -General life challenges -Breathing related issues
I'm a general psychotherapist, counsellor, somatic psychotherapist, meditation & embodiment teacher. Individual therapy sessions & online grounding & embodiment meditation classes. I have experience helping people with: -Anxiety, depression, difficult emotions -Self-esteem -Chronic pain -Insomnia -Relationship issues -Existential issues: fear of death, illness, isolation, uncertainty, change, loss -Lack of meaning (& fulfilment) -Life goals -'Psychosomatic' issues e.g. chronic fatigue, fibromyalgia -Grief -Sensitivity -Building resilience -Making decisions -'OCD' -'panic attacks' -General life challenges -Breathing related issues
(02) 9100 0463 View (02) 9100 0463
Photo of Andrew Dib - Integration Therapies, Counsellor, MA, PACFA
Integration Therapies
Counsellor, MA, PACFA
Online Only
Andrew Dib of Integration Therapies is committed to providing a compassionate and client-centred approach to assist people to navigate their challenges and achieve not just mental health wellness but to reach for the best version of themselves. By creating a safe and supportive space, we seek to empower those on their therapeutic journey to explore themselves and their world more fully and to live more satisfying and meaningful lives. Together we work towards growth, healing, and personal development.
Andrew Dib of Integration Therapies is committed to providing a compassionate and client-centred approach to assist people to navigate their challenges and achieve not just mental health wellness but to reach for the best version of themselves. By creating a safe and supportive space, we seek to empower those on their therapeutic journey to explore themselves and their world more fully and to live more satisfying and meaningful lives. Together we work towards growth, healing, and personal development.
(07) 2000 5881 View (07) 2000 5881
Photo of Amber Airey - Omra Reflective Practice, Counsellor, ACA-L1
Omra Reflective Practice
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Serves Area
Counselling is about you, the client and that is why I approach every client as an individual, tailoring my style to what you need. Experience working with clients with anxiety, depression, grief, parenting, neurodivergence, together we will work together to build your very own tool box of solutions and tools.
Counselling is about you, the client and that is why I approach every client as an individual, tailoring my style to what you need. Experience working with clients with anxiety, depression, grief, parenting, neurodivergence, together we will work together to build your very own tool box of solutions and tools.
(03) 4148 9004 View (03) 4148 9004
Photo of Paris Baker, Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA General
Paris Baker
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA General
1 Endorsed
Sandy Bay, TAS 7005
I have worked with individuals from all walks of life. Most of my work has been with individuals working in the emergency services context, as well as those with experiences of long-standing and ongoing anxiety. This might be individuals looking to get a better a handle on their nervous system in order to better manage the challenges and demands life throws at them. These individuals are usually already highly reflective and have a readiness and willingness to work on issues affecting and surrounding them.
I have worked with individuals from all walks of life. Most of my work has been with individuals working in the emergency services context, as well as those with experiences of long-standing and ongoing anxiety. This might be individuals looking to get a better a handle on their nervous system in order to better manage the challenges and demands life throws at them. These individuals are usually already highly reflective and have a readiness and willingness to work on issues affecting and surrounding them.
(03) 6164 5169 View (03) 6164 5169
Photo of Liz Cobcroft - & Pause Counselling & Therapy, Counsellor, PACFA
& Pause Counselling & Therapy
Counsellor, PACFA
Kingston, TAS 7050
Offering counselling for children, teens, individuals & families, '& Pause Counselling & Therapy' aims to create a space where you can push pause on the demands of study or work, the expectations of friends & family, or the ache and weight of a long carried load, & be listened to, heard, and valued as an individual. Where you can be still and refill emotionally, mentally, physically, & spiritually, giving you space to breathe; time to rest, reflect and reassess. Time to step back, think, let things go, & recalibrate in order to for you to thrive, not just ‘survive’. Gaining greater insight and understanding; a fresh new perspective.
Offering counselling for children, teens, individuals & families, '& Pause Counselling & Therapy' aims to create a space where you can push pause on the demands of study or work, the expectations of friends & family, or the ache and weight of a long carried load, & be listened to, heard, and valued as an individual. Where you can be still and refill emotionally, mentally, physically, & spiritually, giving you space to breathe; time to rest, reflect and reassess. Time to step back, think, let things go, & recalibrate in order to for you to thrive, not just ‘survive’. Gaining greater insight and understanding; a fresh new perspective.
0439 328 570 View 0439 328 570
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Carly Hargreaves
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Battery Point, TAS 7004
Waitlist for new clients
Welcome! I'm a Registered Psychologist, Advanced EMDR therapist, and qualified Relationship Counselor (Gottman trained) working with individuals and couples in person and online. I specialise in trauma, as well as relationship counselling but also treat anxiety, stress, and related disorders. I support many people with ADHD and help others explore the possibility of this diagnosis. In therapy, I create a warm, non-judgmental environment, where I support you to grow from your challenges, and where neurodiversity is welcome and celebrated. My aim is to help you feel and function better.
Welcome! I'm a Registered Psychologist, Advanced EMDR therapist, and qualified Relationship Counselor (Gottman trained) working with individuals and couples in person and online. I specialise in trauma, as well as relationship counselling but also treat anxiety, stress, and related disorders. I support many people with ADHD and help others explore the possibility of this diagnosis. In therapy, I create a warm, non-judgmental environment, where I support you to grow from your challenges, and where neurodiversity is welcome and celebrated. My aim is to help you feel and function better.
(03) 5910 3314 View (03) 5910 3314
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Viviane Golan
Psychotherapist, PhD, AASW
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Viviane has over twenty five years experience working with individuals, couples and families in ways that support growth, clarity, transformation and wholeness. Using a range of therapeutic modalities, Viviane provides a safe and compassionate environment where clients have the opportunity to explore themselves and their lives in ever deepening and enriching ways.
Viviane has over twenty five years experience working with individuals, couples and families in ways that support growth, clarity, transformation and wholeness. Using a range of therapeutic modalities, Viviane provides a safe and compassionate environment where clients have the opportunity to explore themselves and their lives in ever deepening and enriching ways.
(08) 9126 9057 View (08) 9126 9057
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Grounded Mind Therapies
Counsellor, ACA-L1
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I support individuals who have come to a point in their life where things are “just not right”, whether it is a general feeling of dissatisfaction, loss of meaning, or a specific situation causing them significant distress (e.g. issues in relationships, workplace, health, …). Opening a safe space to share what is going on is a first step towards feeling better and moving forward. Sometimes, exploring past events and emotions brings an understanding that can soothe and help to let go. When you are ready, I work with you to better understand your context, resources and obstacles, and help you build a more grounded and meaningful life.
I support individuals who have come to a point in their life where things are “just not right”, whether it is a general feeling of dissatisfaction, loss of meaning, or a specific situation causing them significant distress (e.g. issues in relationships, workplace, health, …). Opening a safe space to share what is going on is a first step towards feeling better and moving forward. Sometimes, exploring past events and emotions brings an understanding that can soothe and help to let go. When you are ready, I work with you to better understand your context, resources and obstacles, and help you build a more grounded and meaningful life.
(07) 3179 6058 View (07) 3179 6058
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The walking therapist
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AMHSW
South Arm, TAS 7022
I am a qualified mental health social worker, couples therapist, clinical supervisor and outdoor therapist. I have gained considerable experience working for many years in the Netherlands and in Australia. I have undertaken specialist training in varied psychotherapeutic modalities, have a background in fitness, yoga and mindfulness and love to incorporate embodiment practices when I am working with clients. I provide holistic care for the body and mind. I love using nature as a co-regulator in therapy sessions and if you’d prefer, there is always the option to go for a walk and talk instead of sitting in the office.
I am a qualified mental health social worker, couples therapist, clinical supervisor and outdoor therapist. I have gained considerable experience working for many years in the Netherlands and in Australia. I have undertaken specialist training in varied psychotherapeutic modalities, have a background in fitness, yoga and mindfulness and love to incorporate embodiment practices when I am working with clients. I provide holistic care for the body and mind. I love using nature as a co-regulator in therapy sessions and if you’d prefer, there is always the option to go for a walk and talk instead of sitting in the office.
(03) 6159 2624 View (03) 6159 2624
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Nadia Mahjouri
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Sandy Bay, TAS 7005
Hi, my name is Nadia. I’m a registered counsellor, group facilitator, mediator and the mother of five in a blended family. I specialise in perinatal mental health, from pregnancy anxiety, miscarriage and infant loss, processing birth trauma, to postnatal depression, relationship problems when children arrive, and the challenges of blended families. I also have a special interest in supporting parents of gender diverse or gender questioning children of all ages.
Hi, my name is Nadia. I’m a registered counsellor, group facilitator, mediator and the mother of five in a blended family. I specialise in perinatal mental health, from pregnancy anxiety, miscarriage and infant loss, processing birth trauma, to postnatal depression, relationship problems when children arrive, and the challenges of blended families. I also have a special interest in supporting parents of gender diverse or gender questioning children of all ages.
(03) 6163 9980 View (03) 6163 9980
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Anthony Edwards
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Online Only
Are you feeling anxious, stressed, confused, emotionally overwhelmed? Does life seem overwhelming, unfair, sad, unfulfilling, directionless, hopeless? Do you simply want more from life? You’re not alone. I endeavour to understand what is important for you, which means that I don’t have a one-size-fits-all approach. Using empathy and non-judgement, I listen to understand what life is like for you and to ‘get’ you - what you are thinking and feeling, how the events of life have impacted you, and what you want and need. I create a safe space to be open and real about what you are experiencing.
Are you feeling anxious, stressed, confused, emotionally overwhelmed? Does life seem overwhelming, unfair, sad, unfulfilling, directionless, hopeless? Do you simply want more from life? You’re not alone. I endeavour to understand what is important for you, which means that I don’t have a one-size-fits-all approach. Using empathy and non-judgement, I listen to understand what life is like for you and to ‘get’ you - what you are thinking and feeling, how the events of life have impacted you, and what you want and need. I create a safe space to be open and real about what you are experiencing.
(02) 8294 9673 View (02) 8294 9673

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Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.