Sex Therapists in Cottesloe, WA

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Bonnie Bentley
Verified Verified
Cottesloe, WA 6011
Having worked in the exciting field of sexuality for over a decade, I am fascinated by the ways that sexual energy can be expressed or suppressed by our wonderful bodies, and how this influences the rest of our lives. My approach to therapy is heart-centred and holistic. I am particularly passionate about drawing on my personal experiences of healing to connect with my clients through true understanding and deep compassion.
Having worked in the exciting field of sexuality for over a decade, I am fascinated by the ways that sexual energy can be expressed or suppressed by our wonderful bodies, and how this influences the rest of our lives. My approach to therapy is heart-centred and holistic. I am particularly passionate about drawing on my personal experiences of healing to connect with my clients through true understanding and deep compassion.
(08) 6206 8537 View (08) 6206 8537
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Emily Hirshman-Smith Counselling & Psychotherapy
Counsellor, MA, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
Cottesloe, WA 6011
My areas of speciality include Relationship / Marriage Counselling; Addiction (pornography, sex, drug and alcohol); Anxiety and Depression; Grief Counselling; Sexual Health.
Are you experiencing difficulties in your relationship(s)? Are you feeling confused and wanting some clarity? Are you wanting to change some behaviours, but don’t know how or where to begin? Are you feeling angry, sad, lonely or overwhelmed, finding it difficult to get through the day? Perhaps you’ve answered yes to one or some of these questions. If so, it might be time to talk to a professional Counsellor in a safe and comfortable environment where you can fully explore what’s going on for you, and begin to facilitate change, at a pace that feels right for you. I offer short and long term Counselling to Couples and Individuals.
My areas of speciality include Relationship / Marriage Counselling; Addiction (pornography, sex, drug and alcohol); Anxiety and Depression; Grief Counselling; Sexual Health.
Are you experiencing difficulties in your relationship(s)? Are you feeling confused and wanting some clarity? Are you wanting to change some behaviours, but don’t know how or where to begin? Are you feeling angry, sad, lonely or overwhelmed, finding it difficult to get through the day? Perhaps you’ve answered yes to one or some of these questions. If so, it might be time to talk to a professional Counsellor in a safe and comfortable environment where you can fully explore what’s going on for you, and begin to facilitate change, at a pace that feels right for you. I offer short and long term Counselling to Couples and Individuals.
(08) 7078 8383 View (08) 7078 8383
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Psychology for Thriving
Psychologist, MSc, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Cottesloe, WA 6011
I am a registered psychologist in Boorloo, Perth, Western Australia. I am passionate about helping people move from surviving to thriving. I provide psychological therapy for people experiencing stress, anxiety, depression, adjustment difficulties, focus and concentration problems and interpersonal and relationship difficulties. I have been providing therapy for over 25 years and am trained in Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Solution Focused, Narrative and, Compassion Focused Therapies.
I am a registered psychologist in Boorloo, Perth, Western Australia. I am passionate about helping people move from surviving to thriving. I provide psychological therapy for people experiencing stress, anxiety, depression, adjustment difficulties, focus and concentration problems and interpersonal and relationship difficulties. I have been providing therapy for over 25 years and am trained in Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Solution Focused, Narrative and, Compassion Focused Therapies.
(08) 6493 7919 View (08) 6493 7919

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Rachel Andrews
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified Verified
Subiaco, WA 6008
I have a special interest in sexuality and relationships and have undertaken specialised training in these fields with Dr Vivienne Cass, Sexual Therapist and Clinical Psychologist.
I have over fifteen years experience working in private practice. I am committed to creating a warm and safe place for clients to explore themselves, improve their well-being and make meaningful changes in their lives. I work with adults (individuals & couples) presenting with a wide range of clinical problems including sexual difficulties, women's health issues (e.g. fertility issues/pelvic pain), depression, anxiety disorders, stress and work problems, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, disordered eating, and interpersonal issues. I use a collaborative approach tailored to meet each client's needs, goals and presentation.
I have a special interest in sexuality and relationships and have undertaken specialised training in these fields with Dr Vivienne Cass, Sexual Therapist and Clinical Psychologist.
I have over fifteen years experience working in private practice. I am committed to creating a warm and safe place for clients to explore themselves, improve their well-being and make meaningful changes in their lives. I work with adults (individuals & couples) presenting with a wide range of clinical problems including sexual difficulties, women's health issues (e.g. fertility issues/pelvic pain), depression, anxiety disorders, stress and work problems, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, disordered eating, and interpersonal issues. I use a collaborative approach tailored to meet each client's needs, goals and presentation.
(08) 6490 9604 View (08) 6490 9604
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Kellie Sheldon
Counsellor, MA, ACA-L3
Verified Verified
3 Endorsed
Perth, WA 6000
Waitlist for new clients
Finding a therapist to help with trauma, relationships, and sex can be daunting. You need someone who understands the complexity of trauma and can help you navigate the healing process. Together, we can explore the past and work towards creating a brighter future. I provide a safe space where you can speak freely in the language you're comfortable with. It's not only about what happened to you but also what didn't. Let's leave behind society's judgments and explore self-acceptance. You can talk to me about your trauma, emotional pain, sexual difficulties and pleasures, and relationship struggles without fear of judgment.
Finding a therapist to help with trauma, relationships, and sex can be daunting. You need someone who understands the complexity of trauma and can help you navigate the healing process. Together, we can explore the past and work towards creating a brighter future. I provide a safe space where you can speak freely in the language you're comfortable with. It's not only about what happened to you but also what didn't. Let's leave behind society's judgments and explore self-acceptance. You can talk to me about your trauma, emotional pain, sexual difficulties and pleasures, and relationship struggles without fear of judgment.
(08) 6109 8292 View (08) 6109 8292
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Michelle Zietsman
Psychotherapist, MA, PACFA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Perth, WA 6000
Every person deserves a private, non-judgmental space to explore aspects of identity, sexuality, and relationships.
As a therapist, I offer Individual & Couples Therapy for Adults. Relationships encompass both hurt & healing. Establishing secure therapeutic connection fosters confidentiality, empathy, & understanding, facilitating change & solutions for personal issues. People possess the ability to solve problems, but this can be hindered by trauma, depression, anxiety, self-criticism, low self-esteem, relational conflict, or general life problems. I believe in every person's potential to explore their inner being, find courage, direct their lives & relationships meaningfully - ultimately, the cornerstone of our existence is meaning & purpose!
Every person deserves a private, non-judgmental space to explore aspects of identity, sexuality, and relationships.
As a therapist, I offer Individual & Couples Therapy for Adults. Relationships encompass both hurt & healing. Establishing secure therapeutic connection fosters confidentiality, empathy, & understanding, facilitating change & solutions for personal issues. People possess the ability to solve problems, but this can be hindered by trauma, depression, anxiety, self-criticism, low self-esteem, relational conflict, or general life problems. I believe in every person's potential to explore their inner being, find courage, direct their lives & relationships meaningfully - ultimately, the cornerstone of our existence is meaning & purpose!
(08) 6219 3065 View (08) 6219 3065
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Hanieh Tolouei, Sex & Relationship Therapist Perth
Counsellor, MSc, PACFA
Verified Verified
Mount Lawley, WA 6050
Reaching out for support on the intimate parts of life, like sexuality and relationships, is a brave move.
As a seasoned sexologist and counsellor with an academic background, I have a profound grasp of the complexities my clients encounter within their sexual and relational lives. Leveraging a multidimensional perspective, I integrate my specialized knowledge in sexology with a rich array of therapeutic strategies, including the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. This synthesis allows me to craft bespoke treatment plans that empower my clients to explore uncharted territories of their relationships and sexuality, guiding them towards fulfilling their aspirations with confidence and clarity.
Reaching out for support on the intimate parts of life, like sexuality and relationships, is a brave move.
As a seasoned sexologist and counsellor with an academic background, I have a profound grasp of the complexities my clients encounter within their sexual and relational lives. Leveraging a multidimensional perspective, I integrate my specialized knowledge in sexology with a rich array of therapeutic strategies, including the Gottman Method, Emotionally Focused Therapy, and Cognitive Behavioural Therapy. This synthesis allows me to craft bespoke treatment plans that empower my clients to explore uncharted territories of their relationships and sexuality, guiding them towards fulfilling their aspirations with confidence and clarity.
(08) 6493 7575 View (08) 6493 7575
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Charley Strickland
Psychologist, Australian Association of Psychologists - Member
Verified Verified
Maylands, WA 6051
I am a registered psychologist with 13 years of experience primarily in couple counselling, sex therapy, and PTSD. I am an EMDR therapist. I find that my training in these areas work well together as they often come up in relationship therapy. Some of the areas in relationship work is parenting, helping couples to reconnect after an affair, addressing imbalances in relationships, reduce arguments and fighting by helping with more effective ways to address difficult issues, porn addiction or porn issues, libido differences, anger, depression, anxiety, stress, sleep, grief and loss. Hope to see you soon.
I am a registered psychologist with 13 years of experience primarily in couple counselling, sex therapy, and PTSD. I am an EMDR therapist. I find that my training in these areas work well together as they often come up in relationship therapy. Some of the areas in relationship work is parenting, helping couples to reconnect after an affair, addressing imbalances in relationships, reduce arguments and fighting by helping with more effective ways to address difficult issues, porn addiction or porn issues, libido differences, anger, depression, anxiety, stress, sleep, grief and loss. Hope to see you soon.
(08) 6490 9809 View (08) 6490 9809
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Daniel Di Pietro
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Perth, WA 6000
Sex and sexuality play a vital role in our lives.
Daniel is a sexologist and psychotherapist who enjoys working empathically and collaboratively with individuals and partnerships of all cultural, gender, and sexual identities to provide support for their sexological needs. He specialises in working with sexological presentations around male sexual health, sexual and gender identity, intimacy, pleasure, desire discrepancy, kink and fetish-related behaviours, sexual functioning and relational challenges. Taking a non-judgmental and holistic approach, he assists his clients by providing tools to access their potential in overcoming the difficulties faced in their lives.
Sex and sexuality play a vital role in our lives.
Daniel is a sexologist and psychotherapist who enjoys working empathically and collaboratively with individuals and partnerships of all cultural, gender, and sexual identities to provide support for their sexological needs. He specialises in working with sexological presentations around male sexual health, sexual and gender identity, intimacy, pleasure, desire discrepancy, kink and fetish-related behaviours, sexual functioning and relational challenges. Taking a non-judgmental and holistic approach, he assists his clients by providing tools to access their potential in overcoming the difficulties faced in their lives.
(03) 7003 2160 View (03) 7003 2160
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Tailoring Therapy
Psychologist, MAPS
Verified Verified
Subiaco, WA 6008
If you’re having difficulties with anxiety, self-esteem, depression, personality disorder, relationship challenges, or need support regarding gender, sexuality or sexual functioning issues, we’d love support you in your journey.
My name is Federica, I am a registered Psychologist and Sexologist and the Director of Tailoring Therapy. In my years of being a therapist, I have developed the belief that psychological interventions and therapy should be tailored to the person's uniqueness. In my approach, I aim to provide knowledge and education, develop awareness, and encourage change, if that is what you are seeking.
If you’re having difficulties with anxiety, self-esteem, depression, personality disorder, relationship challenges, or need support regarding gender, sexuality or sexual functioning issues, we’d love support you in your journey.
My name is Federica, I am a registered Psychologist and Sexologist and the Director of Tailoring Therapy. In my years of being a therapist, I have developed the belief that psychological interventions and therapy should be tailored to the person's uniqueness. In my approach, I aim to provide knowledge and education, develop awareness, and encourage change, if that is what you are seeking.
(08) 6493 7840 View (08) 6493 7840
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Ark Support Coordination
Verified Verified
Victoria Park, WA 6100
When it comes to disability, people often shy away from important conversations. People with disabilities often face sexual oppression, deemed as non-sexual citizens despite facing a higher risk of sexual exploitation than their non-disabled peers. Research shows inclusive sexuality and relationship education significantly reduces the risks of abuse and supports decision making.
When it comes to disability, people often shy away from important conversations. People with disabilities often face sexual oppression, deemed as non-sexual citizens despite facing a higher risk of sexual exploitation than their non-disabled peers. Research shows inclusive sexuality and relationship education significantly reduces the risks of abuse and supports decision making.
(08) 6490 9922 View (08) 6490 9922
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Cheryl Tan-Bell
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Perth, WA 6000
Relationships are tough! Add in each other's trauma and you are bouncing off everyone like you're in a jumping castle. The old adage of 'individual stuff' and 'couple/s stuff' is true. Conversations can feel like they are going around in circles or rehashing old stuff. You feel stuck. Your partner/s feels stuck. No one is moving forward. This wasn't the life you imagined when you got together. It was meant to be rainbows and fairytales, not discussions around housework, money and sex - or friends and inlaws! What if I told you that 'your stuff' is affecting the relationship? It's a big possibility. It does not have to be that way!
Relationships are tough! Add in each other's trauma and you are bouncing off everyone like you're in a jumping castle. The old adage of 'individual stuff' and 'couple/s stuff' is true. Conversations can feel like they are going around in circles or rehashing old stuff. You feel stuck. Your partner/s feels stuck. No one is moving forward. This wasn't the life you imagined when you got together. It was meant to be rainbows and fairytales, not discussions around housework, money and sex - or friends and inlaws! What if I told you that 'your stuff' is affecting the relationship? It's a big possibility. It does not have to be that way!
(08) 6171 2914 View (08) 6171 2914
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Thinking Feeling Moving
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
Perth, WA 6000  (Online Only)
LGBTQIA plus Safe Space, Sex Positive, GSRD aware.
Email or WhatsApp for an appointment +447543800297 lisa(at)thinkingfeelingmoving.com I work remotely online. Contact for an initial free 30 min chat. I am a Clinical Sexologist, Relationship Therapist, Counsellor, Yoga Teacher, Yoga Therapist, and Educator.
LGBTQIA plus Safe Space, Sex Positive, GSRD aware.
Email or WhatsApp for an appointment +447543800297 lisa(at)thinkingfeelingmoving.com I work remotely online. Contact for an initial free 30 min chat. I am a Clinical Sexologist, Relationship Therapist, Counsellor, Yoga Teacher, Yoga Therapist, and Educator.
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Helena Green
Counsellor, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
Shenton Park, WA 6008
Nearly all of us have challenges in life. Perhaps some of the most difficult for us to adjust to are those concerning our intimate relationships, and sexuality. Relationship problems and problems with sex are two of the most common issues that people bring to counselling with me... these aspects of life frequently result in much distress within each of us, and much conflict if you're in a relationship. Let's face it, it's not easy talking about relationship problems and sex when we're already feeling distressed.
Nearly all of us have challenges in life. Perhaps some of the most difficult for us to adjust to are those concerning our intimate relationships, and sexuality. Relationship problems and problems with sex are two of the most common issues that people bring to counselling with me... these aspects of life frequently result in much distress within each of us, and much conflict if you're in a relationship. Let's face it, it's not easy talking about relationship problems and sex when we're already feeling distressed.
(08) 9126 9360 View (08) 9126 9360
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Amanda Grogan
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
Perth, WA 6000
I specialize in sex and intimacy counselling for non-monogamy, polyamory, kink and fetish. I am non-judgmental and believe with clear communication and boundaries these are healthy and beautiful relationship models and experiences. I also specialize in health counselling for chronic illness, chronic pain and invisible illness. I'm passionate about helping people navigate illness diagnosis, develop coping skills and the link between mind and body for pain management. I am empathetic, kind and understanding – and have lived experience with endometriosis which makes me uniquely qualified to work within the community.
I specialize in sex and intimacy counselling for non-monogamy, polyamory, kink and fetish. I am non-judgmental and believe with clear communication and boundaries these are healthy and beautiful relationship models and experiences. I also specialize in health counselling for chronic illness, chronic pain and invisible illness. I'm passionate about helping people navigate illness diagnosis, develop coping skills and the link between mind and body for pain management. I am empathetic, kind and understanding – and have lived experience with endometriosis which makes me uniquely qualified to work within the community.
(07) 5655 7635 View (07) 5655 7635
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SexWit Counselling & Sexology - Zoë Hancock
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AASW
Verified Verified
Perth, WA 6000
Zoë is a registered & experienced Clinical Sexologist, Psychotherapist, Sex & Relationship Therapist & the founder & principal practitioner of SexWit, with over 25 years experience. Are you seeking guidance in your sex life, grappling with sexual difficulties, relationships, mental health or dating experiences? Do you wish to enhance trust, connection, communication, eroticism, vitality, or find greater life purpose? Zoë offers years of wisdom, knowledge, & useful tools to help you enrich or transform your life, within a safe, sex-positive & empathic space. We are currently accepting new referrals & clients as of 5 January 2024.
Zoë is a registered & experienced Clinical Sexologist, Psychotherapist, Sex & Relationship Therapist & the founder & principal practitioner of SexWit, with over 25 years experience. Are you seeking guidance in your sex life, grappling with sexual difficulties, relationships, mental health or dating experiences? Do you wish to enhance trust, connection, communication, eroticism, vitality, or find greater life purpose? Zoë offers years of wisdom, knowledge, & useful tools to help you enrich or transform your life, within a safe, sex-positive & empathic space. We are currently accepting new referrals & clients as of 5 January 2024.
(08) 9126 9400 View (08) 9126 9400
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Stickbymecounselling - Johanna
Counsellor, MA, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Perth, WA 6000
She creates a secure environment and encourages people to explore their relationships, sexuality, and wants.
Johanna focuses on working with singles, couples, and families. She also works with men's sexual health difficulties, delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, and out-of-control sexual behaviours like porn addiction in addition to family therapy, fertility challenges, and low libido, women's sexual health issues, including preconceptions and conception, hypoactive sexual desire disorder .Johanna is sex worker friendly. Johanna is capable of working with poly/open partnerships and is LGBTQ, kink, and fetish friendly. Johanna also works with clients of the NDIS.
She creates a secure environment and encourages people to explore their relationships, sexuality, and wants.
Johanna focuses on working with singles, couples, and families. She also works with men's sexual health difficulties, delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, and out-of-control sexual behaviours like porn addiction in addition to family therapy, fertility challenges, and low libido, women's sexual health issues, including preconceptions and conception, hypoactive sexual desire disorder .Johanna is sex worker friendly. Johanna is capable of working with poly/open partnerships and is LGBTQ, kink, and fetish friendly. Johanna also works with clients of the NDIS.
(02) 9100 0121 View (02) 9100 0121
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Sex and Relationship Therapist | Mim Kempson
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
South Fremantle, WA 6162
As a Sexologist and Registered Counsellor, I support individuals and couples facing challenges in sex, communication, dating, libido, FIFO relationships, neurodiversity (ADHD/ASD), family stresses, sexual difficulties/pain, codependency, healing from betrayal, ENM/polyamory, and more. I work with LGBTQ+ people and anyone feeling constrained or exhausted by the pressures to have a certain kind of marriage/relationship, income, family, career, appearance, to behave in a certain way, and be a certain person.
As a Sexologist and Registered Counsellor, I support individuals and couples facing challenges in sex, communication, dating, libido, FIFO relationships, neurodiversity (ADHD/ASD), family stresses, sexual difficulties/pain, codependency, healing from betrayal, ENM/polyamory, and more. I work with LGBTQ+ people and anyone feeling constrained or exhausted by the pressures to have a certain kind of marriage/relationship, income, family, career, appearance, to behave in a certain way, and be a certain person.
(08) 7079 5667 View (08) 7079 5667
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Rhiannon Derrig
Psychotherapist, MSc, PACFA
Verified Verified
Perth, WA 6000
As a therapist, I deeply value sex positivity, social justice and removing the stigma and social constraints surrounding mental health work.
As a clincial psychotherapist and registered psychosexual therapist, I specialise in helping individuals with trauma and PTSD, self-esteem issues, relationship issues, and sexual difficulties, including intimacy and trust. I am also passionate about providing support for navigating gendered, sexual, racial, and neuro diversity, and cultural identities, who may experience discrimination or internalised stigma. Centering unconditional positive regard, I work closely with the client to deeply explore how their past experiences, current situations, family background, and social elements of their lives have impacted their wellbeing.
As a therapist, I deeply value sex positivity, social justice and removing the stigma and social constraints surrounding mental health work.
As a clincial psychotherapist and registered psychosexual therapist, I specialise in helping individuals with trauma and PTSD, self-esteem issues, relationship issues, and sexual difficulties, including intimacy and trust. I am also passionate about providing support for navigating gendered, sexual, racial, and neuro diversity, and cultural identities, who may experience discrimination or internalised stigma. Centering unconditional positive regard, I work closely with the client to deeply explore how their past experiences, current situations, family background, and social elements of their lives have impacted their wellbeing.
(02) 9100 0199 View (02) 9100 0199
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Clinton Power
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
Perth, WA 6000
I provide sex therapy for individual and couple sexual issues and I’m experienced in working with LGBT and same-sex couples.
Can you relate to either of these statements? “I’m so over hurtful relationships. I’m starting to think I’ll be single forever” "We can’t keep fighting like this. If something doesn’t change we’re headed for a breakup” If you can relate to the pain of struggling in a relationship, you’re not alone. If you’re an individual in relationship pain, I can help you overcome your past relationship hurts, understand your blocks to intimacy, and help you create a successful long-term relationship. If you’re a couple, I can help you resolve long-standing issues and rebuild the loving, intimate and harmonious relationship you once had.
I provide sex therapy for individual and couple sexual issues and I’m experienced in working with LGBT and same-sex couples.
Can you relate to either of these statements? “I’m so over hurtful relationships. I’m starting to think I’ll be single forever” "We can’t keep fighting like this. If something doesn’t change we’re headed for a breakup” If you can relate to the pain of struggling in a relationship, you’re not alone. If you’re an individual in relationship pain, I can help you overcome your past relationship hurts, understand your blocks to intimacy, and help you create a successful long-term relationship. If you’re a couple, I can help you resolve long-standing issues and rebuild the loving, intimate and harmonious relationship you once had.
(02) 8188 3842 View (02) 8188 3842

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Sex Therapy Counsellors

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.