Emotionally Focused Counselling in Wooloowin, QLD

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Soma & Sage by Sexologist Sage Wilde
Counsellor, PACFA
Serves Area
Want better personal and sexual relationships? Soma & Sage (body and wisdom) was founded by sexologist and relationship counsellor Sage Wilde, to help people with their sexual wellbeing and relationship goals. Sage works with individuals and couples, providing sex therapy and relationship counselling. She guides and educates people to feel empowered about their personal and sexual relationships. As a certified sexologist, sex therapist and relationship counsellor, Sage can help you build greater intimacy, deeper connections and stronger relationships.
Want better personal and sexual relationships? Soma & Sage (body and wisdom) was founded by sexologist and relationship counsellor Sage Wilde, to help people with their sexual wellbeing and relationship goals. Sage works with individuals and couples, providing sex therapy and relationship counselling. She guides and educates people to feel empowered about their personal and sexual relationships. As a certified sexologist, sex therapist and relationship counsellor, Sage can help you build greater intimacy, deeper connections and stronger relationships.
(07) 2100 4415 View (07) 2100 4415
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Caitlin - Cathartic Collaborations
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AMHSW
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
Waitlist for new clients
You may be a late-identified Autistic or ADHD adult, feeling burnt out, overwhelmed, or disconnected after years of masking and misattunement. You’re navigating big questions around identity, self-worth, and how to live in a way that feels authentic and sustainable. You want a therapist who sees the whole of you—not as a diagnosis, but as a complex and creative person. Together, we’ll create a space that honours your neurodivergence, supports your healing, and helps you build a life that fits you.
You may be a late-identified Autistic or ADHD adult, feeling burnt out, overwhelmed, or disconnected after years of masking and misattunement. You’re navigating big questions around identity, self-worth, and how to live in a way that feels authentic and sustainable. You want a therapist who sees the whole of you—not as a diagnosis, but as a complex and creative person. Together, we’ll create a space that honours your neurodivergence, supports your healing, and helps you build a life that fits you.
(07) 3130 0244 View (07) 3130 0244

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Cassandra Keel
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA General
Mount Cotton, QLD 4165
Now offering somatic techniques ( EFT, tapping) for those clients interested in this, please enquire.
Hi, I'm Cassandra, and I'm here to support you in creating meaningful change. As a psychologist, my priority is to establish a safe and compassionate environment where we can effectively address the challenges you're facing, at a pace that feels right for you. I work with individuals experiencing a variety of concerns, including anxiety, stress, burnout, relationship difficulties, depression, trauma, and significant life transitions. My practice is built on a foundation of evidence-based therapies, thoughtfully integrated with an intuitive understanding of your unique situation.
Now offering somatic techniques ( EFT, tapping) for those clients interested in this, please enquire.
Hi, I'm Cassandra, and I'm here to support you in creating meaningful change. As a psychologist, my priority is to establish a safe and compassionate environment where we can effectively address the challenges you're facing, at a pace that feels right for you. I work with individuals experiencing a variety of concerns, including anxiety, stress, burnout, relationship difficulties, depression, trauma, and significant life transitions. My practice is built on a foundation of evidence-based therapies, thoughtfully integrated with an intuitive understanding of your unique situation.
(07) 2801 5205 View (07) 2801 5205
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mjdCounselling
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Kallangur, QLD 4503
Utilising a range of proven techniques— from (CBT) Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, (NLP), ( EFT) , Person Centered, and mindfulness to name just a few.
Whatever the Issue It doesn’t matter where you’re from, how old you are, life has a way of getting heavy sometimes. Having a warm, judgment-free space to talk things through can make a world of difference. And if that’s not quite enough, there are many gentle, supportive ways to help guide you through, bringing light even to the darkest times
Utilising a range of proven techniques— from (CBT) Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, (NLP), ( EFT) , Person Centered, and mindfulness to name just a few.
Whatever the Issue It doesn’t matter where you’re from, how old you are, life has a way of getting heavy sometimes. Having a warm, judgment-free space to talk things through can make a world of difference. And if that’s not quite enough, there are many gentle, supportive ways to help guide you through, bringing light even to the darkest times
(07) 3113 9332 View (07) 3113 9332
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Alpha Ponce
Psychotherapist, MA
2 Endorsed
West End, QLD 4101
Diploma in Counselling, Master's in Gestalt Psychotherapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems, Family Constellations, somatic therapy Compassionate Inquiry.
Holistic trauma-informed therapist. Have you suffered emotional trauma, and do you think this is holding you back from living your best life? I specialise in helping individuals heal from the impacts of childhood trauma, including emotional, sexual, physical, and narcissistic abuse, as well as abandonment. I can guide you toward greater self-confidence, self-assurance, happiness, connection with your authenticity, and healthier relationships, ultimately enhancing your quality of life and empowering you to make your dreams come true. Please Visit my website and contact me for a free 15-minute consultation
Diploma in Counselling, Master's in Gestalt Psychotherapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, Internal Family Systems, Family Constellations, somatic therapy Compassionate Inquiry.
Holistic trauma-informed therapist. Have you suffered emotional trauma, and do you think this is holding you back from living your best life? I specialise in helping individuals heal from the impacts of childhood trauma, including emotional, sexual, physical, and narcissistic abuse, as well as abandonment. I can guide you toward greater self-confidence, self-assurance, happiness, connection with your authenticity, and healthier relationships, ultimately enhancing your quality of life and empowering you to make your dreams come true. Please Visit my website and contact me for a free 15-minute consultation
(07) 2100 4837 View (07) 2100 4837
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Whole-Hearted Relationships
Psychotherapist, MA, PACFA
Brisbane City, QLD 4000
I offer an integrative blend informed by attachment theory, Emotionally Focused Therapy, parts work, and psychodynamic exploration.
Are you and your partner feeling more like housemates than lovers, struggling to connect, or caught in the same arguments without resolution? Maybe things look fine from the outside, but inside, there's a quiet distance growing. Or perhaps you've been moving from one relationship to the next, always chasing closeness but never quite feeling safe. If you’re starting to wonder whether it’s too late to repair—don’t wait. Whether you’re in a relationship or navigating relational patterns on your own, I’m here to support your process. Seeking help is an act of courage—and you deserve support in creating the love you long for.
I offer an integrative blend informed by attachment theory, Emotionally Focused Therapy, parts work, and psychodynamic exploration.
Are you and your partner feeling more like housemates than lovers, struggling to connect, or caught in the same arguments without resolution? Maybe things look fine from the outside, but inside, there's a quiet distance growing. Or perhaps you've been moving from one relationship to the next, always chasing closeness but never quite feeling safe. If you’re starting to wonder whether it’s too late to repair—don’t wait. Whether you’re in a relationship or navigating relational patterns on your own, I’m here to support your process. Seeking help is an act of courage—and you deserve support in creating the love you long for.
(03) 8797 2621 View (03) 8797 2621
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Bradley Benson
Counsellor
1 Endorsed
Clayfield, QLD 4011
My approach is rooted in evidence-based techniques such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), mindfulness practices, and narrative/person-centered therapy, Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy for Trauma and Gottman Couples Therapy.
I offer a supportive environment to explore communication patterns, intimacy issues, and conflict resolution strategies. In working with LGBTQIA+ individuals, I provide a safe and affirming space to address identity, relationships, and the unique challenges faced within the community.
My approach is rooted in evidence-based techniques such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), mindfulness practices, and narrative/person-centered therapy, Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy for Trauma and Gottman Couples Therapy.
I offer a supportive environment to explore communication patterns, intimacy issues, and conflict resolution strategies. In working with LGBTQIA+ individuals, I provide a safe and affirming space to address identity, relationships, and the unique challenges faced within the community.
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Bronwyn Bickle
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Serves Area
It is for this reason that I work in a wide variety of modalities, from attachment to grief, EFT to ACT, family systems and parts work.
Hi, I'm Bronwyn. I specialize in ethical non-monogamy (ENM), chronic illness, and neurodivergence – and I hold safe, affirming space for LGBTQIA+, kink, and BDSM communities. I authored the book; The Beginner’s Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy; and I’m known as The Polyamory Practitioner on Insta – but most importantly, I’m someone who listens without judgment and holds space for my clients to be seen, heard and understood. Whether you're navigating relationship dynamics, unpacking jealousy or figuring out how to set boundaries; I'm here to support you.
It is for this reason that I work in a wide variety of modalities, from attachment to grief, EFT to ACT, family systems and parts work.
Hi, I'm Bronwyn. I specialize in ethical non-monogamy (ENM), chronic illness, and neurodivergence – and I hold safe, affirming space for LGBTQIA+, kink, and BDSM communities. I authored the book; The Beginner’s Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy; and I’m known as The Polyamory Practitioner on Insta – but most importantly, I’m someone who listens without judgment and holds space for my clients to be seen, heard and understood. Whether you're navigating relationship dynamics, unpacking jealousy or figuring out how to set boundaries; I'm here to support you.
(08) 7523 4519 View (08) 7523 4519
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Sasha Brittain
Counsellor, MC, ACA-L2
Online Only
I integrate a range of evidence-based therapeutic approaches such as ACT, Attachment-focused Therapy, CPT, Narrative Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, The Gottman Method and somatic practices.
My name is Sasha Brittain, and I'm a master's degree qualified ACA registered counsellor and the director of Empathic Counselling. Empathic Counselling is a counselling private practice for adults, that specialises in complex trauma therapy, and relationship support. I provide a safe and non-judgemental space, taking a holistic, trauma-informed and non-pathologising approach with clients.
I integrate a range of evidence-based therapeutic approaches such as ACT, Attachment-focused Therapy, CPT, Narrative Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy, The Gottman Method and somatic practices.
My name is Sasha Brittain, and I'm a master's degree qualified ACA registered counsellor and the director of Empathic Counselling. Empathic Counselling is a counselling private practice for adults, that specialises in complex trauma therapy, and relationship support. I provide a safe and non-judgemental space, taking a holistic, trauma-informed and non-pathologising approach with clients.
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Wendy Rosa Bas
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Online Only
As a counsellor using an Emotionally Focused Therapy approach, we will dive into the emotions driving your relationship struggles and create a safe space for both partners to feel heard.
Struggling in your intimate relationship(s)? Whether you're navigating ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, polyamory, or kink dynamics, you're not alone - and you don’t have to figure it out by yourself. I’m a queer, pansexual, polyamorous counsellor (she/her) living an ENM lifestyle, and I bring both lived and professional experience to this work. I offer a safe, affirming space where your unique needs, values, and relationship structures are deeply respected. My approach is warm, non-judgemental, and empowering - I’m here to help you show up fully as yourself while building the kind of connections that feel right for you.
As a counsellor using an Emotionally Focused Therapy approach, we will dive into the emotions driving your relationship struggles and create a safe space for both partners to feel heard.
Struggling in your intimate relationship(s)? Whether you're navigating ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, polyamory, or kink dynamics, you're not alone - and you don’t have to figure it out by yourself. I’m a queer, pansexual, polyamorous counsellor (she/her) living an ENM lifestyle, and I bring both lived and professional experience to this work. I offer a safe, affirming space where your unique needs, values, and relationship structures are deeply respected. My approach is warm, non-judgemental, and empowering - I’m here to help you show up fully as yourself while building the kind of connections that feel right for you.
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Dr Stephanie Azri
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, PhD, AMHSW
Beenleigh, QLD 4207
I equally focus on preventive work through Gottman sessions, EFT, and sex and kink positive approaches.
Couples with issues around sexual dysfunction, mismatched libidos, affair recovery, venturing into the kink world or negotiating boundaries in that world, communication difficulties, sexual identity exploration, parenting, pregnancy and everything in between when it comes to women, men, teenage girls, couples and individuals navigating life's tricky issues. Dr Azri also offers EMDR for trauma related work one on one.
I equally focus on preventive work through Gottman sessions, EFT, and sex and kink positive approaches.
Couples with issues around sexual dysfunction, mismatched libidos, affair recovery, venturing into the kink world or negotiating boundaries in that world, communication difficulties, sexual identity exploration, parenting, pregnancy and everything in between when it comes to women, men, teenage girls, couples and individuals navigating life's tricky issues. Dr Azri also offers EMDR for trauma related work one on one.
(07) 2801 7385 View (07) 2801 7385
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Michelle Engel
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA General
Spring Hill, QLD 4000
It may include Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFIT), Mindfulness Therapies, Psychodynamic Therapy, Somatic Therapies, ACT, CBT, DBT, and Self Compassion.
Hi, I'm Michelle. I am a holistic clinical psychologist dedicated to creating a calm and healing space for women where they can feel safe, heard and understood. I can help with depression and low mood, anxiety, perimenopause and menopause support, life transitions, complex trauma and loss, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem and eating disorders.
It may include Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFIT), Mindfulness Therapies, Psychodynamic Therapy, Somatic Therapies, ACT, CBT, DBT, and Self Compassion.
Hi, I'm Michelle. I am a holistic clinical psychologist dedicated to creating a calm and healing space for women where they can feel safe, heard and understood. I can help with depression and low mood, anxiety, perimenopause and menopause support, life transitions, complex trauma and loss, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem and eating disorders.
(07) 3130 0513 View (07) 3130 0513
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Phoebe Lovett
Psychotherapist, MPsych, PACFA
3 Endorsed
Online Only
With a trauma and attachment informed lens, I lean on Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotion Focused Therapy ( EFT), EMDR and other suitable models for your particular needs.
Many of us feel like we are not good enough, overwhelmed by love, or afraid to be truly seen. We may long to connect with our partners but fear rejection, feel intense anger, or find ourselves constantly pleasing others to feel worthy. These struggles can leave us feeling anxious, disconnected, or stuck. But these feelings aren’t who we are — they’re parts of us trying to protect us from pain or danger, shaped by our past. These parts of us are trying to keep us safe, even if their methods feel overwhelming. I can provide opportunities to gently explore, connect to and understand these parts and their underlaying pain.
With a trauma and attachment informed lens, I lean on Internal Family Systems (IFS), Emotion Focused Therapy ( EFT), EMDR and other suitable models for your particular needs.
Many of us feel like we are not good enough, overwhelmed by love, or afraid to be truly seen. We may long to connect with our partners but fear rejection, feel intense anger, or find ourselves constantly pleasing others to feel worthy. These struggles can leave us feeling anxious, disconnected, or stuck. But these feelings aren’t who we are — they’re parts of us trying to protect us from pain or danger, shaped by our past. These parts of us are trying to keep us safe, even if their methods feel overwhelming. I can provide opportunities to gently explore, connect to and understand these parts and their underlaying pain.
(08) 6171 3161 View (08) 6171 3161
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Rachael Bellair
Psychologist, PhD, PsyBA Endorsed
Grange, QLD 4051
I have a special interest in couples and relationship therapy, utilising evidence-based approaches such as the Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Emotionally Focused Therapy to help people improve communication and increase physical and emotional intimacy.
I like to work collaboratively with people to help them reach their goals using evidence-based therapeutic approaches. I utilise approaches such as the Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT), CBT-E, SSCM, MANTRA, Schema Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT).
I have a special interest in couples and relationship therapy, utilising evidence-based approaches such as the Gottman Method Couples Therapy and Emotionally Focused Therapy to help people improve communication and increase physical and emotional intimacy.
I like to work collaboratively with people to help them reach their goals using evidence-based therapeutic approaches. I utilise approaches such as the Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Emotionally Focused Therapy ( EFT), CBT-E, SSCM, MANTRA, Schema Therapy and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT).
(07) 4847 6742 View (07) 4847 6742
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Jess Hodges
Psychotherapist, MA, PACFA
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I have further trained in DARe (attachment re-programing), EFT, DBT and Expressive Therapy,
Do you feel overwhelmed, exhausted or struggling with motivation? Do you have sensitivities that leave you feeling judged by others, or misunderstood? Do you experience stuck patterns of behaviour that effect your ability to feel satisfaction in life and in relationships? Do you feel pressure to conform to societal norms and expectations, which leaves you feeling "othered" and isolated? I see you! You are not alone and you don't have to work this out by yourself. Together we can explore your lived experience and the many ways it impacts your sense of self, worthiness and belonging.
I have further trained in DARe (attachment re-programing), EFT, DBT and Expressive Therapy,
Do you feel overwhelmed, exhausted or struggling with motivation? Do you have sensitivities that leave you feeling judged by others, or misunderstood? Do you experience stuck patterns of behaviour that effect your ability to feel satisfaction in life and in relationships? Do you feel pressure to conform to societal norms and expectations, which leaves you feeling "othered" and isolated? I see you! You are not alone and you don't have to work this out by yourself. Together we can explore your lived experience and the many ways it impacts your sense of self, worthiness and belonging.
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Kirstie Elliott
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA General
North Lakes, QLD 4509
I draw on a range of evidence-based therapies, including attachment-based psychotherapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Interpersonal Therapy (IPT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Schema-Informed Therapy, and Emotion-Focused Therapy ( EFT)
I have a special interest in working with clientele across the lifespan, navigating various life stages and challenges through an attachment-based lens. My work centers on supporting individuals in developing secure and meaningful relationships, whether in parenting, family dynamics, or intimate connections. I help adolescents and adults explore how early attachment experiences shape emotional regulation, self-worth, and relational patterns, particularly in managing anger, anxiety, and depression.
I draw on a range of evidence-based therapies, including attachment-based psychotherapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), Interpersonal Therapy (IPT), Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT), Schema-Informed Therapy, and Emotion-Focused Therapy ( EFT)
I have a special interest in working with clientele across the lifespan, navigating various life stages and challenges through an attachment-based lens. My work centers on supporting individuals in developing secure and meaningful relationships, whether in parenting, family dynamics, or intimate connections. I help adolescents and adults explore how early attachment experiences shape emotional regulation, self-worth, and relational patterns, particularly in managing anger, anxiety, and depression.
(07) 3608 1412 View (07) 3608 1412
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Phoenix Connection Therapy
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AASW
Alderley, QLD 4051
I apply Trauma-Focused CBT, EFT, ACT, DBT, IFS and Narrative therapeutic modalities.
I’m a passionate trauma-focused therapist, registered social worker, and member of the LGBTIQA+ community. Drawing from my own lived experience of trauma recovery, I deeply understand the challenges my clients face and recognise how important it is to sit with someone who gets it. Trauma can disrupt our sense of self, relationships, and how we connect with the world around us. My goal is to provide a safe, compassionate, and supportive space where you can heal, find your inner strength and resilience, and reconnect with yourself on a deeper level.
I apply Trauma-Focused CBT, EFT, ACT, DBT, IFS and Narrative therapeutic modalities.
I’m a passionate trauma-focused therapist, registered social worker, and member of the LGBTIQA+ community. Drawing from my own lived experience of trauma recovery, I deeply understand the challenges my clients face and recognise how important it is to sit with someone who gets it. Trauma can disrupt our sense of self, relationships, and how we connect with the world around us. My goal is to provide a safe, compassionate, and supportive space where you can heal, find your inner strength and resilience, and reconnect with yourself on a deeper level.
(07) 3130 0544 View (07) 3130 0544
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Maxwell & Moore Psychology
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Coorparoo, QLD 4151
Our psychologists have experience in mild, moderate and severe mental health presentations, couples therapy, Schema Therapy, EMDR, and Attachment based interventions, CBT, ACT, EFT available.
Maxwell & Moore Psychology is a retreat-styled private practice, curated to bring you relaxation, warmth and support. We are Brisbane psychologists who are experienced mental health professionals with a passion for bringing together evidence based treatment and a warm, understanding approach to therapy & wellbeing. We work with adolescents aged 9+, adults and couples. 07 3559 2060.
Our psychologists have experience in mild, moderate and severe mental health presentations, couples therapy, Schema Therapy, EMDR, and Attachment based interventions, CBT, ACT, EFT available.
Maxwell & Moore Psychology is a retreat-styled private practice, curated to bring you relaxation, warmth and support. We are Brisbane psychologists who are experienced mental health professionals with a passion for bringing together evidence based treatment and a warm, understanding approach to therapy & wellbeing. We work with adolescents aged 9+, adults and couples. 07 3559 2060.
(07) 2100 4672 View (07) 2100 4672
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Wisemind & Body
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Serves Area
Therapies Practised but not limited to: CBT, DBT, ACT, Mindfulness, EFT tapping, Somatic Therapy, IFST, Trauma-informed therapy, schema therapy, and more!
Wisemind & Body Clinicians work with children, adolescents, adults, families and organisations across various presentations. We aim to create a safe space for each individual and assist them through a warm, empathetic, and Trauma-informed approach while building and maintaining a strong therapeutic alliance with each of our clients. We ensure that each client's presentation is entailed towards them and provide various evidence-based interventions with achievable treatment plans to have the best possible outcomes for clients for any presentation, concerns, or goals they may have. Call us now on or email us!
Therapies Practised but not limited to: CBT, DBT, ACT, Mindfulness, EFT tapping, Somatic Therapy, IFST, Trauma-informed therapy, schema therapy, and more!
Wisemind & Body Clinicians work with children, adolescents, adults, families and organisations across various presentations. We aim to create a safe space for each individual and assist them through a warm, empathetic, and Trauma-informed approach while building and maintaining a strong therapeutic alliance with each of our clients. We ensure that each client's presentation is entailed towards them and provide various evidence-based interventions with achievable treatment plans to have the best possible outcomes for clients for any presentation, concerns, or goals they may have. Call us now on or email us!
(07) 2801 6810 View (07) 2801 6810
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Joanna Marie Rossetti
Counsellor, PACFA
Red Hill, QLD 4059
For relationship work, I use Emotionally Focused Therapy to help you create the secure base and safe haven that we all need as human beings.
I love working with individuals and couples to help them understand themselves and each other better, and to change the negative patterns that both cause and result from attachment distress. Together we can make sense of what goes wrong and help you heal and change the negative patterns that get you stuck, whether within yourself or with others. Sometimes this may involve creating enough safety to help you recognise and process past relational or attachment trauma. Sometimes it can involve recognising and exploring the experience of living with neurology that works differently than that of the majority of people.
For relationship work, I use Emotionally Focused Therapy to help you create the secure base and safe haven that we all need as human beings.
I love working with individuals and couples to help them understand themselves and each other better, and to change the negative patterns that both cause and result from attachment distress. Together we can make sense of what goes wrong and help you heal and change the negative patterns that get you stuck, whether within yourself or with others. Sometimes this may involve creating enough safety to help you recognise and process past relational or attachment trauma. Sometimes it can involve recognising and exploring the experience of living with neurology that works differently than that of the majority of people.
(07) 3130 0665 View (07) 3130 0665
Emotionally Focused Counsellors

Who is emotionally focused therapy for?

Emotionally focused therapy (EFT) is for couples who are emotionally distressed, stuck in an unsatisfying relationship pattern or feeling deeply alienated. They may even believe the relationship is beyond repair. Very often, the partners display intense anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal in the relationship. In addition, EFT is helpful to couples and individuals who have difficulty expressing emotions and those who have trouble regulating emotions.

Why do people need emotionally focused therapy?

People need emotionally focused therapy because the need for others is built into the brain, but the pressures of daily life can erode feelings of love, and couples often do not have the skills to find their way back to the comfort of each other. Instead, they may be stuck in repetitive patterns of anger, fear, grief, loss of trust, or a sense of betrayal. Emotionally focused therapy regards such strong negative feelings as expressions of protest over the loss of connection and turns them into pathways of reconnection.

What happens in emotionally focused therapy?

Over the course of eight to 20 weekly sessions, couples de-escalate their negative emotional reactivity to one another so that they can listen to each other and be responsive to each other’s needs. Then the deep emotional and physical bond is restored, giving partners a sense of comfort and security, which they can use to solve whatever problems come their way. The therapist plays an active role, helping partners understand how anger and withdrawal are actually misguided cries for connection.

What problems does emotionally focused therapy treat?

EFT is designed to help couples stuck in dysfunctional relationship patterns regain closeness and rebuild their relationship. Typically, such couples experience considerable distress, with partners feeling alienated and distrustful of one another, not certain their relationship can survive. EFT is also helpful to individuals experiencing attachment-related fears of loss; it helps them learn to use their fears as a way of eliciting the closeness they desire.