Gottman Method Counselling in Sans Souci, NSW

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Positive Thinking Clinic
Psychotherapist, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
“Everybody is important; everybody deserves to live their best life. I am here to help you connect with yourself and others, to solve your requests as quickly and effectively as possible, in a way that is long lasting and sustainable”. Her approach is unique. She integrates therapies and customises them to suit the needs of the client. She aims to work with clients to co-create individually tailored and sustainable solutions. Amanda’s interventions aim to address the important relationship between the mind and body. She enjoys helping clients attain a greater wellbeing.
“Everybody is important; everybody deserves to live their best life. I am here to help you connect with yourself and others, to solve your requests as quickly and effectively as possible, in a way that is long lasting and sustainable”. Her approach is unique. She integrates therapies and customises them to suit the needs of the client. She aims to work with clients to co-create individually tailored and sustainable solutions. Amanda’s interventions aim to address the important relationship between the mind and body. She enjoys helping clients attain a greater wellbeing.
(02) 8294 5710 View (02) 8294 5710
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Anthony Colantuono
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AMHSW
Verified Verified
Serves Area
Counselling sessions with me are non-judgmental, kind, empathic and confidential. I utilise Medicare approved focused psychological strategies and recovery-based principles. This includes, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Dialectic Behaviour Therapy, Mindfulness, Trauma informed principles, Interpersonal Psychotherapy and EMDR. A Counsellor should be appropriately qualified, genuine and authentic to facilitate a therapeutic alliance which should help you with moving forward with life. Working with the mind's plasticity takes due care and skill. I strictly adhere to the AASW code of ethics.
Counselling sessions with me are non-judgmental, kind, empathic and confidential. I utilise Medicare approved focused psychological strategies and recovery-based principles. This includes, Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Dialectic Behaviour Therapy, Mindfulness, Trauma informed principles, Interpersonal Psychotherapy and EMDR. A Counsellor should be appropriately qualified, genuine and authentic to facilitate a therapeutic alliance which should help you with moving forward with life. Working with the mind's plasticity takes due care and skill. I strictly adhere to the AASW code of ethics.
(02) 9538 7967 View (02) 9538 7967

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Areti Alexova
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Serves Area
I specialise in helping individuals and couples thrive, drawing from the Gottman Method, ACT, and person-centered therapy.
My ideal clients are those seeking meaningful personal growth and improved relationships. They may face challenges in their personal lives, relationships, or work but are motivated to make positive changes. Whether working individually or as a couple, they value a supportive space to explore their feelings, develop new skills, and build resilience. They want to foster deeper connections and personal fulfilment through evidence-based approaches and empathetic guidance.
I specialise in helping individuals and couples thrive, drawing from the Gottman Method, ACT, and person-centered therapy.
My ideal clients are those seeking meaningful personal growth and improved relationships. They may face challenges in their personal lives, relationships, or work but are motivated to make positive changes. Whether working individually or as a couple, they value a supportive space to explore their feelings, develop new skills, and build resilience. They want to foster deeper connections and personal fulfilment through evidence-based approaches and empathetic guidance.
(03) 5910 1113 View (03) 5910 1113
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Tam Korodi
Counsellor, MSc
Verified Verified
Online Only
I tailor therapy to each client's needs and mix techniques and tools from Cognitive-Behavioural therapy, Acceptance and Commitment therapy, Schema therapy, and Gottman Method.
Life happens... Sometimes we all need extra help. Hi, I’m Tam – an online therapist specializing in anxiety, panic attacks, adult ADHD, addictions, and offering support through stressful or traumatic life events (such as the loss of a loved one, divorce, trauma, illness, career pressure, relationship challenges, and dating issues).
I tailor therapy to each client's needs and mix techniques and tools from Cognitive-Behavioural therapy, Acceptance and Commitment therapy, Schema therapy, and Gottman Method.
Life happens... Sometimes we all need extra help. Hi, I’m Tam – an online therapist specializing in anxiety, panic attacks, adult ADHD, addictions, and offering support through stressful or traumatic life events (such as the loss of a loved one, divorce, trauma, illness, career pressure, relationship challenges, and dating issues).
(02) 9100 0706 View (02) 9100 0706
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Bryan McDade
Counsellor, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Camden, NSW 2570
I specialise in the Gottman Method for relationship counselling, Narrative Therapy, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.
As a registered counsellor, I specialise in providing support to individuals who are going through emotional distress or seeking to explore their psychological concerns. My clients often face challenges in their relationships and are seeking guidance on how to navigate uncomfortable situations. They also express an interest in understanding how the narratives they tell themselves shape their lives, and how their daily interactions can influence those narratives. I am committed to helping my clients unpack their issues and gain a better understanding of themselves.
I specialise in the Gottman Method for relationship counselling, Narrative Therapy, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.
As a registered counsellor, I specialise in providing support to individuals who are going through emotional distress or seeking to explore their psychological concerns. My clients often face challenges in their relationships and are seeking guidance on how to navigate uncomfortable situations. They also express an interest in understanding how the narratives they tell themselves shape their lives, and how their daily interactions can influence those narratives. I am committed to helping my clients unpack their issues and gain a better understanding of themselves.
(02) 4214 8126 View (02) 4214 8126
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Staghorn Sexology
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AASW
Verified Verified
Penrith, NSW 2747
Our relationship work is influenced by Gottman Method Couple Therapy, EFT and CCBT.
We provide counselling specialising in the following areas: psychosexual therapy for sexual problems such as erectile dysfunction, performance anxieties, ejaculatory disorders, painful sex and mismatched/low libido; relationship counselling; individual counselling especially around gender/sexual orientation issues, trauma and anxiety/depression. We have special interest in men's health, ageing sexuality, sexual function after cancer diagnosis/treatment, infidelity, sexual trauma and gay/lesbian/queer relationships including consensual non-monogamy.
Our relationship work is influenced by Gottman Method Couple Therapy, EFT and CCBT.
We provide counselling specialising in the following areas: psychosexual therapy for sexual problems such as erectile dysfunction, performance anxieties, ejaculatory disorders, painful sex and mismatched/low libido; relationship counselling; individual counselling especially around gender/sexual orientation issues, trauma and anxiety/depression. We have special interest in men's health, ageing sexuality, sexual function after cancer diagnosis/treatment, infidelity, sexual trauma and gay/lesbian/queer relationships including consensual non-monogamy.
(02) 4063 1410 View (02) 4063 1410
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Couples Counselling Inner West Sydney
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Lewisham, NSW 2049
For couple counselling, I use the Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) approach (my main approach) and also the Gottman Method.
Hi, I'm Tamara Pallos and my area of expertise is relationship therapy. I work both with couples, wanting to resolve relationship difficulties, and with individuals looking to overcome blocks to having more fulfilling relationships. I can help with the full range of couple relationship problems, including conflict and communication issues, affairs or other breaches of trust, distance in the relationship, sexual difficulties, and issues with in-laws or extended family. I also support individuals to build thriving relationships through developing healthier patterns of relating.
For couple counselling, I use the Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) approach (my main approach) and also the Gottman Method.
Hi, I'm Tamara Pallos and my area of expertise is relationship therapy. I work both with couples, wanting to resolve relationship difficulties, and with individuals looking to overcome blocks to having more fulfilling relationships. I can help with the full range of couple relationship problems, including conflict and communication issues, affairs or other breaches of trust, distance in the relationship, sexual difficulties, and issues with in-laws or extended family. I also support individuals to build thriving relationships through developing healthier patterns of relating.
(02) 9100 0964 View (02) 9100 0964
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Susi West
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000
While I use a variety of approaches at different phases of treatment which support clients to stabilise, connect, heal and grow, such as DBT, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Psychodynamic Psychotherapy & Parts work, my intention for every session is to meet you where you at and offer the kind of relationship that will be supportive of your evolution.
I work primarily with folks who’re struggling in their relationships. Mostly, I work with romantic partners, but also with mothers & daughters, business partners, friends and individuals. My clients typically have difficulties in communicating effectively with others, especially during conflict when they’re feeling all the feelings. Clients also often approach me because they’ve been betrayed in relationship. Sometimes, there’s been an affair, an experience of sexual assault, or an unexpected separation...
While I use a variety of approaches at different phases of treatment which support clients to stabilise, connect, heal and grow, such as DBT, Gottman Method Couples Therapy, Psychodynamic Psychotherapy & Parts work, my intention for every session is to meet you where you at and offer the kind of relationship that will be supportive of your evolution.
I work primarily with folks who’re struggling in their relationships. Mostly, I work with romantic partners, but also with mothers & daughters, business partners, friends and individuals. My clients typically have difficulties in communicating effectively with others, especially during conflict when they’re feeling all the feelings. Clients also often approach me because they’ve been betrayed in relationship. Sometimes, there’s been an affair, an experience of sexual assault, or an unexpected separation...
(02) 5118 9041 View (02) 5118 9041
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Grief Talk- Mariam Middleton
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, AASW
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Trained in CBT, DBT, Acceptance Commitment Therapy, Gottman Method Couple's Therapy.
At Grief Talk, Mariam offers individual counselling sessions, support groups, and workshops to individuals of all ages and backgrounds. Whether someone has experienced the loss of a loved one, the end of a significant relationship, or any other form of profound loss, Mariam provides unwavering support and guidance through the healing process. Mariam empowers her clients to navigate the complex emotions of grief, fostering resilience, self-compassion, and personal growth. She helps individuals develop healthy coping strategies, gain a deeper understanding of their emotions, and find meaning and purpose in their lives once again.
Trained in CBT, DBT, Acceptance Commitment Therapy, Gottman Method Couple's Therapy.
At Grief Talk, Mariam offers individual counselling sessions, support groups, and workshops to individuals of all ages and backgrounds. Whether someone has experienced the loss of a loved one, the end of a significant relationship, or any other form of profound loss, Mariam provides unwavering support and guidance through the healing process. Mariam empowers her clients to navigate the complex emotions of grief, fostering resilience, self-compassion, and personal growth. She helps individuals develop healthy coping strategies, gain a deeper understanding of their emotions, and find meaning and purpose in their lives once again.
(02) 9100 0757 View (02) 9100 0757
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Arzu Aksu Chapman
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
My expertise includes Neurodiversity-affirming therapy for ADHD and Autism, utilizing the Gottman method and emotionally focused couples therapy.
You, seeking understanding and connection in a world that often feels overwhelming. My ideal client navigates the intricate landscape of neurodivergence—be it ADHD, Autism, or related experiences. In couples, I welcome those facing unique dynamics, including neurodivergent and LGBTQ+ pairs. Your issues may vary, but the core need is universal: a safe space to explore challenges, cultivate understanding, and forge a path towards fulfillment. As a passionate therapist specializing in neurodiversity and couples therapy, my approach transcends conventional methods. Let's embark on a journey where acceptance and growth intersect.
My expertise includes Neurodiversity-affirming therapy for ADHD and Autism, utilizing the Gottman method and emotionally focused couples therapy.
You, seeking understanding and connection in a world that often feels overwhelming. My ideal client navigates the intricate landscape of neurodivergence—be it ADHD, Autism, or related experiences. In couples, I welcome those facing unique dynamics, including neurodivergent and LGBTQ+ pairs. Your issues may vary, but the core need is universal: a safe space to explore challenges, cultivate understanding, and forge a path towards fulfillment. As a passionate therapist specializing in neurodiversity and couples therapy, my approach transcends conventional methods. Let's embark on a journey where acceptance and growth intersect.
(02) 8403 1928 View (02) 8403 1928
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Nadia Aly
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Serves Area
I use a multimodal approach, including EMDR for trauma recovery and Gottman Method for couples.
You may be facing emotional pain, unresolved trauma, or communication challenges in your relationships, preventing you from moving forward. These issues can block your clarity and growth. Together, we’ll uncover and resolve these barriers, helping you achieve lasting change. If you’re struggling to process trauma or connect deeply with your partner, I’m here to support you in overcoming these obstacles, so you can build a more fulfilling life and create stronger, healthier connections.
I use a multimodal approach, including EMDR for trauma recovery and Gottman Method for couples.
You may be facing emotional pain, unresolved trauma, or communication challenges in your relationships, preventing you from moving forward. These issues can block your clarity and growth. Together, we’ll uncover and resolve these barriers, helping you achieve lasting change. If you’re struggling to process trauma or connect deeply with your partner, I’m here to support you in overcoming these obstacles, so you can build a more fulfilling life and create stronger, healthier connections.
(08) 6490 9743 View (08) 6490 9743
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Kelly Luisa Bagshaw
Counsellor, MSc, ACA-L3
Verified Verified
Serves Area
Modalities I draw from include shadow/parts work, attachment theory, nervous system regulation Gottman Method and more
I’m not your everyday therapist. I help people break free from old patterns, reconnect with themselves, and create real change. My approach goes beyond traditional talk therapy—I blend psychotherapy with somatic and alternative methods to get to the root of what’s keeping you stuck. Whether you’re navigating a relationship breakdown, stuck in old patterns, or searching for a stronger sense of self, this work goes beyond talking—it’s about feeling, shifting, and truly changing. If you’re ready to break free from what’s been holding you back, let’s dive in.
Modalities I draw from include shadow/parts work, attachment theory, nervous system regulation Gottman Method and more
I’m not your everyday therapist. I help people break free from old patterns, reconnect with themselves, and create real change. My approach goes beyond traditional talk therapy—I blend psychotherapy with somatic and alternative methods to get to the root of what’s keeping you stuck. Whether you’re navigating a relationship breakdown, stuck in old patterns, or searching for a stronger sense of self, this work goes beyond talking—it’s about feeling, shifting, and truly changing. If you’re ready to break free from what’s been holding you back, let’s dive in.
(07) 3608 1765 View (07) 3608 1765
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Larissa Kirpichnikov
Psychologist, PsyBA - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Crows Nest, NSW 2065
Larissa leans on the Gottman Method for couples therapy/coaching.
Couples Therapy & Coaching / Individuals Therapy & Coaching / Family Dispute Resolution Mediation (FDRP) & Divorce Coaching Services. With more than 25 years experience of living and working in Australia and abroad, Larissa understands that life and relationships are not always smooth. Whether you are wishing to improve your intimate relationship, seek individual support, parenting &/or financial FDR mediation services, or divorce coaching, please call to discuss how we can best assist you. You may also visit our website for further information.
Larissa leans on the Gottman Method for couples therapy/coaching.
Couples Therapy & Coaching / Individuals Therapy & Coaching / Family Dispute Resolution Mediation (FDRP) & Divorce Coaching Services. With more than 25 years experience of living and working in Australia and abroad, Larissa understands that life and relationships are not always smooth. Whether you are wishing to improve your intimate relationship, seek individual support, parenting &/or financial FDR mediation services, or divorce coaching, please call to discuss how we can best assist you. You may also visit our website for further information.
(02) 9100 0410 View (02) 9100 0410
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Karen Gould
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified Verified
Pyrmont, NSW 2009
Sessions may be based on CBT, Interpersonal Psychotherapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy or Gottman Method Couples Therapy
With a special interest in neurodiversity, I enjoy working with clients who see the world differently and would like to open up to new and authentic ways of thinking, feeling and acting. I work with adults, older adolescents and couples, and respect all sexualities, genders and relationship styles. I can help with self exploration, opening up to new perspectives, managing difficult emotions, broadening your comfort zone and connecting with what matters to you.
Sessions may be based on CBT, Interpersonal Psychotherapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy or Gottman Method Couples Therapy
With a special interest in neurodiversity, I enjoy working with clients who see the world differently and would like to open up to new and authentic ways of thinking, feeling and acting. I work with adults, older adolescents and couples, and respect all sexualities, genders and relationship styles. I can help with self exploration, opening up to new perspectives, managing difficult emotions, broadening your comfort zone and connecting with what matters to you.
(02) 9100 0727 View (02) 9100 0727
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Brooke Morgan
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
Camden, NSW 2570
My couples counselling is influenced by the Gottman Method, Emotion Focused & Solutions Focused therapy.
Are you struggling with your relationship with food, eating and body image. You don't know how or where to start or perhaps friends and family members are concerned ? You may be battling with patterns of restricting food, disordered eating, binge eating, obsessive exercise and body dysmorphia and feel like you want to change but don't know how? I offer person centred counselling to support you in a safe & non judgemental way, from an affirming & trauma informed approach. Mental Health support is crucial in the step to recovery from an Eating Disorder or Disordered Eating behaviours.
My couples counselling is influenced by the Gottman Method, Emotion Focused & Solutions Focused therapy.
Are you struggling with your relationship with food, eating and body image. You don't know how or where to start or perhaps friends and family members are concerned ? You may be battling with patterns of restricting food, disordered eating, binge eating, obsessive exercise and body dysmorphia and feel like you want to change but don't know how? I offer person centred counselling to support you in a safe & non judgemental way, from an affirming & trauma informed approach. Mental Health support is crucial in the step to recovery from an Eating Disorder or Disordered Eating behaviours.
(02) 4210 5854 View (02) 4210 5854
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Womanscoach
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
Bondi Junction, NSW 2022
I use the Gottman method together with proven techniques to get you real results.
I have been passionately working in the field of individual and couples counselling, and mentoring parents of teens for over 26 years. As a certified counselor and life coach, I have the skills and techniques to boost success in all areas of your life, with a specialty in empowering married couples to connect on a deeper level & improve their relationship. I am experienced in multiple spheres, including marriage, parenting, intimacy, relationships, postnatal support and goal setting. I am a member of the ACA and highly recommended in delivering counselling services. I lectures across AU and USA. References available
I use the Gottman method together with proven techniques to get you real results.
I have been passionately working in the field of individual and couples counselling, and mentoring parents of teens for over 26 years. As a certified counselor and life coach, I have the skills and techniques to boost success in all areas of your life, with a specialty in empowering married couples to connect on a deeper level & improve their relationship. I am experienced in multiple spheres, including marriage, parenting, intimacy, relationships, postnatal support and goal setting. I am a member of the ACA and highly recommended in delivering counselling services. I lectures across AU and USA. References available
(02) 9100 0928 View (02) 9100 0928
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Riccardo Ingle Counselling
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Potts Point, NSW 2011
I thoroughly enjoy couples/relationship counselling and use the tried and tested Gottman method.
Hello! I am a Sydney-based professional counsellor who works with people of all ages and from all walks of life. I offer a non-pathologising and humanistic approach to mental health and well-being. Counselling with me focuses on making sense of your experiences and finding meaning in the stories that constitute your life. The therapy is tailored to your needs and our ongoing conversations may explore your feelings, coping strategies, support networks, values, and goals.
I thoroughly enjoy couples/relationship counselling and use the tried and tested Gottman method.
Hello! I am a Sydney-based professional counsellor who works with people of all ages and from all walks of life. I offer a non-pathologising and humanistic approach to mental health and well-being. Counselling with me focuses on making sense of your experiences and finding meaning in the stories that constitute your life. The therapy is tailored to your needs and our ongoing conversations may explore your feelings, coping strategies, support networks, values, and goals.
(02) 9100 0023 View (02) 9100 0023
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Margie Mitchell
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
McMahons Point, NSW 2060
Using a systemic approach informed by The Developmental Model, Gottman Method, Solution-Focused Therapy, and trauma-informed Processwork, I help create I also provide tools to ensure the changes we work on are sustainable beyond our sessions.
I’m passionate about helping individuals and couples build deeper awareness and connection, leading to more fulfilling relationships. I specialise in guiding couples to replace unhealthy patterns with healthier, more connected ways of being together.
Using a systemic approach informed by The Developmental Model, Gottman Method, Solution-Focused Therapy, and trauma-informed Processwork, I help create I also provide tools to ensure the changes we work on are sustainable beyond our sessions.
I’m passionate about helping individuals and couples build deeper awareness and connection, leading to more fulfilling relationships. I specialise in guiding couples to replace unhealthy patterns with healthier, more connected ways of being together.
(02) 9158 6098 View (02) 9158 6098
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Danka Fiedor
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Bondi Junction, NSW 2022
0 & EMDR Intensives for individuals and couples & Attachment Informed EMDR & "parts work" & Gottman Method Workers Compensation/CTP (SIRA) & Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP).
Danka is EMDR Accredited Practitioner working with individuals and couples, attachment Informed EMDR, IFS informed, Gottman’s Therapy Method, Workers Compensation & CTP (SIRA), Eating Disorder Clinician, Resource Therapist (Advanced Ego State Therapy).
0 & EMDR Intensives for individuals and couples & Attachment Informed EMDR & "parts work" & Gottman Method Workers Compensation/CTP (SIRA) & Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP).
Danka is EMDR Accredited Practitioner working with individuals and couples, attachment Informed EMDR, IFS informed, Gottman’s Therapy Method, Workers Compensation & CTP (SIRA), Eating Disorder Clinician, Resource Therapist (Advanced Ego State Therapy).
(02) 9100 0959 View (02) 9100 0959
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Relationship-Talk: Dr Cory Middleton
Psychologist, PhD, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Highly experienced psychologist supporting individuals & couples. Come discuss: Relationship challenges, mental health (stress, anxiety & depression), men's issues, marriage counselling, workplace stress. Feeling stuck? Cory provides non-judgmental, deeply supportive, experienced professional skill in guiding you through life's challenges. Proactively address issues that may be impacting your personal and relationship happiness.
Highly experienced psychologist supporting individuals & couples. Come discuss: Relationship challenges, mental health (stress, anxiety & depression), men's issues, marriage counselling, workplace stress. Feeling stuck? Cory provides non-judgmental, deeply supportive, experienced professional skill in guiding you through life's challenges. Proactively address issues that may be impacting your personal and relationship happiness.
(02) 9100 0542 View (02) 9100 0542
Gottman Method Counsellors

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analysed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomised controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.