Sex Therapists in Sydney, NSW

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Thinking Feeling Moving
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
LGBTQIA plus Safe Space, Sex Positive, GSRD aware.
Email or WhatsApp for an appointment +447543800297 lisa(at)thinkingfeelingmoving.com I work remotely online. . I am a Clinical Sexologist, Relationship Therapist, Counsellor, Yoga Teacher, Yoga Therapist, and Educator. Bespoke retreats available globally as your personal therapist.
LGBTQIA plus Safe Space, Sex Positive, GSRD aware.
Email or WhatsApp for an appointment +447543800297 lisa(at)thinkingfeelingmoving.com I work remotely online. . I am a Clinical Sexologist, Relationship Therapist, Counsellor, Yoga Teacher, Yoga Therapist, and Educator. Bespoke retreats available globally as your personal therapist.
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Rhiannon Derrig
Psychotherapist, MSc, PACFA
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
As a therapist, I deeply value sex positivity, social justice and removing the stigma and social constraints surrounding mental health work.
As a clincial psychotherapist and registered psychosexual therapist, I specialise in helping individuals with trauma and PTSD, self-esteem issues, relationship issues, and sexual difficulties, including intimacy and trust. I am also passionate about providing support for navigating gendered, sexual, racial, and neuro diversity, and cultural identities, who may experience discrimination or internalised stigma. Centering unconditional positive regard, I work closely with the client to deeply explore how their past experiences, current situations, family background, and social elements of their lives have impacted their wellbeing.
As a therapist, I deeply value sex positivity, social justice and removing the stigma and social constraints surrounding mental health work.
As a clincial psychotherapist and registered psychosexual therapist, I specialise in helping individuals with trauma and PTSD, self-esteem issues, relationship issues, and sexual difficulties, including intimacy and trust. I am also passionate about providing support for navigating gendered, sexual, racial, and neuro diversity, and cultural identities, who may experience discrimination or internalised stigma. Centering unconditional positive regard, I work closely with the client to deeply explore how their past experiences, current situations, family background, and social elements of their lives have impacted their wellbeing.
(02) 9100 0199 View (02) 9100 0199
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Alinda Small
Counsellor, MSc, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
I am also a registered and board-certified Sex Therapist with extensive experience.
Are you finding yourself in a less than harmonious relationship, dealing with high conflict, or needing to improve communication? You've come to the right place. I am here to help you develop and implement strategies to get back on the path that leads to happiness and success. By addressing the issues you're facing, I will guide you through a transformative process, helping you emerge on the other side with a new way of thinking and managing your relationships. With my support, you can confidently take on a new direction in life. Personalised and Comprehensive Care I recognise that every individual and relationship is unique.
I am also a registered and board-certified Sex Therapist with extensive experience.
Are you finding yourself in a less than harmonious relationship, dealing with high conflict, or needing to improve communication? You've come to the right place. I am here to help you develop and implement strategies to get back on the path that leads to happiness and success. By addressing the issues you're facing, I will guide you through a transformative process, helping you emerge on the other side with a new way of thinking and managing your relationships. With my support, you can confidently take on a new direction in life. Personalised and Comprehensive Care I recognise that every individual and relationship is unique.
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Irene Dohne
Psychologist, MAPS
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Accredited sex therapist with the Australian Society of Sex Educators, Researchers and Therapists, addressing sexual dysfunction, mismatched desire, gender identity, sex / pornography addiction and sexual assault recovery.
Providing a safe space to discuss sensitive and intimate issues to enhance mental health, sexual identity and interpersonal connections. Utilising evidence-based psychological practice, treatment plans are tailored to the unique needs of individuals and couples to facilitate understanding and achieve improved outcomes.
Accredited sex therapist with the Australian Society of Sex Educators, Researchers and Therapists, addressing sexual dysfunction, mismatched desire, gender identity, sex / pornography addiction and sexual assault recovery.
Providing a safe space to discuss sensitive and intimate issues to enhance mental health, sexual identity and interpersonal connections. Utilising evidence-based psychological practice, treatment plans are tailored to the unique needs of individuals and couples to facilitate understanding and achieve improved outcomes.
(02) 9806 0667 View (02) 9806 0667
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Connor Reed
Counsellor
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000  (Online Only)
Kink, Sex Work, and Polyamory/Non-Monogamy friendly.
Providing therapy that’s a little bit fruity. Hey I'm Connor, a queer trans masc therapist. I use he and they pronouns, with preference switching day-to-day depending on how I feel. I specialise in working with the trans community, emphasising gender affirming care and sexual wellbeing and pleasure while navigating dysphoria.
Kink, Sex Work, and Polyamory/Non-Monogamy friendly.
Providing therapy that’s a little bit fruity. Hey I'm Connor, a queer trans masc therapist. I use he and they pronouns, with preference switching day-to-day depending on how I feel. I specialise in working with the trans community, emphasising gender affirming care and sexual wellbeing and pleasure while navigating dysphoria.
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Daniel Di Pietro
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000
Sex and sexuality play a vital role in our lives.
Daniel is a sexologist and psychotherapist who enjoys working empathically and collaboratively with individuals and partnerships of all cultural, gender, and sexual identities to provide support for their sexological needs. He specialises in working with sexological presentations around male sexual health, sexual and gender identity, intimacy, pleasure, desire discrepancy, kink and fetish-related behaviours, sexual functioning and relational challenges. Taking a non-judgmental and holistic approach, he assists his clients by providing tools to access their potential in overcoming the difficulties faced in their lives.
Sex and sexuality play a vital role in our lives.
Daniel is a sexologist and psychotherapist who enjoys working empathically and collaboratively with individuals and partnerships of all cultural, gender, and sexual identities to provide support for their sexological needs. He specialises in working with sexological presentations around male sexual health, sexual and gender identity, intimacy, pleasure, desire discrepancy, kink and fetish-related behaviours, sexual functioning and relational challenges. Taking a non-judgmental and holistic approach, he assists his clients by providing tools to access their potential in overcoming the difficulties faced in their lives.
(03) 7003 2160 View (03) 7003 2160
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Staghorn Sexology
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AASW
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
I know it can be confronting to address issues pertaining to sex, trauma and relationships.
We provide counselling specialising in the following areas: psychosexual therapy for sexual problems such as erectile dysfunction, performance anxieties, ejaculatory disorders, painful sex and mismatched/low libido; relationship counselling; individual counselling especially around gender/sexual orientation issues, trauma and anxiety/depression. We have special interest in men's health, ageing sexuality, sexual function after cancer diagnosis/treatment, infidelity, sexual trauma and gay/lesbian/queer relationships including consensual non-monogamy.
I know it can be confronting to address issues pertaining to sex, trauma and relationships.
We provide counselling specialising in the following areas: psychosexual therapy for sexual problems such as erectile dysfunction, performance anxieties, ejaculatory disorders, painful sex and mismatched/low libido; relationship counselling; individual counselling especially around gender/sexual orientation issues, trauma and anxiety/depression. We have special interest in men's health, ageing sexuality, sexual function after cancer diagnosis/treatment, infidelity, sexual trauma and gay/lesbian/queer relationships including consensual non-monogamy.
(02) 4063 1410 View (02) 4063 1410
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Alain Moulay
MSc
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000
As a qualified Sexologist ( Sex Therapist) and Relationship Therapist, my specialty role is to provide clients with support, education, therapy, treatment, knowledge, empowerment, growth, and avenues to explore, resolve and improve relationships and sexuality.
As a registered clinical counsellor, I offer clients the possibility to work through and resolve all types questions, experiences & situations related to sexuality and relationships. Understanding the psychology and the culture through which sexuality is experienced is integral to finding well being and happiness. Shame, guilt, anxiety, as well as other psychological or medical conditions, can profoundly affect how we experience sexuality and deeply impact or attach itself to the complexities of our personal history and life experiences. Let me help you find a pathway that belongs to you, so that you may find confidence & growth.
As a qualified Sexologist ( Sex Therapist) and Relationship Therapist, my specialty role is to provide clients with support, education, therapy, treatment, knowledge, empowerment, growth, and avenues to explore, resolve and improve relationships and sexuality.
As a registered clinical counsellor, I offer clients the possibility to work through and resolve all types questions, experiences & situations related to sexuality and relationships. Understanding the psychology and the culture through which sexuality is experienced is integral to finding well being and happiness. Shame, guilt, anxiety, as well as other psychological or medical conditions, can profoundly affect how we experience sexuality and deeply impact or attach itself to the complexities of our personal history and life experiences. Let me help you find a pathway that belongs to you, so that you may find confidence & growth.
(02) 9159 6682 View (02) 9159 6682
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Jacqueline Hellyer
MSc
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000
I have highly developed skills and years of experience to help you feel more confident, and inspired in all aspects of sex, love, and intimacy.
Consider me your "Connection Coach". Relationships and sexuality are essential to well-being in love and life. However, this area can be confusing and challenging to navigate alone, making professional guidance invaluable. Finding the right help can be tough, as even well-meaning professionals may lack the knowledge and skills needed to address these issues effectively. That's why I've dedicated myself to studying and training at the highest levels to support you in gaining clarity around your sexuality and relationships, both individually and as a couple. I'm here to help you understand and improve these vital aspects of your life.
I have highly developed skills and years of experience to help you feel more confident, and inspired in all aspects of sex, love, and intimacy.
Consider me your "Connection Coach". Relationships and sexuality are essential to well-being in love and life. However, this area can be confusing and challenging to navigate alone, making professional guidance invaluable. Finding the right help can be tough, as even well-meaning professionals may lack the knowledge and skills needed to address these issues effectively. That's why I've dedicated myself to studying and training at the highest levels to support you in gaining clarity around your sexuality and relationships, both individually and as a couple. I'm here to help you understand and improve these vital aspects of your life.
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Sex and Relationship Therapist | Mim Kempson
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
As a Sexologist and Registered Counsellor, I support individuals and couples facing challenges in sex, communication, dating, libido, FIFO relationships, neurodiversity (ADHD/autism), family stresses, sexual difficulties/pain, codependency, healing from betrayal, ENM/polyamory, and more. I work with LGBTQ+ people and anyone feeling constrained or exhausted by the pressures to have a certain kind of marriage/relationship, income, family, career, appearance, to behave in a certain way, and be a certain person.
As a Sexologist and Registered Counsellor, I support individuals and couples facing challenges in sex, communication, dating, libido, FIFO relationships, neurodiversity (ADHD/autism), family stresses, sexual difficulties/pain, codependency, healing from betrayal, ENM/polyamory, and more. I work with LGBTQ+ people and anyone feeling constrained or exhausted by the pressures to have a certain kind of marriage/relationship, income, family, career, appearance, to behave in a certain way, and be a certain person.
(08) 7079 5667 View (08) 7079 5667
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Transforming Relationships & Celebrating Pleasure
Counsellor, MSc, PACFA
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Together, we'll work to improve communication, enhance intimacy, and navigate the complexities of love and sex.
Life's a rollercoaster, and sometimes you need a co-pilot. I'm here to help you navigate the twists and turns of love, sex, and everything in between. We'll laugh, we'll cry, and we'll definitely have some "aha!" moments. Let's ditch the shame and create a life that's truly fulfilling.
Together, we'll work to improve communication, enhance intimacy, and navigate the complexities of love and sex.
Life's a rollercoaster, and sometimes you need a co-pilot. I'm here to help you navigate the twists and turns of love, sex, and everything in between. We'll laugh, we'll cry, and we'll definitely have some "aha!" moments. Let's ditch the shame and create a life that's truly fulfilling.
(02) 8000 1493 View (02) 8000 1493
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Amanda Joy Robb
Psychotherapist, MA, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000
Joy Through Therapy is founded by Amanda Joy Robb, a renowned and innovative Registered Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor. Amanda specialises in Trauma, Sexology, Sexual Health and Relationships, and Supervision. Throughout these three domains, Amanda offers services for Trauma based Therapies, Sex & Relationship Therapy and Clinical Individual and Group Supervision, as well as Consultation training services.
Joy Through Therapy is founded by Amanda Joy Robb, a renowned and innovative Registered Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor. Amanda specialises in Trauma, Sexology, Sexual Health and Relationships, and Supervision. Throughout these three domains, Amanda offers services for Trauma based Therapies, Sex & Relationship Therapy and Clinical Individual and Group Supervision, as well as Consultation training services.
(02) 9158 6068 View (02) 9158 6068
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Kendall Buckley
Counsellor, MA
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000  (Online Only)
Hello, my name is Kendall. I am a queer sex and relationship therapist working exclusively online with the queer community. The majority of patients that I work with are AFAB, and of the sapphic persuasion, identities vary however I do work a lot with trans and NB folk. Individuals come to me for a variety of reasons from navigating their first queer relationship, sexual anxiety, coming to terms with their gender, realising they are some form of queer and unsure as to what to do about it. Couples are often seeking a queer therapist that simply 'gets it' to help navigate their queer relationship.
Hello, my name is Kendall. I am a queer sex and relationship therapist working exclusively online with the queer community. The majority of patients that I work with are AFAB, and of the sapphic persuasion, identities vary however I do work a lot with trans and NB folk. Individuals come to me for a variety of reasons from navigating their first queer relationship, sexual anxiety, coming to terms with their gender, realising they are some form of queer and unsure as to what to do about it. Couples are often seeking a queer therapist that simply 'gets it' to help navigate their queer relationship.
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Johanna - Counsellor/ Psychosexual therapist
Counsellor, MA, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000
She creates a secure environment and encourages people to explore their relationships, sexuality, and wants.
Working with singles, couples, and families is Johanna's primary focus. She also works with men and women experiencing problems related to their sexual health, including erectile dysfunction and delayed ejaculation. For women, she treats low sexual desire, fertility issues, conception-related misconceptions, hypoactive sexual desire disorder, and out-of-control sexual behaviours like sex, porn addiction. Johanna is accommodating to sex workers. Additionally, she is LGBTQ, kink, and fetish friendly, and she can work with poly/open partnerships
She creates a secure environment and encourages people to explore their relationships, sexuality, and wants.
Working with singles, couples, and families is Johanna's primary focus. She also works with men and women experiencing problems related to their sexual health, including erectile dysfunction and delayed ejaculation. For women, she treats low sexual desire, fertility issues, conception-related misconceptions, hypoactive sexual desire disorder, and out-of-control sexual behaviours like sex, porn addiction. Johanna is accommodating to sex workers. Additionally, she is LGBTQ, kink, and fetish friendly, and she can work with poly/open partnerships
(02) 9100 0121 View (02) 9100 0121
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Sexual Psychology: Clinical Psyc & Sex Therapist
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Common issues: Low Desire; Erection; Painful Sex; Ejaculation; Porn/ Sex Addiction; OCD (HOCD, POCD); PTSD (CSA, Sexual Assault); Kink; (a) Sexuality; Gender; Sex w cancer/disability; Paraphilia; STIs; Sex workers; ENM/Polyamory; ADHD; Depression; Anxiety; ASD.
Hi! I’m George. Sexual problems are common and can be resolved. As a clinical psychologist and sex therapist I am in the unique position of having experience and training in both mental health and sexual function, gender, sexuality, and relationships at the Masters level. Although my specialty is sexual issues, I take a whole person perspective and offer treatment for all metal health and relationship problems. I work with individuals, couples and poly relationships
Common issues: Low Desire; Erection; Painful Sex; Ejaculation; Porn/ Sex Addiction; OCD (HOCD, POCD); PTSD (CSA, Sexual Assault); Kink; (a) Sexuality; Gender; Sex w cancer/disability; Paraphilia; STIs; Sex workers; ENM/Polyamory; ADHD; Depression; Anxiety; ASD.
Hi! I’m George. Sexual problems are common and can be resolved. As a clinical psychologist and sex therapist I am in the unique position of having experience and training in both mental health and sexual function, gender, sexuality, and relationships at the Masters level. Although my specialty is sexual issues, I take a whole person perspective and offer treatment for all metal health and relationship problems. I work with individuals, couples and poly relationships
(02) 8294 6974 View (02) 8294 6974
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Safari Lee - Counsellor and Sex Therapist
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
BDSM & fetish, sex workers and their clients, and people in diverse relationships.
Hello. Change, uncertainty and loss of control can affect us in many ways, and talking about it can help you understand what's happening. I'm an experienced counsellor and sex therapist and offer online and in-person sessions. I support people with issues that include anxiety and loss of direction, managing sexual urges and addictions including online porn and substance use, changes in erections, understanding fetishes and kinks, and pain and fear of sex and intimacy. Together, we can identify the life you want, find ways to remove the obstacles, and plan a fulfilling way forward.
BDSM & fetish, sex workers and their clients, and people in diverse relationships.
Hello. Change, uncertainty and loss of control can affect us in many ways, and talking about it can help you understand what's happening. I'm an experienced counsellor and sex therapist and offer online and in-person sessions. I support people with issues that include anxiety and loss of direction, managing sexual urges and addictions including online porn and substance use, changes in erections, understanding fetishes and kinks, and pain and fear of sex and intimacy. Together, we can identify the life you want, find ways to remove the obstacles, and plan a fulfilling way forward.
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Lia Lawton
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000  (Online Only)
As a registered psychologist and psychosexual therapist specialising in Attention-Deficit Hyperactive Disorder (ADHD) and Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) for adolescents and adults, I am passionate about supporting individuals and couples in navigating the complexities of the mind, relationships, and sexuality. I strive to help clients become their most authentic selves, fostering self-connection and healing from trauma. My therapeutic approach is warm, empathetic, and person-centred, creating a safe and non-judgmental space for clients to explore their thoughts, feelings, and desires.
As a registered psychologist and psychosexual therapist specialising in Attention-Deficit Hyperactive Disorder (ADHD) and Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) for adolescents and adults, I am passionate about supporting individuals and couples in navigating the complexities of the mind, relationships, and sexuality. I strive to help clients become their most authentic selves, fostering self-connection and healing from trauma. My therapeutic approach is warm, empathetic, and person-centred, creating a safe and non-judgmental space for clients to explore their thoughts, feelings, and desires.
(02) 9100 0872 View (02) 9100 0872
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Melissa Therapy
Counsellor
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000
I am a Relationships Therapist and Sexologist. I am extremely passionate about helping clients have healthier more fulfilling relationships. I work with all types of relationships from monogamy to consensual non monogamy. I also work with couples who are experiencing sexual concerns including mismatched desire, erectile difficulties, painful sex, performance anxiety and out of control sexual behaviors. I am passionate about diversity and equality and aim to walk beside my clients on their journey providing a non-judgmental, supportive and safe environment. I am sex-positive, LGBTIQ, Poly and BDSM friendly.
I am a Relationships Therapist and Sexologist. I am extremely passionate about helping clients have healthier more fulfilling relationships. I work with all types of relationships from monogamy to consensual non monogamy. I also work with couples who are experiencing sexual concerns including mismatched desire, erectile difficulties, painful sex, performance anxiety and out of control sexual behaviors. I am passionate about diversity and equality and aim to walk beside my clients on their journey providing a non-judgmental, supportive and safe environment. I am sex-positive, LGBTIQ, Poly and BDSM friendly.
(02) 9100 0185 View (02) 9100 0185
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Sally Walsh
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Immediately Available - No Waitlist - Registered Clinical Psychotherapist and Registered Mental Health Practitioner. Are you overwhelmed, anxious or depressed or seeking practical support? Are you struggling with an issue on your own? We can work this out together to help you feel more in control. I can help you see your situation more clearly with talking therapy and somatically integrating body/mind experiences for emotional distress support for anxiety, depression and trauma (CPTSD) ie. brain intervention (7-8 sessions). Relationship struggles ? including narcissism tendencies or sex issues (emotional, physical or sexual).
Immediately Available - No Waitlist - Registered Clinical Psychotherapist and Registered Mental Health Practitioner. Are you overwhelmed, anxious or depressed or seeking practical support? Are you struggling with an issue on your own? We can work this out together to help you feel more in control. I can help you see your situation more clearly with talking therapy and somatically integrating body/mind experiences for emotional distress support for anxiety, depression and trauma (CPTSD) ie. brain intervention (7-8 sessions). Relationship struggles ? including narcissism tendencies or sex issues (emotional, physical or sexual).
(02) 9100 0123 View (02) 9100 0123
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Ess Binet
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000  (Online Only)
I work with young adults, queer folks (incl late bloomers) creatives, sex workers, fat hunnies, poly peeps, neurospicy friends and deep thinkers + feelers.
Hey, I'm stoked you've stopped by! I'm Ess, an introverted, dance obsessed, spiritual being who will drop an F-bomb in solidarity or celebration. I'm genuinely interested in learning about you and hearing your story. I'm excited for you, to be more YOU! Whether that's supporting you to: express yourself more fully, learn tools to practice self-acceptance, work through past experiences so you can embrace you now, unlearn and relearn behaviours so you can thrive... I have approx 10 years experience working in trauma/mental health, and enjoy working with folks curious about deeper self exploration + growth.
I work with young adults, queer folks (incl late bloomers) creatives, sex workers, fat hunnies, poly peeps, neurospicy friends and deep thinkers + feelers.
Hey, I'm stoked you've stopped by! I'm Ess, an introverted, dance obsessed, spiritual being who will drop an F-bomb in solidarity or celebration. I'm genuinely interested in learning about you and hearing your story. I'm excited for you, to be more YOU! Whether that's supporting you to: express yourself more fully, learn tools to practice self-acceptance, work through past experiences so you can embrace you now, unlearn and relearn behaviours so you can thrive... I have approx 10 years experience working in trauma/mental health, and enjoy working with folks curious about deeper self exploration + growth.
(02) 8074 5874 View (02) 8074 5874
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Sex Therapy Counsellors

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.