Codependency Counselling in Sydney, NSW

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Melissa Essence
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Codependency: what exactly is it? It is the need to look outside of ourselves for validation. It manifests as putting others’ feelings, needs, and perceptions before our own. Often, it is unconscious and we don't even realise we do it. It can be extreme or subtle. We are co-dependent when we are pulled by the outside world rather than being in alignment with our true desires and soul path. Co-dependency may look like: a romantic relationship or friendship where you merge into the other, become consumed by their world, lose yourself, do activities that they enjoy, or show an interest in their interests.
Codependency: what exactly is it? It is the need to look outside of ourselves for validation. It manifests as putting others’ feelings, needs, and perceptions before our own. Often, it is unconscious and we don't even realise we do it. It can be extreme or subtle. We are co-dependent when we are pulled by the outside world rather than being in alignment with our true desires and soul path. Co-dependency may look like: a romantic relationship or friendship where you merge into the other, become consumed by their world, lose yourself, do activities that they enjoy, or show an interest in their interests.
(08) 7008 7935 View (08) 7008 7935
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Sex and Relationship Therapist | Mim Kempson
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
As a Sexologist and Registered Counsellor, I support individuals and couples facing challenges in sex, communication, dating, libido, FIFO relationships, neurodiversity (ADHD/ASD), family stresses, sexual difficulties/pain, codependency, healing from betrayal, ENM/polyamory, and more. I work with LGBTQ+ people and anyone feeling constrained or exhausted by the pressures to have a certain kind of marriage/relationship, income, family, career, appearance, to behave in a certain way, and be a certain person.
As a Sexologist and Registered Counsellor, I support individuals and couples facing challenges in sex, communication, dating, libido, FIFO relationships, neurodiversity (ADHD/ASD), family stresses, sexual difficulties/pain, codependency, healing from betrayal, ENM/polyamory, and more. I work with LGBTQ+ people and anyone feeling constrained or exhausted by the pressures to have a certain kind of marriage/relationship, income, family, career, appearance, to behave in a certain way, and be a certain person.
(08) 7079 5667 View (08) 7079 5667
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Xanthe Katsouras
Psychotherapist, PsychD, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000
Are you struggling to find a balance in your life? do you feel out of control, even though you keep trying to take charge?...I am here to support you in creating a more grounded experience of self, and support your ability to engage with life in a beneficial way. My specialty is work with clients who are struggling with relationships, self-esteem, identity and work/life balance. I have 5years experience in the addictions field, which has deepened my understanding of the emotional/mental imbalances we all carry. I work with clients both individually and in groups.
Are you struggling to find a balance in your life? do you feel out of control, even though you keep trying to take charge?...I am here to support you in creating a more grounded experience of self, and support your ability to engage with life in a beneficial way. My specialty is work with clients who are struggling with relationships, self-esteem, identity and work/life balance. I have 5years experience in the addictions field, which has deepened my understanding of the emotional/mental imbalances we all carry. I work with clients both individually and in groups.
(02) 9100 0085 View (02) 9100 0085
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Jessica Ryan-Zeman
Psychotherapist, MA, PACFA
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
I specialise in working with adolescents and adults with suffering from eating disorders and body image concerns as well as addictions and substance abuse issues. I also provide support for families and partners. I want to go deeper than just providing short-term symptom relief. Often eating disorders or any addictive cycle is a coping mechanism for unresolved feelings or past trauma. My goal is to help my clients accept their feelings and also challenge limiting core beliefs in order to develop healthier coping mechanisms, better self-esteem and a life that is no longer dictated by the rules of their eating disorder or addiction .
I specialise in working with adolescents and adults with suffering from eating disorders and body image concerns as well as addictions and substance abuse issues. I also provide support for families and partners. I want to go deeper than just providing short-term symptom relief. Often eating disorders or any addictive cycle is a coping mechanism for unresolved feelings or past trauma. My goal is to help my clients accept their feelings and also challenge limiting core beliefs in order to develop healthier coping mechanisms, better self-esteem and a life that is no longer dictated by the rules of their eating disorder or addiction .
(02) 9100 0811 View (02) 9100 0811
Victoria Rose Emery
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA - Health Psych.
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000  (Online Only)
BULK Bill Telehealth service engaging 1-1 with those local, regional and remote in personal or profession issues, also Work Cover. Highly experienced professional assisting you to identify and resolve issues that impact on life's journey and your best YOU! Extensive experience across family, relationships, conflict, separation, loss, grief, life span, depression, anxiety, adjustment, pathology, communication, nutritional management, trauma, employment, grievances, conflict resolution, depression, anxiety, personality disorders, trust, boundaries. self-care and self-esteem.
BULK Bill Telehealth service engaging 1-1 with those local, regional and remote in personal or profession issues, also Work Cover. Highly experienced professional assisting you to identify and resolve issues that impact on life's journey and your best YOU! Extensive experience across family, relationships, conflict, separation, loss, grief, life span, depression, anxiety, adjustment, pathology, communication, nutritional management, trauma, employment, grievances, conflict resolution, depression, anxiety, personality disorders, trust, boundaries. self-care and self-esteem.
(07) 3132 0790 View (07) 3132 0790
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Susi West
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000
I work primarily with folks who’re struggling in their relationships. Mostly, I work with romantic partners, but also with mothers & daughters, business partners, friends and individuals. My clients typically have difficulties in communicating effectively with others, especially during conflict when they’re feeling all the feelings. Clients also often approach me because they’ve been betrayed in relationship. Sometimes, there’s been an affair, an experience of sexual assault, or an unexpected separation...
I work primarily with folks who’re struggling in their relationships. Mostly, I work with romantic partners, but also with mothers & daughters, business partners, friends and individuals. My clients typically have difficulties in communicating effectively with others, especially during conflict when they’re feeling all the feelings. Clients also often approach me because they’ve been betrayed in relationship. Sometimes, there’s been an affair, an experience of sexual assault, or an unexpected separation...
(02) 5118 9041 View (02) 5118 9041
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Barbara Zoroddu
Counsellor, MA, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
I strongly believe that psychological support should be a possibility for everyone, not just a luxury for the few. I am a trained Counselling professional with a passion for helping women like you fall in love with their minds and bodies, live their true emotions and find new ways to improve their well-being. I can support you while you learn more about your emotions and bodily resources, discover how to increase your self-esteem and become more resilient by overcoming your limiting beliefs about your beautiful self.
I strongly believe that psychological support should be a possibility for everyone, not just a luxury for the few. I am a trained Counselling professional with a passion for helping women like you fall in love with their minds and bodies, live their true emotions and find new ways to improve their well-being. I can support you while you learn more about your emotions and bodily resources, discover how to increase your self-esteem and become more resilient by overcoming your limiting beliefs about your beautiful self.
(03) 7003 2118 View (03) 7003 2118
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Jesse Muller - Counselling and Psychotherapy
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Are you recovering from trauma, oppression or psychological abuse? Do you need support to heal and take charge of your life, creating wellbeing and freedom. If you are living with distress, anxiety, co-dependency or something is in the way of you enjoying and living your life, reach out and we can work together to support you to regain connection with yourself to start/continue towards creating the life you want. I also work with parents and the impacts of trauma on their experience as a parent and healing parent child dynamics. Trans and gender diverse people are welcome along with all people from LGBTIQA+ communities.
Are you recovering from trauma, oppression or psychological abuse? Do you need support to heal and take charge of your life, creating wellbeing and freedom. If you are living with distress, anxiety, co-dependency or something is in the way of you enjoying and living your life, reach out and we can work together to support you to regain connection with yourself to start/continue towards creating the life you want. I also work with parents and the impacts of trauma on their experience as a parent and healing parent child dynamics. Trans and gender diverse people are welcome along with all people from LGBTIQA+ communities.
(08) 7100 9046 View (08) 7100 9046
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Grief Talk- Mariam Middleton
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, MA, AASW
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
At Grief Talk, Mariam offers individual counselling sessions, support groups, and workshops to individuals of all ages and backgrounds. Whether someone has experienced the loss of a loved one, the end of a significant relationship, or any other form of profound loss, Mariam provides unwavering support and guidance through the healing process. Mariam empowers her clients to navigate the complex emotions of grief, fostering resilience, self-compassion, and personal growth. She helps individuals develop healthy coping strategies, gain a deeper understanding of their emotions, and find meaning and purpose in their lives once again.
At Grief Talk, Mariam offers individual counselling sessions, support groups, and workshops to individuals of all ages and backgrounds. Whether someone has experienced the loss of a loved one, the end of a significant relationship, or any other form of profound loss, Mariam provides unwavering support and guidance through the healing process. Mariam empowers her clients to navigate the complex emotions of grief, fostering resilience, self-compassion, and personal growth. She helps individuals develop healthy coping strategies, gain a deeper understanding of their emotions, and find meaning and purpose in their lives once again.
(02) 9100 0757 View (02) 9100 0757
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The PTSD Clinic
Psychotherapist, PhD
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
The PTSD Clinic is a private specialist clinic operating in Victoria, ACT, NT, WA & NSW (not taking on WC or CTP patients in NSW) with experienced Psychologists who are skilled in treating the broad spectrum of psychological disorders including trauma resulting from car and work accidents ie, PTSD, Relationship and Family issues, NPD, Depression, Anxiety etc. A GP referral is required for Medicare rebates. We also conduct Expert Reports in Family Law, Criminal Law, Personal Injury and other Medico-legal proceedings,
The PTSD Clinic is a private specialist clinic operating in Victoria, ACT, NT, WA & NSW (not taking on WC or CTP patients in NSW) with experienced Psychologists who are skilled in treating the broad spectrum of psychological disorders including trauma resulting from car and work accidents ie, PTSD, Relationship and Family issues, NPD, Depression, Anxiety etc. A GP referral is required for Medicare rebates. We also conduct Expert Reports in Family Law, Criminal Law, Personal Injury and other Medico-legal proceedings,
(02) 8063 8435 View (02) 8063 8435
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Martine Barclay
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
If you are feeling overwhelmed by juggling all the demands of your busy life and you're constantly checking if you're enough to meet your own high standards or the expectations of others, then you're in the right place. No doubt you're starting to feel exhausted by the stress and anxiety that is building up inside you and you may have even adopted some unhelpful habits to help you cope.
If you are feeling overwhelmed by juggling all the demands of your busy life and you're constantly checking if you're enough to meet your own high standards or the expectations of others, then you're in the right place. No doubt you're starting to feel exhausted by the stress and anxiety that is building up inside you and you may have even adopted some unhelpful habits to help you cope.
0427 357 607 View 0427 357 607
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Alinda Small
Counsellor, MSc, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Perhaps you are in a less than harmonious relationship, are dealing with high conflict or need to improve communication- you have come to the right place for help. Alinda will work with you to develop and implement strategies to get back on the path that leads to happiness and success. Working to address the issues you are facing and come through on the other side with a new way of thinking and managing. You can confidently take on a new direction in life. By treating her clients as individuals, and recognising the specific and varied needs, she can provide a truly unique treatment plan every time.
Perhaps you are in a less than harmonious relationship, are dealing with high conflict or need to improve communication- you have come to the right place for help. Alinda will work with you to develop and implement strategies to get back on the path that leads to happiness and success. Working to address the issues you are facing and come through on the other side with a new way of thinking and managing. You can confidently take on a new direction in life. By treating her clients as individuals, and recognising the specific and varied needs, she can provide a truly unique treatment plan every time.
(02) 9100 0764 View (02) 9100 0764
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Dr Gamze Abramov
Psychologist, PhD, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000
I'm a Clinical Psychologist and I specialize in helping clients cope with improving mood, managing anxiety, reducing stress, enhancing communication skills, fostering assertiveness, cultivating harmonious relationships, overcoming self-doubt and feelings of inadequacy, and living more authentic and meaningful lives.
I'm a Clinical Psychologist and I specialize in helping clients cope with improving mood, managing anxiety, reducing stress, enhancing communication skills, fostering assertiveness, cultivating harmonious relationships, overcoming self-doubt and feelings of inadequacy, and living more authentic and meaningful lives.
(02) 9100 0273 View (02) 9100 0273
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Anne Reilly-Couples Therapy-Buddhist Psychotherapy
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
I am passionate about helping others to choose, create and maintain healthy relationships. Personal growth, accountability and good boundaries are important for attracting the right partner. Understand your patterns and learn to stay more present in your relationship. I support individuals to move through their pain of a break up and help them to learn from it and move forward. I support you to calm the busy thoughts and get to the beliefs that drive unhelpful behaviours. Understand your triggers and let go of reactivity.
I am passionate about helping others to choose, create and maintain healthy relationships. Personal growth, accountability and good boundaries are important for attracting the right partner. Understand your patterns and learn to stay more present in your relationship. I support individuals to move through their pain of a break up and help them to learn from it and move forward. I support you to calm the busy thoughts and get to the beliefs that drive unhelpful behaviours. Understand your triggers and let go of reactivity.
(02) 9159 6623 View (02) 9159 6623
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Hamada Els - Sentient
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
My areas of expertise include anxiety, depression, grief, stress, burnout, building resilience, building effective relationships (work and home), and bullying. I have a strong interest in supporting professionals working in socially and environmentally sustainable sectors to live their values at work. I help with career development, identifying a fulfilling life direction, leadership effectiveness, communication effectiveness, improving work-life balance and time management. I also support people seeking help on issues relating to social and workplace diversity and inclusion.
My areas of expertise include anxiety, depression, grief, stress, burnout, building resilience, building effective relationships (work and home), and bullying. I have a strong interest in supporting professionals working in socially and environmentally sustainable sectors to live their values at work. I help with career development, identifying a fulfilling life direction, leadership effectiveness, communication effectiveness, improving work-life balance and time management. I also support people seeking help on issues relating to social and workplace diversity and inclusion.
(02) 9100 0124 View (02) 9100 0124
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Jennifer Rathjen
Psychologist, PsychD, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000  (Online Only)
I am a Clinical Psychologist with a wide range of experience. I primarily utilise enhanced Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to allow individuals to learn the skills needed to manage emotional distress, strengthen their ability to cope with future challenges and achieve personal, relationship and professional life goals. Additionally I offer longer term psychotherapy for more complex issues.
I am a Clinical Psychologist with a wide range of experience. I primarily utilise enhanced Cognitive Behavioural Therapy to allow individuals to learn the skills needed to manage emotional distress, strengthen their ability to cope with future challenges and achieve personal, relationship and professional life goals. Additionally I offer longer term psychotherapy for more complex issues.
(02) 9100 0650 View (02) 9100 0650
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FIT to LIVE Psychology Svcs Aleksander Gisbert
Psychologist
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Director of Fit to Live Psychology Services. Workers Compensation Cases. Weight loss long term management. Psychotherapy for anxiety, depression, pain management, relationship issues, sleep disorders and work stress. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Schema Therapy and Cognitive Behaviour Therapy to deal with anger and post-traumatic stress disorder. Improve self-confidence and self-esteem.
Director of Fit to Live Psychology Services. Workers Compensation Cases. Weight loss long term management. Psychotherapy for anxiety, depression, pain management, relationship issues, sleep disorders and work stress. Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Schema Therapy and Cognitive Behaviour Therapy to deal with anger and post-traumatic stress disorder. Improve self-confidence and self-esteem.
(02) 8294 5960 View (02) 8294 5960
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Vassilka Dimitrova
Psychotherapist, MA, PACFA
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Brave souls, we live our lives to the best of our abilities; we aim to achieve our dreams with what life has to offer us. However, due to various reasons, and often beyond our control, we might hide from ourselves ... in ourselves, or in other people. Depression, anxiety, personality disorders, dissociative features, psychotic experiences ... We fall, we rise. We laugh, we love, we feel anger and pain. In a conversation with another we could find our way out of this state of being lost in these states. Recovery from trauma perhaps is not about forgetting the past; perhaps it's about expanding your Self, your narrative.
Brave souls, we live our lives to the best of our abilities; we aim to achieve our dreams with what life has to offer us. However, due to various reasons, and often beyond our control, we might hide from ourselves ... in ourselves, or in other people. Depression, anxiety, personality disorders, dissociative features, psychotic experiences ... We fall, we rise. We laugh, we love, we feel anger and pain. In a conversation with another we could find our way out of this state of being lost in these states. Recovery from trauma perhaps is not about forgetting the past; perhaps it's about expanding your Self, your narrative.
0493 627 800 View 0493 627 800
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Resilient Heart Psychology
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
I am passionate about working with clients facing a variety of personal challenges. Whether it be anxiety, depression, eating disorders and body image concerns, anger, self-esteem, difficulties with relationships (family, partners, work) or general stress and not feeling 'yourself'. I hope to support you back to the kind of life that feels meaningful for you. I use a combination of evidence-based approaches with clients (EMDR, Schema Therapy, ACT, DBT, CBT) to guide healing and change.
I am passionate about working with clients facing a variety of personal challenges. Whether it be anxiety, depression, eating disorders and body image concerns, anger, self-esteem, difficulties with relationships (family, partners, work) or general stress and not feeling 'yourself'. I hope to support you back to the kind of life that feels meaningful for you. I use a combination of evidence-based approaches with clients (EMDR, Schema Therapy, ACT, DBT, CBT) to guide healing and change.
(02) 8069 9781 View (02) 8069 9781
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Antonia Saunokonoko
Psychotherapist, PhD, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Are you struggling with an eating disorder, alcoholism or an addiction? Or are you already in recovery but experiencing high anxiety, coming up against obstacles in relationships, or finding your emotions overwhelming? If you're ready for change, I can provide you with the support you need to move beyond these difficulties and start living your life with purpose, peace, freedom and contentment.
Are you struggling with an eating disorder, alcoholism or an addiction? Or are you already in recovery but experiencing high anxiety, coming up against obstacles in relationships, or finding your emotions overwhelming? If you're ready for change, I can provide you with the support you need to move beyond these difficulties and start living your life with purpose, peace, freedom and contentment.
(02) 9159 6579 View (02) 9159 6579

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Codependency Counsellors

What therapy types help with codependency problems?

Both couples and family therapy and cognitive and behavioral therapy (CBT) can help with the relationship difficulties referred to as codependency. Such problems typically include inappropriate feelings of responsibility for a loved one’s destructive behavior, irrational patterns of thinking about such behavior, and family interaction patterns in which the needs of one troubled member override the needs of others in a household.

What happens in therapy for codependency?

Spouses and family members learn and practice how to interact and support each other in a healthy way without sacrificing their own needs or well-being. They learn the limits of their responsibility for their loved ones and correct faulty patterns of thinking and feeling that underlie codependent behavior. Individuals may be encouraged to nurture an array of social relationships and to cultivate their own talents and interests so that they develop a healthy sense of self outside the family.

How does therapy help a person or couple overcome codependency?

Therapy helps people establish healthy ways of being in a relationship. Spouses and family members learn how to nurture and support one another without sacrificing their own needs or allowing the needs of one person to dominate the dynamic. Individuals learn how to say no and set boundaries, and how to maintain their own identity and self-esteem. Therapy helps people understand that they are not responsible for the feelings and actions of others. It also helps individuals deal with the turbulence that can come from living with a person suffering from such conditions as substance abuse and mental illness.

What is the goal of therapy for codependency?

One goal of therapy for codependency is to alleviate feelings of responsibility for and correct irrational patterns of thinking about loved ones whose behavioral problems override the needs of others in a household. Therapy helps people establish healthy boundaries of behavior and speak up for their own needs in a relationship. In addition, people learn how to maintain a healthy relationship, one in which both parties give and receive equally and are able to retain their own identity.