Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Counselling in Chatswood, NSW

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Sophie Mellish
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Serves Area
It might be navigating the complexities of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, surviving domestic violence, or facing family conflict that leaves you questioning your reality.
My approach is person-centred, trauma-informed, and integrates Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy. IFS helps us explore the different parts of you—the protector, the critic, the grieving, the angry—and heal emotional wounds with compassion. This framework promotes emotional resilience, self-compassion, and healthier relationships with yourself and others.
It might be navigating the complexities of Narcissistic Personality Disorder, surviving domestic violence, or facing family conflict that leaves you questioning your reality.
My approach is person-centred, trauma-informed, and integrates Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy. IFS helps us explore the different parts of you—the protector, the critic, the grieving, the angry—and heal emotional wounds with compassion. This framework promotes emotional resilience, self-compassion, and healthier relationships with yourself and others.
(02) 9100 0617 View (02) 9100 0617
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Helen Caroline Gibbons
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Online Only
I am passionate about helping clients who are struggling as a result of anxiety, depression, trauma, narcissistic abuse, work stress, psychosomatic or chronic medical conditions.
As well as accreditation in mainstream psychological therapies, I am an international expert in the German psychophysiological evidence-based Autogenic Therapy and have been an invited guest at Oxford Uni and NASA in the USA. I train clients to connect with and regulate their nervous system for lasting psychological, physical and performance benefits.
I am passionate about helping clients who are struggling as a result of anxiety, depression, trauma, narcissistic abuse, work stress, psychosomatic or chronic medical conditions.
As well as accreditation in mainstream psychological therapies, I am an international expert in the German psychophysiological evidence-based Autogenic Therapy and have been an invited guest at Oxford Uni and NASA in the USA. I train clients to connect with and regulate their nervous system for lasting psychological, physical and performance benefits.
(02) 5104 1059 View (02) 5104 1059
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Daniel He
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Chatswood, NSW 2067
“I believe that every individual will experience challenges throughout their lives and that those experiences can shape the way a person can feel, think and behave with the world around them and in their interpersonal relationships. Often we attempt to protect ourselves from feeling difficult emotions through behaving in a way that is taking us away from living the life we want. I believe that building a deep understanding and connection to the core of our emotional experience can provide understanding and clarity to promote emotional and behavioural change and mental wellbeing.”
“I believe that every individual will experience challenges throughout their lives and that those experiences can shape the way a person can feel, think and behave with the world around them and in their interpersonal relationships. Often we attempt to protect ourselves from feeling difficult emotions through behaving in a way that is taking us away from living the life we want. I believe that building a deep understanding and connection to the core of our emotional experience can provide understanding and clarity to promote emotional and behavioural change and mental wellbeing.”
(02) 9100 0643 View (02) 9100 0643
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Sarah Bays
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Serves Area
Want to create the life you want and reach your potential? Could you do with a little help to solve your problems? Need some support to fast track some of your goals? Well that's what I'm all about! I'm an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist and I work from a trauma-informed and client-led perspective. I'm kind but direct when needed, and support in a solutions focused manner. I love to laugh, and enjoy helping people work through challenges and achieve their goals. I'm a certified DBT (Dialectical Behaviour Therapy) practitioner and run DBT Skills groups or individual DBT sessions in person & online.
Want to create the life you want and reach your potential? Could you do with a little help to solve your problems? Need some support to fast track some of your goals? Well that's what I'm all about! I'm an experienced counsellor and psychotherapist and I work from a trauma-informed and client-led perspective. I'm kind but direct when needed, and support in a solutions focused manner. I love to laugh, and enjoy helping people work through challenges and achieve their goals. I'm a certified DBT (Dialectical Behaviour Therapy) practitioner and run DBT Skills groups or individual DBT sessions in person & online.
(02) 9100 0134 View (02) 9100 0134
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Lisa Butler
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA General
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I work with adults, helping them to cope with a range of stressful situations and the ups and downs of everyday life. This could include coping with depression, stress, anxiety, loss, family conflict, fears, career or work problems, emotional distress or relationship difficulties. I also provide trauma counselling, using a range of strategies including EMDR. I find most people are looking for help to improve their well-being, make difficult life decisions, improve relationships with others, and overcome psychological and other hurdles in life.
I work with adults, helping them to cope with a range of stressful situations and the ups and downs of everyday life. This could include coping with depression, stress, anxiety, loss, family conflict, fears, career or work problems, emotional distress or relationship difficulties. I also provide trauma counselling, using a range of strategies including EMDR. I find most people are looking for help to improve their well-being, make difficult life decisions, improve relationships with others, and overcome psychological and other hurdles in life.
(02) 8403 0055 View (02) 8403 0055
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Sally Carlisle
Psychotherapist, PACFA
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
I am a compassionate, relatable and non judgemental therapist. I love the process of helping people to understand and overcome the complexities and challenges they face in their daily lives. I have over 30 years experience working as a mental health practitioner and psychotherapist, and 10 years experience as a meditation teacher, mindfulness practitioner and practising buddhist. I understand that every person is unique and requires a personalised approach to healing. Whatever changes or problems you are navigating, my priority is to create a warm and open space for you to share and work through your experiences.
I am a compassionate, relatable and non judgemental therapist. I love the process of helping people to understand and overcome the complexities and challenges they face in their daily lives. I have over 30 years experience working as a mental health practitioner and psychotherapist, and 10 years experience as a meditation teacher, mindfulness practitioner and practising buddhist. I understand that every person is unique and requires a personalised approach to healing. Whatever changes or problems you are navigating, my priority is to create a warm and open space for you to share and work through your experiences.
(02) 8203 8733 View (02) 8203 8733

More Therapists Nearby

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Brendan Lowe
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA General
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
My main areas of experience and expertise include helping those managing difficult relationships with narcissistic or high conflict personalities, trauma, including PTSD and Complex-PTSD and personality disorders, specifically those with Borderline Personality Disorder.
I provide a warm, emotion-focused approach when working with clients. I utilise a variety of approaches including Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, Schema Therapy, Internal Family Systems, and exposure based approaches to trauma including Prolonged Exposure and Cognitive Processing Therapy.
My main areas of experience and expertise include helping those managing difficult relationships with narcissistic or high conflict personalities, trauma, including PTSD and Complex-PTSD and personality disorders, specifically those with Borderline Personality Disorder.
I provide a warm, emotion-focused approach when working with clients. I utilise a variety of approaches including Cognitive Behaviour Therapy, Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, Schema Therapy, Internal Family Systems, and exposure based approaches to trauma including Prolonged Exposure and Cognitive Processing Therapy.
(02) 4075 5927 View (02) 4075 5927
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She Counselling
Counsellor, ACA-L3
Serves Area
I work exclusively with women over 18 years, particularly those seeking support with domestic violence and abuse (including narcissistic abuse recovery), healing from toxic relationships, separation and divorce and single parenting.
In my work with clients, I strive to create an empathetic environment that is warm, supportive, and relaxed because I believe being heard can give you the greatest feeling of relief you may ever experience on your healing journey. I know (personally!) the courage it takes to share your challenges with a counsellor so hearing your story would be an honour.
I work exclusively with women over 18 years, particularly those seeking support with domestic violence and abuse (including narcissistic abuse recovery), healing from toxic relationships, separation and divorce and single parenting.
In my work with clients, I strive to create an empathetic environment that is warm, supportive, and relaxed because I believe being heard can give you the greatest feeling of relief you may ever experience on your healing journey. I know (personally!) the courage it takes to share your challenges with a counsellor so hearing your story would be an honour.
(02) 3821 5871 View (02) 3821 5871
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Katie Feder
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Serves Area
I help women heal from Narcissistic Abuse, Emotional Trauma, and Burnout.
The journey back to yourself after abuse and unconscious self-abandonment can feel overwhelming. I am deeply passionate about supporting women to understand their experiences, reclaim their sense of self-worth and empowerment, and guide them through healing to move forward with confidence and clarity.
I help women heal from Narcissistic Abuse, Emotional Trauma, and Burnout.
The journey back to yourself after abuse and unconscious self-abandonment can feel overwhelming. I am deeply passionate about supporting women to understand their experiences, reclaim their sense of self-worth and empowerment, and guide them through healing to move forward with confidence and clarity.
(02) 3820 5962 View (02) 3820 5962
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CounsellorOnCall
Psychotherapist, ACA-L4
2 Endorsed
Serves Area
I have successfully owned a private practice for 30 years and was Senior Therapist at a dual diagnosis facility specialised in addictions, narcissistic abuse recovery, CPTSD and Trauma.
Trauma isn’t the events in the past it’s the adaptogens you learned in survival mode . Addictions, abusive relationships, anxiety, depression, people pleasing , and negative patterns , thoughts or beliefs . I have a lived trauma experience and focus on the solutions or new adaptogens that rewire your brain and calms your nervous system . With extensive training and 30 yrs professional experience in Jungian Psychology, EMDR, Flash, Havening, NLP, DBT, ACT ,CBT, Psychodynamic , somatic, & Clinical Hypnosis , I’m solutions focused in behavioural change and encourage the Neuro plasticity abilities of your brain to heal thy self!
I have successfully owned a private practice for 30 years and was Senior Therapist at a dual diagnosis facility specialised in addictions, narcissistic abuse recovery, CPTSD and Trauma.
Trauma isn’t the events in the past it’s the adaptogens you learned in survival mode . Addictions, abusive relationships, anxiety, depression, people pleasing , and negative patterns , thoughts or beliefs . I have a lived trauma experience and focus on the solutions or new adaptogens that rewire your brain and calms your nervous system . With extensive training and 30 yrs professional experience in Jungian Psychology, EMDR, Flash, Havening, NLP, DBT, ACT ,CBT, Psychodynamic , somatic, & Clinical Hypnosis , I’m solutions focused in behavioural change and encourage the Neuro plasticity abilities of your brain to heal thy self!
(03) 4422 4813 View (03) 4422 4813
Photo of Cherie Marriott - Cherie Marriott - Couple and family counsellor, Psychotherapist, MA, PACFA
She has a particular interest in working with adult families around grief & loss, disagreements and cut-offs, money issues and narcissistic dynamics.
Cherie provides clients with a safe and mediated environment to discuss their relationships. In her sessions, everyone has a chance to share their perspective and feel fully heard. Cherie’s approach is to offer relationship therapy with a coaching edge, meaning she focuses on your specific needs and you will notice results in only a few sessions.
She has a particular interest in working with adult families around grief & loss, disagreements and cut-offs, money issues and narcissistic dynamics.
Cherie provides clients with a safe and mediated environment to discuss their relationships. In her sessions, everyone has a chance to share their perspective and feel fully heard. Cherie’s approach is to offer relationship therapy with a coaching edge, meaning she focuses on your specific needs and you will notice results in only a few sessions.
(02) 9100 0795 View (02) 9100 0795
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Joanne McCarthy
Counsellor, MA, ACA-L4
Online Only
My extensive qualifications and experience in Psychological Processes, Counselling, Psychotherapy, Children and Family Development, Narcissistic Patterned Behaviours, Domestic Violence Recovery, and Relationship Trauma mean I bring a comprehensive and deeply informed approach to your support.
Imagine feeling truly understood, supported, and empowered to create the life you want. My ideal client is someone navigating the challenges of trauma, ADHD (diagnosed or undiagnosed), or the ripple effects of difficult relationships. Perhaps you’re struggling to manage overwhelming emotions, feeling stuck in self-doubt, or finding it hard to focus on your goals. You might be seeking clarity in your relationships, striving for confidence in your decisions, or simply wanting to feel more in control of your life. I get it—it can feel exhausting to carry these struggles on your own.
My extensive qualifications and experience in Psychological Processes, Counselling, Psychotherapy, Children and Family Development, Narcissistic Patterned Behaviours, Domestic Violence Recovery, and Relationship Trauma mean I bring a comprehensive and deeply informed approach to your support.
Imagine feeling truly understood, supported, and empowered to create the life you want. My ideal client is someone navigating the challenges of trauma, ADHD (diagnosed or undiagnosed), or the ripple effects of difficult relationships. Perhaps you’re struggling to manage overwhelming emotions, feeling stuck in self-doubt, or finding it hard to focus on your goals. You might be seeking clarity in your relationships, striving for confidence in your decisions, or simply wanting to feel more in control of your life. I get it—it can feel exhausting to carry these struggles on your own.
(08) 6206 8634 View (08) 6206 8634
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Shannon Moylan
Counsellor, ACA-L1
1 Endorsed
Online Only
If you're struggling with a trauma bond, a toxic partner, a narcissistic relationship or associated trauma, I can help.
From a place of lived experience, understanding and insight, I provide trauma-informed support to help you face your current situation without risk of additional psychological harm. I understand deep pain and distress. We can carefully unpack what's going on and make sense of it, while helping you feel stronger and more confident about your direction.
If you're struggling with a trauma bond, a toxic partner, a narcissistic relationship or associated trauma, I can help.
From a place of lived experience, understanding and insight, I provide trauma-informed support to help you face your current situation without risk of additional psychological harm. I understand deep pain and distress. We can carefully unpack what's going on and make sense of it, while helping you feel stronger and more confident about your direction.
(08) 9468 7273 View (08) 9468 7273
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Sharleen Gonzalez
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA General
Online Only
Waitlist for new clients
I'm a clinical psychologist who works with adults across a diverse range of mental health issues, I have a particular interest in trauma, grief, relationship issues, depression, life transitions (such as separation), multicultural populations, personality disorders (such as helping people who struggle with BPD traits or helping people manage difficult relationships with individuals with narcissistic traits or help them recover after narcissistic abuse), and dissociative disorders such as DID.
I prioritise a strengths-based and emotion-focused approach when working with clients. I draw primarily on techniques from cognitive behaviour therapy, schema therapy, internal family systems (IFS) and dialectical behaviour therapy (DBT). Treatment is tailored to you and your needs.
I'm a clinical psychologist who works with adults across a diverse range of mental health issues, I have a particular interest in trauma, grief, relationship issues, depression, life transitions (such as separation), multicultural populations, personality disorders (such as helping people who struggle with BPD traits or helping people manage difficult relationships with individuals with narcissistic traits or help them recover after narcissistic abuse), and dissociative disorders such as DID.
I prioritise a strengths-based and emotion-focused approach when working with clients. I draw primarily on techniques from cognitive behaviour therapy, schema therapy, internal family systems (IFS) and dialectical behaviour therapy (DBT). Treatment is tailored to you and your needs.
(02) 4012 2512 View (02) 4012 2512
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Nicki Paull
Counsellor, ACA-L2
1 Endorsed
Serves Area
Gentle guidance through deep healing… Specialist Counselling for Narcissistic Abuse (Recovery from Pathological Relationships - Partners, Parents, Children, Workplace) I'm sorry you're experiencing this insidious form of harm!
It's important to find a therapist who 'gets it'. Driven by compassion, tried and tested methods, and ethics, my therapy is holistic and very personal to each of my clients. I have a deep personal commitment to being the therapist I couldn't find when I experienced narcissistic abuse. Maybe I can help you?
Gentle guidance through deep healing… Specialist Counselling for Narcissistic Abuse (Recovery from Pathological Relationships - Partners, Parents, Children, Workplace) I'm sorry you're experiencing this insidious form of harm!
It's important to find a therapist who 'gets it'. Driven by compassion, tried and tested methods, and ethics, my therapy is holistic and very personal to each of my clients. I have a deep personal commitment to being the therapist I couldn't find when I experienced narcissistic abuse. Maybe I can help you?
(03) 4320 5004 View (03) 4320 5004
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Amy Joscelyne
Psychologist, PhD, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
1 Endorsed
Ultimo, NSW 2007
I work from a place of respect and compassion to help you overcome challenges such as: trauma and loss, anxiety, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, fertility issues, pregnancy loss, sexual difficulties such as vaginismus and erectile dysfunction, alcohol and substance abuse, worry, low mood, negative thinking, narcissistic abuse, difficulty finding a partner, and navigating major transitions in life.
My approach is warm and authentic and grounded in developing a good relationship with my clients. I believe in tailoring evidence-based practice to the needs of the individual as we work together to create lasting change. I draw on a variety of therapies including CBT, mindfulness-based therapy, schema therapy and solution-focused therapy.
I work from a place of respect and compassion to help you overcome challenges such as: trauma and loss, anxiety, relationship difficulties, low self-esteem, fertility issues, pregnancy loss, sexual difficulties such as vaginismus and erectile dysfunction, alcohol and substance abuse, worry, low mood, negative thinking, narcissistic abuse, difficulty finding a partner, and navigating major transitions in life.
My approach is warm and authentic and grounded in developing a good relationship with my clients. I believe in tailoring evidence-based practice to the needs of the individual as we work together to create lasting change. I draw on a variety of therapies including CBT, mindfulness-based therapy, schema therapy and solution-focused therapy.
(02) 9046 8415 View (02) 9046 8415
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National Trauma Clinics
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Sydney, NSW 2000
National Trauma Clinic Psychologists and Consultants have extensive experience working with individuals, couples and families suffering from the broad range of psychological issues including relationship issues, family issues, workplace issues and symptomatic problems with PTSD, depression, anxiety and the like.
National Trauma Clinic Psychologists and Consultants have extensive experience working with individuals, couples and families suffering from the broad range of psychological issues including relationship issues, family issues, workplace issues and symptomatic problems with PTSD, depression, anxiety and the like.
(02) 9100 0118 View (02) 9100 0118
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Megan Drummond Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist
1 Endorsed
Online Only
You deserve therapy that sees the whole of you, not just your symptoms. I offer personalised, evidence-based support tailored to what matters most in your life. Whether you're navigating anxiety, relationship stress or the lingering impact of trauma, I provide a grounded, compassionate space where healing is possible and change feels achievable.
You deserve therapy that sees the whole of you, not just your symptoms. I offer personalised, evidence-based support tailored to what matters most in your life. Whether you're navigating anxiety, relationship stress or the lingering impact of trauma, I provide a grounded, compassionate space where healing is possible and change feels achievable.
(02) 9100 0639 View (02) 9100 0639
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Hugo Mario Gonzales
Psychologist, PhD, MAPS
Serves Area
You may be feeling overwhelmed, emotionally stuck, or locked in the same painful patterns—whether in your relationships, your sense of self, or your ability to feel safe in the world. Maybe you've tried to push through it, but the anxiety, shame, or emotional exhaustion keeps coming back. You may not have words for what’s wrong, but you know something needs to change. Whether you're navigating the aftermath of trauma, struggling in your relationship, or feeling trapped by intense emotions or inner criticism, therapy can offer a space to breathe, make sense of what’s happening, and begin to heal.
You may be feeling overwhelmed, emotionally stuck, or locked in the same painful patterns—whether in your relationships, your sense of self, or your ability to feel safe in the world. Maybe you've tried to push through it, but the anxiety, shame, or emotional exhaustion keeps coming back. You may not have words for what’s wrong, but you know something needs to change. Whether you're navigating the aftermath of trauma, struggling in your relationship, or feeling trapped by intense emotions or inner criticism, therapy can offer a space to breathe, make sense of what’s happening, and begin to heal.
(08) 6490 9346 View (08) 6490 9346
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Rebecka Johansson
Psychologist, MSc, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Manly, NSW 2095
Rebecka is a reflective, warm and empathic clinical psychologist who is passionate about mental health and relationships. Rebecka sees both individual clients and couples. Seeing Rebecka you can expect to be met with genuine compassion, empathy and care. Her reflective nature, skills and knowledge aims to assist you in making more sense of your challenges and their likely contributing circumstances and factors. Rebecka acknowledges the importance of a real therapeutic relationship with clients to enable best possible outcome in therapy. When working with couples she is known for making both partners feel seen, heard and understood.
Rebecka is a reflective, warm and empathic clinical psychologist who is passionate about mental health and relationships. Rebecka sees both individual clients and couples. Seeing Rebecka you can expect to be met with genuine compassion, empathy and care. Her reflective nature, skills and knowledge aims to assist you in making more sense of your challenges and their likely contributing circumstances and factors. Rebecka acknowledges the importance of a real therapeutic relationship with clients to enable best possible outcome in therapy. When working with couples she is known for making both partners feel seen, heard and understood.
(02) 9100 0806 View (02) 9100 0806
Narcissistic Personality (NPD) Counsellors

What type of therapy is best for narcissistic personality disorder?

Narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) is best treated with talk therapy, which could involve cognitive behavioral therapy, dialectical behavior therapy, schema therapy, gestalt therapy, or similar approaches. A therapist will help a patient uncover the feelings that may drive their behavior and discover how to engage with themselves and those around them with greater empathy and understanding, fewer demands, and less defensiveness, with the goal of developing a more authentic sense of self that enables healthier relationships.

How do therapists treat NPD?

By developing a strong therapeutic relationship, and continually focusing patients on relationships, community, and connection, a therapist, through talk therapy, may be able to help someone with NPD change. In sessions, a therapist will help an individual achieve relief from their current stressors, including the treatment of co-occurring conditions such as anxiety or depression. A therapist may also help an individual to recognize unhealthy coping mechanisms, learn new ways of interacting with others, and eventually become able to feel and display empathy.

Can a narcissist be cured with therapy?

Therapy can be effective. After a serious setback or great loss, someone with NPD may be forced to recognize that they are not immune to life’s challenges. That can spur feelings of melancholy and depression that lead them to seek professional help. Once an individual decides to seek help, they have already taken a step that the majority of those with NPD never will. Still, people with NPD often quit therapy as they naturally resist feeling vulnerable, being challenged, or admitting to flaws.

How can you get narcissistic personality disorder treatment for someone?

It is notoriously difficult to convince someone with NPD to seek help. With their feelings of superiority, they may be unlikely to recognize or acknowledge that they have a problem, or that their problem is narcissism. Sometimes, they are aware that they are arrogant and that others resent them but they don’t see it as a problem because they are convinced of their superiority. People with NPD have trouble maintaining relationships, but family members and others who do feel close to them, and whose presence they value, may be able to encourage them to seek therapy.