Sex Therapists in Bellevue Hill, NSW

Photo of Istvan Schreiner - Clinical Psychology & Counselling Centre, MPsych, MAPS, Psychologist
Clinical Psychology & Counselling Centre
Psychologist, MPsych, MAPS
Verified Verified
Bellevue Hill, NSW 2023
We are a small group of psychologists, providing individual and couples counselling and psychological assessments. We treat depression, anxiety, alcohol and substance use issues, relationship difficulties and a wide range of emotional and psychological problems. We can arrange assessments and provide reports for legal and individual purposes. All our psychologists are Medicare approved and registered with private health insurers. Call us to find out more information.
We are a small group of psychologists, providing individual and couples counselling and psychological assessments. We treat depression, anxiety, alcohol and substance use issues, relationship difficulties and a wide range of emotional and psychological problems. We can arrange assessments and provide reports for legal and individual purposes. All our psychologists are Medicare approved and registered with private health insurers. Call us to find out more information.
(02) 8069 5406 View (02) 8069 5406
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Cherie Marriott - Couple and family counsellor
Psychotherapist, MA, PACFA
Verified Verified
Bellevue Hill, NSW 2023
Cherie brings a mix of warmth and expert training to help couples and families navigate difficult patches in their relationships. She specialises in communication problems, escalating conflict, low intimacy, affairs, parenting struggles, ADHD, teen mental health, family blending, step-parenting, and complex childhood trauma. She has a particular interest in working with adult families around grief & loss, disagreements and cut-offs, money issues and narcissistic dynamics. She also has extensive experience in post-separation counselling, Family Court matters and shared parenting arrangements.
Cherie brings a mix of warmth and expert training to help couples and families navigate difficult patches in their relationships. She specialises in communication problems, escalating conflict, low intimacy, affairs, parenting struggles, ADHD, teen mental health, family blending, step-parenting, and complex childhood trauma. She has a particular interest in working with adult families around grief & loss, disagreements and cut-offs, money issues and narcissistic dynamics. She also has extensive experience in post-separation counselling, Family Court matters and shared parenting arrangements.
(02) 9100 0795 View (02) 9100 0795
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Dr Hannah Gutmann
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Bellevue Hill, NSW 2023
I know how heavy and confusing life can be when patterns keep repeating. Using evidence based approaches I want to connect with your unique self to support you to make the changes you want and help you feel more at peace in your life. I focus on supporting people who feel tied down by their past, who want to feel stable in their emotions, and have deeper connections with others. During our sessions I will take the time to understand you as a unique person, and tailor my approach to best meet your needs.
I know how heavy and confusing life can be when patterns keep repeating. Using evidence based approaches I want to connect with your unique self to support you to make the changes you want and help you feel more at peace in your life. I focus on supporting people who feel tied down by their past, who want to feel stable in their emotions, and have deeper connections with others. During our sessions I will take the time to understand you as a unique person, and tailor my approach to best meet your needs.
(02) 8806 0498 View (02) 8806 0498
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Wilfred Lax
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified Verified
Bellevue Hill, NSW 2023
I have been a Clinical Psychologist for many years, I have worked with individuals, couples and families who present with a variety of needs. I have trained in Hypnotherapy worked with clients with complex trauma, and across the lifespan. I don't believe that any one is 'broken' but do believe that everyone can be fixed. Optimism and humour are central to my practice as are warmth and empathy. Courage is important both for you and me.
I have been a Clinical Psychologist for many years, I have worked with individuals, couples and families who present with a variety of needs. I have trained in Hypnotherapy worked with clients with complex trauma, and across the lifespan. I don't believe that any one is 'broken' but do believe that everyone can be fixed. Optimism and humour are central to my practice as are warmth and empathy. Courage is important both for you and me.
(02) 9100 0797 View (02) 9100 0797

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Irene Dohne
Psychologist, MAPS
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Accredited sex therapist with the Australian Society of Sex Educators, Researchers and Therapists, addressing sexual dysfunction, mismatched desire, gender identity, sex / pornography addiction and sexual assault recovery.
Providing a safe space to discuss sensitive and intimate issues to enhance mental health, sexual identity and interpersonal connections. Utilising evidence-based psychological practice, treatment plans are tailored to the unique needs of individuals and couples to facilitate understanding and achieve improved outcomes.
Accredited sex therapist with the Australian Society of Sex Educators, Researchers and Therapists, addressing sexual dysfunction, mismatched desire, gender identity, sex / pornography addiction and sexual assault recovery.
Providing a safe space to discuss sensitive and intimate issues to enhance mental health, sexual identity and interpersonal connections. Utilising evidence-based psychological practice, treatment plans are tailored to the unique needs of individuals and couples to facilitate understanding and achieve improved outcomes.
(02) 9806 0667 View (02) 9806 0667
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Safari Lee
Counsellor
Verified Verified
Surry Hills, NSW 2010
BDSM & fetish), sex workers and their clients, and people in diverse relationships.
I offer online and in-person sessions, and am currently available on Tuesdays and Saturdays. Change, uncertainty and loss of control can affect us in many ways, and talking about your concerns can help you understand what's happening in your life. Together, we can identify the life you want, find ways to remove the obstacles, and plan a fulfilling way forward.
BDSM & fetish), sex workers and their clients, and people in diverse relationships.
I offer online and in-person sessions, and am currently available on Tuesdays and Saturdays. Change, uncertainty and loss of control can affect us in many ways, and talking about your concerns can help you understand what's happening in your life. Together, we can identify the life you want, find ways to remove the obstacles, and plan a fulfilling way forward.
(02) 9100 0930 View (02) 9100 0930
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Amanda Joy Robb
Psychotherapist, MA, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
Surry Hills, NSW 2010
Joy Through Therapy is founded by Amanda Joy Robb, a renowned and innovative Registered Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor. Amanda specialises in Trauma, Sexology, Sexual Health and Relationships, and Supervision. Throughout these three domains, Amanda offers services for Trauma based Therapies, Sex & Relationship Therapy and Clinical Individual and Group Supervision, as well as Consultation training services.
Joy Through Therapy is founded by Amanda Joy Robb, a renowned and innovative Registered Psychotherapist and Clinical Supervisor. Amanda specialises in Trauma, Sexology, Sexual Health and Relationships, and Supervision. Throughout these three domains, Amanda offers services for Trauma based Therapies, Sex & Relationship Therapy and Clinical Individual and Group Supervision, as well as Consultation training services.
(02) 9158 6068 View (02) 9158 6068
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Clinton Power
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
Darlinghurst, NSW 2010
I provide sex therapy for individual and couple sexual issues and I’m experienced in working with LGBT and same- sex couples.
Can you relate to either of these statements? “I’m so over hurtful relationships. I’m starting to think I’ll be single forever” "We can’t keep fighting like this. If something doesn’t change we’re headed for a breakup” If you can relate to the pain of struggling in a relationship, you’re not alone. If you’re an individual in relationship pain, I can help you overcome your past relationship hurts, understand your blocks to intimacy, and help you create a successful long-term relationship. If you’re a couple, I can help you resolve long-standing issues and rebuild the loving, intimate and harmonious relationship you once had.
I provide sex therapy for individual and couple sexual issues and I’m experienced in working with LGBT and same- sex couples.
Can you relate to either of these statements? “I’m so over hurtful relationships. I’m starting to think I’ll be single forever” "We can’t keep fighting like this. If something doesn’t change we’re headed for a breakup” If you can relate to the pain of struggling in a relationship, you’re not alone. If you’re an individual in relationship pain, I can help you overcome your past relationship hurts, understand your blocks to intimacy, and help you create a successful long-term relationship. If you’re a couple, I can help you resolve long-standing issues and rebuild the loving, intimate and harmonious relationship you once had.
(02) 8188 3842 View (02) 8188 3842
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Sexual Psychology: Clinical Psyc & Sex Therapist
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified Verified
Bondi Junction, NSW 2022
Our culture does not discuss sexual issues well.
Hi I'm George! Sexual problems are common and can be resolved. As a clinical psychologist and sex therapist I am in the unique position of having experience and training in both mental health and sexual function, gender, sexuality, and relationships at the Masters level.
Our culture does not discuss sexual issues well.
Hi I'm George! Sexual problems are common and can be resolved. As a clinical psychologist and sex therapist I am in the unique position of having experience and training in both mental health and sexual function, gender, sexuality, and relationships at the Masters level.
(02) 8294 6974 View (02) 8294 6974
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Alain Moulay
MSc
Verified Verified
Randwick, NSW 2031
Member of The Australian Society of Sexologists (SAS), I am qualified School of Medicine: Master in Science of Medicine & Graduate Dip in Psychological Science.
Sexuality is multidimensional that engages all areas of life: mental, emotional, physical and social. Understanding the psychology and the culture through which sexuality is experienced is integral to finding well being and happiness. Shame, guilt, anxiety, as well as other psychological or medical conditions, can profoundly affect how we experience sexuality and deeply impact or attach itself to the complexities of our personal history and life experiences.
Member of The Australian Society of Sexologists (SAS), I am qualified School of Medicine: Master in Science of Medicine & Graduate Dip in Psychological Science.
Sexuality is multidimensional that engages all areas of life: mental, emotional, physical and social. Understanding the psychology and the culture through which sexuality is experienced is integral to finding well being and happiness. Shame, guilt, anxiety, as well as other psychological or medical conditions, can profoundly affect how we experience sexuality and deeply impact or attach itself to the complexities of our personal history and life experiences.
(02) 9159 6682 View (02) 9159 6682
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Dabaco Sunset
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Darlinghurst, NSW 2010
Do you suffer from anxiety, shame or guilt regarding your self-expression, relationships or sexuality? Are you wanting to quieten your inner critic and open yourself to deeper, more intimate and lasting connections with others? Does it feel like there's something holding you back? Through our sessions together you'll notice your nervous system softening and emotional body becoming more regulated and able to be expressed. Together we can illuminate patterns that might ordinarily hide in the shadows.
Do you suffer from anxiety, shame or guilt regarding your self-expression, relationships or sexuality? Are you wanting to quieten your inner critic and open yourself to deeper, more intimate and lasting connections with others? Does it feel like there's something holding you back? Through our sessions together you'll notice your nervous system softening and emotional body becoming more regulated and able to be expressed. Together we can illuminate patterns that might ordinarily hide in the shadows.
(02) 9100 0705 View (02) 9100 0705
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Rhiannon Derrig
Psychotherapist, MSc, PACFA
Verified Verified
Surry Hills, NSW 2010
As a therapist, I deeply value sex positivity, social justice and removing the stigma and social constraints surrounding mental health work.
As a clincial psychotherapist and registered psycho sexual therapist, I specialise in helping individuals with trauma and PTSD, self-esteem issues, relationship issues, and sexual difficulties, including intimacy and trust. I am also passionate about providing support for navigating gendered, sexual, racial, and neuro diversity, and cultural identities, who may experience discrimination or internalised stigma. Centering unconditional positive regard, I work closely with the client to deeply explore how their past experiences, current situations, family background, and social elements of their lives have impacted their wellbeing.
As a therapist, I deeply value sex positivity, social justice and removing the stigma and social constraints surrounding mental health work.
As a clincial psychotherapist and registered psycho sexual therapist, I specialise in helping individuals with trauma and PTSD, self-esteem issues, relationship issues, and sexual difficulties, including intimacy and trust. I am also passionate about providing support for navigating gendered, sexual, racial, and neuro diversity, and cultural identities, who may experience discrimination or internalised stigma. Centering unconditional positive regard, I work closely with the client to deeply explore how their past experiences, current situations, family background, and social elements of their lives have impacted their wellbeing.
(02) 9100 0199 View (02) 9100 0199
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Alinda Small
Counsellor, MSc, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
Paddington, NSW 2021
In addition to my Psychology Degree, I hold a Master's in Science Medicine and Sexual Health.
Are you finding yourself in a less than harmonious relationship, dealing with high conflict, or needing to improve communication? You've come to the right place. I am here to help you develop and implement strategies to get back on the path that leads to happiness and success. By addressing the issues you're facing, I will guide you through a transformative process, helping you emerge on the other side with a new way of thinking and managing your relationships. With my support, you can confidently take on a new direction in life. Personalised and Comprehensive Care I recognise that every individual and relationship is unique.
In addition to my Psychology Degree, I hold a Master's in Science Medicine and Sexual Health.
Are you finding yourself in a less than harmonious relationship, dealing with high conflict, or needing to improve communication? You've come to the right place. I am here to help you develop and implement strategies to get back on the path that leads to happiness and success. By addressing the issues you're facing, I will guide you through a transformative process, helping you emerge on the other side with a new way of thinking and managing your relationships. With my support, you can confidently take on a new direction in life. Personalised and Comprehensive Care I recognise that every individual and relationship is unique.
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Stickbymecounselling / Psychosexual therapist
Counsellor, MA, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Darlinghurst, NSW 2010
She creates a secure environment and encourages people to explore their relationships, sexuality, and wants.
Johanna focuses on working with singles, couples, and families. She also works with men's sexual health difficulties, delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, and out-of-control sexual behaviours like porn addiction in addition to family therapy, fertility challenges, and low libido, women's sexual health issues, including preconceptions and conception, hypoactive sexual desire disorder .Johanna is sex worker friendly. Johanna is capable of working with poly/open partnerships and is LGBTQ, kink, and fetish friendly. Johanna also works with clients of the NDIS.
She creates a secure environment and encourages people to explore their relationships, sexuality, and wants.
Johanna focuses on working with singles, couples, and families. She also works with men's sexual health difficulties, delayed ejaculation, erectile dysfunction, and out-of-control sexual behaviours like porn addiction in addition to family therapy, fertility challenges, and low libido, women's sexual health issues, including preconceptions and conception, hypoactive sexual desire disorder .Johanna is sex worker friendly. Johanna is capable of working with poly/open partnerships and is LGBTQ, kink, and fetish friendly. Johanna also works with clients of the NDIS.
(02) 9100 0121 View (02) 9100 0121
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Tori McCarthy
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
Bondi, NSW 2026
I have extensive experience working in the field of Addiction and Trauma and believe whole heartedly that recovery is possible. I am a creative therapist who works intuitively and experimentally. I believe in treating the underlying causes not just the symptoms. I have held various senior clinical roles and continue to work as a Senior therapist at South Pacific Private where I run the sex and love addiction intensive programs. Working with Addiction and intimacy related disorders is an area I am passionate about as I love witnessing the profound change that can occur when we get vulnerable, trust and become our authentic selves.
I have extensive experience working in the field of Addiction and Trauma and believe whole heartedly that recovery is possible. I am a creative therapist who works intuitively and experimentally. I believe in treating the underlying causes not just the symptoms. I have held various senior clinical roles and continue to work as a Senior therapist at South Pacific Private where I run the sex and love addiction intensive programs. Working with Addiction and intimacy related disorders is an area I am passionate about as I love witnessing the profound change that can occur when we get vulnerable, trust and become our authentic selves.
(02) 8403 1332 View (02) 8403 1332
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Sex & Relationship Therapist | Lara Maree
Clinical Social Work/Therapist
Verified Verified
Darlinghurst, NSW 2010
I specialise in providing comprehensive support for individuals and relationships facing a myriad of challenges in the realm of sexuality.
I believe our sexuality is a unique and integral part of who we are, and deeply connected to our sense of well-being. My approach to Sex Therapy combines a comprehensive understanding of integrative health, sexual function and relational psychology. I firmly believe that a healthy sex life is a fundamental human right, and I know for many of us, traditional sex education has been non-existent or misleading. Unfortunately, difficulties in this area can have a profound negative impact on our self-esteem, relationships, and overall well-being. However, it doesn't have to be this way.
I specialise in providing comprehensive support for individuals and relationships facing a myriad of challenges in the realm of sexuality.
I believe our sexuality is a unique and integral part of who we are, and deeply connected to our sense of well-being. My approach to Sex Therapy combines a comprehensive understanding of integrative health, sexual function and relational psychology. I firmly believe that a healthy sex life is a fundamental human right, and I know for many of us, traditional sex education has been non-existent or misleading. Unfortunately, difficulties in this area can have a profound negative impact on our self-esteem, relationships, and overall well-being. However, it doesn't have to be this way.
(02) 9100 0625 View (02) 9100 0625
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Renee Davies
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Surry Hills, NSW 2010
She is currently completing a Masters in Psycho sexual Therapy and an intensive 3 year in-depth training in Psychodynamic / Psychoanalytic therapy.
At Elemental, Renée’s personal approach creates an environment where each person feels supported, connected, and understood. She believes that our sense of self and our interpersonal relationships are vital to our overall well-being. Relationships can shape who we are, how we see the world, and how we feel about ourselves. At the heart of our human experience lies the need for connection. Renée values diversity and cherishes the richness and creativity that our differences bring to our lives. She loves working with people of all sexual preferences, sex and gender identities, cultural backgrounds, and relationship types and styles.
She is currently completing a Masters in Psycho sexual Therapy and an intensive 3 year in-depth training in Psychodynamic / Psychoanalytic therapy.
At Elemental, Renée’s personal approach creates an environment where each person feels supported, connected, and understood. She believes that our sense of self and our interpersonal relationships are vital to our overall well-being. Relationships can shape who we are, how we see the world, and how we feel about ourselves. At the heart of our human experience lies the need for connection. Renée values diversity and cherishes the richness and creativity that our differences bring to our lives. She loves working with people of all sexual preferences, sex and gender identities, cultural backgrounds, and relationship types and styles.
(02) 9100 0327 View (02) 9100 0327
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Rochelle Cini
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
Darlinghurst, NSW 2010
I offer many areas of Counselling & Psychotherapy such as grief, loss, loneliness, separation & divorce, trauma, relationship therapy, Components of Sex Therapy like, Mismatch Libidos (trained with Tanya Koens) and the complex tapestry of the disability sector.
Welcome! My name is Rochelle, otherwise known as Shell or Shelly. Whatever you feel comfortable with. I am a registered Counsellor/Psychotherapist, holding a Graduate Diploma. Gaining clarity and working together to make a happier fulfilling life is what I aim for in all my clients. For some, better communication and building a strong sense of self that can cope with the challenges that life throws at you. living through life challenges of my own has given me a deeper understanding, compassion, and empathy in my approach to counseling without judgment and with steadfast care.
I offer many areas of Counselling & Psychotherapy such as grief, loss, loneliness, separation & divorce, trauma, relationship therapy, Components of Sex Therapy like, Mismatch Libidos (trained with Tanya Koens) and the complex tapestry of the disability sector.
Welcome! My name is Rochelle, otherwise known as Shell or Shelly. Whatever you feel comfortable with. I am a registered Counsellor/Psychotherapist, holding a Graduate Diploma. Gaining clarity and working together to make a happier fulfilling life is what I aim for in all my clients. For some, better communication and building a strong sense of self that can cope with the challenges that life throws at you. living through life challenges of my own has given me a deeper understanding, compassion, and empathy in my approach to counseling without judgment and with steadfast care.
(02) 7804 4538 View (02) 7804 4538
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Sally Walsh
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
Bondi Junction, NSW 2022
Includes sexual health.
Immediately Available - No Waitlist - Registered Clinical Psychotherapist and Registered Mental Health Practitioner. Are you overwhelmed, anxious or depressed or seeking practical support? Are you struggling with an issue on your own? We can work this out together to help you feel more in control. I can help you see your situation more clearly with talking therapy and somatically integrating body/mind experiences for emotional distress support for anxiety, depression and trauma (CPTSD) ie. brain intervention (7-8 sessions). Relationship struggles ? including narcissism tendencies or sex issues (emotional, physical or sexual).
Includes sexual health.
Immediately Available - No Waitlist - Registered Clinical Psychotherapist and Registered Mental Health Practitioner. Are you overwhelmed, anxious or depressed or seeking practical support? Are you struggling with an issue on your own? We can work this out together to help you feel more in control. I can help you see your situation more clearly with talking therapy and somatically integrating body/mind experiences for emotional distress support for anxiety, depression and trauma (CPTSD) ie. brain intervention (7-8 sessions). Relationship struggles ? including narcissism tendencies or sex issues (emotional, physical or sexual).
(02) 9100 0123 View (02) 9100 0123
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Marlee Greer
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Darlinghurst, NSW 2010  (Online Only)
I offer support with food and body image issues, alcohol or substance use, trauma (developmental, interpersonal, systemic, or intergenerational), exploring neurodivergence and developing affirming strategies, nervous system education and regulation strategies, polyamory/consensual non-monogamy, same-gender (LGBQ) relationship issues & sexual identity.
I offer online counselling and advocacy services for people who are LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, in diverse relationship structures or with complex health challenges or disability. I am committed to providing a space that is anti-racist, LGBTQIA+ affirming, fat-liberating, sex-positive, neurodiversity-affirming, disability justice-oriented, trauma-informed and anti-oppressive.
I offer support with food and body image issues, alcohol or substance use, trauma (developmental, interpersonal, systemic, or intergenerational), exploring neurodivergence and developing affirming strategies, nervous system education and regulation strategies, polyamory/consensual non-monogamy, same-gender (LGBQ) relationship issues & sexual identity.
I offer online counselling and advocacy services for people who are LGBTQIA+, neurodivergent, in diverse relationship structures or with complex health challenges or disability. I am committed to providing a space that is anti-racist, LGBTQIA+ affirming, fat-liberating, sex-positive, neurodiversity-affirming, disability justice-oriented, trauma-informed and anti-oppressive.
(03) 7037 6955 View (03) 7037 6955

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Sex Therapy Counsellors

Who is sex therapy for?

Sex problems are common in relationships. Many people want a better sex life and want to feel loved and desired by their partner. It is difficult for couples to resolve sexual problems on their own because people often feel ashamed to talk about their sexual desires fearing they are not normal, when in fact a very broad range of preferences and behaviors are normal. A sex therapist can help clarify this and other matters.

Why do people need sex therapy?

Many people do not know how to talk about their erotic needs or their emotional needs, both of which are addressed in sex therapy. Couples often live with sexual difficulties for years before seeking help, and in that time, partners may experience so much disappointment and alienation that they may fear their problems mean they are incompatible. Once people experience disappointment, it is difficult to find resolution without help.

What happens in sex therapy?

People have many misconceptions about what takes place in sex therapy. First, it is a form of talk therapy in which partners discuss their sexual concerns; it does not involve touching or physical exploration of any kind. Sex therapy typically helps couples get comfortable talking to each other about sex so that, in the privacy of their home life, they can openly discuss their sexual desires and make decisions about what they want to do. Couples are typically assigned activities to do at home that build intimacy skills.

What kinds of problems do sex therapists treat?

Very often, partners differ in their degree of sexual desire and struggle over how often to have sex. Or they may have fights about porn use or have difficulty connecting sexually after one partner is unfaithful. Men may have problems with premature ejaculation. Women may find themselves struggling to become aroused or to achieve an orgasm. Sometimes partners feel like they have lost the sense of attraction to their partner. These are all common issues dealt with in sex therapy.