Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counselling in Alexandria, NSW
“I’d love to help you develop a supportive, kind and caring relationship with yourself, and secure and fulfilling relationships with others. Working with you to understand why you respond to the world like you do, what really matters to you, and supporting behaviour that back up your ambitions is my jam. We all face challenges in how we relate to ourselves and the world. I believe developing a sense of psychological safety and flexibility, and nurturing emotional intelligence and agility are key to recovering, striving and thriving in all parts of your life”
“I’d love to help you develop a supportive, kind and caring relationship with yourself, and secure and fulfilling relationships with others. Working with you to understand why you respond to the world like you do, what really matters to you, and supporting behaviour that back up your ambitions is my jam. We all face challenges in how we relate to ourselves and the world. I believe developing a sense of psychological safety and flexibility, and nurturing emotional intelligence and agility are key to recovering, striving and thriving in all parts of your life”
“How awesome to find you taking a brave leap and considering me to be your psychologist. I’m looking forward to meeting you, and getting to be your partner in your therapeutic journey. There is so much power in a warm, secure, non-judgmental, therapeutic relationship to promote true healing and meaningful change. I believe whole-heartedly in providing that kind of space and energy for you at every session. Over my life I have been working hard to gain a wealth of experience and knowledge in counselling in a wide range of modalities. I feel confident that I can help you on your pathway to the best version of yourself."
“How awesome to find you taking a brave leap and considering me to be your psychologist. I’m looking forward to meeting you, and getting to be your partner in your therapeutic journey. There is so much power in a warm, secure, non-judgmental, therapeutic relationship to promote true healing and meaningful change. I believe whole-heartedly in providing that kind of space and energy for you at every session. Over my life I have been working hard to gain a wealth of experience and knowledge in counselling in a wide range of modalities. I feel confident that I can help you on your pathway to the best version of yourself."
“Thank you for wanting to build a relationship with one of our psychologists. If you've been searching for a space where you can feel comfortable, loved and seen for the real you - we will be perfect for each other. At our practice every thought is given to your experience and your unique journey. Our time together will be grounded in meaning, purpose and your evolution. Over the years, we have built strong relationships with our clients, and developed a cutting-edge practice based on the reputation of our work. Personal growth and human optimisation is our healthy(ish) obsession!" - Principal Psychologist Charlene Neuhoff
“Thank you for wanting to build a relationship with one of our psychologists. If you've been searching for a space where you can feel comfortable, loved and seen for the real you - we will be perfect for each other. At our practice every thought is given to your experience and your unique journey. Our time together will be grounded in meaning, purpose and your evolution. Over the years, we have built strong relationships with our clients, and developed a cutting-edge practice based on the reputation of our work. Personal growth and human optimisation is our healthy(ish) obsession!" - Principal Psychologist Charlene Neuhoff
Hi, I'm Patrick. I'm a clinical psychologist passionate about offering thoughtful, affirming care for people who are navigating life with depth, insight, and complexity.
As a Queer person from a culturally diverse background, I know how hard it can be to find a therapist who truly understands identity, intersectionality, and the broader systems we move through. My practice is built on the belief that mental health support should feel safe, empowering, and free from judgment. I enjoy working with people who are self-reflective, curious, and ready to invest in their growth.
Hi, I'm Patrick. I'm a clinical psychologist passionate about offering thoughtful, affirming care for people who are navigating life with depth, insight, and complexity.
As a Queer person from a culturally diverse background, I know how hard it can be to find a therapist who truly understands identity, intersectionality, and the broader systems we move through. My practice is built on the belief that mental health support should feel safe, empowering, and free from judgment. I enjoy working with people who are self-reflective, curious, and ready to invest in their growth.
Welcome, I am Mathew Bergan (he, him), a therapist and counsellor for individuals. I am committed to creating a space where you feel heard, respected, and supported while exploring your experiences. My approach is about building trust so you can deepen your awareness and gain insight into the patterns shaping your life. We’ll work collaboratively to understand what’s at the core of your challenges, while also focusing on lasting change. I am skilled in supporting individuals to navigate issues involving sexuality, gender, relationships & cultural diversity. I hold a Graduate Diploma in Gestalt psychotherapy and also Brainspotting.
Welcome, I am Mathew Bergan (he, him), a therapist and counsellor for individuals. I am committed to creating a space where you feel heard, respected, and supported while exploring your experiences. My approach is about building trust so you can deepen your awareness and gain insight into the patterns shaping your life. We’ll work collaboratively to understand what’s at the core of your challenges, while also focusing on lasting change. I am skilled in supporting individuals to navigate issues involving sexuality, gender, relationships & cultural diversity. I hold a Graduate Diploma in Gestalt psychotherapy and also Brainspotting.
Life's a rollercoaster, and sometimes you need a co-pilot. I'm here to help you navigate the twists and turns of love, sex, and everything in between. We'll laugh, we'll cry, and we'll definitely have some "aha!" moments. Let's ditch the shame and create a life that's truly fulfilling.
Life's a rollercoaster, and sometimes you need a co-pilot. I'm here to help you navigate the twists and turns of love, sex, and everything in between. We'll laugh, we'll cry, and we'll definitely have some "aha!" moments. Let's ditch the shame and create a life that's truly fulfilling.
As a Medicare provider and psychotherapist with over 20 years experience in mental health care I'm here for you. My clients include LGBTQ+ people, men struggling with pornography use, those exploring sexuality and others recovering from religious abuse, coercive control, domestic violence and addiction. I'm a relationship specialist. Our sessions will give you a sounding board, a witness to your trauma, tools and professional guidance. I will listen, guide you with focussed psychological strategies and encourage you to trust yourself. Through open discussion, you can improve the relationship you have with yourself and others.
As a Medicare provider and psychotherapist with over 20 years experience in mental health care I'm here for you. My clients include LGBTQ+ people, men struggling with pornography use, those exploring sexuality and others recovering from religious abuse, coercive control, domestic violence and addiction. I'm a relationship specialist. Our sessions will give you a sounding board, a witness to your trauma, tools and professional guidance. I will listen, guide you with focussed psychological strategies and encourage you to trust yourself. Through open discussion, you can improve the relationship you have with yourself and others.
Therapy can be a big step and decision and it is important that your therapist is someone you feel safe and supported by, that you are respected and so are your strengths and capacities. I work in a holistic and supportive way working with clients to heal, and achieve the outcomes that they choose. I have worked for a number of years with survivors of childhood sexual assault, adult sexual assault, intimate partner and other violence and also work with those who use violence.
Therapy can be a big step and decision and it is important that your therapist is someone you feel safe and supported by, that you are respected and so are your strengths and capacities. I work in a holistic and supportive way working with clients to heal, and achieve the outcomes that they choose. I have worked for a number of years with survivors of childhood sexual assault, adult sexual assault, intimate partner and other violence and also work with those who use violence.
It's OK to feel daunted by the prospect of counselling; sessions with me will be collaborative and will go at your own pace. There will be no judgment, you won't have to talk about anything that feels too painful until you are ready and I will not tell you what to do. Sometimes people think they have to be “crazy” or have mental health issues, or have experienced a severe trauma to see a therapist. My response is, if it’s important to you, then it’s worth talking about with someone. It doesn’t matter how small you think the issue is, talking about it can help.
It's OK to feel daunted by the prospect of counselling; sessions with me will be collaborative and will go at your own pace. There will be no judgment, you won't have to talk about anything that feels too painful until you are ready and I will not tell you what to do. Sometimes people think they have to be “crazy” or have mental health issues, or have experienced a severe trauma to see a therapist. My response is, if it’s important to you, then it’s worth talking about with someone. It doesn’t matter how small you think the issue is, talking about it can help.
More Therapists Nearby
I specialise in helping LGBTQIA+ folks, those exploring relationships (including ethical non-monogamy/ kink dynamics), and anyone navigating trauma, mental health, or identity challenges.
Hi, I’m Eliana (she/they), a sex-positive psychotherapist creating spaces where you can be your authentic self.
Before becoming a therapist, I worked in obstetrics and fertility medicine practices while earning my Masters degree in Counselling and Psychotherapy. Once the quirky queer kid in a small town, I’ve now settled in Sydney, where I’m all about creating inclusive, affirming spaces for healing, growth, and connection.
I specialise in helping LGBTQIA+ folks, those exploring relationships (including ethical non-monogamy/ kink dynamics), and anyone navigating trauma, mental health, or identity challenges.
Hi, I’m Eliana (she/they), a sex-positive psychotherapist creating spaces where you can be your authentic self.
Before becoming a therapist, I worked in obstetrics and fertility medicine practices while earning my Masters degree in Counselling and Psychotherapy. Once the quirky queer kid in a small town, I’ve now settled in Sydney, where I’m all about creating inclusive, affirming spaces for healing, growth, and connection.
I am kink-friendly, sex-positive, and supportive of all relationship styles, recognizing that every relationship is as unique as the people in it.
Together, we can work towards building healthier, more fulfilling connections that align with your authentic self.
I am kink-friendly, sex-positive, and supportive of all relationship styles, recognizing that every relationship is as unique as the people in it.
Together, we can work towards building healthier, more fulfilling connections that align with your authentic self.
Whether you're navigating ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, polyamory, or kink dynamics, you're not alone - and you don’t have to figure it out by yourself.
Whether you’re looking to improve communication, manage jealousy, ease relationship anxiety, or work through a specific challenge, we’ll tackle it together at a pace that feels right. I'm LGBTQIA+ positive, neurodivergent affirming, and genuinely committed to supporting people who live and love outside the box.
Whether you're navigating ethical non-monogamy, open relationships, polyamory, or kink dynamics, you're not alone - and you don’t have to figure it out by yourself.
Whether you’re looking to improve communication, manage jealousy, ease relationship anxiety, or work through a specific challenge, we’ll tackle it together at a pace that feels right. I'm LGBTQIA+ positive, neurodivergent affirming, and genuinely committed to supporting people who live and love outside the box.
I'm a passionate ally of LGBTQIA+ folk, kink communities incl.
Hello. I'm a counsellor and a sex and relationship therapist, and welcome you to get in touch. I offer online, telephone sessions worldwide, and in-person sessions in Sydney.
There are lots of ways I can support you, including support around anxiety and loss of direction, managing your sexual urges and addictions including online porn and substance use, changes in erections, understanding fetishes and kinks, and pain and fear of sex and intimacy. Together, we can identify the life you want, find ways to remove the obstacles, and plan a fulfilling way forward.
I'm a passionate ally of LGBTQIA+ folk, kink communities incl.
Hello. I'm a counsellor and a sex and relationship therapist, and welcome you to get in touch. I offer online, telephone sessions worldwide, and in-person sessions in Sydney.
There are lots of ways I can support you, including support around anxiety and loss of direction, managing your sexual urges and addictions including online porn and substance use, changes in erections, understanding fetishes and kinks, and pain and fear of sex and intimacy. Together, we can identify the life you want, find ways to remove the obstacles, and plan a fulfilling way forward.
I offer support for individuals and couples experiencing relationship challenges particularly ethical non monogamy and kink.
I use a combination of holistic trauma informed strategies to safely support clients with processing their trauma and shifting unhelpful beliefs and unconscious patterns of behaviour. My unique approach is tailored to each individual and includes somatic embodiment, mindfulness based therapies, transpersonal therapy, ACT and CFT to achieve the best outcome.
I offer support for individuals and couples experiencing relationship challenges particularly ethical non monogamy and kink.
I use a combination of holistic trauma informed strategies to safely support clients with processing their trauma and shifting unhelpful beliefs and unconscious patterns of behaviour. My unique approach is tailored to each individual and includes somatic embodiment, mindfulness based therapies, transpersonal therapy, ACT and CFT to achieve the best outcome.
I am a sex positive, body positive, gender-affirming, neurodiversity-affirming, LGBTQIA+ affirming counsellor for 16+ folk looking for warm, non-judgemental support.
I practice client-led therapy, and believe the client is the expert in their own journey. I will support you on your individual path using a range of person-centred techniques and drawing from a broad theoretical basis. Above all, my aim is to nurture healing through connection.
I am a sex positive, body positive, gender-affirming, neurodiversity-affirming, LGBTQIA+ affirming counsellor for 16+ folk looking for warm, non-judgemental support.
I practice client-led therapy, and believe the client is the expert in their own journey. I will support you on your individual path using a range of person-centred techniques and drawing from a broad theoretical basis. Above all, my aim is to nurture healing through connection.
I take a collaborative, and evidence-based approach to support individuals with gender and sexual identity, kink, gender dysphoria, mood disorders, anxiety, OCD, substance use, ADHD, stigma, interpersonal issues, grief, life transitions, and trauma.
Hello! I'm Xander (he/him) I’m a provisional psychologist dedicated to providing compassionate, non-judgmental, and trauma-informed care, with a focus on improving outcomes for neurodivergent individuals and the LGBTQIA+ community. As a Queer person myself, I understand how difficult it can be to find quality, affirming care, and my goal is to create a space where Queer and neurodivergent individuals can authentically express and explore themselves without fear of judgment.
I take a collaborative, and evidence-based approach to support individuals with gender and sexual identity, kink, gender dysphoria, mood disorders, anxiety, OCD, substance use, ADHD, stigma, interpersonal issues, grief, life transitions, and trauma.
Hello! I'm Xander (he/him) I’m a provisional psychologist dedicated to providing compassionate, non-judgmental, and trauma-informed care, with a focus on improving outcomes for neurodivergent individuals and the LGBTQIA+ community. As a Queer person myself, I understand how difficult it can be to find quality, affirming care, and my goal is to create a space where Queer and neurodivergent individuals can authentically express and explore themselves without fear of judgment.
Sexual Psychology: Clinical Psyc & Sex Therapist
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Bondi Junction, NSW 2022
Common issues: Low Desire; Erection; Painful Sex; Ejaculation; Porn/Sex Addiction; OCD (HOCD, POCD); PTSD (CSA, Sexual Assault); Kink; (a)Sexuality; Gender; Sex w cancer/disability; Paraphilia; STIs; Sex workers; ENM/Polyamory; ADHD; Depression; Anxiety; ASD.
Hi! I’m George. Sexual problems are common and can be resolved. As a clinical psychologist and sex therapist I am in the unique position of having experience and training in both mental health and sexual function, gender, sexuality, and relationships at the Masters level. Although my specialty is sexual issues, I take a whole person perspective and offer treatment for all metal health and relationship problems. I work with individuals, couples and poly relationships
Common issues: Low Desire; Erection; Painful Sex; Ejaculation; Porn/Sex Addiction; OCD (HOCD, POCD); PTSD (CSA, Sexual Assault); Kink; (a)Sexuality; Gender; Sex w cancer/disability; Paraphilia; STIs; Sex workers; ENM/Polyamory; ADHD; Depression; Anxiety; ASD.
Hi! I’m George. Sexual problems are common and can be resolved. As a clinical psychologist and sex therapist I am in the unique position of having experience and training in both mental health and sexual function, gender, sexuality, and relationships at the Masters level. Although my specialty is sexual issues, I take a whole person perspective and offer treatment for all metal health and relationship problems. I work with individuals, couples and poly relationships
Hi, I'm Broady (he/him), an Accredited Mental Health Social Worker deeply committed to improving mental health outcomes for neurodivergent individuals and the LGBTIQA+ community. With a personal background as a queer and neurodivergent individual, I bring a unique perspective to my practice, understanding firsthand how stigma and discrimination can adversely affect mental health. I am dedicated to providing trauma-informed, neuro-affirming, sex-positive, and sexuality and gender affirming care, ensuring a safe and nurturing therapeutic environment where everyone is respected for their individuality and encouraged to be themselves.
Hi, I'm Broady (he/him), an Accredited Mental Health Social Worker deeply committed to improving mental health outcomes for neurodivergent individuals and the LGBTIQA+ community. With a personal background as a queer and neurodivergent individual, I bring a unique perspective to my practice, understanding firsthand how stigma and discrimination can adversely affect mental health. I am dedicated to providing trauma-informed, neuro-affirming, sex-positive, and sexuality and gender affirming care, ensuring a safe and nurturing therapeutic environment where everyone is respected for their individuality and encouraged to be themselves.
couples and poly), sex/ gender/ erotic and relationship identity concerns, sexual compulsions, specific sexual interests (BDSM, kink, fetishes)/ vaginismus/ Trauma/ Shame
Hello, my name is Lisa McGarva (she/ they). As a Queer Australian Clinical Sexologist, Relationship Therapist, Yoga Therapist, Counsellor, and Educator, I specialise in guiding individuals, couples, and people in ENM relationships, on their journey towards greater emotional and sexual well-being. My approach integrates evidence-based practices, through the lens of GSERD (Gender, Sexual, Erotic, Relationship Diversity), Somatics and soon-to-be completed EMDR training for trauma recovery. I offer both in- person intensive therapy retreats globally and online sessions, providing a safe and supportive space.
couples and poly), sex/ gender/ erotic and relationship identity concerns, sexual compulsions, specific sexual interests (BDSM, kink, fetishes)/ vaginismus/ Trauma/ Shame
Hello, my name is Lisa McGarva (she/ they). As a Queer Australian Clinical Sexologist, Relationship Therapist, Yoga Therapist, Counsellor, and Educator, I specialise in guiding individuals, couples, and people in ENM relationships, on their journey towards greater emotional and sexual well-being. My approach integrates evidence-based practices, through the lens of GSERD (Gender, Sexual, Erotic, Relationship Diversity), Somatics and soon-to-be completed EMDR training for trauma recovery. I offer both in- person intensive therapy retreats globally and online sessions, providing a safe and supportive space.
I bring a broad perspective into my therapeutic practice; with qualifications in performing arts, sexology, education and counselling, and lived experience in the areas of neurodivesity, non-monogamy, LGBTIQA+ identities and BDSM/ kink.
Life is messy and imperfect. Sexuality and identity is a lifelong journey. So many of us are limited in our exploration due to shame, stigma, or lack of sexuality education. I believe in a sex-positive approach which acknowledges and celebrates the diversity of human sexuality, identity and expression. When we are informed, empowered and validated, we live happier and more authentic lives.
I bring a broad perspective into my therapeutic practice; with qualifications in performing arts, sexology, education and counselling, and lived experience in the areas of neurodivesity, non-monogamy, LGBTIQA+ identities and BDSM/ kink.
Life is messy and imperfect. Sexuality and identity is a lifelong journey. So many of us are limited in our exploration due to shame, stigma, or lack of sexuality education. I believe in a sex-positive approach which acknowledges and celebrates the diversity of human sexuality, identity and expression. When we are informed, empowered and validated, we live happier and more authentic lives.
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Sex-Positive, Kink Allied Counsellors
Why might an individual want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
A sex-positive or kinky individual may want to see a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist because the client may feel safer and more supported discussing their experiences and challenges. A therapist who identifies as kink-friendly will have experience with clients having diverse sexual preferences and will likely be nonjudgmental and supportive about issues brought to the table. It is important to note that sex-positive, kink-allied individuals may find equal success with therapists who do not have such specialised knowledge and background. The most important factor in the success of therapy is for the client and practitioner to form a strong, trusting bond.
Do therapists have special training to gain expertise in sex-positive, kink-allied treatment?
Generally, no. There are limited training programs and unofficial accreditations that therapists can pursue, but a therapist’s expertise will ultimately come from their previous experience with similar clients, their engagement with organisations that promote sex positivity or kink-allied lifestyles, and the importance they place on safety and cultural sensitivity.
How can individuals recognise a good sex-positive, kink-allied therapist?
An experienced therapist is able to help clients explore their sexual identity and expression and relieve any discomfort or stigma attached to discussing such matters and the client’s overall challenges. A therapist who is sex-positive and kink-allied is able to create an environment that honors a client’s experience and sexual preferences. To recognise a good therapist, clients can simply ask directly about topics and issues important to them and gauge their comfort level and connection with a clinician based on the responses.
Can clients benefit from having a therapist with a focus on sex positivity and alternative sexual lifestyles?
Some individuals may feel most comfortable knowing that the clinician they’re working with has a commitment to creating an atmosphere of sex positivity and has experience with relationship diversity and alternative relationship structures. Working with a sex-positive, kink-allied therapist may help clients respect their own challenges and improve identity-affirming treatment.