Gottman Method Counselling in Sydney, NSW

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Daniella Davidson
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000  (Online Only)
As a certified counsellor trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, I offer personalised coaching grounded in psychology and spirituality.
The ideal client for my services is someone who is seeking guidance and support in navigating various aspects of their personal relationships and love life. They may be experiencing challenges such as difficulty finding a compatible partner, struggling with communication or conflict resolution within their relationships, or feeling unsure about how to navigate family dynamics.
As a certified counsellor trained in Gottman Method Couples Therapy, I offer personalised coaching grounded in psychology and spirituality.
The ideal client for my services is someone who is seeking guidance and support in navigating various aspects of their personal relationships and love life. They may be experiencing challenges such as difficulty finding a compatible partner, struggling with communication or conflict resolution within their relationships, or feeling unsure about how to navigate family dynamics.
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Keeping Minds Positive Pty Ltd
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
My specialty is in couples therapy, using the Gottman Method.
My role as a counsellor and life coach is to help my clients identify their strengths and resources, overcome obstacles, and develop the skills and strategies they need to achieve their goals. I work collaboratively with my clients to create a supportive and non-judgmental environment, where they can explore their challenges, clarify their values and priorities, and create a roadmap for success. By working together, my clients can achieve their full potential and lead a life that is fulfilling, purposeful, and authentic.
My specialty is in couples therapy, using the Gottman Method.
My role as a counsellor and life coach is to help my clients identify their strengths and resources, overcome obstacles, and develop the skills and strategies they need to achieve their goals. I work collaboratively with my clients to create a supportive and non-judgmental environment, where they can explore their challenges, clarify their values and priorities, and create a roadmap for success. By working together, my clients can achieve their full potential and lead a life that is fulfilling, purposeful, and authentic.
(02) 9159 6526 View (02) 9159 6526
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Christine Ortiz
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
West Hoxton, NSW 2171  (Online Only)
Let's work together, either individually or in couples counselling services (using the Gottman Method Couples Therapy).
My clients are both couples and individuals. Couples go through difference stages throughout their journey together. Every couple is different and so, every couple will handle challenges differently, express love differently and communicate differently. The same thing applies for individuals. Some clients want to work on certain skills to improve relationships with a romantic partner, family or friends. Build self esteem or start dating again. Work through other life challenges you are currently facing, such as career. Achieve a greater self-awareness to help you navigate through these challenges.
Let's work together, either individually or in couples counselling services (using the Gottman Method Couples Therapy).
My clients are both couples and individuals. Couples go through difference stages throughout their journey together. Every couple is different and so, every couple will handle challenges differently, express love differently and communicate differently. The same thing applies for individuals. Some clients want to work on certain skills to improve relationships with a romantic partner, family or friends. Build self esteem or start dating again. Work through other life challenges you are currently facing, such as career. Achieve a greater self-awareness to help you navigate through these challenges.
(02) 8105 6269 View (02) 8105 6269
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Helen Qin Counselling (English, Mandarin)
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
Surry Hills, NSW 2010
Hello, I am an registered Medicare provider, highly professional and compassionate bilingual psychotherapist/counsellor (English, Mandarin) and Accredited Mental Health Social Worker with more than 10 years of clinical experience. I am also a professionally trained and qualified relationship/marriage counsellor (Dr. John Gottman method of couple counselling level 3 trained).
Hello, I am an registered Medicare provider, highly professional and compassionate bilingual psychotherapist/counsellor (English, Mandarin) and Accredited Mental Health Social Worker with more than 10 years of clinical experience. I am also a professionally trained and qualified relationship/marriage counsellor (Dr. John Gottman method of couple counselling level 3 trained).
(02) 9098 5155 View (02) 9098 5155
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Brooke Morgan
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Camden, NSW 2570
Are you struggling in your personal relationships & battling the same issues? Perhaps betrayal, infidelity, loss, addiction, PTSD or other challenges exist? My couples counselling is influenced by the Gottman Method, Emotion Focused & Solutions Focused therapy.
Are you struggling with your relationship with food, eating and body image. You don't know how or where to start or perhaps friends and family members are concerned ? You may be battling with patterns of restricting food, disordered eating, binge eating, obsessive exercise and body dysmorphia and feel like you want to change but don't know how? I offer person centred counselling to support you in a safe & non judgemental way, from an affirming & trauma informed approach. Mental Health support is crucial in the step to recovery from an Eating Disorder or Disordered Eating behaviours.
Are you struggling in your personal relationships & battling the same issues? Perhaps betrayal, infidelity, loss, addiction, PTSD or other challenges exist? My couples counselling is influenced by the Gottman Method, Emotion Focused & Solutions Focused therapy.
Are you struggling with your relationship with food, eating and body image. You don't know how or where to start or perhaps friends and family members are concerned ? You may be battling with patterns of restricting food, disordered eating, binge eating, obsessive exercise and body dysmorphia and feel like you want to change but don't know how? I offer person centred counselling to support you in a safe & non judgemental way, from an affirming & trauma informed approach. Mental Health support is crucial in the step to recovery from an Eating Disorder or Disordered Eating behaviours.
(02) 4210 5854 View (02) 4210 5854
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Psychology Couple Family Therapy Australia-Sandip
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Surry Hills, NSW 2010
I have been trained in a range of therapeutic modalities including CBT, EMDR, Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT), Gottman Method, Emotion Focused Couple Therapy, Systemic Couple and Family Therapy.
I am the Founder of Psychology Couple & Family Therapy Australia. As a Registered Psychologist, Couple and Family Therapist I can assist people to manage anxiety, depression, PTSD symptoms, couple and family relationship difficulties. I work with adults, adolescents, children and provide individual, couple and family therapy sessions to people experiencing a wide range of mental health issues. I have Post Graduate Diploma of Psychology, Graduate Diploma of Family Therapy and Master of Arts (Couple & Family Therapy). I have specific interest in treating Anxiety, Depression, PTSD, Complex PTSD, Couple and Family Relationship problems.
I have been trained in a range of therapeutic modalities including CBT, EMDR, Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT), Compassion Focused Therapy (CFT), Gottman Method, Emotion Focused Couple Therapy, Systemic Couple and Family Therapy.
I am the Founder of Psychology Couple & Family Therapy Australia. As a Registered Psychologist, Couple and Family Therapist I can assist people to manage anxiety, depression, PTSD symptoms, couple and family relationship difficulties. I work with adults, adolescents, children and provide individual, couple and family therapy sessions to people experiencing a wide range of mental health issues. I have Post Graduate Diploma of Psychology, Graduate Diploma of Family Therapy and Master of Arts (Couple & Family Therapy). I have specific interest in treating Anxiety, Depression, PTSD, Complex PTSD, Couple and Family Relationship problems.
0411 601 833 View 0411 601 833
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Larissa Kirpichnikov
Psychologist, PsyBA - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Crows Nest, NSW 2065
Larissa leans on the Gottman Method for couples therapy/coaching.
Couples Therapy & Coaching / Individuals Therapy & Coaching / Family Dispute Resolution Mediation (FDRP) & Divorce Coaching Services. With more than 25 years experience of living and working in Australia and abroad, Larissa understands that life and relationships are not always smooth. Whether you are wishing to improve your intimate relationship, seek individual support, parenting &/or financial FDR mediation services, or divorce coaching, please call to discuss how we can best assist you. You may also visit our website for further information.
Larissa leans on the Gottman Method for couples therapy/coaching.
Couples Therapy & Coaching / Individuals Therapy & Coaching / Family Dispute Resolution Mediation (FDRP) & Divorce Coaching Services. With more than 25 years experience of living and working in Australia and abroad, Larissa understands that life and relationships are not always smooth. Whether you are wishing to improve your intimate relationship, seek individual support, parenting &/or financial FDR mediation services, or divorce coaching, please call to discuss how we can best assist you. You may also visit our website for further information.
(02) 9100 0410 View (02) 9100 0410
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Daria Kouznetsova
Psychologist, PsychD, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified Verified
Mosman, NSW 2088  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Daria has completed advanced training in Acceptance & Commitment Therapy and The Gottman Method of Couples Therapy, as well as carried out Postgraduate-level research in health, physical activity, medical illness/disease, and human behaviour change.
Dr Daria is an empathic, vibrant, warm and down to earth Clinical Psychologist, Couples Therapist and Executive/Leadership Coach who is dedicated to supporting her clients in reaching their goals. Daria is passionate about helping individuals, couples and families across a wide range of presentations, and prefers to use an integrative approach to therapy and coaching. Her robust understanding and experience with clinical and corporate presentations contributes to her strong desire to support clients in achieving meaningful change, growth and personal development in any area of their lives.
Daria has completed advanced training in Acceptance & Commitment Therapy and The Gottman Method of Couples Therapy, as well as carried out Postgraduate-level research in health, physical activity, medical illness/disease, and human behaviour change.
Dr Daria is an empathic, vibrant, warm and down to earth Clinical Psychologist, Couples Therapist and Executive/Leadership Coach who is dedicated to supporting her clients in reaching their goals. Daria is passionate about helping individuals, couples and families across a wide range of presentations, and prefers to use an integrative approach to therapy and coaching. Her robust understanding and experience with clinical and corporate presentations contributes to her strong desire to support clients in achieving meaningful change, growth and personal development in any area of their lives.
(02) 8294 8509 View (02) 8294 8509
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Sharon Gold
Psychologist, PhD, MAPS
Verified Verified
Woollahra, NSW 2025
As an EMDR Therapist and Level 3 Gottman Method Couples Therapy trained psychologist, I am able to provide you with comprehensive, tailored assessments and an integrative treatment approach within a biopsychosocial framework drawing from evidence-based cognitive and behavioural therapies.
Are you tired of arguing with your partner and feeling misunderstood? Unhappy, anxious and stressed by trauma and/or substance issues? Drinking too much? Or perhaps you are not sleeping because of nightmares or overthinking? Or you've been in therapy for long standing issues (eg childhood trauma) and progress is still not being made? Perhaps you have recently suffered a loss or going through a major life transition or chronic illness? If you are sick of feeling isolated, lonely and exhausted by how it is, then Max, my Animal Assistant Therapy dog and I would both love to help you live better in your life.
As an EMDR Therapist and Level 3 Gottman Method Couples Therapy trained psychologist, I am able to provide you with comprehensive, tailored assessments and an integrative treatment approach within a biopsychosocial framework drawing from evidence-based cognitive and behavioural therapies.
Are you tired of arguing with your partner and feeling misunderstood? Unhappy, anxious and stressed by trauma and/or substance issues? Drinking too much? Or perhaps you are not sleeping because of nightmares or overthinking? Or you've been in therapy for long standing issues (eg childhood trauma) and progress is still not being made? Perhaps you have recently suffered a loss or going through a major life transition or chronic illness? If you are sick of feeling isolated, lonely and exhausted by how it is, then Max, my Animal Assistant Therapy dog and I would both love to help you live better in your life.
(02) 4062 8754 View (02) 4062 8754
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Peter Morcos
Psychologist, PsychD, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Castle Hill, NSW 2154
Peter works with range of concerns including depression, anxiety, and trauma. He helps client recognise which patterns of thoughts and behaviours maintain their experience of distress while applying a compassionate lens to understand what clients have been through. Peter also offers couples counselling and has completed Level 2 Gottman Method training.
Peter works with range of concerns including depression, anxiety, and trauma. He helps client recognise which patterns of thoughts and behaviours maintain their experience of distress while applying a compassionate lens to understand what clients have been through. Peter also offers couples counselling and has completed Level 2 Gottman Method training.
(02) 7804 4031 View (02) 7804 4031
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Bryan McDade
Counsellor, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Camden, NSW 2570
I specialise in the Gottman Method for relationship counselling, Narrative Therapy, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.
As a registered counsellor, I specialise in providing support to individuals who are going through emotional distress or seeking to explore their psychological concerns. My clients often face challenges in their relationships and are seeking guidance on how to navigate uncomfortable situations. They also express an interest in understanding how the narratives they tell themselves shape their lives, and how their daily interactions can influence those narratives. I am committed to helping my clients unpack their issues and gain a better understanding of themselves.
I specialise in the Gottman Method for relationship counselling, Narrative Therapy, and Acceptance and Commitment Therapy.
As a registered counsellor, I specialise in providing support to individuals who are going through emotional distress or seeking to explore their psychological concerns. My clients often face challenges in their relationships and are seeking guidance on how to navigate uncomfortable situations. They also express an interest in understanding how the narratives they tell themselves shape their lives, and how their daily interactions can influence those narratives. I am committed to helping my clients unpack their issues and gain a better understanding of themselves.
(02) 4214 8126 View (02) 4214 8126
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Margie Mitchell
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
I work Systemically and is informed by The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy, The Gottman Method, Solution Focused Therapy, and Narrative Therapy.
I am passionate about working with individuals and couples to create a deeper awareness of themselves and a stronger sense of self that ultimately leads to more fulfilling relationships. I specialise in helping couples identify and work through replacing unhealthy patterns with healthier, more connected ways of being together. I support individuals and couples in understanding how their own individual growth and development is key to deeper and more fulfilling relationships.
I work Systemically and is informed by The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy, The Gottman Method, Solution Focused Therapy, and Narrative Therapy.
I am passionate about working with individuals and couples to create a deeper awareness of themselves and a stronger sense of self that ultimately leads to more fulfilling relationships. I specialise in helping couples identify and work through replacing unhealthy patterns with healthier, more connected ways of being together. I support individuals and couples in understanding how their own individual growth and development is key to deeper and more fulfilling relationships.
(02) 9158 6098 View (02) 9158 6098
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Danka Fiedor
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Danka Fiedor Psychology is here to support individuals and couples by providing face to face & an online service & EMDR for individuals and couples & Attachment Informed & Intergenerational EMDR & Gottman Method & Walk and Talk Therapy & Workers Compensation (SIRA) Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP). Each service is tailored using a strength-based approach to treatment to help you manage any issues you are currently going through including stress, depression, anxiety, grief, PTSD and complex trauma, Bipolar Disorder, Eating Disorders, Adult ADHD, self-esteem and life’s challenges.
Danka Fiedor Psychology is here to support individuals and couples by providing face to face & an online service & EMDR for individuals and couples & Attachment Informed & Intergenerational EMDR & Gottman Method & Walk and Talk Therapy & Workers Compensation (SIRA) Safe and Sound Protocol (SSP). Each service is tailored using a strength-based approach to treatment to help you manage any issues you are currently going through including stress, depression, anxiety, grief, PTSD and complex trauma, Bipolar Disorder, Eating Disorders, Adult ADHD, self-esteem and life’s challenges.
(02) 9100 0959 View (02) 9100 0959
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Relationship-Talk: Dr Cory Middleton
Psychologist, PhD, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
Highly experienced psychologist supporting individuals & couples. Come discuss: Relationship challenges, mental health (stress, anxiety & depression), men's issues, marriage counselling, workplace stress. Feeling stuck? Cory provides non-judgmental, deeply supportive, experienced professional skill in guiding you through life's challenges. Proactively address issues that may be impacting your personal and relationship happiness.
Highly experienced psychologist supporting individuals & couples. Come discuss: Relationship challenges, mental health (stress, anxiety & depression), men's issues, marriage counselling, workplace stress. Feeling stuck? Cory provides non-judgmental, deeply supportive, experienced professional skill in guiding you through life's challenges. Proactively address issues that may be impacting your personal and relationship happiness.
(02) 9100 0542 View (02) 9100 0542
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Karen Gould
Psychologist, MPsych, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified Verified
Pyrmont, NSW 2009
Waitlist for new clients
Sessions may be based on CBT, Interpersonal Psychotherapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy or Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
With a special interest in neurodiversity, I enjoy working with clients who see the world differently and would like to open up to new and authentic ways of thinking, feeling and acting. I work with adults, older adolescents and couples, and respect all sexualities, genders and relationship styles. I can help with self exploration, opening up to new perspectives, managing difficult emotions, broadening your comfort zone and connecting with what matters to you.
Sessions may be based on CBT, Interpersonal Psychotherapy, Acceptance and Commitment Therapy or Gottman Method Couples Therapy.
With a special interest in neurodiversity, I enjoy working with clients who see the world differently and would like to open up to new and authentic ways of thinking, feeling and acting. I work with adults, older adolescents and couples, and respect all sexualities, genders and relationship styles. I can help with self exploration, opening up to new perspectives, managing difficult emotions, broadening your comfort zone and connecting with what matters to you.
(02) 9100 0727 View (02) 9100 0727
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Staghorn Sexology
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AASW
Verified Verified
Penrith, NSW 2747
Our relationship work is influenced by Gottman Method Couple Therapy and CCBT.
We provide counselling specialising in the following areas: -psychosexual therapy for sexual problems such as erectile dysfunction, performance anxieties, ejaculatory disorders, painful sex and mismatched/low libido; - relationship counselling; - individual counselling especially around gender/sexual orientation issues and anxiety/depression. We have special interest in men's health, ageing sexuality, sexual function after cancer diagnosis/treatment, infidelity, and gay/lesbian/queer relationships including consensual non-monogamy.
Our relationship work is influenced by Gottman Method Couple Therapy and CCBT.
We provide counselling specialising in the following areas: -psychosexual therapy for sexual problems such as erectile dysfunction, performance anxieties, ejaculatory disorders, painful sex and mismatched/low libido; - relationship counselling; - individual counselling especially around gender/sexual orientation issues and anxiety/depression. We have special interest in men's health, ageing sexuality, sexual function after cancer diagnosis/treatment, infidelity, and gay/lesbian/queer relationships including consensual non-monogamy.
(02) 4063 1410 View (02) 4063 1410
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Tracy Proud
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
Campbelltown, NSW 2560
I am an experienced psychotherapist and counsellor, registered with the Psychotherapy and Counselling Federation of Australia (PACFA). My formal training is in Holistic Psychotherapy and Counselling and I have completed training Level 2 in the world recognised and evidence based Gottman Method Couples Therapy. I am accredited with a number of professionals and professional groups including PACFA and ANZPATH (Australia and New Zealand Professionals Association for Transgender Health). I also work therapeutically with people identifying as trans and gender diverse.
I am an experienced psychotherapist and counsellor, registered with the Psychotherapy and Counselling Federation of Australia (PACFA). My formal training is in Holistic Psychotherapy and Counselling and I have completed training Level 2 in the world recognised and evidence based Gottman Method Couples Therapy. I am accredited with a number of professionals and professional groups including PACFA and ANZPATH (Australia and New Zealand Professionals Association for Transgender Health). I also work therapeutically with people identifying as trans and gender diverse.
(02) 9159 6082 View (02) 9159 6082
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Areti Alexova
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Sydney, NSW 2000
If you and your partner are yearning for a deeper connection, understanding, and lasting harmony in your relationship, I can help. Skilled in the Gottman Method Couples Therapy and well versed in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I help couples and individuals create fulfilling relationships with their primary partner as well as with family, friends and colleagues. Be equipped with tools to manage conflicts, resolve issues, and communicate with love and respect in your primary relations, and effectively with others in your life.
If you and your partner are yearning for a deeper connection, understanding, and lasting harmony in your relationship, I can help. Skilled in the Gottman Method Couples Therapy and well versed in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), I help couples and individuals create fulfilling relationships with their primary partner as well as with family, friends and colleagues. Be equipped with tools to manage conflicts, resolve issues, and communicate with love and respect in your primary relations, and effectively with others in your life.
(03) 5910 1113 View (03) 5910 1113
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Chris Hannan Relationship Therapist & Supervisor
Clinical Social Work/Therapist, AMHSW
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
I hold a Bachelor of Social Work, have done Level 3 & Affairs Training in the Gottman Method of Martial Therapy, a Masters in Positive Psychology and over 22 years experience in counselling.
Hi, I'm Chris, I'm a Relationship Therapist & Supervisor passionate about helping couples and individuals heal from hurt, betrayal and build their dream relationships. As a partner and mother on my second long term partnership I understand the heart break of being in the wrong relationship and how it profoundly effects every area of your life. I understand the pressures of dating as a single mum and how challenging it can be to make a blended family work. It's never been easer to meet people but harder to find meaningful and healthy relationships. It’s my privilege to work with you to heal the hurt, move past the betrayal & rebuild.
I hold a Bachelor of Social Work, have done Level 3 & Affairs Training in the Gottman Method of Martial Therapy, a Masters in Positive Psychology and over 22 years experience in counselling.
Hi, I'm Chris, I'm a Relationship Therapist & Supervisor passionate about helping couples and individuals heal from hurt, betrayal and build their dream relationships. As a partner and mother on my second long term partnership I understand the heart break of being in the wrong relationship and how it profoundly effects every area of your life. I understand the pressures of dating as a single mum and how challenging it can be to make a blended family work. It's never been easer to meet people but harder to find meaningful and healthy relationships. It’s my privilege to work with you to heal the hurt, move past the betrayal & rebuild.
(03) 6164 5114 View (03) 6164 5114
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Kathryn Anne Fortuna
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Sydney, NSW 2000
Kathryn offers Relationship Support & is trained in the Gottman Method.
Working with The Anna Centre. Business Development Counsellor. EAP Specialist. Specialising in Relationship Counselling. Your relationship with yourself and others. This includes building strong communication, respect and intimacy. I also support Families, Individuals and Teens to explore their feelings, clear old patterns, ignite self-awareness, build resourcefulness and feel more purposeful. I offer support with relationship building, parenting, clarity of thoughts, addressing behaviours, thought patterns & issues like anxiety & stress.
Kathryn offers Relationship Support & is trained in the Gottman Method.
Working with The Anna Centre. Business Development Counsellor. EAP Specialist. Specialising in Relationship Counselling. Your relationship with yourself and others. This includes building strong communication, respect and intimacy. I also support Families, Individuals and Teens to explore their feelings, clear old patterns, ignite self-awareness, build resourcefulness and feel more purposeful. I offer support with relationship building, parenting, clarity of thoughts, addressing behaviours, thought patterns & issues like anxiety & stress.
(03) 4420 9660 View (03) 4420 9660

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Gottman Method Counsellors

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analysed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomised controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.