Gottman Method Counselling in Narrabeen, NSW

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Brett Mark Acworth
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Narrabeen, NSW 2101
Change is inevitable so the saying goes. Changes in our relationships are changes we often feel deeply: with our partner; in our family; with our children as they grow; with our parents as they get older; in our workplace; with friends. We can also experience change in ourselves: the place we live; our health; our life goals. Mostly we have the capacity and resilience to thrive through change. But sometimes we experience frustration, hurt, pain, anger, sadness, despair. Sometimes we can feel stuck. It may be working with a counsellor like me will help better understand the experience and rediscover your resilience.
Change is inevitable so the saying goes. Changes in our relationships are changes we often feel deeply: with our partner; in our family; with our children as they grow; with our parents as they get older; in our workplace; with friends. We can also experience change in ourselves: the place we live; our health; our life goals. Mostly we have the capacity and resilience to thrive through change. But sometimes we experience frustration, hurt, pain, anger, sadness, despair. Sometimes we can feel stuck. It may be working with a counsellor like me will help better understand the experience and rediscover your resilience.
(02) 8403 0803 View (02) 8403 0803
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Vanessa Steele
Counsellor, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Narrabeen, NSW 2101
Do you feel 'stuck' and overwhelmed, anxious or in emotional pain? Perhaps you know it is time to make changes, to create more harmony and connection in relationships, both with yourself and others? With care and empathy, and at your pace, we can explore your experiences, take apart the messy knot of problems, identify your strengths and options - and develop strategies to reach your goals. I also work with couples to repair ruptures and build loving, secure partnerships. When you feel ready to heal from pain, fear, shame, resentment, anger or grief that is getting in your way, and get 'unstuck', call me and we can get started.
Do you feel 'stuck' and overwhelmed, anxious or in emotional pain? Perhaps you know it is time to make changes, to create more harmony and connection in relationships, both with yourself and others? With care and empathy, and at your pace, we can explore your experiences, take apart the messy knot of problems, identify your strengths and options - and develop strategies to reach your goals. I also work with couples to repair ruptures and build loving, secure partnerships. When you feel ready to heal from pain, fear, shame, resentment, anger or grief that is getting in your way, and get 'unstuck', call me and we can get started.
(02) 8403 1873 View (02) 8403 1873

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Larissa Kirpichnikov
Psychologist, PsyBA - Couns. Psych.
Verified Verified
Crows Nest, NSW 2065
Larissa leans on the Gottman Method for couples therapy/coaching.
Couples Therapy & Coaching / Individuals Therapy & Coaching / Family Dispute Resolution Mediation (FDRP) & Divorce Coaching Services. With more than 25 years experience of living and working in Australia and abroad, Larissa understands that life and relationships are not always smooth. Whether you are wishing to improve your intimate relationship, seek individual support, parenting &/or financial FDR mediation services, or divorce coaching, please call to discuss how we can best assist you. You may also visit our website for further information.
Larissa leans on the Gottman Method for couples therapy/coaching.
Couples Therapy & Coaching / Individuals Therapy & Coaching / Family Dispute Resolution Mediation (FDRP) & Divorce Coaching Services. With more than 25 years experience of living and working in Australia and abroad, Larissa understands that life and relationships are not always smooth. Whether you are wishing to improve your intimate relationship, seek individual support, parenting &/or financial FDR mediation services, or divorce coaching, please call to discuss how we can best assist you. You may also visit our website for further information.
(02) 9100 0410 View (02) 9100 0410
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Keeping Minds Positive Pty Ltd
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Turramurra, NSW 2074
My specialty is in couples therapy, using the Gottman Method.
My role as a counsellor and life coach is to help my clients identify their strengths and resources, overcome obstacles, and develop the skills and strategies they need to achieve their goals. I work collaboratively with my clients to create a supportive and non-judgmental environment, where they can explore their challenges, clarify their values and priorities, and create a roadmap for success. By working together, my clients can achieve their full potential and lead a life that is fulfilling, purposeful, and authentic.
My specialty is in couples therapy, using the Gottman Method.
My role as a counsellor and life coach is to help my clients identify their strengths and resources, overcome obstacles, and develop the skills and strategies they need to achieve their goals. I work collaboratively with my clients to create a supportive and non-judgmental environment, where they can explore their challenges, clarify their values and priorities, and create a roadmap for success. By working together, my clients can achieve their full potential and lead a life that is fulfilling, purposeful, and authentic.
(02) 9159 6526 View (02) 9159 6526
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Helen Qin Counselling (English, Mandarin)
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
Chatswood, NSW 2067
Hello, I am an registered Medicare provider, highly professional and compassionate bilingual psychotherapist/counsellor (English, Mandarin) and Accredited Mental Health Social Worker with more than 10 years of clinical experience. I am also a professionally trained and qualified relationship/marriage counsellor (Dr. John Gottman method of couple counselling level 3 trained).
Hello, I am an registered Medicare provider, highly professional and compassionate bilingual psychotherapist/counsellor (English, Mandarin) and Accredited Mental Health Social Worker with more than 10 years of clinical experience. I am also a professionally trained and qualified relationship/marriage counsellor (Dr. John Gottman method of couple counselling level 3 trained).
(02) 9098 5155 View (02) 9098 5155
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Margie Mitchell
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Chatswood, NSW 2067
I work Systemically and is informed by The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy, The Gottman Method, Solution Focused Therapy, and Narrative Therapy.
I am passionate about working with individuals and couples to create a deeper awareness of themselves and a stronger sense of self that ultimately leads to more fulfilling relationships. I specialise in helping couples identify and work through replacing unhealthy patterns with healthier, more connected ways of being together. I support individuals and couples in understanding how their own individual growth and development is key to deeper and more fulfilling relationships.
I work Systemically and is informed by The Developmental Model of Couples Therapy, The Gottman Method, Solution Focused Therapy, and Narrative Therapy.
I am passionate about working with individuals and couples to create a deeper awareness of themselves and a stronger sense of self that ultimately leads to more fulfilling relationships. I specialise in helping couples identify and work through replacing unhealthy patterns with healthier, more connected ways of being together. I support individuals and couples in understanding how their own individual growth and development is key to deeper and more fulfilling relationships.
(02) 9158 6098 View (02) 9158 6098
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Daria Kouznetsova
Psychologist, PsychD, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified Verified
Mosman, NSW 2088  (Online Only)
Waitlist for new clients
Daria has completed advanced training in Acceptance & Commitment Therapy and The Gottman Method of Couples Therapy, as well as carried out Postgraduate-level research in health, physical activity, medical illness/disease, and human behaviour change.
Dr Daria is an empathic, vibrant, warm and down to earth Clinical Psychologist, Couples Therapist and Executive/Leadership Coach who is dedicated to supporting her clients in reaching their goals. Daria is passionate about helping individuals, couples and families across a wide range of presentations, and prefers to use an integrative approach to therapy and coaching. Her robust understanding and experience with clinical and corporate presentations contributes to her strong desire to support clients in achieving meaningful change, growth and personal development in any area of their lives.
Daria has completed advanced training in Acceptance & Commitment Therapy and The Gottman Method of Couples Therapy, as well as carried out Postgraduate-level research in health, physical activity, medical illness/disease, and human behaviour change.
Dr Daria is an empathic, vibrant, warm and down to earth Clinical Psychologist, Couples Therapist and Executive/Leadership Coach who is dedicated to supporting her clients in reaching their goals. Daria is passionate about helping individuals, couples and families across a wide range of presentations, and prefers to use an integrative approach to therapy and coaching. Her robust understanding and experience with clinical and corporate presentations contributes to her strong desire to support clients in achieving meaningful change, growth and personal development in any area of their lives.
(02) 8294 8509 View (02) 8294 8509
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Matti Lee
Counsellor, MSc, PACFA
Verified Verified
Chatswood, NSW 2067
"Feeling stuck?" - This is one of the most common expression for counselling clients. Innerhealth Practice has been helping clients to explore options and exercise solutions in difficult situations. I am passionate about improving health and maintaining harmonious life balance. Life is filled with challenges and joy. If you would like to try a new way of coping, you might prefer working with someone who has been professionally trained in counselling combined with the practical experience. Look no further, make a call today and be in charge of your issue. Nationally Registered & Accredited services by PACFA and ACA.
"Feeling stuck?" - This is one of the most common expression for counselling clients. Innerhealth Practice has been helping clients to explore options and exercise solutions in difficult situations. I am passionate about improving health and maintaining harmonious life balance. Life is filled with challenges and joy. If you would like to try a new way of coping, you might prefer working with someone who has been professionally trained in counselling combined with the practical experience. Look no further, make a call today and be in charge of your issue. Nationally Registered & Accredited services by PACFA and ACA.
(02) 8294 8741 View (02) 8294 8741
Photo of Sarah Beetham Psychotherapist, Counsellor in Narrabeen, NSW
Sarah Beetham Psychotherapist
Counsellor, MA, PACFA
Verified Verified
Mona Vale, NSW 2103
You may show up to counselling immobilised & stuck, unable to move beyond entrenched unhealthy relational patterns or addictions deeply impacting your emotional, psychological and physical well-being. The repetition of these unsatisfactory behaviours, thoughts and feelings is what leads most clients through my door. MY TASK as your counsellor is to provide an environment that disrupts your current level of functioning & move you towards change and renewed progression. I observe your Discrepancies, Mixed Messages and Inner Conflicts within your Narrative and Behaviours, regarding the most personal dimensions of your LIFE Challenges.
You may show up to counselling immobilised & stuck, unable to move beyond entrenched unhealthy relational patterns or addictions deeply impacting your emotional, psychological and physical well-being. The repetition of these unsatisfactory behaviours, thoughts and feelings is what leads most clients through my door. MY TASK as your counsellor is to provide an environment that disrupts your current level of functioning & move you towards change and renewed progression. I observe your Discrepancies, Mixed Messages and Inner Conflicts within your Narrative and Behaviours, regarding the most personal dimensions of your LIFE Challenges.
(02) 8074 3973 View (02) 8074 3973
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Lucille Shackleton. Relationship Sex Therapy
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Manly, NSW 2095  (Online Only)
Hello, I’m Lucille. I am a Counsellor and Behavioural Scientist based in Sydney who works with individuals online Australia-wide. I specialise in dating and relationships and support folks who want to understand and break dating and relationship patterns, heal from the wounds of past relationships, process trauma from abusive relationships, figure out whether to stay or go when you are feeling unsure of your relationship, manage dating anxiety, learn to manage your emotions and triggers, improve your communication and conflict management as well as increase closeness and intimacy. My practice is person-centred and inclusive.
Hello, I’m Lucille. I am a Counsellor and Behavioural Scientist based in Sydney who works with individuals online Australia-wide. I specialise in dating and relationships and support folks who want to understand and break dating and relationship patterns, heal from the wounds of past relationships, process trauma from abusive relationships, figure out whether to stay or go when you are feeling unsure of your relationship, manage dating anxiety, learn to manage your emotions and triggers, improve your communication and conflict management as well as increase closeness and intimacy. My practice is person-centred and inclusive.
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Rachel Gordon
Psychotherapist, MPsych, PACFA
Verified Verified
Cammeray, NSW 2062
I believe that as human beings our vulnerabilities can often become our greatest strengths. My mission is to walk beside my clients in a heart centred, trauma informed, holistic way while helping them to rediscover their authentic self, find purpose and have meaningful, fulfilling relationships.
I believe that as human beings our vulnerabilities can often become our greatest strengths. My mission is to walk beside my clients in a heart centred, trauma informed, holistic way while helping them to rediscover their authentic self, find purpose and have meaningful, fulfilling relationships.
(02) 9100 0864 View (02) 9100 0864
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Martine Barclay
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
Mosman, NSW 2088
If you are feeling overwhelmed by juggling all the demands of your busy life and you're constantly checking if you're enough to meet your own high standards or the expectations of others, then you're in the right place. No doubt you're starting to feel exhausted by the stress and anxiety that is building up inside you and you may have even adopted some unhelpful habits to help you cope.
If you are feeling overwhelmed by juggling all the demands of your busy life and you're constantly checking if you're enough to meet your own high standards or the expectations of others, then you're in the right place. No doubt you're starting to feel exhausted by the stress and anxiety that is building up inside you and you may have even adopted some unhelpful habits to help you cope.
0427 357 607 View 0427 357 607
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Bondi Mind Counselling
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Vaucluse, NSW 2030
Sometimes making that first contact for counselling is the hardest part, but once you've made that step, you will realise that you can work at your own pace, and feel safe as you build trust in the relationship with a counsellor. Speaking with someone can help to alleviate the anxiety, and help by giving you tools, strategies, and a place to talk with someone who provides a safe, non-judgemental space. Whether you are going through relationship difficulties, struggling with anxiety, or dealing with the difficulties of living in a different country, I can be there to support you.
Sometimes making that first contact for counselling is the hardest part, but once you've made that step, you will realise that you can work at your own pace, and feel safe as you build trust in the relationship with a counsellor. Speaking with someone can help to alleviate the anxiety, and help by giving you tools, strategies, and a place to talk with someone who provides a safe, non-judgemental space. Whether you are going through relationship difficulties, struggling with anxiety, or dealing with the difficulties of living in a different country, I can be there to support you.
(02) 9100 0628 View (02) 9100 0628
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Aarthi Udayakumar
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Crows Nest, NSW 2065
Aarthi is registered as a clinical counsellor with the Psychotherapy and Counselling Federation of Australia (PACFA). She brings over 10 years of experience working directly with clients from all walks of life. Aarthi has experience working with individuals and families experiencing concerns relating to couples, domestic and family violence, trauma, grief and loss, child welfare and wellbeing, as well as depression, anxiety and a variety of other mental health issues. She has experience using trauma informed, strengths-based and outcomes focussed practices. Aarthi is dedicated to providing a service that is person-centred.
Aarthi is registered as a clinical counsellor with the Psychotherapy and Counselling Federation of Australia (PACFA). She brings over 10 years of experience working directly with clients from all walks of life. Aarthi has experience working with individuals and families experiencing concerns relating to couples, domestic and family violence, trauma, grief and loss, child welfare and wellbeing, as well as depression, anxiety and a variety of other mental health issues. She has experience using trauma informed, strengths-based and outcomes focussed practices. Aarthi is dedicated to providing a service that is person-centred.
(02) 9100 0497 View (02) 9100 0497
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IM Counselling & Psychotherapy
Psychotherapist, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
Freshwater, NSW 2096
I pride myself in my dedication to the field of Metal Health and healing.As a relationship expert working with couples, families and individuals I am dedicated to helping people heal from their story and allow change in a confidential safe space. Using my wealth of experience both in life and through committed training I also I bring compassion, warmth and a sense of humour to our sessions to help you envision and create your best self.
I pride myself in my dedication to the field of Metal Health and healing.As a relationship expert working with couples, families and individuals I am dedicated to helping people heal from their story and allow change in a confidential safe space. Using my wealth of experience both in life and through committed training I also I bring compassion, warmth and a sense of humour to our sessions to help you envision and create your best self.
(02) 8074 5997 View (02) 8074 5997
Forest Family Psychology
Psychologist, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Frenchs Forest, NSW 2086
We specialise in EMDR, couples or relationship counselling with the Gottmann Method, along with the usual range of therapies- CBT, Schema, ACT and DBT.
We specialise in EMDR, couples or relationship counselling with the Gottmann Method, along with the usual range of therapies- CBT, Schema, ACT and DBT.
(02) 8403 2891 View (02) 8403 2891
Photo of David Roberts, Counsellor in Narrabeen, NSW
David Roberts
Counsellor
Verified Verified
Mosman, NSW 2088
Hi, for the last 20 years I have been working with people who are experiencing challenges in their relationships. Conflict and communication problems often at the heart of these challenges. For many years I saw this when mediating with couples or parents who had decided to separate. Now through counselling I prefer to focus on the source of the problems before its too late. My particular motivation is to prevent conflict having a negative impact on children when they are involved.
Hi, for the last 20 years I have been working with people who are experiencing challenges in their relationships. Conflict and communication problems often at the heart of these challenges. For many years I saw this when mediating with couples or parents who had decided to separate. Now through counselling I prefer to focus on the source of the problems before its too late. My particular motivation is to prevent conflict having a negative impact on children when they are involved.
(02) 9100 0812 View (02) 9100 0812
Photo of Anthea Cottee, Psychologist in Narrabeen, NSW
Anthea Cottee
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Neutral Bay, NSW 2089
“I’d love to help you develop a supportive, kind and caring relationship with yourself, and secure and fulfilling relationships with others. Working with you to understand why you respond to the world like you do, what really matters to you, and supporting behaviour that back up your ambitions is my jam. We all face challenges in how we relate to ourselves and the world. I believe developing a sense of psychological safety and flexibility, and nurturing emotional intelligence and agility are key to recovering, striving and thriving in all parts of your life”
“I’d love to help you develop a supportive, kind and caring relationship with yourself, and secure and fulfilling relationships with others. Working with you to understand why you respond to the world like you do, what really matters to you, and supporting behaviour that back up your ambitions is my jam. We all face challenges in how we relate to ourselves and the world. I believe developing a sense of psychological safety and flexibility, and nurturing emotional intelligence and agility are key to recovering, striving and thriving in all parts of your life”
(02) 9100 0198 View (02) 9100 0198
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Xuan Tan - Clinical Registrar - People Psychology
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Chatswood, NSW 2067
Xuan (pronounced Shen) provides evidence-based and person-centred treatment with adolescents, adults, couples and families from diverse cultural, linguistic, and economic backgrounds. Xuan has multilingual skills and can deliver services in English or in Mandarin 说中文 She aims to provide a warm space where clients could form an in-depth understanding of themselves, to reflect on existing or past experiences, and to learn and grow at a pace that suits them.
Xuan (pronounced Shen) provides evidence-based and person-centred treatment with adolescents, adults, couples and families from diverse cultural, linguistic, and economic backgrounds. Xuan has multilingual skills and can deliver services in English or in Mandarin 说中文 She aims to provide a warm space where clients could form an in-depth understanding of themselves, to reflect on existing or past experiences, and to learn and grow at a pace that suits them.
(03) 7003 2350 View (03) 7003 2350
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Helm Psychology and Relationship Counselling
Psychologist, PsychD, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Mosman, NSW 2088
I am a registered psychologist with over 15 years of clinical experience. I provide counselling and psychological therapy to individuals, couples and families. I have experience in Mood Disorders, Depression, Anxiety, Addictions, PTSD, Trauma, Psychotic Disorders, Anger Management, Relationship Counselling, and Stress Management.
I am a registered psychologist with over 15 years of clinical experience. I provide counselling and psychological therapy to individuals, couples and families. I have experience in Mood Disorders, Depression, Anxiety, Addictions, PTSD, Trauma, Psychotic Disorders, Anger Management, Relationship Counselling, and Stress Management.
(02) 9100 0940 View (02) 9100 0940
Gottman Method Counsellors

How does the Gottman method work?

One of the core doctrines of the Gottman method is that negative emotions hurt relationships about five times more than positive emotions help them. Thus, couples require five times more positive interactions than negative interactions with each other. The therapist will guide clients on how to improve communication and understanding of each other to manage conflict and have their emotional needs met. The therapist will also advise couples on how to repair relations with each other when conflict arises, and therefore avoid lasting damage.

Is the Gottman method evidence-based?

Yes, this method is an evidence-based approach to couples therapy. The method is based on more than 40 years of research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman, the psychologists who developed the method. The Gottmans analysed decades of data to draw conclusions about what types of interactions are likely to lead to specific results, and which interventions are most likely to lead to success. Studies have found that this approach leads to improvements in relationship satisfaction, intimacy, communication skills, and a lower rate of divorce.

How long does the Gottman method take?

The duration of treatment depends on the specific challenges clients face. Sessions are typically 60 to 90 minutes long, and an average course of treatment is around 10 sessions. In some cases, such as for couples dealing with a critical problem, the therapist will suggest an intensive course of treatment, with daily sessions over the first two to four days. Treatment is complete when the couple is satisfied and has met the goals they’ve set, and when the therapist believes they have the skills to continue on their own.

Is the Gottman method effective?

Through the Gottman method, couples can achieve changes that are real and sustainable. This treatment has been used for more than 40 years; the method is supported by empirical research, including randomised controlled trials that have demonstrated effectiveness in improving relationship outcomes for couples. Like any talk therapy, success or failure depends in large part on how committed the clients are to making positive changes and working toward results.