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Available both in-person and online
6A Milne Road Mont Albert North, VIC 3129
Are you and your partner feeling distant, stuck in the same arguments, or more like housemates than a couple? Or are you carrying something on your own that feels too heavy to keep managing alone? I'm Elaine, a counsellor in Mont Albert North, VIC, and I work with couples and individuals across Melbourne's East, including Box Hill, Balwyn, Surrey Hills, and Camberwell. I work with couples experiencing relationship difficulties, communication breakdown, infidelity, the transition to parenthood, marital stress, and divorce. I also see individuals carrying anxiety, depression, or life transitions they can't seem to shift.
I draw on the Gottman Method for couples, as well as CBT, DBT, and trauma-informed approaches for individuals. These methods are chosen because they focus on real patterns not just surface fixes. Whether you're navigating relationship difficulties, anxiety, life transitions or the impact of trauma, I can help you make sense of it.
I bring over 14 years of professional and lived experience to this work. I know that reaching out can feel like a big step and because of this, just know that you don't need to have everything figured out before we start. If you're ready to feel less alone with what you're carrying, I'd love to hear from you.
Take the first step to help. Call or Elaine Tan now - (03) 7500 5257

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

6A Milne Road

Mont Albert North, VIC 3129 map

(03) 7500 5257
My website
Available in-person in Mont Albert North and online. Helping couples and individuals understand patterns and move forward without blame.
I focus on Relationship Issues, Marital and Premarital and Life Transitions 
$165 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  
Let's Connect (03) 7500 5257
Photo of Elaine Tan, Counsellor

My Practice at a Glance

Available both in-person and online

6A Milne Road

Mont Albert North, VIC 3129 map

(03) 7500 5257
My website
Available in-person in Mont Albert North and online. Helping couples and individuals understand patterns and move forward without blame.
I focus on Relationship Issues, Marital and Premarital and Life Transitions 
$165 Per Session  
I see individuals and couples  

Finances

Fees

  • Individual Sessions $165
  • Couple Sessions $275

Payment Methods

Cash, Electronic Funds Transfer, Mastercard, Visa
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Individual counselling: $165 for 50 minutes. Couples counselling: $275 for 80 minutes. Payment by cash, EFT, Visa, or Mastercard. No Medicare rebates or bulk billing available.
Photo of Elaine Tan, Counsellor
Elaine Tan
Counsellor
or call with questions - (03) 7500 5257
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Individual counselling: $165 for 50 minutes. Couples counselling: $275 for 80 minutes. Payment by cash, EFT, Visa, or Mastercard. No Medicare rebates or bulk billing available.
Photo of Elaine Tan, Counsellor
Elaine Tan
Counsellor
or call with questions - (03) 7500 5257

Qualifications

  • Verified by Psychology Today Degree/Diploma from Deakin University Elaine Tan
  • Education and Years In Practice

  • In Practice for 13 years
  • Graduate Diploma of Psychology, Gottman Method, CBT, DBT, ASIST, Graduate Diploma, Graduated 2012
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I hold a Graduate Diploma of Psychology and have completed specialist training in the Gottman Method, CBT, DBT, trauma-informed practice, person-centred therapy, and Applied Suicide Intervention Skills Training (ASIST).
Photo of Elaine Tan, Counsellor
Elaine Tan
Counsellor
or call with questions - (03) 7500 5257
"
I hold a Graduate Diploma of Psychology and have completed specialist training in the Gottman Method, CBT, DBT, trauma-informed practice, person-centred therapy, and Applied Suicide Intervention Skills Training (ASIST).
Photo of Elaine Tan, Counsellor
Elaine Tan
Counsellor
or call with questions - (03) 7500 5257

Expertise and Interests

Top Expertise

  • Relationship Issues
  • Marital and Premarital
  • Life Transitions

Practice Areas

  • Addiction
  • Alcohol Use
  • Anxiety
  • Coping Skills
  • Depression
  • Divorce
  • Drug Abuse
  • Dual Diagnosis
  • Family Conflict
  • Infidelity
  • Parenting
  • Peer Relationships
  • Pregnancy, Prenatal, Postpartum
  • Self Esteem
  • Stress
  • Substance Use
  • Trauma and PTSD
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Relationship difficulties and life transitions are at the heart of my work. With couples, I focus on understanding disconnection, repeating conflict, and the shift that often comes with parenthood. With individuals, I help you make sense of what you're carrying and find a clearer way through, whether that's anxiety, stress, or feeling lost.
Photo of Elaine Tan, Counsellor
Elaine Tan
Counsellor
or call with questions - (03) 7500 5257
"
Relationship difficulties and life transitions are at the heart of my work. With couples, I focus on understanding disconnection, repeating conflict, and the shift that often comes with parenthood. With individuals, I help you make sense of what you're carrying and find a clearer way through, whether that's anxiety, stress, or feeling lost.
Photo of Elaine Tan, Counsellor
Elaine Tan
Counsellor
or call with questions - (03) 7500 5257

Client Focus

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples

Age

Adults

Participants

Individuals , 
Couples

Treatment Approach

Types of Therapy

  • Cognitive Behavioural (CBT)
  • Compassion Focused
  • Dialectical Behaviour (DBT)
  • Gottman Method
  • Motivational Interviewing
  • Person-Centred
  • Relational
  • Strength-Based
  • Trauma Focused
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I use the Gottman Method with couples to build connection and reduce unhelpful conflict patterns. For individuals, I draw on CBT to shift unhelpful thinking, DBT for emotional regulation, and trauma-informed approaches to understand what's underneath the surface. Sessions feel collaborative, not clinical.
Photo of Elaine Tan, Counsellor
Elaine Tan
Counsellor
or call with questions - (03) 7500 5257
"
I use the Gottman Method with couples to build connection and reduce unhelpful conflict patterns. For individuals, I draw on CBT to shift unhelpful thinking, DBT for emotional regulation, and trauma-informed approaches to understand what's underneath the surface. Sessions feel collaborative, not clinical.
Photo of Elaine Tan, Counsellor
Elaine Tan
Counsellor
or call with questions - (03) 7500 5257

Location

Primary Location

6A Milne Road

Mont Albert North, VIC 3129

(03) 7500 5257
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Available in-person in Mont Albert North and online. Helping couples and individuals understand patterns and move forward without blame.
Photo of Elaine Tan, Counsellor
Elaine Tan
Counsellor
Take the first step to help. Call now - (03) 7500 5257
"
Available in-person in Mont Albert North and online. Helping couples and individuals understand patterns and move forward without blame.
Photo of Elaine Tan, Counsellor
Elaine Tan
Counsellor
Take the first step to help. Call now - (03) 7500 5257