Couples Counselling in Mona Vale, NSW

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Vanessa Steele
Counsellor, ACA-L4
Verified Verified
2 Endorsed
Mona Vale, NSW 2103
Do you feel 'stuck' and overwhelmed, anxious or in emotional pain? Perhaps you know it is time to make changes, to create more harmony and connection in relationships, both with yourself and others? With care and empathy, and at your pace, we can explore your experiences, take apart the messy knot of problems, identify your strengths and options - and develop strategies to reach your goals. I also work with couples to repair ruptures and build loving, secure partnerships. When you feel ready to heal from pain, fear, shame, resentment, anger or grief that is getting in your way, and get 'unstuck', call me and we can get started.
Do you feel 'stuck' and overwhelmed, anxious or in emotional pain? Perhaps you know it is time to make changes, to create more harmony and connection in relationships, both with yourself and others? With care and empathy, and at your pace, we can explore your experiences, take apart the messy knot of problems, identify your strengths and options - and develop strategies to reach your goals. I also work with couples to repair ruptures and build loving, secure partnerships. When you feel ready to heal from pain, fear, shame, resentment, anger or grief that is getting in your way, and get 'unstuck', call me and we can get started.
(02) 8403 1873 View (02) 8403 1873
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Sarah Beetham Psychotherapist
Counsellor, MA, PACFA
Verified Verified
Mona Vale, NSW 2103
My counselling style centres on Active Engagement & the Quality of OUR Client-Therapist relationship, by far the most important factor for Successful Outcomes through this collaborative framework.
You may show up to counselling immobilised & stuck, unable to move beyond entrenched unhealthy relational patterns or addictions deeply impacting your emotional, psychological and physical well-being. The repetition of these unsatisfactory behaviours, thoughts and feelings is what leads most clients through my door. MY TASK as your counsellor is to provide an environment that disrupts your current level of functioning & move you towards change and renewed progression. I observe your Discrepancies, Mixed Messages and Inner Conflicts within your Narrative and Behaviours, regarding the most personal dimensions of your LIFE Challenges.
My counselling style centres on Active Engagement & the Quality of OUR Client-Therapist relationship, by far the most important factor for Successful Outcomes through this collaborative framework.
You may show up to counselling immobilised & stuck, unable to move beyond entrenched unhealthy relational patterns or addictions deeply impacting your emotional, psychological and physical well-being. The repetition of these unsatisfactory behaviours, thoughts and feelings is what leads most clients through my door. MY TASK as your counsellor is to provide an environment that disrupts your current level of functioning & move you towards change and renewed progression. I observe your Discrepancies, Mixed Messages and Inner Conflicts within your Narrative and Behaviours, regarding the most personal dimensions of your LIFE Challenges.
(02) 8074 3973 View (02) 8074 3973
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Tania Nadine Fahey
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mona Vale, NSW 2103
I am here to help you explore your environment and connect how certain evolving issues may be playing a part in challenging interactions either interpersonal ( relationship) or intrapersonal ( self) and impacting quality of life.
As a therapist I aim to help clients learn how to honour and understand their resistance and difficulty with life challenges as an outdated coping mechanism which originally was formed to serve as a self-preservation and adaptive function. In facilitating a pathway for change by walking alongside my client creating a safe and supportive environment towards self-awareness and the discovery that you are the expert in your life. My practice is trauma informed with a humanistic person centred approach. I will meet you with compassion , curiosity and connection, working towards your future goals, innate healing, health and happiness.
I am here to help you explore your environment and connect how certain evolving issues may be playing a part in challenging interactions either interpersonal ( relationship) or intrapersonal ( self) and impacting quality of life.
As a therapist I aim to help clients learn how to honour and understand their resistance and difficulty with life challenges as an outdated coping mechanism which originally was formed to serve as a self-preservation and adaptive function. In facilitating a pathway for change by walking alongside my client creating a safe and supportive environment towards self-awareness and the discovery that you are the expert in your life. My practice is trauma informed with a humanistic person centred approach. I will meet you with compassion , curiosity and connection, working towards your future goals, innate healing, health and happiness.
(02) 8403 0752 View (02) 8403 0752
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Felicity Gendun
Psychologist, Australian Association of Psychologists - Member
Verified Verified
Mona Vale, NSW 2103
I am a Registered Psychologist and Gestalt therapist working with couples and individuals helping them overcome difficulties to lead more satisfying lives and fulfilling relationships. For over a 15 years I have provided relationship counselling and couples therapy to people who have struggled to create loving and satisfying relationships. I am passionate about supporting my clients as they become aware of their destructive patterns and find new, more satisfying ways of relating.
I am a Registered Psychologist and Gestalt therapist working with couples and individuals helping them overcome difficulties to lead more satisfying lives and fulfilling relationships. For over a 15 years I have provided relationship counselling and couples therapy to people who have struggled to create loving and satisfying relationships. I am passionate about supporting my clients as they become aware of their destructive patterns and find new, more satisfying ways of relating.
(02) 8403 1538 View (02) 8403 1538
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Better Counselling Practice
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
Mona Vale, NSW 2103
Introducing better. counselling that moves you forward. Get accessible and personalised counselling, in-person or from the comfort of your home. An accredited counsellor with the Australian Counselling Association (ACA), Reuben has over 25 years of experience counselling, leading and mentoring individuals, couples, and families. Reuben has been married for 27 years, has 3 adult children and is passionate about helping people through the difficult phases of life. He has also started, lead, and sold businesses and Not For Profit organisations. He loves to help people set goals and then move forward with a collaborative approach.
Introducing better. counselling that moves you forward. Get accessible and personalised counselling, in-person or from the comfort of your home. An accredited counsellor with the Australian Counselling Association (ACA), Reuben has over 25 years of experience counselling, leading and mentoring individuals, couples, and families. Reuben has been married for 27 years, has 3 adult children and is passionate about helping people through the difficult phases of life. He has also started, lead, and sold businesses and Not For Profit organisations. He loves to help people set goals and then move forward with a collaborative approach.
(02) 9929 8085 View (02) 9929 8085
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Carolina Souto-Jones
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Mona Vale, NSW 2103
Waitlist for new clients
I work with individuals and couples therapy through my private practise in Sydney's Northern's beaches.
I work with a person-centred approach, within it I pull from my years of experience in all areas of mental health. The therapeutic strategies and interventions I predominantly work with are the behaviour focused therapies of Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, (DBT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR). Above all I hold the up most importance in developing a good therapeutic relationship between client and therapist, within it a emotional bond of trust, caring and respect is created, which allows for a safe space where healing can take place.
I work with individuals and couples therapy through my private practise in Sydney's Northern's beaches.
I work with a person-centred approach, within it I pull from my years of experience in all areas of mental health. The therapeutic strategies and interventions I predominantly work with are the behaviour focused therapies of Dialectical Behaviour Therapy, (DBT), Cognitive Behavioural Therapy, (CBT) and Eye Movement Desensitisation and Reprocessing (EMDR). Above all I hold the up most importance in developing a good therapeutic relationship between client and therapist, within it a emotional bond of trust, caring and respect is created, which allows for a safe space where healing can take place.
(02) 8403 0054 View (02) 8403 0054
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Sylvia Suwan
Counsellor, ACA-L1
Verified Verified
Mona Vale, NSW 2103
I work predominantly with those who are experiencing relationship problems, both individually and with couples. My approach is very much person centred, holistic, and nonjudgmental as I believe in the clients need to feel safe and comfortable. I also deal with trauma experienced from relationships and domestic abuse. Based on the northern beaches in Sydney, I also provide online consultations worldwide.
I work predominantly with those who are experiencing relationship problems, both individually and with couples. My approach is very much person centred, holistic, and nonjudgmental as I believe in the clients need to feel safe and comfortable. I also deal with trauma experienced from relationships and domestic abuse. Based on the northern beaches in Sydney, I also provide online consultations worldwide.
(02) 8403 1472 View (02) 8403 1472
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The Serenity Space - Counselling
Counsellor
Verified Verified
Mona Vale, NSW 2103
I am a compassionate 'Person Centered' Counsellor supporting you to re- learn how to develop an optimistic sense of self, helping you to understand the roots and cause of internal conflicts. Change is not something we do. It arises out of a deeper experience with ourselves. Whether it be negative mindset, anxiety, depression, fear, relationship issues, chronic illness. It takes time to change entrenched behaviours developed in your lifespan. The therapeutic process of counselling, enables change of unwanted behaviours - using practical ways, making better life choices, one step at a time in a private and safe space.
I am a compassionate 'Person Centered' Counsellor supporting you to re- learn how to develop an optimistic sense of self, helping you to understand the roots and cause of internal conflicts. Change is not something we do. It arises out of a deeper experience with ourselves. Whether it be negative mindset, anxiety, depression, fear, relationship issues, chronic illness. It takes time to change entrenched behaviours developed in your lifespan. The therapeutic process of counselling, enables change of unwanted behaviours - using practical ways, making better life choices, one step at a time in a private and safe space.
0423 693 284 View 0423 693 284
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Will Bonney
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Mona Vale, NSW 2103
These methods are accompanied by empathy for the human condition and are informed by insights gained as a partner, father, son, sibling, friend, colleague and community member.
I am a psychotherapist, executive coach and clinical supervisor combining extensive corporate experience with post-graduate psychotherapy qualifications and experience. I work with people who feel stuck - whether depressed; anxious; as a result of trauma; caught in a cycle of repetitive destructive behaviours like alcohol and drug use, gambling or sex addiction; dysfunctional relationships; or lacking direction, meaning and purpose. My aim is for the client to gain insight, overcome obstacles and increase resources to confidently and enthusiastically live a rich and flourishing life.
These methods are accompanied by empathy for the human condition and are informed by insights gained as a partner, father, son, sibling, friend, colleague and community member.
I am a psychotherapist, executive coach and clinical supervisor combining extensive corporate experience with post-graduate psychotherapy qualifications and experience. I work with people who feel stuck - whether depressed; anxious; as a result of trauma; caught in a cycle of repetitive destructive behaviours like alcohol and drug use, gambling or sex addiction; dysfunctional relationships; or lacking direction, meaning and purpose. My aim is for the client to gain insight, overcome obstacles and increase resources to confidently and enthusiastically live a rich and flourishing life.
(02) 8073 8335 View (02) 8073 8335
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Anita Blakeley-Smith
Psychologist, PhD, MAPS
Verified Verified
Mona Vale, NSW 2103  (Online Only)
I am warm, open and experienced Doctor of clinical psychology who works with all sorts of issues, big and small, from life adjustment issues to mental health difficulties. My focus is on mental health wellness. I work with proven psychology treatments for mood and relationship issues for all ages, including couples.  I aim to treat each client as an individual with their own unique biology, personal history, strengths and areas for change, utilising a collaborative approach to provide your own program of evidence based intervention. 
I am warm, open and experienced Doctor of clinical psychology who works with all sorts of issues, big and small, from life adjustment issues to mental health difficulties. My focus is on mental health wellness. I work with proven psychology treatments for mood and relationship issues for all ages, including couples.  I aim to treat each client as an individual with their own unique biology, personal history, strengths and areas for change, utilising a collaborative approach to provide your own program of evidence based intervention. 
(02) 8294 6666 View (02) 8294 6666
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YouBeYou Therapy
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
4 Endorsed
Mona Vale, NSW 2103  (Online Only)
I am here to sit and be with you as you get clear on what is important to you, my highest priority is supporting you to be authentically yourself. I believe from this place we can make choices for ourselves that are aligned and in integrity.
I am here to sit and be with you as you get clear on what is important to you, my highest priority is supporting you to be authentically yourself. I believe from this place we can make choices for ourselves that are aligned and in integrity.
(02) 8403 2074 View (02) 8403 2074
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Paige Linegar
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Mona Vale, NSW 2103  (Online Only)
I am an APHRA, MAPS, APS registered Psychologist and have years experience as a Nutritionist and yoga teacher. I am one of the only certified joint Psychologist and Nutritionists in Australia providing a unique integrative approach which involves gut-biome support through: hypnotherapy, nutrition and exercise strategies for those interested in holistic tools for whole system thriving. These can increase outcomes for sports, fertility/hormone health, pre-post natal, weight-loss and beyond. I have also worked with many athletes and teams with diet and performance.
I am an APHRA, MAPS, APS registered Psychologist and have years experience as a Nutritionist and yoga teacher. I am one of the only certified joint Psychologist and Nutritionists in Australia providing a unique integrative approach which involves gut-biome support through: hypnotherapy, nutrition and exercise strategies for those interested in holistic tools for whole system thriving. These can increase outcomes for sports, fertility/hormone health, pre-post natal, weight-loss and beyond. I have also worked with many athletes and teams with diet and performance.
(02) 9100 0691 View (02) 9100 0691
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Family Psychology Practice
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Mona Vale, NSW 2103
Family Psychology Practice is a specialist therapeutic service for children, adolescents and adults. Our practice is a safe place for individuals and families to explore complex issues. Our work is always evidence based and using best practice approaches. We believe that small changes, new ideas or a change of perspective can sometimes be the difference that people need. Our Psychologists and Psychotherapists are fully registered mental health providers. Our Psychologists are Medicare providers. In consultation with a GP, treatment can be provided under Better Access to Mental Health Programme, Psychological Access Plus, Workcover.
Family Psychology Practice is a specialist therapeutic service for children, adolescents and adults. Our practice is a safe place for individuals and families to explore complex issues. Our work is always evidence based and using best practice approaches. We believe that small changes, new ideas or a change of perspective can sometimes be the difference that people need. Our Psychologists and Psychotherapists are fully registered mental health providers. Our Psychologists are Medicare providers. In consultation with a GP, treatment can be provided under Better Access to Mental Health Programme, Psychological Access Plus, Workcover.
(02) 8320 0355 View (02) 8320 0355

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Simon Turmanis
Psychologist, PsyBA - Clin. Psych
Verified Verified
Narrabeen, NSW 2101
Within this, I have 18 years of private practice experience working with adults of all ages, couples, adolescents, children and families on a broad range of issues.
I am an extremely caring, warm, open, helpful, respectful, supportive, encouraging, hardworking & compassionate person & health professional. I am very passionate about helping people…well. Helping people to reduce their suffering is important to me. I will want to understand the unique way you are suffering or struggling to cope and will make a difference.
Within this, I have 18 years of private practice experience working with adults of all ages, couples, adolescents, children and families on a broad range of issues.
I am an extremely caring, warm, open, helpful, respectful, supportive, encouraging, hardworking & compassionate person & health professional. I am very passionate about helping people…well. Helping people to reduce their suffering is important to me. I will want to understand the unique way you are suffering or struggling to cope and will make a difference.
(02) 8320 5126 View (02) 8320 5126
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Andrea Haas
Psychologist, PsyBA General
Verified Verified
Narrabeen, NSW 2101
I am a highly-skilled relationship psychologist & sex therapist with over 20 years of professional experience seeing clients in private practice. I support couples through relationship issues, infidelity, lack of intimacy and communication problems. I look at the psychological side of sexual difficulties such as low libido, orgasm difficulties, physical pain during sex, performance anxiety or ejaculation problems. I work with complex trauma using a trauma-informed approach to process sexual, physical and emotional abuse. I aim to create safety, grounding and a centred connection within which consolidates your healing.
I am a highly-skilled relationship psychologist & sex therapist with over 20 years of professional experience seeing clients in private practice. I support couples through relationship issues, infidelity, lack of intimacy and communication problems. I look at the psychological side of sexual difficulties such as low libido, orgasm difficulties, physical pain during sex, performance anxiety or ejaculation problems. I work with complex trauma using a trauma-informed approach to process sexual, physical and emotional abuse. I aim to create safety, grounding and a centred connection within which consolidates your healing.
(02) 9538 7934 View (02) 9538 7934
Photo of Tori McCarthy, Psychotherapist in Mona Vale, NSW
Tori McCarthy
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
Narrabeen, NSW 2101
I also run regular women’s and men’s circles, workshops for couples and individuals, along with group therapy.
I have extensive experience working in the field of Addiction and Trauma and believe whole heartedly that recovery is possible. I am a creative therapist who works intuitively and experimentally. I believe in treating the underlying causes not just the symptoms. I have held various senior clinical roles and continue to work as a Senior therapist at South Pacific Private where I run the sex and love addiction intensive programs. Working with Addiction and intimacy related disorders is an area I am passionate about as I love witnessing the profound change that can occur when we get vulnerable, trust and become our authentic selves.
I also run regular women’s and men’s circles, workshops for couples and individuals, along with group therapy.
I have extensive experience working in the field of Addiction and Trauma and believe whole heartedly that recovery is possible. I am a creative therapist who works intuitively and experimentally. I believe in treating the underlying causes not just the symptoms. I have held various senior clinical roles and continue to work as a Senior therapist at South Pacific Private where I run the sex and love addiction intensive programs. Working with Addiction and intimacy related disorders is an area I am passionate about as I love witnessing the profound change that can occur when we get vulnerable, trust and become our authentic selves.
(02) 8403 1332 View (02) 8403 1332
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Kit Pope (Wild Precious Therapy)
Psychotherapist, PACFA
Verified Verified
Warriewood, NSW 2102
My special interests are anxiety, panic, relationship difficulties, grief & loss, life transitions, ADHD, and high sensitivity, but I don't limit my work to these areas.
Therapy unique to you. As an Integrative therapist, I’m trained and experienced in a range of well-researched therapy styles. I take great care to truly understand and respect your individuality and unique experience and tailor an approach to suit your needs and preferences. I find out how you want to work together so you feel heard, seen and valued, always supported and where you'd find it helpful, challenged with care and from the basis of a trusting relationship. We always work at your pace. You'll know I believe in you and you can be your real self without judgement or expectation.
My special interests are anxiety, panic, relationship difficulties, grief & loss, life transitions, ADHD, and high sensitivity, but I don't limit my work to these areas.
Therapy unique to you. As an Integrative therapist, I’m trained and experienced in a range of well-researched therapy styles. I take great care to truly understand and respect your individuality and unique experience and tailor an approach to suit your needs and preferences. I find out how you want to work together so you feel heard, seen and valued, always supported and where you'd find it helpful, challenged with care and from the basis of a trusting relationship. We always work at your pace. You'll know I believe in you and you can be your real self without judgement or expectation.
(02) 8403 1797 View (02) 8403 1797
Photo of Arzu Aksu Chapman, Counsellor in Mona Vale, NSW
Arzu Aksu Chapman
Counsellor, ACA-L2
Verified Verified
1 Endorsed
Clareville, NSW 2107
Tailored strategies for ADHD and Autism empower individuals, while couples benefit from a nuanced understanding of neurodivergent dynamics and LGBTQ+ relationship nuances.
You, seeking understanding and connection in a world that often feels overwhelming. My ideal client navigates the intricate landscape of neurodivergence—be it ADHD, Autism, or related experiences. In couples, I welcome those facing unique dynamics, including neurodivergent and LGBTQ+ pairs. Your issues may vary, but the core need is universal: a safe space to explore challenges, cultivate understanding, and forge a path towards fulfillment. As a passionate therapist specializing in neurodiversity and couples therapy, my approach transcends conventional methods. Let's embark on a journey where acceptance and growth intersect.
Tailored strategies for ADHD and Autism empower individuals, while couples benefit from a nuanced understanding of neurodivergent dynamics and LGBTQ+ relationship nuances.
You, seeking understanding and connection in a world that often feels overwhelming. My ideal client navigates the intricate landscape of neurodivergence—be it ADHD, Autism, or related experiences. In couples, I welcome those facing unique dynamics, including neurodivergent and LGBTQ+ pairs. Your issues may vary, but the core need is universal: a safe space to explore challenges, cultivate understanding, and forge a path towards fulfillment. As a passionate therapist specializing in neurodiversity and couples therapy, my approach transcends conventional methods. Let's embark on a journey where acceptance and growth intersect.
(02) 8403 1928 View (02) 8403 1928
Photo of Cath Baker, Counsellor in Mona Vale, NSW
Cath Baker
Counsellor
Verified Verified
Narrabeen, NSW 2101
Transformative counsellor and coach, helping to unlock potential. Helping Individuals, ADHD Coaching, Couples/Relationships, Teams and Business Coaching. I can help with a wide range of challenges and focus on how you can use your Strengths and reach your goals.
Transformative counsellor and coach, helping to unlock potential. Helping Individuals, ADHD Coaching, Couples/Relationships, Teams and Business Coaching. I can help with a wide range of challenges and focus on how you can use your Strengths and reach your goals.
(02) 9909 6118 View (02) 9909 6118
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Mind Waves Counselling
Counsellor, PACFA
Verified Verified
Narrabeen, NSW 2101
Qualified and experienced Counsellor and Clinical Supervisor specialising in treatment for a broad range of people from adolescents to adults of all ages.- If you are struggling with Mental Health (Depression, Anxiety, PTSD, Mood Disorders, ADHD) - Addictions (Drugs, Alcohol, Gambling, Sex, Gaming, Work and Eating Disorders) - Trauma (Childhood Physical, Emotional and Sexual Abuse) - Grief and Loss (Unresolved Grief and Empty Chair Work Therapy) - Co-Dependency in Relationships (Conflict, Boundaries and Communication Issues) then I have the skill set to help you overcome these challenges if you are willing to do the work.
Qualified and experienced Counsellor and Clinical Supervisor specialising in treatment for a broad range of people from adolescents to adults of all ages.- If you are struggling with Mental Health (Depression, Anxiety, PTSD, Mood Disorders, ADHD) - Addictions (Drugs, Alcohol, Gambling, Sex, Gaming, Work and Eating Disorders) - Trauma (Childhood Physical, Emotional and Sexual Abuse) - Grief and Loss (Unresolved Grief and Empty Chair Work Therapy) - Co-Dependency in Relationships (Conflict, Boundaries and Communication Issues) then I have the skill set to help you overcome these challenges if you are willing to do the work.
(02) 8403 1536 View (02) 8403 1536

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Couples Counselling

Does couples counseling work?

Research shows that couples counseling is effective; it can reduce relationship distress and improve emotional awareness, communication, empathy, intimacy, and overall relationship satisfaction. For example, emotionally focused therapy was found to be effective for about 75 percent of couples, and those benefits lasted at least two years.

When should a couple seek counseling?

Couples can benefit from counseling if they consistently struggle in their relationship. They may have lost the ability to communicate effectively, become entrenched in harmful patterns, begun to fight more than usual, broken the other’s trust, suffered from a mental or physical illness, or faced any number of other challenges. Many therapists offer free consultations, so if a couple isn’t sure whether therapy is necessary, asking directly can provide clarity.

How can I get my partner to go to couples therapy?

The decision to seek couples therapy is often driven by one partner, who then convinces the other to participate. When discussing the idea, the initiator should be direct and assertive. They can state the problems they see and explain how the relationship would benefit from therapy. In more serious cases, they can also explain how their relationship may suffer without making any changes or seeking professional help.

How does a couple prepare for couples counseling?

The anticipation of beginning couples counseling can be difficult—sometimes more difficult than the first session itself. Taking a few moments to reflect can allay those concerns: What are the current challenges? When and how did they begin? What do they want the relationship to look like in the future? Reflecting on these questions can help individuals or couples articulate their goals. Of course, the therapist will also ask questions and guide couples through the process.