Don't Rage, be Outrageous!

Cites an article in 'Journal of Geriatric Psychiatry' in which Ruth Harriet Jacobs makes recommendations for women's late-life renaissance. Don't internalize negative images of older women; Do things you never had time for; Don't give up your job; Stay physically active.

By PT Staff, published on May 1, 1994 - last reviewed on June 9, 2016

It's hard growing older in a culture that refuses to accept aging. For women, the challenge is doubled--they're ignored entirely.

The understandable response is rage, insists gerontologist Ruth Harriet Jacobs, Ph.D. But she advocates another approach entirely: be outrageous.

Sure, older women are frustrated, ignored, hurt, and treated as second-class citizens. Still, she says, you can choose to reject negative stereotypes of aging and make life more enjoyable and productive than ever.

In a recent report in the Journal of Geriatric Psychiatry, Jacobs puts forth recommendations for late-life renaissance:

  • Do not internalize negative images of older women. Instead, look around at the real, wonderful, older women.
  • Start volunteering, creating, traveling, expressing political views, and doing the things you never had time for. It is time to live for you.
  • Let go of guilt and overnurturance and be your own first priority. You've really earned it!
  • Don't give up your job. Age discrimination worsens every year of a woman's life.
  • Keep up your female friendships--don't overrely on your spouse.
  • Stay active to avert physical impairment.

PHOTO: Older woman on roller skates.