What We Need Now — A Little Civility

Following a contentious campaign, the nation is divided. How can small acts of kindness stop the spread of incivility and help heal a growing national rift?

The Way You Think About Willpower Is Hurting You

By Nir Eyal on November 22, 2016 in Automatic You
Psychological researchers have a name for this phenomenon: it’s called “ego depletion.”

The New Evolutionary Socialism

Darwinian models applied to society need not be red in tooth and claw. Here is a plan for how an evolutionarily informed approach to society can help advance a socialist agenda.

In What Ways Do Socially Anxious Adults Suffer?

By Todd B. Kashdan Ph.D. on November 22, 2016 in Curious?
A new research on touch as a neglected emotional experience that offers insights into the difficulties of individuals suffering from social anxiety problems.

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How Will You Feel After Thanksgiving and Black Friday?

By Marty Nemko Ph.D. on November 23, 2016 in How To Do Life
Ways to avoid overeating and overspending.

Talking Politics Over Turkey?

Thinking about talking politics on Thanksgiving? Or not? Strategies that may help you.

Why Consult a Clinical Psychologist? (Pt. 3)

By Stephen A. Diamond Ph.D. on November 22, 2016 in Evil Deeds
Demystifying what takes place during an initial consultation with a clinical psychologist.

Emotionally Abusive Relationships - Part One

Although emotional abuse can be subtle, the impact is profound and can create intense self-doubt, fear, anxiety, anger, and depression.

These Dishes Didn’t Wash Themselves

By Ira Hyman Ph.D. on November 22, 2016 in Mental Mishaps
Does anyone ever notice the work you do? Think about your unnoticed housework. All of those dishes washed and all of that laundry folded. Will anyone ever notice?
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Holiday Expectations and Stress

By Susan Noonan MD on November 22, 2016 in View From the Mist
Overwhelmed by the thought of the upcoming holidays?

Holiday Boundaries

By Shawn M. Burn Ph.D. on November 22, 2016 in Presence of Mind
You don't have to sacrifice your health or integrity to make other people's holidays happy.

The 5 Types of High-Conflict People & What To Do

You know them - they're in your workplace, in your home, and now at your Thanksgiving table. People that love conflict. Here's how to handle the 5 types of high-conflict people.

Prehistoric languages… and prehistoric minds? (and II)

The linguistic mind of our great, great [...] great grandparents

Co-Parenting as Addiction Prevention

Too many parents have lost and need help to retrieve their primary connection with their children.

Hey Straight Women: Need Dating Advice? Ask a Gay Man.

The bond between straight women and gay men is real, and here to stay.

The Teacher Burnout Epidemic (Part 1 of 2)

Teacher burnout is an international epidemic. How is burnout affecting teachers, and why?

How to Scare Your Kids Off Taking Painkillers

By Temma Ehrenfeld on November 22, 2016 in Open Gently
Painkillers weaken bones, interfere with sex hormones, and can make pain worse.

Seven Things Your Teens Need to Know About Pot

By Temma Ehrenfeld on November 22, 2016 in Open Gently
Vapes are bad for your lungs. You'll want to smoke more if you're losing sleep. Don't just pretend your kids aren't smoking pot or that it's okay. Give them information.

How Writing Can Save Your Career

By Katharine Brooks Ed.D. on November 22, 2016 in Career Transitions
If traditional solutions to workplace stress aren't working anymore, try writing. You may be surprised at what you learn about yourself and your work.

Why Taking Ownership Is Key to Divorce Recovery

By Wendy Paris on November 22, 2016 in Splitopia
I created seven Principles of Parting while going through my own divorce and writing a book about it. The Principles are guideposts that keep us stay on course during trying times.

10 Ways to Uncover the Hidden Job Market

By Brad Waters on November 22, 2016 in Design Your Path
10 ways to locate hard-to-find job openings

Talking Politics at the Thanksgiving Table

How can we heal the divides in our country -- and our family? A few simple tools can go a long way.
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When Your Son or Daughter Stops Calling

Parents might panic when their 20-something children move away and cut off communication. But at that age, some estrangement may be par for the course. It's usually temporary.

White House Turkey Pardon Confuses President: Humane-Washing

By Marc Bekoff Ph.D. on November 22, 2016 in Animal Emotions
The traditional White House pardon of a single turkey and Temple Grandin's "stairway to heaven" on which food cows stumble at the end of their lives are confusing feel good scams.

A Brief History of Fake News

By William Poundstone on November 22, 2016 in Head in the Cloud
Mark Zuckerberg wants to get fake news off Facebook, but it won't be easy. "Obviously a joke" is in the eye of the beholder.

10 Ways to Get Through Those Awkward Family Disagreements

Whenever you find yourself on opposite ends of a heated debate, whether with family or friends, new research on diversity vs. differences suggests how to bridge the gaps.

Are Colleges Really Overreacting?

By Clay Routledge Ph.D. on November 22, 2016 in More Than Mortal
Many colleges are not overreacting to post-election concerns. They are simply making sure students are aware of and have access to important mental health services.

Why Do Men Get Over a Relationship Sooner Than Women?

By Jen Kim on November 22, 2016 in Valley Girl With a Brain
Here's the truth: Despite whatever he's posting on Instagram, he is suffering, too. Just maybe not as much as you. And not in the way you are.

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Obstacles & Opportunities for Trump’s Fight Against Opioids

By Richard Taite on November 22, 2016 in Ending Addiction for Good
Here’s what President Trump’s strategy to end opioid addiction could look like and the obstacles he’ll face along the way.

Tips to Survive Thanksgiving in Post-Election Turmoil

By Mark O'Connell L.C.S.W.- R. on November 22, 2016 in Quite Queerly
How can we get through Thanksgiving without harming anyone or being harmed? We must keep our expectations low, and our goals specific. Try to connect over being right.

Linda the Bank Teller Case Revisited

The skill of providing answers on the basis of the meaning that is literally given to us is not typically a useful skill.

Mind Mirrors Between Therapists and Clients

When you walk into a therapist's office, you may have a problem very similar to one of your therapist's issues.