The Borderline Father

Is your dad a Borderline?

Womb for One

The natural history of a woman’s single-chambered womb

How NOT to Raise a Narcissist

What really causes narcissism in children and how parents can help.

The Second Myth about Positive Emotions

Whether something is healthy or unhealthy depends on the situation.

How Much Is Too Much to Share on Social Media?

What counts as “oversharing” depends on what you’re sharing.

Recess Is Endangered

The assault on recess is hurting our children.

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Improving Sex Drive

An unexpected new contributor?

Complaining About Young Women

Young women somehow obsessed with their own victimhood these days? Where do ideas like that come from?

Oklahoma fraternity incident, just a “joke”?

By Gordon Hodson Ph.D. on March 10, 2015 in Without Prejudice
Psychologists often study the up-side of humor (e.g., well-being, social bonding). But what are the implications of passing off derogatory communications, such as jokes or chants, as harmless and thus not to be judged seriously?

Enter the Epiphany Machine

By Kaja Perina on March 10, 2015 in Brainstorm
Struggle, whether creative or emotional, can be a trapdoor to another place entirely.

Cyberstalking: The Fastest Growing Crime

The shift to living virtually has happened so quickly and so pervasively that we have hardly had time to adjust to all the implications. Cyberstalking is a compulsion. It aims to humiliate, control, frighten, manipulate, embarrass, get revenge at, or otherwise harm the victim.

Vacation or Gaycation?

By Rick Miller LICSW on March 10, 2015 in Unwrapped
Gay men sometimes feel pressured to take “gay vacations” to resorts or on cruises, but these getaways can be as isolating as being in Disneyland surrounded by traditional families. The advantage of being out of the closet is being out of all closets, including those that are self-imposed.

Is the Intense Pressure to Succeed Sabotaging Our Children?

Last week, a 13-year-old killed himself after receiving an email from his school that he was behind in his homework. What is the toll of putting so much academic and extracurricular pressure on children? What can parents, teachers, and policy makers do to break this vicious cycle and reduce the insanity of the K-12 rat race of trying to get into an A-list college?

After 15 Years, What Does Positive Psychology Teach?

By Temma Ehrenfeld on March 10, 2015 in Open Gently
The positive psychology movement is 15 years old. What have we learned?

The Borderline Father

Women are more likely to have Borderline Personality Disorder, but men can be impacted as well. Here's how a Borderline father can affect you and some tips about what you can do about it.
The Future of Healing: One Video at a Time

The Future of Healing: One Video at a Time

By Erica Dhawan on March 10, 2015 in Accelerated Connectedness
A new online platform, My Counterpane, offers a new way for those living with or affected by a chronic disease to create community and share their stories.

Wilderness Programs for a Struggling Child

By Allen J Frances M.D. on March 10, 2015 in DSM5 in Distress
As a last resort for behaviorally disturbed kids, wilderness programs provide a new chapter and offer an opportunity for greater self-control, self-esteem, and wisdom. They are good for the kids, their families, the juvenile justice system, and society.

Finding Meaning in Work

By Steven Mintz Ph.D. on March 10, 2015 in The Prime of Life
How can we find significance and purpose in work in today's economy?

Womb for One

By Robert D. Martin Ph.D. on March 10, 2015 in How We Do It
The single-chambered womb of women is rare among mammals, which mostly have two separate womb chambers. Through developmental accident, a double womb occasionally recurs in women, but surprisingly does not stand in the way of successful pregnancy. Reduction from two chambers to one in evolutionary has some connection with single births, but there are twists in the story.
Do You Know Your “Tell?”

Do You Know Your “Tell?”

By Gretchen Rubin on March 10, 2015 in The Happiness Project
Self-knowledge is one of the greatest challenges for happiness and good habits.

Do You Ever Think About Marrying Your Dog?

By Amy Banks on March 10, 2015 in Wired For Love
Do you ever think relationships with people are more problem then they are worth? Are you frequently disappointed by friends and family who are supposed to have your back? Do you ever think about marrying your dog? Join the club!

Your Memories Are Not Fixed in Stone

By Art Markman Ph.D. on March 10, 2015 in Ulterior Motives
One of the scariest parts of the legal system is its reliance on eyewitness testimony. A witness identifies who a defendant as the perpetrator of a crime can sway a jury in the absence of any physical evidence that that the defendant was actually the one who committed the crime.

How NOT to Raise a Narcissist

Narcissism is more than believing “I’m great!”; it’s believing “I’m better and more important than you!” Here's how NOT to raise a narcissistic child.

When Your Ex Bags On You

Think before you speak harshly about your ex, especially if you have kids, because there are no secrets in families and they will hear and feel it all. If your ex is saying things to make you look bad or even damage your reputation, there are some things to do and not to do.

The Importance of Disconnecting

By Arthur Dobrin D.S.W. on March 10, 2015 in Am I Right?
The uniqueness of personality is often obscured by the clamor of society, a carnival of distractions.

What Does it Mean to Think in a Second Language?

Does learning a second language make you think differently? Or do you have to think differently in order to speak a second language?
Today, March 8, We Honor International Women’s Day.

Today, March 8, We Honor International Women’s Day.

By Ana Nogales on March 10, 2015 in Family Secrets
Violence against women and girls persists in all countries.

A Follow-Up Conversation About Colorblindness

We are only post-racial in that racial-bigotry is not the only form of bigotry people have to deal with.

5 Must-Ask Questions When Your Doctor Prescribes Painkillers

So what’s a patient to do when they’re on the receiving end of an opioid painkiller prescription? Talk. It may not feel natural to question your caregiver—they are the one with the medical degree after all—but healthy skepticism is in order when opioids are recommended.

The Second Myth about Positive Emotions

By Todd B Kashdan Ph.D. on March 10, 2015 in Curious?
By unraveling myths, we will make substantial inroads into emotional problems and emotional well-being. In my first post, I described the first myth about positive emotion regulation. In this second post of the series, I describe the second myth.

Why Does Mindfulness-Based Cognitive Therapy Work?

By Warren W Tryon Ph.D. on March 10, 2015 in The Missing Link
What mechanism explains how mindfulness-based treatments work?

10 Ways to Spot the Everyday Sadist

When we think of sadism, it’s often the “50 Shades of Grey” variety. However, sadism doesn’t just live in the bedroom. This 10-item quiz will help you find out who secretly harbors an unnatural desire to harm.

You're Turning Your Kids Into Narcissists

A new study shows that when parents treat their kids as exceptional people who deserve special treatment, the kids develop into more narcissistic people

5 Mind-Body-Behavior Practices That Can Change Your Life

By practicing these research-supported actions in your emotional life, physical actions and behavior, you can enhance your overall health and wellbeing.

Sexed Text and Writing Wrongs

By Mark D. Griffiths Ph.D. on March 10, 2015 in In Excess
Erotographomania means different things to different people. For some it is when individuals derive sexual pleasure and arousal from writing love poems or letters. For others it's the drawing obscene pictures and diagrams in lavatories, public urinals or writing obscene anonymous letters to young girls. But what do we really know about it?

Staying Present and Engaged

By Steve Sisgold on March 10, 2015 in Life in a Body
As human beings, we possess a unique and very powerful ability to focus our attention on the present moment.