"If it was as easy as you make it out to be, why do you think I'm back again? I've tried all that, and it just isn't working. My one year old still keeps on waking up and it's driving me and my husband crazy".
Despite the upbeat message in some of my previous postings on this subject, which could have been interpreted as if I was claiming that changing a toddler's sleeping patterns is easy and that is only a matter of the parents making up their minds to "set things right", I am very aware that it is not always easy for some parents to break the cycle of sleep association behavioral insomnia in their toddler, who demands his parents' presence (sometimes the father's, usually the mother's) on multiple occasions across the night so that he can be lulled back to sleep. By "not easy" I am referring not to the technical aspects of this, which, I think, are fairly simple and straightforward, but to the guilt, angst and anxiety that develop and accompany the process itself, undermine the possibility of success, and leave those parents worried that they are causing more harm than good. Read More