Satoshi Kanazawa (not pictured) wrote a blistering blog post last week entitled British Newspapers Make Things Up. Guess what? British media may not be alone.
Psychological Science recently published a fascinating new study on jealousy. I was interested to read Newsweek's 1300-word article covering the research by their science editor, Sharon Begley. But part-way through the article, I thought, Huh, that's not what I recall the study saying.Read More
During his November 2009 tour of Asia, President Obama performed his now-infamous bow to the Emperor of Japan. You can probably recall the tumult that followed this greeting, an action that many in the States found to be nearly indefensible as it seemed to indicate submissiveness. Read More
As Valentine's Day approaches, my thoughts focus in unique directions, given my experience as a therapist working exclusively with infertile clients. Couples who have difficulty conceiving or carrying a pregnancy to a healthy birth often find themselves shifting their love making to "baby making." Read More
"Masturbation is normal, so don't feel ashamed" may not be adequate information for kids seeking answers today. Unfortunately, it's simpler to tell them to eat their veggies than explain that masturbation can relieve sexual tension in the immediate term-yet make subsequent sexual frustration worse.
Everybody seems to be scratching their heads about homosexuals these days. For evolutionary theorists, the question is: Why? If homosexuality (at least male homosexuality) is largely heritable, as seems to be pretty well documented, how does the "gay gene" persist in human populations over evolutionary time? If gay men – pretty much by definition – take themselves out of the gene pool, why are their genes still in there splashing around? Read More
Maybe my smart, young colleague, fellow PT blogger, Christopher Ryan is right—monogamy is dead. Given our society's current divorce rate; the odds are against us. But what if you want it all and decide to gamble your heart and body in one place? What if you want to have sex worth having and to stay faithful? Read More
Will women finally get it into their heads that men are unnecessary--except maybe for engineering?
Will we men evolve to a role of solely being depositors in a universal sperm bank? And, once the deposits are high, will we be eliminated as unnecessary? Will the remaining women select to have only daughters--except when they need to replenish the sperm supply?
The National Sex Survey was full of information about rates of sexual problems. Waite and Gallagher do not have much to say on that topic. Here's some of what they skipped over. With regard to some of the problems men might have, such as an inability to maintain an erection, climaxing too early, or experiencing pain during sex, currently married men have nothing over men who have always been single. When the two groups differ on those measures, it is the married men who are more likely to be having difficulties. Men who have always been single also report fewer sexual problems than divorced men. Among the women, the group most likely to be problem-free is not the currently married women. Read More
When at a bar, women who wore makeup were approached by men more quickly and more frequently than when not wearing any makeup. For a vivid portrayal of the makeup effect, see the beautiful Vanessa Hudgens (pictured here). Read More
One of the recurring themes of this blog has been the basic human tendency to overlook the external forces that shape our lives. We prefer to think of the social universe as a predictable and orderly place. It's a reassuring notion in a world that otherwise can seem disconcertingly random. And it's also why we're so down on luck–why we don't cotton too well to the suggestion that chance dictates important outcomes in life. Read More
Orgasm is a neurochemical blast so delicious that our brains readily wire it (and arousal) to associated events and circumstances. It can shape brain maps, with implications for where our future attention is directed without our conscious awareness. Completely unanticipated sexual tastes can arise. Now, recent neuroscience reveals that our brains are suprisingly plastic throughout our lives. The possibility that humans may be able to free their sexual brain maps from unwanted debris is fascinating.
Satoshi Kanazawa (not pictured) wrote a blistering blog post last week entitled British Newspapers Make Things Up. Guess what? British media may not be alone.
Psychological Science recently published a fascinating new study on jealousy. I was interested to read Newsweek's 1300-word article covering the research by their science editor, Sharon Begley. But part-way through the article, I thought, Huh, that's not what I recall the study saying.Read More
During his November 2009 tour of Asia, President Obama performed his now-infamous bow to the Emperor of Japan. You can probably recall the tumult that followed this greeting, an action that many in the States found to be nearly indefensible as it seemed to indicate submissiveness. Read More
It's fascinating to see people talking about eternal truths of human sexuality as if they were breaking news. What's next, a big kefluffle over the claim that human beings evolved like the other apes? Oh, wait . . .. Read More
In 1979, Barbara and Michael Jonas had a spat before he left on a business trip. Barbara wanted Michael's homecoming to get beyond their tiff and celebrate all the love in their marriage. But how? Read More
Who doesn't want romance and sex to last? But anyone who's been married for five minutes, much less for five or 15 years, knows sex changes this side of the altar.
If you are an academic, like I am, when you are faced with a piece of bizarre data (like how does a Presidential candidate allow himself to cheat on his wife in the middle of a campaign AND not even use a condom), you search for a theory to explain what has happened- as opposed to just writing this guy off as one stupid, self absorbed, jackass. Read More
Nobody likes a hypocrite. But author Robert Wright argues in a recent piece that when it comes to marital infidelity, even more hypocrisy may be precisely what's needed. Read More
Discussing all things related to Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender (LGBT) health and development: from the biology of sexual orientation to talking to your family about sexuality to the pros and cons of the Internet in our romantic lives.
How a couple can share desire, pleasure, and satisfaction.
By Barry W. McCarthy, Ph.D.
Sex Basics
Sex is the most profound and intimate way to express your love for someone. Different people enjoy and pursue sex in different forms—as the pioneering sex researcher Alfred Kinsey put it, the only universal in human sexuality is variability itself. But within the universe of intimacy and pleasure that sex affords is a lot of room for error.
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