Relationships

Jealousy often gets a bad name, and with good reason. But is jealousy always bad? Are there any benefits to it? Read More

You wouldn’t think a toothbrush would be the cause for such a grand public inquiry, but to me this toothbrush became a symbol of my own vulnerability. For me it wasn’t really the toothbrush—it was what the act of leaving a toothbrush meant. Read More

Don't fall for a facade! Read More

Sexual desire, unmet erotic needs, mis-matched libidos, and the ravages of time in a long term relationship or marriage are among the most common rants of the sex unhappy. Read More

There is no doubt that the wreckage from the pathological impacts you emotionally, physically, financially, sexually, and also spiritually. Read More

Getting blamed does not feel good, whether you deserve it or not. I share some thoughts on how to avoid self-blame, how to not let blame from others get to you, and why you might want to give up blaming others—for anything. Read More

Females who participate in violent criminal acts often get a pass, as if they were less complicit. However, some have been equally as vile as their male partner. Read More

What do your fingers tell about your personality and sexuality? New research on finger digit ratios suggests that hand reading is becoming a serious science wih possible implications for partner choice and personnel selection. Read More

Some people make life miserable for others. They blame you for their own problems, have no empathy, and always seem to be conjuring up trouble. A subset of them are called "high conflict people," and they often have some kind of personality disorder--usually borderline or narcissistic personality disorder. Read More