Queen Rania Al-Abdullah of Jordan does not allow an assistant to answer her door. She opens it herself and, looking stunning in a stylish leather skirt and stilettos, greets her guests with a friendly smile. Amazed by her casual manner, I follow her into the sitting room of her hotel suite in New York City. She is here to attend, among several other noteworthy functions, the World Economic Forum, and we chat until she delivers a second shock.

"Has anyone ever told you that you look like Gwyneth Paltrow?" I'm taken aback. But this reaction is exactly wrong. That's not because I look anything like the actress. Hardly. Instead, it's because I suddenly realize that the Queen of Jordan might know more about U.S. culture and that of most countries than do I and many other Americans.

The world's youngest—and arguably most beautiful—queen, Queen Rania is garnering increasing international acclaim for her modern approach to presiding over a traditional Arab nation. Most apparent upon first glance, she does not wear the veil that many might expect to see covering the face of a Muslim woman; she is quick to point out that this does not diminish the strength of her faith in Islam.

"Many women in Jordan dress the way I do," she explains. "We, as a country, give women the right to choose whether they want to wear the veil or not. From the Western perspective, I think a lot of people believe the veil symbolizes backwardness. In reality, that's not the case." This contemporary mind-set, which extends far beyond the absence of her veil, may stem from her more common upbringing.

Formerly Rania Al-Yasin, she was born in Kuwait to a Jordanian family of Palestinian origin who certainly did not anticipate her royal future. In fact, she had already earned her bachelor's degree in business administration at the American University in Cairo and, was fluent in Arabic and English, and had begun a career at Citibank when she was introduced to Abdullah Bin Al-Hussein, the son of Jordan's King Hussein, at a party. Less than six months later, in June of 1993, the two married. But because Prince Abdullah was not crown prince, neither he nor his new wife anticipated inheriting the throne.

"I was lucky, because when I came into the family, I had the opportunity to get used to a new way of life," Queen Rania now says. "My husband was just a prince, and I was just a princess, so I could control, to some extent, the separation of my public duties from my private life." A year after their wedding the couple had a son, whom they named Hussein, after his grandfather, and two years later Princess Iman was born. Then, in 1999, Jordan suffered a tragedy that significantly changed the young family's way of life.

King Hussein, adored by Jordanians for his commitment to establishing peace in the Middle East, was dying of cancer. For 33 years, his younger brother Prince Hassan bin Tallal had been the crown prince. But just days before his death, King Hussein changed the dynastic succession by naming Abdullah, then only 37, his heir. After his death, Abdullah and Rania, now king and queen, were left to grapple with their grief and the unexpected and daunting task of ruling a country.

For her part, and despite a lack of "job training," the new queen continued tackling the national concerns she had focused on during her first six years of marriage. In 1998, for instance, she had launched the Child Abuse Prevention Project. Prior to this, child abuse was underreported in Jordan and discussing it was taboo. This endeavor led her to open Dar Al Aman, or Home of Safety, in 2000. The first abused-children's home in the Arab world, Dar Al Aman offers specialized psychological and physical rehabilitation.

In 2002, the queen's love for children caught the attention of Jacques-François Martin, president of The Vaccine Fund, who asked her to join the organization's international board of directors. Founded in 2000 with the help of a $750 million donation from the Bill and Melinda Gates Foundation, the Fund works to stop the three million deaths from vaccine-preventable diseases that occur each year among poor infants.

Naturally, the queen accepted Martin's offer, and the night after first meeting her; I attend a Vaccine Fund benefit dinner at New York's Four Seasons Hotel. The queen, Martin, Bill Gates and several other well-to-dos preside over the glittery event. As I have come to expect, the queen looks savvy and sophisticated, and her spike heels prompt one guest to lean in for comment. "How does she wear those?" she whispers, shaking her head in awe.

Martin speaks admiringly of Queen Rania as he delivers a few words of thanks to the dinner crowd and again later, when asked to describe her work with children. "I believe that her commitment to children is a very real and tangible part of her daily life," he says. "On the occasions I have been with her, she has always mentioned how, as a mother, she finds it heartbreaking that so many children die each year of vaccine-preventable diseases. It is obviously something she believes in deeply."

Senator Hillary Rodham Clinton, there in brief attendance, stops to embrace Queen Rania before departing. The two first ladies, who appear genuinely pleased to see each other, have worked together with the U.S. Agency for International Development (USAID) on securing loans for small businesses.

"The queen is a former banker, so she understands the criteria you need to be a successful borrower," says USAID Administrator Andrew Natsios, who discussed microfinancing with her majesty at a recent conference in Washington, D.C. "But she clearly also understands the problems of the poor. The only way you get out of poverty is to create jobs, businesses and enterprise; and microfinance does that. She's been an articulate worldwide spokeswoman."

This initiative has assisted the Jordan River Foundation (JRF), a nonprofit organization the queen founded in 1995, in significantly improving the quality of life for Jordanian women.

"The challenges that women face in the Arab Muslim world are similar to challenges that women face in developing worlds," Queen Rania explains. By presenting loans to Jordan's small-business entrepreneurs, JRF is empowering women to become skilled contributors to society and income providers to their families. "Women are beginning to educate themselves on their rights. Once they know what their rights are, they can be more proactive in demanding that these rights are met," she says.

Truly, the list of organizations that Queen Rania supports is endless. And while some might suggest that her royal role is a symbolic one when compared with her husband's executive role, others would argue that her dedication to humanitarian causes make the two equally important to their nation of five million.

Her inherent knack for connecting with commoners has enticed the media to draw parallels between her majesty and Princess Diana, a compliment Queen Rania hesitates to accept. "It's an honor, because she was very special," she admits when prodded. "However, when you're in a public role, people tend to compare you with someone else."

All flattery aside, Queen Rania believes that her most important role is that of a mother to her three children, the youngest addition being Princess Salma, born in 2000. Given the political climate surrounding Arab nations, however, the queen and her husband are being asked more and more to play a peacekeeping role, which may make balancing the family's work and private life difficult.

"If you're conscious of it and make sure that you have time on your own, you can pull it off," she says. "I think from the outside, people don't expect mine to be a normal life. But when you get to know it, it actually is."

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