It seems that 2,000 people in the United Kingdom have identified three songs that apparently entice and arouse. In attempting to determine the relationship between music, romance, and sex, Spotify, the Swedish digital music service that commissioned the study, learned that the three top songs for passion were “Time of My Life” from “Dirty Dancing,” “Sexual Healing,” and “Bolero.”
Music better than sex
Here was the biggest surprise. Approximately one in three respondents said that “Bohemian Rhapsody” might be “better than sex.” (For all of you wishing for a good night's sleep alone, keep that in mind. And see what Dr.Carl Bazil has to say about sleep - 12 Tips to Sleeping Like a Baby.)
These days bedrooms have been invaded by cell phones, iPads, iPods, laptops, and the ever growing size of television screens. Here is an all too common scenario. Two people work. They get home. Answer personal e-mail. Receive one more call from the office, perhaps in the middle of dinner. Then both fall into bed exhausted. Even if the couple had planned a loving night, the first touch goes to the channel surfer.
And for single women -- the television as a way of falling alseep is a major culprit in keeping you tossing and turning whereas music is soothing.
Musical note for Baby Boomers
Here is an interesting note that Baby Boomers might appreciate: Music plays a positive role even for people with dementia, too. At a screening of the documentary “Alive Inside” we saw social worker Dan Cohen bringing iPods to nursing homes. Those who did not usually speak sang. Those with walkers danced.
Four bedtime thoughts for couples
To reignite passion, here are some thoughts about the power of words, the effect of feng shui, musical seduction, and silky lingerie.
Beautiful dreamers and single women
Whether you are single by choice, looking for love, or too overwhelmed to think about romance, you might consider these tips as a way to help you towards more content sleep.
The beautiful-to-bed philosophy was from our Aunt Virginia. From the time we were teens, she sent us to bed wearing a silk nightgown, a strand of pearls, and a splash of Joy perfume because, she reasoned: “You never know who you will meet in your dreams.”
Whether for passion or pleasure, sex or sleep music is magical.
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