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Suicide Online is going to be, I fear, a staple of the 21st century. It's not quite snuff movie material but it's close to it, i.e., offing oneself rather than offing someone else. I use the dramatic, disrespectful term "offing" because, to a certain extent, what we're seeing is the exploitation of social interaction sites to exhibit oneself in a final act of finding relief. Read More












It is increadibly sad that
It is increadibly sad that people use the internet for this purpose when it can be used as a tool to reach out to others and ask for help, not stage a suicide. This screams of desperation and attention-getting. I'm not sure if I should feel sorry for the kid or be annoyed with his blatent appeals to get attention in such a negative way.
abraham biggs attention-getting
I think, Kim, it's totally possible and quite appropriate to feel both sorry and annoyed. I had earlier written several blogs on the value of the Internet for people who need to reach out and talk about their pain, their ideation and then find people who understand and share and quite often find another way to think about their situation and come up with strategies to cope and go beyond their psychological "stuckness." That's one of the upsides of the Internet and all its diverse forums, blogs, social networks, information sites, etc. But like any tool, it can be used for all the wrong reasons. We live in an age of celebrity. Regretfully, suicide can be seen as a road to that fleeting celebrity. I certainly feel huge sympathy for those who loved Abraham and perhaps didn't see this coming. The world now knows a still picture of this young man's death, but has no grasp of the moving picture that was his life. That's the danger of this sort of cruel celebrity--time collapses into one dramatic moment but leaves a one-dimensional after-image.
i do agree that the media is
i do agree that the media is not 100% responsible but i still can never say that they don't carry a big part of the responsibility
responsibility
He wasn't shown Taliban VS Russians decapitation vids.
He would have been motivated to either strive for getting the most he could out of life or he would have shoved a dynamite stick up his *ss and went out with a messy, bloody bang, captured on his web cam.
You either compete in life or in death.
Or you say "Screw this" and don't bother to compete.
He was competing but didn't know who was winning.
He's just going to go into the ground like everybody else and he won't have made any difference to anybody.
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