November 2007

  • Whether you're contemplating a 20-minute phone call or a 20-year career, few moments are more anticipated, rehearsed, agonized over, and cherished than the "end." How to know when it's time to check out, and choreograph an exit you'll never regret.
  • Some families pass talent and skill down the generations like monarchs pass a crown. Their reign of success is forged in a crucible of closeness and competition—and in the freedom to break away.
  • A hundred years after Freud, one man may have figured out why we dream. You'll never think the same way about nightmares again.

  • Hold the sunscreen—at least for a few minutes. Evidence is emerging that some unfiltered sun exposure repels ills, from heart disease to cancer to multiple sclerosis, not to mention depression—enough to add seven years to your life. Are you ready for a more nuanced view of sunshine?
  • It's all too easy to lock the door and bask in the privacy our ancestors could only dream of, says Nando Pelusi, Ph.D. But our search for solitude can subvert an even stronger need—to connect with others.

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Adieu to All That

How to end things gracefully.

Mind Your Body: Quick Fix

Think fast and watch your mood take off.

On the Job: Master Playmaker

Underdog to alpha in 48 easy steps.

Talent Dynasties

Passing talent and skill down the generations.

Beauty Beat: Saving Face

A new wrinkle in gravity's pull.

The Privacy Paradox

Our need to connect with others is stronger than ever.

The Vitals on Vitamin D

How much D does your body need?

Edwidge Danticat on Endings

Novelist Edwidge Danticat on putting things behind her.

Eccentric's Corner: Surreality

Photographer Jill Greenberg on creating realities, not capturing them.

Keen Cuisine: The Human Kindness of Milk

How to lose fat and gain muscle—drink milk.

Body of Evidence: Breathing Space

How respiration supports perspiration.

The Hidden Force of Fragrance

Boost your health and mood with scents.

Quirky Minds: Invasion of the Body Snatchers

Delusions that make people feel dead—or surrounded by imposters.

Diagnosis: A Syndrome That's Got Legs

RLS may raise the risk of heart disease.

Field Guide to the Casanova: The Lady-killer Files

They sweep women off their feet only to drop them fast.

The Great Sunshine Standoff

The sunnier side of sun exposure.

Therapy Watch: Full Disclosure

When a therapist shares too much.

Head 2 Head: Women at War

Should everyone have the right to fight?

Advice: My Wife Vacations With Her Ex

Hara Estroff Marano advises on infidelities, insecurities, and presumptuous exes.

The Cost of Café Society

Diminished sleep leads us to devalue dreams.

PT Recipe: Peel Appeal

Don't shed the apple skin.

Unlawfully Wedded Wife

The love was real, but the marriage was fake.

Global Psyche: A Hands-on Approach

The affection between Muslim men.

Splitsville: From Breakup to Wakeup

Mapping the time course of recovery.

Exit Strategies

Ending on a good note.

Whatta You Lookin' At?

When reading minds, the eyes have it.

In Your Dreams

Why anxious women fantasize about anonymous sex.

Bookshelf: Head Trips and Evil Genes

Why some people are ruthless monsters and other reviews.

Veterans: Home Restoration

From the heat of combat to an awkward homecoming.

Dreams: Night School

What dreams are made of.

Hanging With the In-crowd

Every company will spawn a self-selected elite group of insiders.

In Brief: Self-Esteem and Hot Avatars

The McDonald's breakfast, technical jargon, and Second Life.

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