September 2005

  • The pursuit of prestige has an upside. The quest for cash and cachet—and envy of others' good fortune—are not simply base instincts to be overcome. A bit of status anxiety is a good thing, so long as you understand what you really covet and why.
  • Pornography can be a harmless pleasure or a source of bitter resentment. How do you prevent the XXX explosion from undermining your relationship?
  • There's a new movement that uses intelligent design to cure America's soulless subdivisions. Is it possible to make people the moving force in suburban life?
  • Social class used to be something you're born into. But now that the world is flat and fast and fluid, parents are seeking status in the achievements of their children. The trouble with turning tots into trophies is that the developmental needs of the young are sacrificed to the psychological needs of adults.
  • Chronic pain makes life hell for almost 30 million Americans. Cures are elusive, but in the meantime, emotions, expectations—and even sex—may help soothe the ache.

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Book reviews on satisfaction, female chauvinists, mood disorders and more.

Why You Think You'll Never Stack Up

The pursuit of prestige has an upside.

Advice: Chatting and Cheating

Guidance on chatting and cheating and spreading goodwill.

Perceptions: Another Name Smells Sweeter

Even your nose is a sucker for packaging.

The Pleasant Truths About Pain

How to sooth the aches.

Stroke Protection

Antioxidants reduce brain damage from strokes.

Laura Cantrell on Ambition

This singer traded in her laptop for a guitar.

Humor's Sexual Side

Why funny women turn off men.

How to Get Over Status Anxiety

Envy-busting techniques to keep focused on what matters.

Advice: Resentful Beau

He still focuses on his ex.

You, Me and Porn Make Three

How do you prevent the XXX explosion from undermining your relationship.

Creativity's Bum Rap

Self-reflection and depression go hand in hand.

My Two Mommies

Aunt Mom fills in for Mom when she's not around.

Blueprint for a Blissful Neighborhood

New Urbanist design facilitates everyday social interaction.

Backlash in the Burbs

Is it possible to make people the moving force in suburban life?

The Mend of the Affair

Must a cheater come clean to save the marriage?

Not-So-Accidental Pregnancies

Some accidental pregnancies aren't so accidental.

Health Bites

Tidbits on cancer, weight loss, bad habits and more.

Sports Psych

The competitive edge in the rink.

Amnesia's Allure

Shedding light on the mysteries of identity and personality.

Outmaneuver the Car Salesman

Tips on how to buy a car.

Rocking The Cradle of Class

The trouble with turning tots into trophies.

Loving the Lotus

The many benefits of meditation.

Treating Hearts and Minds

Antidepressants for both heart disease and depression.

Facts and Tips

The joys of parenthood, boy/girl ratios, body odor and appearance.

Writer's Block: A Novelist's Malady

The writings of Iris Murdoch show the effects of Alzheimer's.

Big Man on Campus

Harvard dean of admissions gives some pointers.

Letting Love In

In any relationship you need to accept and give love.

Cancer: An Ounce of Prevention

Exercise and eat away your risk for breast cancer.

Persuasion: Battle on the Car Lot

How a car salesman gets you behind the wheel.

Slim Down: Learn From Mistakes

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