May 2005

  • There are regular folks, and there are the rock stars in the room: people with the magnetism of Oprah, the charm of Audrey Hepburn and the bubbly joie de vivre of SpongeBob. Introducing the fab four X-factors and the dynamos who embody them.
  • To navigate the social universe, you need to know what others think of you—although the clearest view depends on how you see yourself.
  • With diseases like chronic fatigue syndrome and fibromyalgia, what you believe about your illness influences how sick you become.

  • More Americans are seeking religious counselors rather than signing up for plain old psychotherapy—and a booming industry has emerged to answer their prayers. But can faith-based counseling heal the mind as well as the soul?
  • There's a valid excuse for wedding mania—marriage has morphed from a political pact into the pinnacle of romance.

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The Ego in Cyberspace

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The Long Arm of Divorce

Grandchildren of divorced couples get shortchanged.

Judith Regan on Chutzpah

An interview with the publishing doyenne.

The Trouble With Day Care

Are researchers telling parents the whole truth about day care?

Ready, Set, Go: How Do Others See You?

What others think of you depends on how you see yourself. Take the quiz.

Charm by Any Other Name

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Advice: Fixing the Sex Drive

Guidance on sexual desire, evil stepdaughters, making friends and more.

Bridezilla's Revenge

There's a valid excuse for wedding mania.

The First Instinct Fallacy

Test-takers: Your gut response isn't always right.

Health Bites

Tidbits on teen contraception, juvenile diabetes and more.

Addiction: On The Wagon

Alcoholism may not necessarily be a life-long disease.

From the Bible Belt to the Gucci Belt

Manhattan's glitziest corridor boasts a sanctuary for the distressed.

The New College Dropout

Campuses are shipping depressed students home.

Metaperceptions: How Do You See Yourself?

How you see yourself depends on your awareness of how others view you.

How to Seduce a Lover

A practical guide to body language and seduction.

Friends Don't Pick Up On Anger

We often fail to detect concealed anger in close pals.

Marriage, a History

Long ago, love was a silly reason for a match.

Newlywed Vocabulary

Tools to sustain marital bliss.

He's Just Not That Into You

Never take love advice from a married friend.

Down and Out in Suburbia

Suburban kids are more likely to drink and use drugs.

Health Bites

Facts and tips on coffee, kissing and more.

Aging: Type 3 Diabetes

Diabetes and Alzheimer's may be related.

Fat Pharms: Prescription for Weight Gain

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The X-Factors of Success

The personality traits that make some humans superhuman.

With God As My Shrink

Can faith-based counseling heal the mind as well as the soul?

Asthma: The Young and the Breathless

Although you can't always prevent asthma, you can help your kids cope.

The Myth of the Clueless Husband

Why is hubby so slow at being supportive?

Heaven Can Wait

Being told you're sick can make you sick.

Policing Johnny's Diet

Children on strict diets may be grabbing the junk food.

New Mom Ph.D.

How motherhood makes women smarter.

Is It All in My Head?

What you believe about your illness influences how sick you become.

Mental Health Piggy Bank

California's wealthiest citizens will help fund care for the state's mentally ill.

The Pleasure of Life's Uncertainties

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