March 2004

  • Has the quest to find the perfect soul mate done more harm than good? Psychologists provide insight into how the never-ending search for ideal love can keep you from enjoying a marriage or a healthy relationship that you already have.

  • The idea that genes determine identity has been replaced with a new view in which DNA and life experience work together to mold personalities.
  • Some parents want names for their children that are unique but not too trendy. Other parents seem to love alternative spellings. How important is a name to our self-perception?
  • Homeopathy defies the laws of science, not to mention common sense. But rigorous studies show it just may work.
  • Research suggests that communicating via e-mail alone can doom a relationship.

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Darwinian Rhapsody

Applying the principles of natural selection to poetry.

Depression: A Good Workout

Exercise may be especially critical for those with depression.

Advice: My Angry Husband

False Memory in a Flash

Some memories are well encoded by the brain, and others are not.

The Name Game

How to spread a popular name.

The Strange Case of Homeopathy

Homeopathy defies the laws of science, but then again it may just work.

ADHD's Outdoor Cure

Playing outdoors may curb the disorder.

The Pressure from Parents

Counselors say college kids need parentectomies

How to Cultivate Humor

How humor can relieve depression.

Advice: Still No Talk of Marriage

When Exercise Isn't Enough

Are the benefits of the gym overstated?

The Blues Can Break Your Heart

Depression and heart disease can go hand in hand.

Did You Know?

Everyone Loves a Bully

Kids who harass others aren't outcasts with low self-esteem.

Advice: Dropping My Defenses

PT's Bookshelf

Fish: Good for the Head and the Heart

A diet of fish can boost your mood and heart.

The Pitfalls of E-mail

Communicating via e-mail alone can doom a relationship.

Low-Carb State of Mind

The low-carb diet can lead to irritability and mood swings.

Tidbits: Did You Know?

Facts on marriage, sleep, and heart disease.

Hello, My Name is Unique

What happens when parents give their kids unusual names.

Advice: A Jealous Fiance

Devotion does not cure jealousy. Love isn't about supplying the missing piece to create someone else's wholeness.

Coping With Breaking News

Everything I Know About Love

Communication makes an office tick.

Graying Guru

Marriage Math

Marriage's golden ratio predicts success.

Choices: Lost in the Aisles

When there are too many options.

The CD ROM Will See You Now

Skills That Lead to Higher Wages

Higher wages require more than smarts.

Twin Speak

Identical twins talk about their identical counterparts.

The Campus Crisis

Students show signs of psychological distress.

Advice: Managing Your Mood

He doesn't remember what it's like to have a good day.

Advice: My Best Friend?

My girlfriend flirts with my boyfriends.

Up Against the Ivy Wall in 2004

Campus counseling centers help kids cope

Well-used Remedies

Tidbits: Health Bites

Fast facts on the brain, vitamins, pot and more.

The Identity Dance

How do personalities form?

Advice: She Wants Kids

Hara Estroff Marano gives advice on parenting.

Depression: No Miracle Sleep Cure

Sleep-deprivation therapy doesn't always work.

Menopause and the Munchies

How the milestone changes a woman's appetite.

Help Wanted: Child Psychiatrists

For children, psychiatric help can be hard to find.

Advice: The Part-time Lover

Advice: The Brain and Depression

Is depression really caused by brain chemicals?

The Timid Die Young

Being overly fearful can hurt your health.

A Cry for Help

Incidents of self-harm continue to grow among young women.

Your Trash, My Treasure

Why do some people collect useless objects?

The Queen of Suspense

A chat with mystery writer Mary Higgins Clark.

Does Swearing Corrode Society?

Do young minds and civil society crumble from the F word?

Vegan with a Vengeance

The young flock to a rigid form of vegetarianism.

The Blirtacious Wives Club

Music: Opiate in A Minor

Pleasant music can soothe pain.

She's Pregnant, He's Distant

Having babies is serious business.

One and the Same: Anxiety and Depression

Genetic commonalities between the two conditions.

The Art of the Compliment

Everyone needs to know how to give and receive compliments.

Great Expectations: The Soul Mate Quest

Has the quest to find the perfect soul mate done more harm than good?

Advice: Mid-Life Crisis?

How to move on after infidelity.

Save Your Brain

A diet rich in fatty fish reduces risk of mental health problems.

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