January 2004

  • Evolutionary psychology helps us understand why we are ashamed of having forbidden thoughts that make us feel like lousy people. It tells us that these shameful feelings are hardwired—strategies that led to success on the Pleistocene savanna.
  • Are you empathetic? Or are you a systemizer? That's the fundamental difference between women and men, according to a prickly theory from psychologist Simon Baron-Cohen. To him, autism is a case of the extreme male brain.

  • Alpha women are highly sought-after partners, but men may be more intimidated than they admit.
  • Positive psychology focuses on cultivating personality strengths and honing an optimistic approach to life. Exercises like writing a "gratitude letter" or making a "gratitude visit" can be a life-changing event.

  • In the battle of the bulge, false beliefs and negative self-talk may be far greater enemies than food or sloth. PT shows you how to fight faulty thinking.

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Anger and Snap Judgments

When negative assumptions are made on the fly.

Vitamins: Get Your Bs

B vitamins boost your mood.

Health Bites: Did You Know?

Tidbits on stress, motherhood, and tall people.

Advice: A Lopsided Relationship

What to do when you have a non-reciprocating partner.

Depression: Who's at Risk?

What contributes the most to depression.

Suing for an Apology

Contraception and Chance

The emergency contraception controversy.

Here's to You, Mrs. Robinson

Watch out, more older women are dating younger men.

Cheating: Do the Right Thing

The New Trophy Wife

Are men intimidated by the alpha woman?

Praise: Encouraging Signs

How do you react to your partner's success?

On PT's Bookshelf

Losing weight, breaking frustration and discovering the brain.

Four Paths to a Happier You

How to attain greater happiness.

Weight Loss and Faulty Thinking

Negative self-talk undermines healthy exercise and eating.

Health: Save the Date

Relationships are good for your health.

Advice: Age Five and Already Blue

What to do with a depressed 5 year old.

Mind Control: Unwanted Thoughts

When you really can't stop thinking about it.

Daddy Told You Not To Cry

Many fathers can't handle their kids' emotional problems.

Health Bites

Advice: Cheating Partners

How to overcome jealousy.

Computers: Mac Attack

Computers crack under pressure, too.

Seven Deadly Sentiments

Introducing the shameful feelings that many people have, but few admit.

Advice: The Meddlesome Mom

A relationship on the rocks and an intrusive mom.

Seven Deadly Sentiments

Shameful Thoughts: A Primer

How do we cope with dirty, little secrets?

Reinvention: How To Be Perfect

Small steps to big change.

Cheating Partners

How to overcome jealousy.

Autism's So-Called Epidemic

The rise in cases may be due to better diagnostic skills.

A Bright New World

A new group, the Brights, brings together the agnostics.

Advice: The Loveless Marriage

Soccer for Dummies

Quit head butting.

Consumerism: One Choice Too Many

American life is flooded with too many choices.

Keeping Workers and Companies Fit

Companies see the value of healthy workers.

Ladies Who Lotto

Today's gamblers are more likely to be women.

Brawn for the Brain

Creatine may be good for problem-solving skills.

His Jealous Heart

Advice on a jealous partner.

Advice: Nice Guys Finish First

Brain: Heard and Misunderstood

When your ears play tricks on you.

Parenting: Bragging Rights

The trophy child and the gifted label.

Cubicle Crush

Why you love your co-worker.

Berkeley Breathed Pokes Fun

The Bloom County cartoonist on neuroses, anxieties and in-laws.

The Weekend Waistline

Why we pig out on weekends.

Autism: What's Sex Got to do With It?

Autism may be a case of the extreme male brain.

Forgiveness Is Good, Up to a Point

Forgiveness might not be a salve for all wrongs.

The Glee Club

Honing an optimistic approach to life.

A Meeting of Minds

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