Automatic You

Self-Talk

Studies Show Self-Compassion Is the Motivator You’re Missing

Nir Eyal on April 23, 2024

Pushing ourselves and holding ourselves accountable are how we achieve success. Unfortunately, many of us mistake harsh self-criticism and self-castigation for “pushing ourselves.”

Self-Control

Limiting Beliefs: Ditch the 4 Dream Killers Holding You Back

Nir Eyal on March 19, 2024

Next time your dreams seem unachievable, ask yourself whether you’re getting in your own way and take steps to overcome those limiting beliefs holding you back.

Heuristics

Sales Psychology: Why You Make Terrible Buying Choices

Nir Eyal on March 5, 2024

By understanding our psychology and using techniques to block the effect of psychological sales tactics, we can become less susceptible to the distraction of buying.

Attention

3 Steps to Master Your Emotions and Be Your Best Self

Nir Eyal on January 16, 2024

You won’t evolve if you ignore your emotions. I discovered the power of managing emotions when I set out to find a cure for my chronic distraction.

Relationships

How to Stop Arguing and Enhance Your Relationships

Nir Eyal on November 20, 2023

The question "How important is this to you on a scale of 1 to 10?” not only resolves disputes but also offers insights into a person’s commitment to the relationship.

Attention

Unlocking Focus with the Distraction Tracker

Nir Eyal on November 8, 2023

What you need to know to hack back distraction.

Attention

The Crucial Difference Between Distraction and Diversion

Nir Eyal on October 31, 2023

Distractions are always bad. Period. Diversions, on the other hand, can be good.

Workplace Dynamics

The Psychology of Pointless Meetings: Productivity's Killer

Nir Eyal on October 3, 2023

Organizations can implement a simple process to filter out all unnecessary meetings, leaving only those that provide value for employees, teams, and the business at large.

Boredom

When Do You Feel Most Creative? Why Ideas Bloom at Bedtime

Nir Eyal on September 12, 2023

More than 40 percent of people said being in bed spurs creativity, admitting they have their best ideas before sleep, in the middle of the night, and just after waking up.

Self-Help

Research Supports Morning Affirmations: Rise and Shine!

Nir Eyal on August 29, 2023

Even if you’re not sure about the power of self-affirmations, the science behind them is—when used correctly, they can significantly affect your mindset and behavior.

Time Management

Scheduling for Life's Surprises: When Timeboxing Is Toast

Nir Eyal on August 15, 2023

Having a hectic life is no excuse for constantly breaking a timeboxed calendar. “People make time for what they want,” as the saying goes. You should too.

Creativity

You Don’t Have to Follow the Same Routines Forever

Nir Eyal on July 4, 2023

Experimenting with short-term routines has myriad benefits, including satisfying our need for novelty, and boosting our skills and creativity.

Aging

The Idea of Retirement Lets People Dream Big

Nir Eyal on June 20, 2023

What if you used retirement as a frame of reference to realize how you want to spend your time right now?

Attention

How to Craft a Summer Schedule for Your Kids

Nir Eyal on June 6, 2023

Summer isn’t just an opportunity for kids to become indistractable; it’s also an opportunity for parents to learn to relinquish control to their kids.

Career

The 4-Day Workweek: How to Do More With Less

Nir Eyal on May 25, 2023

The four-day workweek may be in our future, and those who become indistractable will reap the benefits from the start.

Motivation

Money Buddies: Don’t Go It Alone with Your Wallet

Nir Eyal on March 29, 2023

Having a money buddy will remove some of the discomfort you might feel in trying to navigate your personal finance.

Productivity

5 Productivity Myths to Avoid

Nir Eyal on March 15, 2023

Stop making yourself feel like you’re not doing anything just because you didn’t check off a box today. If your task is an important project, it’s going to take time.