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Izzy Kalman
Izzy Kalman is a Nationally Certified School Psychologist who has been working in schools and private practice since 1978. He has developed fun and effective methods that use role playing to teach basic psychological principles for solving bullying, aggression and relationship problems. Following the Columbine massacre in 1999, when he saw that the modern world was embarking on anti-bully campaigns to try to rid schools of bullying by treating it like a crime that will not be tolerated, he knew that such an approach could not possibly work, and created a website, www.Bullies2Buddies.com, to teach a truly psychological approach to the problem. He has also become the world's most vocal critic of the well-intentioned but misguided anti-bully movement. In fact, he is one of the world's only critics of this incredibly popular but failing movement.
Izzy has been working intensively since 2002 with Cross Country Education, which sponsors his full-day seminars. Over 40,000 mental health professionals and educators throughout the US and Canada have attended thus far. He is Director of Bullies to Buddies, Inc., the company he and his wife created to produce materials and provide consultation on bullying. He is the author of Bullies to Buddies: How to turn your enemies into friends, and other publications and products for dealing with bullying and relationship problems, and creator of a whole-school bullying prevention program, Victim-Proof Your School.
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A Psychological Solution to Bullying
Bullying cannot be reduced by treating it like a crime. The behaviors that are being called bullying today are more appropriately called aggression or dominance behavior, and are part of the fabric of life. The attempt to outlaw human nature is bound to create more harm than good. If laws could make social and interpersonal problems disappear, all we would need to do is pass enough laws and we would have Utopia. The true solution is good psychology, teaching people to use their brains to understand and solve their problems.
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