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How Women Fantasize About Sex

Do women have better fantasy lives? Or is that just me?

Published on January 6, 2012 by Donna Barstow in Ink Blots Cartoons

Women think about sex, too - as a starting point

men and women both think about sex, but women go farther

Everyone's happy when the sex is good! But if the sex isn't that great, does that ruin everything? Not if you keep the big picture in mind!

Do you think this cartoon is right? Do men judge their own performance more critically than women do, and are women able to enjoy sex, yet still remember what's most important in the relationship, and why she might go for him anyway?

Personally, I hope he's great in bed, and out of bed: a perfect storm.

Here's another Psych Today cartoon about dating you might like. A dog is included.

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