You'd Be So Pretty If...

How to teach your daughter to love her body—even when you don't love your own.

What to Do When You Feel Bad About Your Body

Exercise can change how we talk to our bodies.

When's the last time you complimented your body on a job well done?

I thought so.

Too often, we're so caught up in what our bodies look like -- and all the ways we'd like to change them -- that we don't stop to appreciate what they can do. But there's actually some scientific proof for what I've known since my days as Shape magazine's Weight-Loss Diary columnist: There is nothing that makes me feel better about my body than a little exercise.

It's not about reaching "goal weight." It's not about fitting into a smaller size. It's not even about a long-term plan for getting "fit." I'm talking about that immediate, in-the-moment feeling I used to get when I finished a workout. I felt strong, lean -- powerful -- and I didn't hate any part of my body.

I still get that feeling -- every time.

The University of Florida recently released a study backing me up. It found that the "simple act of exercising, not fitness itself" can make you feel better about your body.

I can relate to that.

But exercise can also help change the way we talk to our bodies. Simply put, it's hard to beat up on yourself after you've just run a mile or lifted a weight. No matter what else happens in your day, you know you've done something just for you, something that's going to make your body stronger and healthier.

It's a pretty powerful concept.

I'm constantly preaching exercise to the moms out there who've asked me "how can I learn to love my body?" Start with a walk. Pick up a light set of weights while you're watching TV. Do some push-ups. It doesn't have to be a formal gym workout or an hour-long commitment; the simple act of moving your body every day will have an amazing impact.

The bottom line is that exercise can transform the way you feel about your body. Notice I didn't say "transform your body" -- it's not about that. It's about appreciating your body and changing your relationship with it.

Want to feel better about your body right now? Get moving!



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Dara Chadwick is the author of You'd Be So Pretty If… :Teaching Our Daughters to Love Their Bodies—Even When We Don't Love Our Own.

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