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Paul Joannides is a research psychoanalyst, author of Guide To Getting It On, and a speaker on college campuses. His website is at www.GuigeToGettingItOn.com. See full bio

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Sex is the most profound and intimate way to express your love for someone. Different people enjoy and pursue sex in different forms—as the pioneering sex researcher Alfred Kinsey put it, the only universal in human sexuality is variability itself. But within the universe of intimacy and pleasure that sex affords is a lot of room for error.

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