Worked Up At Work

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What's your reputation at work?

Calling all office gossips and class clowns... Beware your reputation at work.

Let's face it: Every now and then, bringing a little levity to the office dynamic can be a welcome change of pace.

If you're a comic at heart, the trouble with clean jokes is they're not as funny as the more colorful anecdotes you could share. But levity crosses a line when it includes mild flirting, physical horseplay, or the telling of racist, sexist, or judgmentally-oriented jokes with coworkers. Sooner or later, off-color joke telling, pranks, and other questionable choices of amusement will earn an employee the grown-up, work-related reputation of "class clown." And, just as in school, there are costs and consequences for being the clown. Similarly, being tagged as the office gossip, stool pigeon, rabble-rouser, or rebel, doesn't score many Brownie points either.

When tagged with a reputation, one loses the benefit of the doubt when placed in an ambiguous situation. The question that will always be asked of witnesses or related parties in an investigation of allegations is this: Was it in the person's character to behave that way?

So, think about this: How would your colleagues respond to these 5 questions if asked about you and your behavior?

1. Ever played practical jokes on anyone?
2. Ever made a racist, sexist, or ageist remark?
3. Ever openly flirted with co-workers?
4. Ever touched others-from horseplay to hugging?
5. Ever used foul language?


If your co-workers could truthfully answer yes to any of the questions above, accept this news as a real wake up call. It's time to reconsider how others, especially those in authority, perceive you. Even if you're competent in your job, your character can-and may be-overshadowing your skills.



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Steve M. Cohen, Ed.D., C.M.C., is the president of Labor Management Advisory Group and HR Solutions: On-Call, and the author of Mess Management: Lessons From a Corporate Hit Man.

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