Why do people use alcohol?
A few drinks with friends. Laughter. Smiling. Great conversation into the small hours. Fabulous memories of a wonderful evening.
What a lovely picture.
But all too often the true picture is a few drinks on your own. Misery. Tears. Vomiting in the small hours. Waking up with a blinding headache.
Tonight I attended a talk given by Dr Tanzeel Ansari who is a Consultant Psychiatrist. He specialises in trauma and alcohol misuse.
His main message was that alcohol misuse is often a way of coping used by people suffering from posttraumatic stress.
We know from many studies that survivors of trauma often begin drinking more.
Alcohol numbs emotional pain: It helps people to disconnect from themselves.
Knowing this to be true here is a question: To what extent does trauma underpin alcohol use in everyday life?
Advertisers might want us to believe that alcohol is fun, friendly and part of the good life. But let us be honest. Those people in the adverts are only pretending. The reality of drinking is often far more sordid. Many people drink to numb themselves because of the pain they are in and to forget temporarily their conflicts and stresses.