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Is It Possible to Build the Perfect Woman or Man?

I believe the underlying motivation is the same, find someone who will take care of all of their emotional (including sexual) needs and desires. If, in searching out a relationship, the goal is to find an emotional prostitute, ultimately, the relationship is not only going to fail, it will become very emotionally unfulfilling. Read More

You wrote: "...the goal is to

You wrote:

"...the goal is to find an emotional prostitute..."

Actually, the goal would be to create an emotionally supportive woman, that's NOT a prostitute.

"Real" women are all prostitutes to some extent. Everything they give has a price.

The ultimate male fantasy is to find a woman that gives freely, just to him. Male dominated society attempted to create the perfect woman by controlling women.

But, as men have begun to let go of power, modern women are moving towards their natural "pay for it" mentality.

So, what's left for modern man is to create an artificial woman. Frankly, I think its the only way men will ever ultimately be happy. I think I might rather have a Stepford wife bot than what I'm meeting in real life.

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I agree with this

Unfortunately, I suppose the same thing could be said from a woman's point of view, maybe even more so. If they have a good job, they may only need a housekeeper, a nanny, a vibrator and several FWBs. They don't typically need much emotional support from their husbands (at least in comparison to men), they can get that from their girlfriends.

Nevertheless, I love what you wrote and agree wholeheartedly - "So, what's left for modern man is to create an artificial woman. Frankly, I think its the only way men will ever ultimately be happy. I think I might rather have a Stepford wife bot than what I'm meeting in real life."

We are about to get abused for voicing this. It may not be a perfect solution, but at least we wouldn't have to worry about betrayal from a Stepford wife bot. I know a bunch of husbands who worked hard for years to support their families and their stay-at-home wives cheated on them and they ended up getting divorced, losing half of their assets and a meaningful relationship with their children. A Stepford wife bot would be good risk management.

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Sean Seepersad, Ph.D. is the President/CEO of the Web of Loneliness Institute, Inc., adjunct professor at the University of Connecticut, and author of The Lonely Screams.

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