We Can Work It Out

How to Resolve Conflict, Improve Communication, and Repair Your Relationships
by Dr. Jamie Turndorf

Listening with Your Heart

Discover how listening with your heart can resolve your conflicts. Read More

Train Your Brain to Fight For (Not Against) You

If you've followed my previous blogs, you know that heated fighting creates a biochemical imbalance in men—called ANS arousal, or the Fight-Flight response.

When a man withdraws from conflict (verbally, physically and/or psychically), a woman naturally feels hurt (mistakenly interpreting the withdrawal behaviors as a sign that her guy could care less about what's bothering her). Read More

How Childhood Wounds Cause Chronic Fighting

How relationship fighting is caused by unhealed childhood wounds Read More

The Chemistry of Conflict: How Disturbed Body Chemistry Causes Relationship Fighting

How you can use "Relationship Climate Control" to head off fights. Read More

How to Fight Right

Find out how properly handled anger can transform your relationships and the world. Read More

Dr. Jamie Turndorf

Dr. Jamie Turndorf is a relationship therapist, emotional communication expert, author and advice columnist.

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Till Death Do Us Part (Unless I Kill You First): A Step By Step Guide To Resolving Relationship Conflicts
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Make Up Don't Break Up: Dr. Love's 5-Step Plan for Reconciling with Your Ex