The Polyamorists Next Door

Exploring the world of consensual non-monogamy

Why I Am Not Polyamorous, But You Might Want to Be, Part 1

The first of a two-part series, this blog explains why the author does not identify as polyamorous, even though she does research and writes blogs about others' poly relationships. She and her ex made three major mistakes that are so common in poly circles that they are cliche. Read More

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Elisabeth Sheff, Ph.D., is an expert on polyamory and sexual-minority families with children.


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