The Pleasures of Sex

How the science of sex can lead to more pleasurable sex.

How Saying No to Sex Can Help You Learn to Love It Again

If you want to change your sex life for the better, learn how saying no can lead to more pleasurable sex and a libido boost. 

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NO RIGHT ANSWER?

1.If having sex with your partner or spouse is that dreadful, then you should end that relationship and allow them the opportunity to find someone else who does not have quite as many hangups as yourself. I suspect,as I think you do as well, that men and women look at this issue completely different. This topic is discussed in the bible in 1 Corinthians chapter 7, it gives quite a different perspective.
2.This is just a question,why would you want someone to remain faithful to the relationship knowing there is this kind of underlying resentment? Would it not be better to allow them to move on?

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Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., M.P.H., is a Research Scientist and Associate Director at The Center for Sexual Health Promotion and a sexual health educator at The Kinsey Institute.

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