The Pleasures of Sex

How the science of sex can lead to more pleasurable sex

Your Want List: In Love and In Sex

Too often in love and in sex, we go with the flow. We think things are going well enough or there's no apparent conflict (and many of us are scared of conflict) so as long as there are no rough waters, we think everything must be fine. We're safe, comfortable, maybe we even think at times that safe and comfortable add up to happy. And then one day someone asks us what we want. Read More

Loves love and sex...

Hi Debby,
At first, I thought that this is just one of many articles i read about love and sex... but I found myself smiling because of realizations.. AS IF YOU WERE TALKING DIRECTLY TO ME.. I will start pondering now.. and will keep you updated of the results... Thank You!

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Debby Herbenick, Ph.D., M.P.H., is a Research Scientist and Associate Director at The Center for Sexual Health Promotion and a sexual health educator at The Kinsey Institute.

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